Conflict to Connection
Episode description
Conflict to Connection
Love in and of itself, is not enough guarantee to have a lasting home. And that it takes wisdom and understanding to build a home.
Here are some important lessons to take note from this sermon;
Psychological signs that a relationship will not stand the test of time:
I. Criticism
II. Defensiveness
III. Contempt
IV. Stonewalling.
Two things to learn about communication:
I. We are different.
II. Understand that there is a reason you are the way you are.
Four important ways to create an environment of safety, which are;
1. Create a non-judgmental environment.
2. A clear line of communication.
3. There must be a deep sense of understanding.
4. Women must feel prioritized.
There are four signs of defensiveness as mentioned earlier as a way of discernment;
I. Making excuses.
II. Cross complaining.
III. “Yes but”
IV. Body language and time change.
Lastly, we learned about how to deal with them as listed below;
1. Take a short break.
2. Stick to the subject matter.
3. Future focus.
As we journey through our marriage and relationships, we are instructed to take intentional steps to ensure a long-lasting and healthy home.🤗