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Change The Odds

Kevin A. Thompsonchangetheodds.transistor.fm
Welcome to Change the Odds, the podcast! Discover practical tips on how to initiate conversations with your spouse about the need for more attention and create a system for giving each other the attention you both deserve. If you want to strengthen your marriage and enhance your connection with your partner, this podcast is a must. Join the conversation and don’t miss out on this valuable advice for building a lasting and fulfilling relationship.
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Episodes

Why Smart Couples Don't Need to be Right

Why do some couples fight better? In this episode, Kevin unpacks the overlooked secret to healthy conflict: intellectual humility—and how it could transform your marriage.

Aug 06, 202535 minEp. 56

How To Fight Fair

Discover how to turn conflict into connection and stop letting emotions drive your relationships with Kevin A. Thompson’s guide to fighting fair.

Jul 31, 202544 minEp. 55

Don’t Lose Yourself in Marriage

Marriage isn’t about losing yourself—it’s about building something new together. Kevin shares a powerful message on trust, individuality, and the beauty of integration in relationships.

Jun 18, 202538 minEp. 1

How to Parent Together Without Pulling Apart

How do you keep your marriage strong while parenting kids with big personalities? Kevin and Blaine unpack five keys to unity in marriage—even when life gets chaotic.

Jun 11, 202548 minEp. 1

The Hidden Power of Generosity in Marriage

What if generosity is the secret to a thriving marriage? Kevin sits down with generosity expert Jim Sheppard to explore how giving changes relationships—and lives.

Jun 01, 202541 minEp. 1

This Is Why You Keep Having the Same Fight in Marriage

Kevin dives into Sue Johnson’s three types of recurring fights in marriage—Find the Bad Guy, Protest Polka, and Freeze & Flee—offering tools to break the loop and build deeper connection.

Apr 23, 202538 minEp. 1

The Five Steps to Money Misery (And How to Avoid Them)

Is money hurting your marriage? Kevin and Adrienne dive into the five mistakes couples make with money—and how to fix them for good. This episode is part one of a two-part conversation you don’t want to miss.

Apr 02, 202546 minEp. 1

Does Your Spouse Respect You? Part 2

What does disrespect really look like in marriage? Kevin, Blaine, and Adrian unpack the subtle ways we dishonor our partners—and how to rebuild trust and connection with intentional respect.

Mar 26, 202553 minEp. 1

Does Your Spouse Respect You? Part 1

Respect isn’t just a nice-to-have in marriage—it’s essential. In this episode, we dive into what respect is, what it isn’t, and how to cultivate it in your relationship. Plus, real-life moments that prove respect makes all the difference!

Mar 19, 202546 minEp. 1

7 Daily Habits to Strengthen Your Marriage

Is apathy the true enemy of marriage? In this episode, we unpack why drifting apart—not adultery, finances, or poor communication—is the real cause of divorce. Learn how small, intentional actions can transform your relationship and keep you and your spouse connected.

Mar 12, 202541 minEp. 1

What Are You Becoming?

Is your marriage thriving or just surviving? In this episode, we unpack how to intentionally build a relationship rooted in friendship, partnership, and intimacy—before drifting into something you never intended.

Mar 07, 202544 minEp. 1

Becoming a Power Couple

What does it take to become a power couple? In this episode, we explore the keys to building a thriving relationship—shared vision, secure attachment, personal growth, and more. Whether you’re in a great place or facing struggles, these insights will help you grow and inspire others along the way.

Feb 27, 202547 minEp. 1

The Power of Opposites in Marriage

Are differences in marriage a weakness or a strength? In this episode, we unpack how contrasting personalities, perspectives, and habits can actually strengthen relationships—if handled with respect and understanding. From dishwasher debates to financial mindsets, Blaine and Adrienne explore how their differences bring balance, growth, and unity.

Feb 21, 202554 minEp. 1

Love, Loss, and Learning to Grieve Together

Grief looks different for everyone—but what happens when two people in a marriage process loss in completely different ways? Blaine and Adrienne share their deeply personal miscarriage story, revealing the unexpected challenges, the healing power of community, and how suffering can either pull couples apart or make them stronger than ever.

Feb 12, 202550 minEp. 1

How Your Childhood Shapes Your Marriage

Your childhood experiences shape your relationships more than you think! In this episode, we dive into attachment theory—the science behind why we connect, argue, and love the way we do. Learn how to break old cycles, build secure attachments, and strengthen your marriage.

Feb 07, 202552 minEp. 1

The Science of Personality: How It Shapes Your Marriage

Do you greet your kids or your spouse first when you walk through the door? This episode dives into the science of personality, exploring how different perspectives shape relationships, communication, and connection in marriage. Discover how to use your differences as strengths and build a stronger family dynamic.

Jan 30, 202551 minEp. 1

The ABCs of Marriage: Agency, Bonding, and Certainty

How do personality and autopilot behaviors impact your marriage? Kevin Thompson dives into agency, bonding, and certainty with Blaine and Adrienne Neufeld, exploring the Enneagram, parenting, and rewiring your relationship dynamics.

Jan 23, 20251 hr 3 minEp. 1

Why Marriage and Parenting Are Evolving in 2025

Explore the five biggest marriage trends of 2025 with Kevin Thompson. From delayed marriages to flourishing relationships, this episode unpacks the changing dynamics of love, partnership, and family.

Jan 16, 202544 minEp. 1

Five Marriage Trends for 2025: Redefining Connection

Start 2025 right! Kevin Thompson sits down with Blaine and Adrienne Neufeld to explore five game-changing marriage trends for the year, tackling myths about marriage happiness, overcoming distractions, and sharing simple ways to deepen connection daily.

Jan 09, 202538 minEp. 1

The Problem of Life: Finding Purpose and Identity w/ Mark Clark

As 2024 wraps up, Kevin Thompson sits down with Pastor Mark Clark to explore themes from Mark’s upcoming book, The Problem of Life . They discuss how personal growth impacts marriage, the pursuit of joy in a disconnected world, and why facing life’s challenges with faith can lead to flourishing relationships.

Dec 19, 20241 hrEp. 1

The Freedom of Forgiveness: Letting Go to Truly Live

Explore how forgiveness unlocks freedom, restores connections, and transforms exhaustion into engagement. Learn practical steps to let go of grudges, extend grace, and embrace the life you’re called to live.

Dec 05, 202427 minEp. 1
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