This week, Kim talks to a matchmaking heavy hitter, CEO of eHarmony, Grant Langston. Grant has been with eHarmony since the beginning and has racked up a TON of knowledge and useful tips . He breaks down some of eHarmony's research on the science of compatibility and discusses what happy couples have in common that unhappy couples don't. Kim talks through understanding and recognizing every type of chemistry you may have with a love interest, whether it's intellectual, emotional, physical or spi...
Jan 23, 2018•38 min
Jan 16, 2018•32 min
On this week's episode of Coaching with Kim, Kim chats with Sandy about confidently expressing your needs and wants. Sandy talks about her childhood, where she grew up learning to prioritize the needs of others due to her mother's cancer diagnoses. Like many people do, she carried this behavior on into adulthood and discovered that when it comes to romantic relationships - solely prioritizing the needs of a partner hasn't lead to a stable long term relationship. Kim talks through the process of ...
Jan 09, 2018•42 min
This week, Kim interviews Empowerment Strategist and host of the Fit 2 Love Podcast, JJ Flizanes. Kim and JJ discuss body image and the myths we tell ourselves that trap us into feeling insecure. JJ shares some useful tips for thinking about food and cravings, shifting your mindset towards awareness, and recognizing the power you hold internally to help you change your life. And to put these skills to the test, check out Kim’s upcoming retreat program, Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp ...
Jan 02, 2018•35 min
Welcome to the latest installment of Coaching with Kim! This week, Kim coaches Carol, a client with a demanding career and a busy social life. They discuss Carol’s pattern of choosing men who are emotionally unavailable - and being able to distinguish that trait before getting too emotionally involved. Kim talks through Carol’s fears surrounding being open and vulnerable. And to put these skills to the test, check out Kim’s upcoming retreat program, Charisma Quotient Dating Makeover Bootcamp htt...
Dec 27, 2017•38 min
Come out of your shell this holiday season to meet someone special! This week Kim talks about how to add some sparkle to your holiday wardrobe and turn up the volume on your flirt game. During this time of year, there's a holiday party or event every other day, so accept every invitation you get or, throw your own event and get out of your comfort zone. The holidays don't have to induce dread! Shake it up this season and pull out these tips and tricks to make a new connection. And to put these s...
Dec 20, 2017•23 min
Just in time for the onslaught of holiday parties - this week, Kim interviews body language expert, Lisa Mitchell. This season is all about mixing, mingling and celebrating and what better way to step up your game at cocktail hour with some practical body language tips to improve your social interactions. Clueing into body language cues and non verbal communication are essential skills to enhancing your self confidence in dating and in life! Gain your own super powers of communication and connec...
Dec 13, 2017•36 min
We’ve all had the experience of looking in the mirror and picking out all the aspects of our bodies that we hate. In this week’s episode, you’ll hear from Kim directly about a few actionable tips you can take right now to makeover your body image for the better! Learning to focus on the features of your body that you love can give you confidence in how you carry yourself and is the first step to a true body image mindset shift. And don’t forget to check out Kim’s upcoming Charisma Quotient Datin...
Dec 06, 2017•13 min
It’s time for another round of coaching with Kim! In this week's episode, Kim talks to Jae about how to initiate conversations, open up emotionally and getting comfortable with being vulnerable sooner. You’ll hear Kim role play with Jae live how to use her secret Social Engagement Formula to do that. Yes, it’s about meeting someone you connect with, but it’s also about allowing yourself to express your ideas and feelings in order to make that deeper connection. To put these skills to the test an...
Nov 29, 2017•39 min
Breakups. We’ve all had them - and even if you know it’s the right move, it’s never easy. Kim discusses and advises about breakups, among other relationship issues with former TV’s Married At First Sight expert, Rachel DeAlto. Rachel, a fellow relationship expert, motivational speaker and TV personality gets personal about her own breakup and how she’s handled the aftermath.
Nov 22, 2017•29 min
Don't you wish you were on vacation right now? Work, friends, family, and life itself can be stressful. Why add dating to that list? This week, Kim discusses how a vacation mentality is essential in your dating life. When you’re on vacation, you let loose, you relax and you’re more likely to try something you wouldn’t normally, because hey, you’re on vacation right? When you apply that logic to your dating life, you open yourself up to love. After you listen and you realize you need a vacation, ...
Nov 15, 2017•23 min
Let’s face it, first time social interactions can be… awkward and sometimes difficult. Social dynamics expert, entrepreneur and host of the Art of Charm podcast, Jordan Harbinger knows better than anyone how to overcome those jitters. On this week’s episode, Kim and Jordan reminisce about the awkward situation when they first met, and how their personal journeys have taught them what they know about dating and social communication. Great tips and discussion around using various conversational tr...
Nov 08, 2017•31 min
After coming out of a long-term relationship, or even a marriage, it can feel like you’re not only learning to date again, but you’re also getting to know yourself as a single person again. This week, Kim talks about how dating yourself, celebrating yourself, and getting to know who you are, separate from your ex-partner, is crucial to feeling sexy in your singlehood.
Nov 01, 2017•25 min
Today is the first episode of Charisma Quotient's new segment: Coaching With Kim . Kim brings her client Holley on the line to do some laser focused coaching on everything from how to be a busy woman and still date, to holding your ground while remaining feminine. And there are some surprising realizations Holley makes about how her past is connected to her current struggles.
Oct 25, 2017•30 min
Dating online is like pulling the lever on the slot machine - it’s so addictive because you never know what you’re going to get. And, that’s not necessarily a bad thing. When you have access to all the millions of fish in the sea, take advantage of it and date someone you would normally never choose! This week, Kim talks about the benefits of diversifying your online dating portfolio, stepping outside of your comfort zone and new ways to discover what you’re missing in your dating life.
Oct 18, 2017•26 min
This week, Kim interviews fellow midwesterner, Dr. Terri Orbuch Ph.D., also known as “The Love Doctor” about how to keep love alive for years. She’s a professor at the University of Michigan, her work has been featured in every major publication, and she’s been the director of an NIH study following 373 couples for nearly 3 decades. Needless to say, Dr. Terri knows what she’s talking about when it comes to maintaining strong, healthy, long-term relationships.
Oct 11, 2017•30 min
Did you know that the definition of “flirting” is “to behave as though attracted to or trying to attract someone, for amusement rather than with serious intention”? This episode is all about challenging yourself to flirt for fun without fear! Who hasn’t had anxiety over walking up to a cute guy at a bar and striking up a conversation? Kim breaks down how to let loose, throw caution to the wind and get your flirt on.
Oct 04, 2017•22 min
Today’s episode is all about getting in touch with where you are in your dating cycle. Are you ready for a rebound? Are you looking for a serious, stable relationship? Are you just interested in meeting new people and exploring? It’s sometimes harder to figure out than you think - but it’s so important! Kim talks about how to identify what phase you’re in and how to be aware of what your dating needs are based on your phase.
Sep 06, 2017•32 min
In this episode, Kim interviews Brian Howie, the host of the Great Love Debate show. These two have known each other for years - way back before Brian knew what size shirt he should be wearing. Kim and Brian talk about learning to listen, building self-confidence with style and who really has it worse in the dating world - men or women?
Sep 06, 2017•32 min
Welcome to the Charisma Quotient, hosted by dating and relationship expert Kimberly Seltzer! Her personal journey, moving from Chicago to L.A., going through a divorce and transitioning back into singlehood, showed her that confidence cannot always come from within you. She had to learn to transform her style, her attitude and ultimately, herself. This show proves that it’s possible to change your life from the outside, in. Learn all the style and dating secrets Kim has taught hundreds of client...
Sep 06, 2017•23 min
