Partnering in a New Stage with Caryl and Jay Casbon
Episode description
Retirement takes on a new dimension when experienced as a couple. Yet, it's an aspect that is often overlooked. Today’s guests Caryl and Jay Casbon set out to shift this narrative. Their mission: to spotlight the journey of couples navigating this distinct life stage.
Equipped with a motorhome, curiosity, and a desire for real understanding, the Casbons hit the road, covering 15,000 miles across North America. Three days at a time, they immersed themselves with different couples, unveiling the nuances of aging and retiring together.
Their journey culminated in Side by Side: the Sacred Art of Couples Aging with Wisdom and Love. This book stands as a guide for those growing older together, and for those about to embark on that shared path, with enduring love and insight lighting the way.
In this episode, we discussed:
How our individualistic culture fades couplehood after “I do”
Why it’s great for couples to have different stories about shared experiences
The shift from isolation to interdependence for men
How to harness the opportunity for deepened love and mutual decision-making
Caryl and Jay’s secrets to crafting privacy within the realm of retirement