How do we overcome when faced with a Civil War? We have the hard conversation. Jesus taught us how to manage tension with people we are close with. Matthew 18 show us that going to a person and working through the issue is part of the process. However, it takes two to resolve a “Civil” War. If they are not willing, then it’s time for healthy boundaries.
What do you need to forgive someone? Do you need them to feel bad, do you need to get even? Do you need to feel like they have paid back whatever they owe you? A war can get pretty “un-civil” if it cannot end until we are “even”. This week we will focus who handles the revenge part of our lives. We need to learn to invite God into the tension – and trust he has this part handled.
Every conflict I experience has one thing in common. Me! When there is conflict one of the hardest things to do, is see things from someone else’s perspective. Even when we disagree with someone, seeing things from their vantage point can help us develop some empathy. With empathy we are on the path to reconciliation. The more we learn to see things from other perspectives the closer we are to winning a civil war.
James has been teaching us that interacting with God is a huge piece of our faith journey. As he wraps up his letter he stresses that prayer factors into every major area of our life. So how do we do it? We all have to start somewhere. Pick a time. Pick a place. The disciples asked Jesus to teach them how to pray. Perhaps we should do the same?
We all want to know the future. We all want to have the answers before we take the test. However, only God truly knows the future. I can make plans – I just can’t “guarantee” they will happen. Only God has that kind of power. James wants us to learn this important lesson – when we attempt to control every part of our future – we actually reject Gods will and Gods plan for our lives. That kind of brash declaration is a recipe for disappointment. How does God want us to handle our plans?
This episode the Holy Spirit will be speaking to you about an extremely critical principle of life. It is a foundational pillar! In fact, if sequence or order means anything in Scripture, it may be ranked among the most important LIFE HACKS in all of God's kingdom. "Okay Pastor, quit hanging the proverbial carrot out there and tell me what it is? What is this all important biblical principal I cannot live without?" Hmmm...I think I'll let you look it up for yourself! It is the first "spirit" in ...
Resistance. James teaches us that though we will all face temptation, we don't have to be overwhelmed by it. In fact, we can partner with God to resist. When we recognize that some of our greatest internal and external battles come from wanting the wrong things for the wrong reasons, we can learn to trust God in new ways. [Creed Audio Clip - Copyright MGM, Warner Brothers, New Line Cinema] - [God is Better Audio Clip - Copyright Francis Chan]
“…and God said...” When God created the universe – He spoke. From that moment on, it was clear that words are incredibly powerful. The bible tells us that the power of life and death are in the tongue. As people created in the image of God, we have to be incredibly aware of how we use our words. James warns us that great fires begin as a small spark. Knowing when to speak and choosing to speak life can make all the difference.
James the brother of Jesus writes to us in Chapter 2 that one of the pitfalls followers of Jesus should avoid is playing favorites. Often times we fall into a trap of treating people differently based on what we think that person can do for us. But God the Father modeled a love that was freely given to all – genuinely caring for who the person is and not just what they could do. A true Father’s love, the love God modeled for us, doesn’t give some people special treatment, but sees the incredible...
James, the brother of Jesus, lays out for us some very practical keys to living life as a follower of Jesus. One such key challenges us to take our faith and put momentum on it. Learning is important, but action changes things. James asserts that there is a “dead” faith and we have to guard against it! Join us as we figure out how to put our faith into action.
Consider it pure joy, my brothers, when you face trials of many kinds. Doesn’t that sound like fun? Trials of many kinds! Oh yea! What was James thinking when he asked us to consider this pure joy? James knew that the secret to our attitude lies in our thinking, and that the way we think about our trials, and ourselves, can change everything. Let’s see what life hack James has for our thoughts that will cause us to rejoice about our trials.
When you have a mess to address, first options aren’t usually the best options. First options often make messes messier. Sometimes what appears to be the easiest path actually leads to a larger mess! In this message, we explore an approach that can take the "er" out of your messy situations.
Jesus told us to love our neighbors as ourselves. But that’s easier said than done. What are the limits of our responsibility to others? How can we love people that are difficult to even like? How do we embrace messy people? Jesus gives us a model for moving towards the mess.
A common misperception is that the Christian life is all about avoiding messes and staying out of trouble. However following Jesus is not about avoiding the mess; it’s a journey towards becoming more like him. Jesus invited people to follow him while they were still a mess! The more time we spend with him, the more like him we become.
We have all experienced the mess! One of the great realities of our faith is that Jesus comes and meets us right in our mess. We don’t have to get it all together before we are ready for a relationship with God. In fact, your mess has the potential to bring God near you. Once we acknowledge that we are all a mess, we can recognize that we all need the grace God provides.
Whether we are religious or not, we’ve all been in, are in, or are only one decision away from a mess. Often times we can be critical of the messes we see in others, yet dismiss the mess that is in us. But behind every mess, there is a story. Your story and your mess have a powerful connection to your relationship with God.
On Easter, we don't celebrate a collection of teachings. We don't celebrate an idea. We celebrate an event . . . an event in history that changed history. Men and women who were present, met Jesus on the other side of the grave, and it changed everything for them. In a culture that threatened to punish and isolate them, they held on to what they knew was true. He is Risen… He is Risen indeed.
Often times when things don’t work out according to plan, we become frustrated with God. When we play the comparison game, and see others seemingly blessed more than us, we can become frustrated with God. Sometimes when things haven’t worked out for a long time, we even turn away from God. If we believe God is personally invested in our lives, then it is possible in the toughest times to turn towards God. That first Easter, the other men on their crosses faced a decision. As a result, one missed...
Understanding and listening to your longings is essential to finding our way back to God. God knows who you really are, and I want to challenge you to believe that God wants to be found even more than you want to find him.
In the days and weeks leading up to Easter, several people find their way into the story. They are close to what is happening, but because they are focused on the wrong things, they miss what God is doing in the world. More importantly they miss who Jesus really is. Join us this week as we meet Caiaphas, and realize that with the right position but wrong vantage point, we miss Jesus.
Sometimes the winter seems long. The dormant season seems never-ending. Moses was a leader with great promise in a place with great need. But after a moment of failure and disappointment, Moses found himself in a long “winter” season where he believed his call had gone dormant. But God still believed in him. Sometimes we need a reminder that God still believes in us. But be careful, because that reminder may just launch us out of our “Winter” and into a “Spring” of new life and a new normal!
Live United - Disconnected body parts are gross. Paul tells us that the Church is one body, made of many parts. There is a beautiful symmetry when we work together and partner. The body needs all of its parts to be at maximum efficiency – and those parts have purpose and accomplish more when connected to one another. Here at Celebration Center we recognize that we do the most good, and fulfill the mission of the Church when we “Live United”.
How and why do we do this thing we do? How do we work out loving like Jesus? Join us as we explore what it looks like to live out and put into action being the church in our neighborhoods, families and homes.
There is a direct connection from our treasure to our heart. So it is very important that we treasure the right things! The things we treasure live in our heart – so we have to choose what we will let in! Here Jesus teaches us to never be mastered by things that don’t last.
Do not deny me. What an incredible statement of Jesus. Our faith on display in the earth matters. Jesus calls us to be his ambassadors here on earth. There will be folks that don’t appreciate us standing up for Jesus, and he warns us not to fear them… I wonder how often in our day to day lives we accidentally deny Jesus… lets explore.
When we judge others, we assume the high ground. Jesus challenges us, that if we are going to be honest judges, we have to begin by first evaluating our own hearts, and lives. Then from a place of wholeness, we can encourage life in others. Often we assume the high ground and stand in judgment, when, from God's vantage point we should be lifting others up!
When something is important, we tend to worry about it. Jesus teaches us that the more important something is, the more opportunity we have to trust God. Besides, what gain do we have when we worry? The more we worry, the less we really understand about God’s love and faithfulness. If we put the first things first, God can and will take care of the rest.
We all carry the weight of the world - pressure that we put on ourselves or that we feel from others. Often times we feel like our actions have somehow disqualified us from what God could otherwise do in our lives. But is that consistent with who God says that we are? Do we dare to activate our dreams again? The reality is God has called us to get moving.
New love is always exciting. When it comes to relationships with people and with the Lord, staying in love is a commitment. This week we explore the nature of loving relationships and dare you to fall back in love!
If you are a parent there is one thing for certain – someone is watching your life! Think of all the things you do the way your parents did them. Whether you have adult kids, young kids, or even no kids, you may have more influence than you know. How do you manage it? The next generation is looking at our faith as their model. I dare you to invest!
