Are you ready to redefine your self-perception and unleash the sexy side of you? In Episode 379 of The Charisma Quotient, “Sexy After 50 - Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy coaches Stephanie live on air on her struggles around dating.. With a life marked by achievements—juggling a demanding job, raising her daughter, and pursuing a PhD—Stephanie bravely opens up about her post-divorce dating challenges, body image issues, and the impact of menopause on her sexy confidence. Kimmy begins the episode on ...
Jan 03, 2025•42 min
Life has a way of throwing curveballs at you. It seems like when it rains it pours, which can feel even more true when you’re single. But it doesn’t always have to be that way. In Episode 378 of The Charisma Quotient, “Turning Challenges Into Love & Laughter: Interview with Greg Schwem,” Kimmy chats with comedian Greg Schwem. Greg draws from personal experiences, including navigating a painful divorce and overcoming a colon cancer diagnosis, to offer insights on how humor can become a crucia...
Dec 27, 2024•39 min
If you look good, you feel good. When you feel good in your body and confident, that bleeds into your dating life. Feeling healthy can actually impact the way you approach dating and determines who you attract. In Episode 377 of The Charisma Quotient, “Health & Wellness: Your Relationship With Yourself To Attract Love with Dr. Paul Savage,” Kimmy meets with Dr. Paul Savage, an esteemed former ER doctor who transitioned from traditional medicine to lead the way in innovative health care. Not ...
Dec 20, 2024•43 min
Do you lack dating experience? Maybe you are more of a relationship person or maybe you never really just “dated” and have a desire to be in a relationship but your fear of rejection is holding you back? In Episode 376 of The Charisma Quotient, “How To Date Without Fear: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy coaches a woman LIVE about how to date without fear. Sarah is an amazing woman, who opens up about her lack of dating experience due to bullying and turbulent college experiences. These encounters lef...
Dec 12, 2024•47 min
In a world of constantly ever-changing technology and social rules, it can be challenging to know when and how to approach women. And for women, it can be difficult to know where to go to find men. In Episode 375 of The Charisma Quotient, “Uncovering Dating Truths: Social Dynamics, Attraction, and Confidence with Michael Sartain,” Kimmy sits down with Michael Sartain. Known for his distinguished career as a retired US military officer and a prominent figure in high-status networking, Michael off...
Dec 05, 2024•42 min
Remember a time when finding a date was as easy as asking the girl next door? When people would pick up a rotary phone to call each other up? In the modern world of dating, there are numerous challenges that come up with new choices we didn’t have before. In Episode 374 of The Charisma Quotient, “Navigating Modern World To Find Love: Interview with Allison Raskin,” Kimmy chats with Allison – a New York Times bestselling author, mental health advocate, and comedian who knows a thing or two about ...
Nov 29, 2024•34 min
Dating after a loss can feel daunting. You feel like you’ve already found the one and now you’ve lost that part of yourself. Plus the dating scene has completely changed. In Episode 373 of The Charisma Quotient, “Dating After Loss: Finding Love In The Golden Years with Kym Douglas,” Kimmy sits down with the multi-talented Kym Douglas, a vibrant television host, author, comedian, and lifestyle expert. Known for her infectious humor and resilience, Kym opens up about her empowering journey through...
Nov 19, 2024•47 min
Are you watching Joan’s journey on The Golden Bachelorette and feeling inspired to get back out there? In Episode 372 of The Charisma Quotient, “Surprising Lessons Learned from The Golden Bachelorette,” Kimmy does a deep dive into the transformative world of dating after 40, offering wisdom and warmth to empower you on your journey. In this episode, Kimmy unravels the secrets to reigniting confidence and injecting a sense of playfulness into dating at any age. She walks through the major takeawa...
Nov 08, 2024•42 min
Dating later in life? Dating after 40 feels different than it did in your 20s. In Episode 371 of The Charisma Quotient, “Top 5 Mistakes When Dating Over 40”, Kimmy lays out all of the top blunders people make when they start dating later. In this episode, Kimmy walks through the top 5 dating mistakes people make in their 40s, 50s and 60s and how it can negatively impact your dating life. She shares some actionable tips for you to reframe your mindset around how to date. Kimmy tackles the unique ...
Nov 01, 2024•44 min
Is your overthinking sabotaging your dating life? In Episode 370 of The Charisma Quotient, “From Overthinking to Engaging: Coaching With Kimmy”, Kimmy does a live coaching session with Patrick - a man who’s ready to get back out there but his overthinking is stopping him from finding success. In this episode, Kimmy engages Patrick in a thought-provoking conversation, spotlighting the importance of expressing feelings over thoughts in social interactions. She gives him strategies to overcome the ...
Oct 25, 2024•44 min
Ever wondered why falling in love for a man feels different than falling in love for a woman? In Episode 369 of The Charisma Quotient, “ ICYMI: How Men and Women Date Differently: Interview with John Gray”, Kimmy interviews the celebrated bestselling author John Gray for a juicy discussion on specifically how men and women date differently. He is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. In this episode, Kimmy and John d...
Oct 18, 2024•53 min
Are you a dating overthinker? Maybe you’re an amazing student - you’ve read every book, listened to every podcast, and heard all of the dating advice. But when you go on a date, you’re stuck in your head and can’t even make a move. In Episode 368 of The Charisma Quotient, “ ICYMI: How To Get Out Of Your Head and Stop Overthinking”, Kimmy will teach you to get out of your head to stay present and date successfully. In this episode, Kimmy will teach you how to get out of your head with easy, pract...
Oct 11, 2024•28 min
Are you struggling to break free from past relationship patterns and yearning for personal growth? In Episode 367 of The Charisma Quotient, “: Coaching with Kimmy” Kimmy does a live coaching call with Diane “Overcoming Negative Patterns and Dating Without Fear - a resilient 69-year-old woman, navigating the journey of self-discovery after a lifetime of troubled relationships. Diane's compelling tale starts with meeting her former partners through mutual connections, leading to painful, controlli...
Oct 04, 2024•46 min
Ever wondered how the health of your smile could be the key to unlocking your confidence and transforming your love life? In Episode 366 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Power of a Healthy Smile and Attitude: Interview with Dr. Rad” Kimmy dives into this unexpected yet fascinating topic with the incredibly knowledgeable and charismatic Dr. Rad. He is an international speaker on sleep apnea, snoring, low level laser therapy, marketing, medical billing and men's mental health. He is a practicing den...
Sep 27, 2024•29 min
What do you think of when you hear the word flirting? Does the very word fill you with fear? Flirting doesn’t have to be so scary. It can actually be playful and fun. In Episode 365 of The Charisma Quotient, “The Power of Playfulness: Where Are They Now with Sandra” Kimmy brings on Sandra, an accomplished professional who battled with the nuances of modern dating for over a decade. Sandra came to Kimmy seeking a transformative approach to her dating life, struggling to connect emotionally despit...
Sep 20, 2024•32 min
Ever wish you could sprinkle a little bit of magic and manifest the man or woman of your dreams? In Episode 364 of The Charisma Quotient, “Designing Your Dream Partner: Interview with Saul Blinkoff” Kimmy Seltzer sits down with award-winning director, producer, and motivational speaker, Saul Blinkoff. Saul is a Hollywood producer who works for many high-profile clients including Disney, Dreamworks, Netflix, and more. He is an empowering Life Coach and Podcast Host of the motivational podcast LIF...
Sep 12, 2024•1 hr 3 min
Are you feeling stuck after a long-term relationship? Does going back in the dating game make you feel guarded and nervous? In Episode 363 of The Charisma Quotient, “Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now with Pearl” Kimmy’s client Pearl talks about the huge growth she’s had in her confidence and dating life since attending a virtual workshop with Kimmy. In this episode, Kimmy and Pearl discuss the challenges of expressing feelings after a shut-down marriage, overcoming anxiety, and the ...
Sep 06, 2024•34 min
Are you ready to turn up the heat and reclaim your sexy after 40? Dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s is different! But that doesn’t mean that it can’t be fun. In Episode 362 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Dating After 40: Avoiding These Top 5 Mistakes” Kimmy dives into the most common mistakes she sees her clients making and how you can avoid them. In this episode, Kimmy discusses key insights on why dating after 40 is different, the importance of updating your mindset, managing realistic expec...
Aug 29, 2024•29 min
Do you have dating anxiety? You like the idea of a relationship but putting yourself out there to meet someone feels risky and causes a lot of fear. In Episode 361 of The Charisma Quotient, “Taking Risks When Dating: Where Are They Now with Paul” Kimmy’s client Paul shares how he went from struggling with confidence and emotional connections to finding the love of his life by simply opening himself up and putting himself out there. In this episode, Kimmy and Paul engage in an insightful conversa...
Aug 22, 2024•38 min
Are you tired of the endless swiping and superficial interactions on dating apps? Do you long for the days where you could meet someone in person? In Episode 360 of The Charisma Quotient, “Ditch The Dating Apps And Meet IRL,” Kimmy delves into the world of real-life connections and the lost art of flirting in person. She shares riveting anecdotes of individuals transitioning from disillusionment with digital dating to finding love through sincere real-life encounters and gives tangible tips on h...
Aug 15, 2024•30 min
Does dating often leave you feeling detached? In today’s world where social media and online dating are everywhere, it can feel impossible to have an authentic dating experience, especially in real life. In Episode 359 of The Charisma Quotient, “Stop Detached Dating: Interview with Steve Sims,” Kimmy sits down with the incredibly witty and insightful Steve Sims, a master in the art of building genuine relationships. Steve has a fascinating journey from a nightclub doorman to the founder of the w...
Aug 09, 2024•48 min
Do you date from a place of fear? Maybe your past trauma is informing the way you go about not only dating but how you live your life. Meet Kim, an amazing woman who overcame her fears of dating and financial struggles after attending a dating retreat with Kimmy. In Episode 358 of The Charisma Quotient, “Face Your Dating Fears: Where Are They Now with Kim,” Kim shares how finding happiness from the outside - in gave her permission to attract a new man in her life. In this episode, Kimmy dives in...
Aug 02, 2024•45 min
Ever wondered what kind of dater you are? Maybe you tend to be stuck in the friendzone or maybe you attract unavailable partners. What if you knew that there are common challenges people have when dating and specific ways you can overcome them to attract who you want? In Episode 357 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: What is Your Dating Archetype?,” Kimmy goes over her five dating archetypes which will let you know where you fit in the dating world. In this episode, Kimmy breaks down each of her ...
Jul 27, 2024•41 min
Are you an anxious or avoidant dater? Knowing your attachment style can help you know when your anxiety might be hurting your dating life and affect your love life overall. In Episode 356 of The Charisma Quotient, “Your Dating Attachment Style: Interview with Thais Gibson,” Kimmy sits down with Thais Gibson, the owner of Personal Development School and author of “Learning Love”, to talk about the importance of learning your attachment style - whether it’s anxious, avoidant, or secure and how kno...
Jul 18, 2024•41 min
Are you attracting the wrong people? You’ve spent so much time learning how to attract someone but the ones you like aren’t into you and the ones you don’t like are! In Episode 355 of The Charisma Quotient, “Attracting the Wrong People: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy sits down with Tejas and does a LIVE coaching session with her around the perplexing challenge of attracting men she’s not interested in while struggling to draw in those she truly desires. In this episode, Tejas opens up to Kimmy abou...
Jul 12, 2024•50 min
Does dating in your 40s, 50s, and 60s feel completely foreign to you? A lot has probably changed since you were dating in your 20s and 30s. With online dating now taking over the scene, dating can feel overwhelming. In Episode 354 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: 5 Red Flags In Dating Over 40,” Kimmy goes over red flags to look for when dating in your second act and how to slow down your dating game to pick the right partner. In this episode, Kimmy teaches you to pay attention to the type of pe...
Jul 05, 2024•24 min
Are you a self-described introvert? Does the idea of opening up to someone new make you want to crawl right back into bed? In Episode 353 of The Charisma Quotient, “Struggles High Achievers Face When Dating: Interview with Chris Guerriero,” Kimmy chats with Chris about the struggles of dating as a high achieving introvert and how it can hold you back from being vulnerable. Chris is a serial entrepreneur whose journey from personal fitness trainer to building nearly a dozen successful companies. ...
Jun 28, 2024•45 min
Do you have a list of excuses for why dating feels impossible? Does it seem like dating is just a skill that everyone has but you? In Episode 352 of The Charisma Quotient, “Mastering the Dating Game,” Kimmy goes over how dating is actually a skill you can learn, just like cooking or painting. And Kimmy is here to guide you through the process with expert advice and success stories from her actual clients. In this episode, Kimmy dives deep into the art of attraction and building dating skills, fo...
Jun 21, 2024•38 min
Are you a wary dater? Are you checking every box before you even allow yourself to find a connection? In Episode 351 of The Charisma Quotient, “Learning To Trust To Attract Love: Interview with Summer McStravick,” Kimmy chats with Summer McStravick, a personal growth coach and the creator of Flowdreaming an energy technique for manifesting. In this episode, Kimmy and Summer lay the groundwork for understanding the trifecta of trust: trust of self, trust of others, and trust of the universe. They...
Jun 14, 2024•42 min
Do you know your self-worth? When you go on dates are you leading with sexy confidence and fun or are you judging your every move? In Episode 350 of The Charisma Quotient, “Navigating Dating with Sexy Confidence: Coaching with Kimmy,” Kimmy coaches Julia, a woman who is ready to make a big transformation not only in her dating life, but also in the way she sees herself. In the past, Julia has struggled with body image issues that have held her back from really going for it on dates. But now all ...
Jun 07, 2024•43 min
