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know this. She's been in like a relationship where she is allowing the guy to have another girlfriend basically so he can't choose between the two. And this has been this way for five fucking years. Okay, Now, I've known this girl for over five years, and I did not know I met the nigga everything, did not know that she was the other woman, well both of them or other women, you know what I'm saying. Because he's in a relationship with both of them. And it's so crazy

because it's five years strong. How to funk do you allow someone to play with you in toy with your heart for five years? You're letting him one devalue who you are as a woman. You're letting him do that, he's stripping you of your dignity. Actually you're knowing it to yourself, bitch, but whatever, you know what I'm saying. And then too, you're giving him power over you. You didn't make him choose, You're you're giving him an ultimatum that he's never going to take serious because you've stayed

with him for five years. Now. That hurts my feelings as her friend, because she kept this ship from me for a long time, you know. But the god damn, they lives with her like he has his place, has his own place, but he's with her like all the time, every time I talked to her or whatever whatever. So her admitting this to me, you know, over a drink, I was just like, damn, bitch, you've been wanting to

tell somebody that for a long time, haven't you. You know, And not a lot of people know, of course, but this is how it started. She told me. When she first met him, he was already dealing with somebody. They weren't together, but he was working with somebody, okay, So she saw him messing with him and everything was the same. They they actually hit it off strong, you know what I'm saying. Everything was good, you know, Um, they started dating and everything. He had never left this girl alone.

He actually started getting a little bit more involved with the other girl as well. And um, to top it off, he was just getting out of a divorce. Let's she start there. At least he was divorced though his country wain. But yeah, he was already divorced, you know what I'm saying. So as you can see, ship already don't work out with this nigga. But he's a good guy. He's a great fucking guy basically. So she found out about the

girl because he told her. He actually like came clean and told her like eight months and when they were almost like together for a year, he was like, Yo, it's this other girl that I have. I can't like just leave her alone because I do love her, but I want you and blah blah blah blah bob. And she is pregnant. So the girl was pregnant. Okay, she told him she was not getting rid of the baby. He didn't want the baby, but he can't make her get an abortion, couldn't make her get an abortion, so

we kept the child. She had the child, and here is my friends still his girlfriend, and here is the now baby mother still his girlfriend. Second year, and she tells him, I can't do this anymore. You have been playing games with me since D one or whatever. You told me about the bitch. Yeah, you came clean, but now you need to fucking choose now. He did sell that he was gonna choose you, so right. I love you. I don't want to be with her. We just got

this child we gotta raise together. Blah blah blah. She's like, Yo, I get it, but you're still sleeping with her, like you fucking love her like and and I can't. I can't do this anymore. I don't know what the funk happened after that, But fast forward to now to the nowadays days she and he and she is still together, so they might as well just fucking live together. Has that ship ever happened to you? I have my sister here again, Shay, stay, what's up? What's going on to people? Yeah?

What holds that? Listen? I'm gonna tell you that story like rocked my fucking world. You know, I was so upset with her, Like, Yo, what the fund do you mean? Five years this nigga has not chosen. He has been having his cake and eating it too, But honestly, you can't even be mad at her, because I know you've also been a situations when your mind is so wrapped

up in a situation that's all you know. You can't remove yourself from a situation until like you're blinders are really taken off and and you're ready to really leave the situation. But to share a man, you understand, and then you you're knowingly sure. It's one thing to get cheated on. Nigga hit that ship for five years or for however long he hit it, because he hit it for eight months. I believe he only told her because the girl was pregnant and she was not getting rid

of the baby, so to share her him and her mind. Girl, she probably honestly blocked out the other female knowing that she still existed, but she probably just blocked out anyway. Yeah, I just I don't, I don't. I don't understand that, Like, have you ever been in a situation like that? So I've never been in a situation like that, But you know of a situation one of the situations that I've been in. One of my baby fathers, whom we will

not name. You remember where you listen he was big, big, big cheat in it anyway, and I just I don't understand, Like how do guys have enough time in the day, Like he was really really into you, like y'all was like together, my nigga. And then I seen him and a restaurant sitting with a bit, and then we all know the Baltimore city is so goddamed small enough, i'd be fun. Yeah, this is a small more nigga. I swear I've seen it. And I don't even know how I say this ship because I wasn't even going in

that store. I was going to the barbershop right now. Happen in the car. You took a picture and was like, I noticed this, nigga. I noticed how he walked. He was walking holding the bechhnd yea And they went into the restaurant and he was talking about to go in there. I'm like, going there, going there. I handled car at the time. I'm sitting there trying to borrow somebody car. I wish it was we weren't even then. It weren't using Yeah, we weren't using it. Yeah, this is like

we had hacks. Yeah, we had friends then. Yeah, this was like six seven years ago. I don't think it was. It was. It was well he wasn't using the dad people using s. Yeah. Yeah, she first came out. It was like, no, I don't trusting. We got real hecks killing and kicking. That motherfucker's raised using no app pick us up anyway. Yeah. So I called her sitting in the car and I'm like, yo, I see this nigg I see afar he up here with a bit. She was like, oh, I said, I go ahead say something.

She's like, oh yeah, go in there, go in there, say something, bitch. Yet So I hit the door. Serious. I opened the door to the motherfucking a little little petty as restaurant he was because it was like a pizza rea next to in a shopping center, but like a fucking rainbow a fucking subway, like we took this bit here. Hold up, Like do you remember you went in there and was like, yeah' about to go say something?

Excuse me? Can I get two chicken wings? I definitely wanted some chicken, like it was before you go confront. It was really good, Like who the oldest chicken wings in there? I walked in there and fucking fried chicken smell snaking right in my face like bitch, mad, come get some of us before you go over here and fight. So I was like all right, cool, I walked up to it. Before I even got up there, Yo, the niggers seen me got up and went to the bathroom

like I wouldn't you. I really wish I would have went in the bedroom, like ha ha, I see you. You know what I'm saying. But I so I walked up to her. But that is so dumb because you saw me. You know, I'm your baby mother, little sister, Like you know I'm your girl, little sister, and you fucking try me now you know I'm that type of bitch to put your ways on blast. And you already know that I'm a teller or already got on the phone and you were on the phone. She was on

the phone me. So I walked up to it. Isn't go in the bedroom. I was like, excuse me. You messed with him, you know, because he he shall remain nameless. I'm like, you must swim. She was like wow, and I was like, oh, because that's my sister's boyfriend, Like that's my sisters, man, all my sister pregnant. She looked like a fucking truck was coming to like a darn head like, but she did not know like a truck was ready head. She ain't say sh it, ain't say

not a damn thing. So I'm sitting there like, yeah, I just want I just thought you should know that went over there, picked my wings up. I kept on going. This nigga comes back out the bathroom, and then I know because I sat back in my car. I went to sit back in my car. I wanted to say how long this is gonna be in the bathroom? And the wings were already made. They're not like made to order. They was already right there. So I picked up my wings and I got the funk out of there. You

know what I'm saying. This nigga came out. He had to be at the door waiting to see when I left, because how was you in the bathroom that long? Even though it wasn't something, Yeah, it was like a fast exchange, but it's like, Yo, how the funk you really say? You come out as soon as I get in my car, like you're watching me from the bathroom, obviously. And I sat there for like a good little fifteen minutes or whatever, still on the phone or whatever. My sis sister. But

you was trying to get you. Remember you called somebody to take you up there, and you're like, no, I'm me up here. Like my best friend got a zip car. She went an a zip car and came and got my You was trying to get everybody get a way up there, and I'm like, yo, And by the time we got up they was gone and ship. But yo, I made sure I'm I said something. I said something, you know. So that was a situation very similar. So you didn't even really get into the to the whole

little nitty gritty of it. So when I reached out to his family to let let his family know that I was pregnant, They're like, oh, you're pregnant. To you, I'm like, that's how you found out about Shorty being pregnant. I was like to Like so I'm like okay, Like okay, So now it made it made sense because when I found out I was pregnant, I told him about it. He wanted me to get an abortion. He actually offered me. He offered to buy me a pair of ugs and

exchanged to get the abortion. What yes, what the funk? No? He was like, pick up here of hugs and send me the link. I'm a bomb, but you got to get the abution first with the shay. Oh my god, it is so many bitches that would be like, all right, I don't look at the uggs like and get it to the baby that is that is fucked up. Okay, So how did it? And when did I know? They're on the edge of the seat right now. When did you meet her? When did you see her? Like? When

did you ever? Did you? I never got to meet the other woman. I actually never I've never other woman. So she's under the impression that I'm just some ghetto as bitch and I caused a lot of trouble and ain't not telling who was first. You don't know who he was dealing with. She so she was a person from his past, but they had just broken up right before I met him when I was a saying nature, So she was actually with him prior to be getting with him in the long long time time, in those

days when all were young and ship very young. But then when I found out about her, I confronted him about it and he lied. When I confronted him about about you seeing him, he said, that was my cousin who him, his big ast He got a biggest cousin that looked just like him, that walked just like him in everything and it's bad and it and its cousin they had to run, so they got damn bad room just as soon as I came in there. No, no,

he said, the girl was his cousin. Oh what she ain't answering me like, no, goddamn cause in any cousin would have been like that girls talking my cousin like she would have just told me that girl bye, niggabye please. That is crazy. So I mean a long story short going forward. Um, we both have children. I won't say the age, but um, we both have children. UM our children recently just met I still have yet to meet, um this young lady. And they're not too far apart.

The kids. Yeah, because y'all were pregnant at the same time. So he was living a double life. But the difference between this story and uh and story time was they knew about each other. So I think that's worse. Worse he told you know, the story that he told her was hold up, hold up, I know the ship getting good. But listened to just a couple of seconds of a commercial if you love me, you'll listen. This is what he told the other girl because apparently they were, um,

you know, more than just a couple. He told her that I was just a one nice fand and he met through his little brother and he doesn't know if the baby could have possibly possibly been his or not. Wow, niggas is so fucking triful. They well on that note story time that that story is a little better because the nigger was up front. He did. He came out, and then she knew about her, and then he knew and then she knew about her. No, it would be

no secrets. Everything is I don't take The only thing is I just can't let somebody run free with my heart like that, knowing that they got somebody else heard as well, Like like at this point, they may as well all move together. But you know people do it all the time. What is it the polygamust? Yeah, yeah, polygamy. And that's what I wanted to ask him, like yo, like no, what I did kind of ask him like are you okay with that? Like this is like an

arrangement like this five years. Don't have a three way relationship, you know, And she's like, no, it ain't that then what the funk is it? Because you're telling me that you know this ship and you're okay with this, but she's like, I'm not okay with it. That's what I'm saying. I just recently told him. Yo, she said, I'm at a point now where it's like you need to choose me or you're done. But you're still in the same boat because they have any children. You're telling no, no kids.

I don't think she wants any, but no children, you know, and he has other children as well, not by that girl, just you know, children from previous relationships. Nick, I'm telling you that must be like the best dick that anybody that never been blessed with in life. It's ridiculous. Seriously, must be coded. And do y'all remember Loving Hip Hop?

You remember, well, have you ever watched you know, Loving Hip Hop New York when Peter guns Amina and Tara was even if because yes, you've seen that ship online. Now listen, Peter wasn't truthful at first, but once they found out about each other and everything, and once they you know, knew like, okay, this is what we're dealing with and okay, this is uh yeah, okay, you know because he married Amina. He just kept giving Tara kids, but he wouldn't leave neither one of them. Yeah, my

sister wife. It was like they were in a competition to try to see who could win him, because there was a scene where Tara was like, yes, I sat on his dick every night when I want to. I would say, Peter, come fuck my pussy and he would come and he did, didn't you Peter? And Peter was sitting there looking like, bitch, why you won't say that? Ship National TV? He was so mad she put him out there. So they were in competition, like, yo, y'all are impeting for this penis? You know? They were like

getting back like it was like every year. Every year a new one was pregnant, like Amina. Yeah, then Tar got pregnant, then a Meana got pregnant, then Tar, and it's like, yo, y'all are really y'all know about each other, but y'all trying to see who can win him or trying to see if and it became a three way situation. So yeah, I just I can't. I can't and I get you know, people are into that. There are people who are into that. I just can't do it. For

my sanity. That's that's not I can't either. I want I want my own nigga. Yeah, I want my own nigga. Like, I just don't understand. Like, it's one thing if you if you don't know, but when you know, I feel like you're just being a dumbass essentially. Now let me go back to try to clean it up. Some people are okay with that, but they don't have a relationship with this person. They might just like what they can do for them sexually, and it's just a sexual thing.

But to actually sit there and fall in love with somebody and to be in love with somebody that I don't get it. I don't understand that. That right there is when I feel like it is a sickness. Yeah, you're talking about for the girl, for the woman either or yeah. Because Peter has said, like I love you and I love you. I love you both like like

my friends. Man, he loves them both like he cannot choose, like and it's I think it's going on for so long where they allowed it without even knowing that they have allowed it. They're just they're acclimated to the situation. It's this for five years. That is a lifestyle. That is a lifestyle. That's not just a situation. The situation ship you're cheating or whatever. That is a lifestyle. This is how all of them, clearly are you used to living?

Like all right, I'm gonna be with this bitch on this day and I'm gonna be with her on that day. You understand, right, Yeah, I understand. Okay, I see you tomorrow road or I see you later because I'm gonna be withle heard this time. Blah blah blah. That's when I feel like, what is the word I'm looking for? Narcissistic? It is narcissistic. The biggest narcissist of all reality TV and I've ever even seen in real life as sucking Stevie j. That's well he used to be. He's not anymore.

Thank god Faith changed his life. Man, he's aptly married now with her to her what, Yeah, they ain't married no more? She damn but no. Well, I guarantee you ain't doing all that ship the faith. I don't know. He was just blatantly disrespectful to Mimi and Joscelyn, Like I believe he made Jocelyn the main bit she is.

You know what I'm saying or she was but ship you know, I just and then he fucked me me up bad, not physically, you know, I don't want to think, but I feel like maybe in his mind he felt as though he could do that to them because they weren't anybody, if that makes sense. Faith had a name way before he was even and they were friends. They were actually homies over the years, you know, I mean,

but still Faith is that's Faith Evans. Yeah, that's that's biggie X. You know what I'm saying, Like, that's that's Faith. She's somebody, she's a legend. She's bad like everybody. Everybody knows Faith Evans. Like somebody say, like some people, right, baby, now that's what they'll say. But you know, no, for sure, I I do get it. She uh you know, could never hold a torch to Faith and not you know, I understand. I'm sorry, I'm just being real, um, but yeah,

I do understand that. However, she's beautiful, she's glowed up, and she she has made a better woman of herself, you know what I'm saying. And look, she didn't even got to got a baby out the nigg Stevie. You know what I'm saying. And and and which her man and her he takes care of the baby. You know, the man that she's with now. She seems very happy with him. I still don't know the nick name. But yes,

she feels she got somebody. Yes she has somebody. Um he does the TV show with her and everything like, no for sure, but you had a lot of situations with guys like that was like funny to me. I swear to God, like a lot of situations. So the one before I had children, when I had my first little apartment. Don't remember my first little apartment with no furniture. I literally had a food's on and the TV staying.

The guy that used to date who also shall remain nameless Homeboy, was living with me and still dealing with his ex. I found out about his ex. I can't remember how I found out. I felt like somebody told me, but I can't remember. Ever, so long ago, I can't remember exactly how, but I found out about home Girl. This was back in my Space days, so that's how I hit her up on my Space. Talked to her and we was like, oh yeah, so girl, we're gonna set him up so he get off work. He's gonna

get a ride home. Ain gonna go pick him up. Come here, I'm gonna pack all this ship up. Girl. We're gonna play Irreplaceable by Beyonce. That some fucking clowns just actually not trying to redo the boy's mind, like with the I hope. He looked like he looked like a motherfucking pipe going. So you know, he comes in or whatever, and I'm like, oh, you know, I ran your bad for water whatever, and you know I'm gonna put some musical on for you. So I had one of my other home girls in there rady to put

the little CD player on. The next thing you know, he is to the left, to the left, and she comes out the out the bedroom and made her practice this little routine. We did this little to the left to the left everything ye y'all made up a dance. We did everything you're own in the box to the left. The box of stuff that I actually had was on the right of us, not on the left like some clown. But it's whatever, because you'll say the boxes on the right. He knew what was going on, and he looked like

he saw a motherfucking ghost. He looked like cancer. Came out, was like, hey, no, are you serious? Yes, he was like, how the fuck did these bitches actually conspired? Yes, definitely. So she did some little she did some little extra ship, took something off the box and throw it off the balcony and broke it. And he ended up calling his homeboy like, yeah, they set me up, like come get me blah blah blah blah blah. Then to come to find out a week later he's staying with the bitch.

What she really did was she did all this that phony ship with me because she really just wanted me to break up with him so she could get him back. The nick was not all that, but I mean he was all aft for y'all to make up routines and do what would you do that? Now? Hell no, these niggas like I mean, like, honestly, at the age that I am now, I have a very short tolerance for

for men. I'm thirty five. I'm thirty five, and I really, I know, I know you know when I tell you, I can't even sometimes I can't even get through a week of talking to a guy. I've recently just had a guy in my DM right gout in my DM. I'm like, oh, you know, he was okay looking, you know, like after you know, at my age being thirty fives, like, you know, it's not all about looks and whatever whatever. So I was like, all right, I was saying, he's okay,

you know girl, he's sing whatever, but whatever. So you know, he's talking to me, he's like, oh, you know I work, Um, I work for d C Metro and I do this and I do that. I'm like, okay, you know, you got a good job. And then he's like, what's your cash if don't want to see you some money? And I'm like, wait, I don't even I don't even know you. And you know, I ain't never been no no money hungry bitch to sit there and be like, oh, just like just getting what I can get out of somebody.

I've never been a type person. So I'm going on his page. I'm like, his page is, it's so naked. This is naked, like three or four posts. I'm like, let me go to the tag photos to see, you know, if anything's here. I go to the tag photos, see a whole bunch of pictures of the children and stuff like that, and I'm like, oh, you know, oh, he's gotta be his kids. They look like him. Boom, I'm like, oh,

who pages this? It's the baby mother's page. But not only was she the baby mother, she was the girlfriend, the current girlfriend. She had this man Plasid. This is on the Wednesday. I'm on the page. She just posted him on Monday for for man Crush Monday. Like she get the plasid all over the page, So I said, sometime, I was just like, I forgot where her name was. But I was like, hey, I was like, I don't know why you're all up at my dams, but I'm I'm sure such and such wasn't like that. Then nigga

block me, straight block me because you found out about this. Yeah. So then I I reached out to the girl. I was like, look, I said, you know, you seem like a beautiful young lady. You got this man all over your page. You're praising him like I'm coming to you because I don't know how many other people d m s and ship he jumping in, but like maybe you should like chill on posting him because he's making you

look like you know. So she read the ship and ain't say nothing, and then she made a post and was like, um, loving me for me and blocking out all the haters. Like, girl, what the fox and you saw today? Let her tell himself, let him tell her some bogus right, girl went in was looking through like the videos and stuff. This nig ain't hand on front teeth bit, you know it's the big ball mouth bullet the fuck? What the funk not teaball spots in the front of his mouth. He got a nerve to be cheating.

Some people just don't have no business sheeting at all, no teeth, Like, what the funk? You need to be with the one who loves you because not else want to have no fucking teeth. That's crazy. But there are a lot of people here I see that don't have teeth like very much though, So you're not okay with being the other Woman's safe to say because you have done a lot of crazy. Ship Like remember you said there finding ship and then yeah, that was like, why

would you say that, oh ship? Who got locked up? Nobody? Well, it's fine, it's can't belie reckers. I don't know who we're talking about. And just like that, we're gonna end it. Listen, tune in every Wednesday, say by see y'all. This girl trying to get niggas cord knocked locked up next week. I faith I didn't do anything like anything. I love y'all just like y'all love me, and then my best Deep panboys. Peace Cantfully Reckless is a production of I

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