You & Me, Plus She

all of it. So I'm just going to try to tell you and see if he can fix my mess or just help me with some type of advice on healing from this situation and where I should go from there. So to start off, I am about to be twenty seven years old and I had had a stew past tips a best friend that I had for ten years. He was a male guy, and he was a great friend, Like he was an amazing friend, and I didn't have any doubts about him. I never thought twice or anything like,

never question anything about his character anything like that. So to start off, remind you again, we've been friends for ten plus years, literally strictly just friends in my head. I don't see nothing more, nothing less, literally just a friend of friend zone. That's where he is. Don't even

found you attractive. So fast forward to a year now, which is three, and in April, he decided he's alreadys been like expressing how he felt about me or just like sending all type of messages about how much he loves me or inspire him and doing these things like sitting all type of every time I post a picture, he's sitting all types of things, like all the hard eyes is super supportive. Like, but I knew that he was floating with me for a very very long time.

But again, remind you, I friend zone that man. So I'm not paying attention to any of it. He has girlfriends, multiple girl friends. I'm cool with all. With some of his girlfriends, they didn't told me so many things that he didn't they don't went through. So I went to doctors, depotments and everything with certain females that he used to date, and they were like he they would burn each other like.

It was just so much stuff like I that I knew about him and how he moved with women, and he like he was he was one of those people that could never settle down with just one woman and be happy. He needs multiple That is something that I know for sure, is that he needs a person at all times. One person is not good enough for him. So with me knowing that knowledge, I took into myself

and said that I would never date this guy. I would like he is a great friend, but I don't never see myself dating him because I've seen all the flags. I've seen all the red flags. We talked about a lot, we talked about both of our dating lives, we talked about a lot of things to each each other. So I always say that I would never date him because

of how he treated women. And he's one of those guys that has money, so he thinks that he could just buy people off or I buy this and she wou'd be okay, like, oh, I take on a trip, and she did get over it. So he's definitely one

of those people. So back in April, he decided to well, he already knows that I like girls, So I me and him were just talking a lot, and he kept he was flirting more and more, and I really didn't know about the situation that he had going on at home, so I was just peeping that he was flirting way more than usual. So I had said something to him like, and I have really went back on all the messages to see like because I didn't really remind you I had of my friend zone, so I didn't see him

like flirting with me. I just was like, oh, thank you, Like, oh, this is my friend. Like anytime he's sitting hard heart emotives or things like that, I was just like, oh, thank you, like I appreciate that, Like, because we're friends, I would do the same thing. So I didn't think that it was like flirting because I literally had strictly

in the friend zone. Everything was cut off. So we decided to get in a pologams relationship in April with me, him and his girlfriend at the time, and everything was going good. Everything was going good, Everything was going great. Our communication was good. Me and her, we're talking, We were taking the kids out on play dates. We were all three going dates together. We would do separate dates.

Were like. It was just a good vibe. For probably two months, me and him went to Atlanta for some reason, she did not go. When we got to Atlanta, everything was cool, but his energy was off, like something was giving me. You're being sneaky, and I was confused on while you're being sneaky, if we all three communicate properly and know what's going on, everything was okay. The trip started getting messy after I posted a picture. I had posted a picture on social media because my one of

my shirts had got wine spilt over it. So I asked him for one of his shirts, and I still used it as a nice outfit. Put it together and I used one of his shirts. His girlfriend realized that I had one in shirts, and then it turned left. But remind you, we all agreed to this polygamous relationship,

so I'm confused on what's going on. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a victim in this situation, because again I walked into the situation knowing that they are in a relationship and I'm just another person that's being added to it. So I never was one of those people to like cock block on their situation or if she ever felt uncomfortable, I wanted her to voice it to me so I can notice step back and things like that. So we get back from Atlanta, all of a sudden, they announced

that she's pregnant. Didn't tell me anything about it, didn't keep me in a loop. So it was like a slap in the face. So me and him ended up getting into a little disagreement, I want to say, an argument or anything like that, because we were redep good with communication, like we communicated very well with each other. And it just threw me off because why wouldn't you tell me, like, I know, y'all in a relationship, so why did you just let me know? Like I'm not

a hating as bitch. So I congratulated them. I don't want my kids right now. I already have a four year old, so it's like, it ain't me that got pregnant. So I'm not tripping. So we fast forward again, move up some We all went to Vegas. Vegas was amazing. Um, we went to Vegas for Mother's Day. He asked me on that trip. I want to point this out. Every trip that he ever asks me to go one, it was never like he flew me out. I always paid my half on everything anything we did. We always went

Dutch or and I always paid my half. It was never like him doing everything for me unless it was him like, oh no, let me pick this up. And I felt like that was a man being a man. You're doing your manly duties. We came back from Vegas and then that's when we did the gender reveal. I've been invited to the gender reveal. I literally helped set up the gender reveal, helped tear down the gender reveal. I'm near the whole time. Everything's great, everything's cordial, everybody's

talking to each other. I'm helping as much as I can. I'm making sure the kid is good while they do the thing, like just being the best person as I can, like doing my duties, like I'm only gonna be as genuine as I can be. So everything was okay, and then all of a sudden, she just started getting rockier and rockier, Like you can tell her energy changed up and things like that. But then again, I know her energy was gonna change up because you're pregnant, So now

your feelings are going to change. She agreed to the pologamous relationship before she was pregnant, So now you are pregnant and your feelings are changing. So I'm like, would you like me to step back from the situation. She's telling me, no, everything's fine. She just want to get an understanding, like so now nothing is clear to her anymore of what's really going on? One, what's the deal of us? What we're doing, what we're are we dating? Or am I just sucking on them? And or excuse me,

am I supposed to? Because am I just messing on them? Until she drops the baby, like she started getting in like if he on both of us, like and it wasn't just me, it was both of us, Like we were both confused, and we're like, what's going on? If we all sat down and had an agreement, like where all these feelings coming from? Now? Like is it the hormones? Is that this? Is this? Do you want me to just back off? Because I can do that as well.

She tells me, no, don't back off. Everything's fine, Everything's okay. She just wanted a better understanding. So basically, I realized that more of the stories. She only really wanted me close because he told her that me and her, me and him are friends, and then she realized that me and him had an actual bondy and we've been friends for ten years, so she really just wanted to get the inside scoop on what was really going on between

me and him. Remind you, me and him, they never touched each other none of that ship until she approved on the pologamist relationship, and then that's when we all three decided to touch each other. Once she starts tripping and switching up, I fell back. I feel back from her, And that's where I messed up on my end, because I should have fell back from both of them. But knowing that he's been my best friend for ten plus years, me and him still at our friendship going now, I'm

not gonna lie. We definitely still was messing on each other whenever we got a chance or whatever like that. And she knows this like she knew everything. I always communicated everything with her like when we were together, so she won't feel like she's down or alone or she's being not included. So anytime that we would make plans, I would invite her. Any time he made plans, um they would invite me. But every time she decided to make a plan, she would invite me or nothing to

be added to it. So I already knew that she had some type of feelings going on, something was going on, but she was not trying to communicate that at all. Hold up, Hold up, I know the ship getting good, but listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. We're gonna move to July. July six, She's texting my phone reminds me, I'm still think everything is quartil. She has not told me that she doesn't like me, that she has beef with me,

that she just don't like this situation. She has not said any of this to me at all, So I'm still thinking everything's courtial. I'm still going over their house. If they call them they need something, like I'm doing, I'm helping them. If I call them and I need something, they're helping. Like it was just so mutual. It was still mutual. Nothing was like weird. Her energy was weird, like when I stepped around, but everything was still of cordial. Well,

still do play dates with the kids. Everything was still fine. So I thought everything was still cordroo and adult and everybody could still talk to each other. That day, she decided to text me, Hey, I wanted to plan a play date with the kids. Her daughter wanted to see my son. So we text each other set up a play date. I think it was urban arrow or a park or something like that, and I'm like, okay, cool, Like I'll let you know, like when we can meet,

what time we meet up and things like that. She was like, okay, cool that night I can say, like eleven o'clock at night, I smoke, so I'm out going to go get my stuff that I need to run into the store getting my woods, gonna go pick up what I need to And she decides to text my phone, Hey can we meet? I want to talk to you. So I'm like okay, sure, like yeah, we can meet, Like I have no problem, Like what's up? Like what's wrong? You want to talk? Like everything? Okay? Is the baby

all right? Like remind you she's fool going pregnant at this time, she's eight months. So I'm like, it's everything okay, as you are right, like it's late, like what's going on? She like, I just feel like y'all playing in my face and like that, like you really playing with me and you trying me? And I'm like, how am I trying you? Like? How am I playing with you? If everything was agreed upon, we all talked about this situation like it was nothing like spontaneous. Oh he cheating with

a savage. He was never allowed to touch me, none of that. Until she knew that he had feelings for me, and this is what he really wanted. And he had to sit down with her to tell her that he had feelings for me, and this is what he wanted. Everything's cool. We're talking. Remind you I did some stupid ship. So I get out my car, get into that of her car, and we're just talking like everything's cordial. We're talking super calm to each other. We're getting out all

of the things that we're talking about. I'm letting her speech, let me speak, like we're not raising our voice at all. Like everything super, super grown in cordial. All of a sudden, I see a red car pull up. It's her best friend. I said, what is this. She's like, oh no, my phone went dead and she was the last person I was on the phone with and she has my location, so she just pulled up here. Instantly knew that was bullshit.

Her friend decides to get out of the car, so I got her, got out of her car, and start walking towards my car because I'm like, this is a setup, So I'm just gonna walk away, like you're not about to set me up. I'm not about to fight you. I'm not about to do none of that, like you full blown pregnant. I'm not about to do that. I'm not abo to disrespect you. You pregnant as fun, and

you are my best friends woman. I'm not about to disrespect you in no type of way like ever, because then it's gonna mess up our refriendship and that's what I don't want. Like, so I'm gonna keep it cordially and keep it respectful because I will never disrespect you like that and I will never put my hands on a pregnant woman. So get out of her car. Going to my car, I'm sitting there trying to find my keys, about to drive off her friends. She's standing at my door.

I don't have my door shut because she's standing in my doorway and refuses to let me close my door. So I'm trying to find my keys in the dark as all of this is going on. So now she's trying to argue with me, and I'm like, no, I'm not about to argue with you. I'm not about to fight you, Like, can you please close my door. I'm not about to do this. We're not about to do this, like, let me go. I'm not even about to play these games.

This is petty. I'm not about to put my hands on nobody, because if I feel like I have to put my hands on somebody, I'm not stopping. So once I found my keys, I closed my door. That's when she went left. Once I put my keys in my ignition and I closed the door, she decides to hit me. As I'm sitting down in my car, window down, she decides to hit me. My tooth falls out. I instantly decided to put my tooth back in my mouth, like it literally fell out from the root. So it's my shift.

It's not broke or anything. It literally fell out from the root. She hit me like closer to of my nose area, like in the nerve spot, so my tooth fell out. I put it back in my mouth like in the heat of the adrenaline. I literally shoved my tooth right back in my mouth and pulled her inside of my car through the window and start beating her ass instantly on spot. So that's when her friend decided to get in and was like, no, you're not gonna put your hands on her. You're not gonna hit her.

This girl just decided to put her hands on me, And you think I'm not about to protect myself. It's two against one, y'all. Not about to do this to me at a twelve o'clock in the morning. No, So, as I'm on my way home, I'm calling my friend. So I'm calling his phone, like what's going on? Like calling him, texting me, trying to figure out, like what the funk? Like do you even know that your girl just came all the way on the whole other side of town to come fight me? Like on some like

what type of ship does this? You're pregnant woman at that? Let her come out the house to come fight me? Like what type weird as ship is this? Like? What type? Me? And whatever? Let they grow they pregnant woman leave out the house damn near one o'clock in the morning to go fight a motherfucker. Since when do people that she like that go down? But I realized that she had his phone the entire time. So every time and I'm texting his phone, calling his phone, that's her replying. She's

declining all calls. So I realized that's when everything was coming to me like boom, this is a setup. I completely understand that. So he has nothing to do with this. This was all her and her friend agenda. I come home, I pressed charges because remind you this bit my tooth fell out my mouth. So now I have to go get surgery. I have to get an emergency surgery, and

I have to pay for all of this stuff. I didn't pay literally sin with all of this stuff going on, I didn't pay over probably fat thousand on surgeries, them to appointments, things like that, just to make sure that I'm great. And I'm just confused on what's going on because he has not said anything to me, Like he apologized on the situation and everything like that, but as far as him being a man and laying she'd go down, it was like, God, damn, was I really your friend?

Like what the fun type ship is this? But I don't want to give you anymore on that situation. I want to really get something on my part, Like I just want some advice one what I should do now. So I decided to break off all ties with both of them. So it's a protection order on her and the whole situation from April to now. He handled me completely wrong. For us to be best friends for as long as we did, he handled me completely wrong. He disrespected me. He put me in situations that I should

never have been in. And it was like, after all the ship and that I've told you, talk to you about, and things that I've vinted to you about, and you literally put me in the same predicaments. So I walked away from everything. So now I'm asking for just to either fix my mask or just give me some advice, like at this point, because I don't have no friends, like I don't have no female friends, I don't have

no male friends, I don't have no friends. So I literally just be in the house with my son, my four year old son, um cleaning business, and then I work at the same time, like a little part of time, a little something, So I try to keep myself busy as much as possible. But I want to know, like from your perspective, with this whole pologamy relationship, I know

I shouldn't have got into it. I know that for a fact, because I can, I can answer my own questions on that the part that I need help with leaving that friendship completely, Like I literally dropped the friendship completely just off of how he handled it, and he wanted to point the finger at me like I was the bad guy and he tried to make me seem like I broke up his household, I messed up everything that he had gone on. He literally pointed the finger

at me for everything. Like I know I could take accountability for meeting up with the girl at one o'clock in the morning, two o'clock, like twelve, I take accountability for that, But I did not know that this girl wanted to fight me, had been for me animosity, Like I didn't know all of that. I knew she was like feeling some type of way, but we kept trying to get the information out of her, like what's going on? And talk to us if you want me to fall

back out? Fall back? Like what is it? Like? She was not communicating, So how can I know all of this information? So now I'm stuck here with no friends. Imagine my friend for teen plus years is now gone. I don't have a bond with him anymore. I don't even care to talk to him be around him, like it discussed me now, Like to know that he's living with a person that set me up and he's still

trying to be friends with me. Like you literally living in the household with a person that's literally using you, taking advantage of you. He tried to say that I was using him for his money and things like that. Remind you go back everything that we did since April and it's December. I went Dutch or I paid my half, no matter what. Every trip that we took, I paid for my own flights, I paid for my own food. I paid for my own stuff. Anything that we need,

I pay for my own stuff, no matter what. It was just like I was getting fed up of a lot of ships, like how he was like being so nonchalant over so much stuff without a courtship that we was going through. He wasn't a he and apologize until someone else has said something to him. And it literally made him put himself in my position to realize what how he would have handled it, because he was telling me if it was him on the other foot, he would have just shot her. I said, exactly, But I'm

wrong for beating her ass doing that. She's pregnant. But if I would have had my gun a bit, you be dead. But let's not say that though. But just I just want some anybody, if you would like to hear a part two to get more information, I would definitely send you apart too. This is a lie, and I do apologize, but I just shoot, at this point, I could have just talked to you over the phone so I could just really figure out what's going on

so you can hear the full story. Again, I take accountability for the things that I've done, But when will people take accountability for the things that they do. I'm tired of being treated like bullshit by people like you invited me into this. Both of y'all invited me into this. Y'all knew what was up. Y'all know what goes on. This man fell in love with me, and now you

and your feelings, and it's just like damn. So now I'm just like by myself and I'm just trying to figure out should I should I really leave that friendship completely alone or should I just like handle it from a distance. I just need some help. I just really need some help because again, that was my that was my good, good, good friend. Um, so I just really need some help on that. Now we got a commercial, and if you click off this podcast, I swear I'm

gonna beat your ass. Listen, girl, that's the whole goddamn episode. I can't even fit in another story, but listen, I know you're saying that you only need help on one part. But you shouldn't have told me all that ship because I got something to say about everything. Everything, everything. So you're gonna listen. You already seen pretty smart, You already know exactly you know what you want to do. Okay,

so you stop talking to the friend. Let's start from the fucking beginning, because I got a couple of jokes for you. First of all, you called this nigga a mail guy, as if that's not the same thing. So you basically said this is a man man. All right, Cool, that was just for a little after y'all been best

friends for templus gears. Okay, so you were prone to exactly how he treated women before, you know, since high school, you guys have been knowing each other like you had the best seat in the house to see exactly how he treated women. So if you keep that in the back of your fucking mind, you should totally not be shocked at anything that he does even now to take an accountability for anything that he have me may be contributed to which resulted and you getting you goddamn teeth

knocked out the fuck. He's always been non faithful, He's always had money. So we know guys who have money, they use that. Not all of them, a lot of them use that as power over other people, you know, whether that be women or men, whatever, but mainly women. And that is a woman's weakness. A man with money, I don't give a fuck. Not every woman, but a lot of women, okay, especially these days, a man with money, okay, because everybody's looking to be taken care of instead of

taking care of their motherfucking selves. But you also bought to my attention that he wanted to be more than best friends for a long time, and you kept friends zoning it. And you also told me that you like women. Obviously you're not gay, though you're bisexual, or you wouldn't have been sucking him at any point in time because gay is just gay by you know what that is. Okay, So you were into women, but you were also into

men as well, had to be. So when he got this this girlfriend who deemed it to be okay for the polly relationship, that now was not just a girlfriend and boyfriend, that was girlfriend boyfriend girlfriend. So that was all three of y'all out of nowhere, right, And then you said the first trip to Atlanta. He was being sneaky.

The girlfriend didn't come, and that's because she was pregnant, you know, and just probably didn't want to travel there and have her hormones everywhere or mourning sickness or whatever. But you were upset first red flag. They didn't tell you she was pregnant. I think if this was a polygamous relationship, and y'all are practicing true polygamy, everybody is supposed to know everything. It's just like a regular relationship

with just two people. You have to be honest with your mates or mates in this case, you know every bud. He shouldn't know everything you know, so nobody is shocked or nobody has hurt, or nobody is betrayed or feels betrayed when anything comes out. Okay, you felt betrayed, and you did feel some type of way. You said that you got upset. Why did you get upset if you then turned around and said that you didn't give a fund because you weren't the one pregnant. Was it more

so that they didn't keep it real with you. They kept from you that they were pregnant. Is that why you're upset? Was it upset because you felt like you would now be less interesting to the both of them because they now have a baby on the way, you know, between them too, Like, what exactly frustrated you? Why? I mean, why did you get so upset with that? If it wasn't all about them just keeping it a hunted Let me know, Hey, I'm in this relationship too. Why didn't

I know that she was having a baby. You said Vegas was nice? Then at the gender reveal, you were doing your duties as the second girlfriend, you know, as the other girlfriend. I don't see how the funk if you were so upset about this pregnancy, you still was at the gender reveal doing everything you said. You helped put it up, you helped take it down. Jesus Christ, you involved yourself for a lot. Wait, let's just go

back a little bit. I think that you also involved yourself in this guy's relationships before this one a little too much. You told me that she was going to the doctors with the pitches and ship because he was burning them left and right. You were a way too involved with the girlfriends, way way way way too involved. But that was then. This is now okay, going forward. You said the girlfriend eventually started acting different, out of nowhere. Y'all just kept asking her, what is the problem? Do

you want me to step back? Do you instead of waiting for her to tell you that? I think you just should have. You just should have. You didn't really tell me that he had a lot to say, but from woman to woman, from her to you, I think you should have kind of read the room, because with you telling me this, I even already figured it out. She was upset because she had only did this polygamous relationship for him. She was never into women. I'm gonna tell you that. That's why she had that best friend

come and whoop your ass. Sorry, she did not whoop your way as girl. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. But if you knock a bitch tooth out, that's automatic you won. I don't give a funk what I did to you after you knocked my tooth out. But you'd beat my ass if you knocked my tooth out, because you can go and help from the bruises. I can't help from a missing tooth. Jesus. So, okay, I'm sorry. We're gonna back it up a little bit more. This story is crazy,

all right. She was never into women. She compromised herself for your best friend with the money and the person taking care of her, and the person that was winding and dinning and wooing her. I also think that he may have told her all the feelings that he has had for you, because he's obviously an honest person. He just don't give a funk because he got money. He like I can tell his bitch is the truth and

where they're going nowhere. So I think that he literally may have confessed to her his real love for you and how long that he was probably chasing you, and how you are probably the only woman that understands him because you were his best friend for a long time, and in your story that's what I got. You were maybe the only woman that showed him that you understood him, and you still obliged to even get a three way relationship with him and his girlfriend and be having sex

with both of them. Now understand, when she got pregnant, she started acting different because now I'm pregnant, now, I don't want to bring a baby in the world with a girlfriend and a boyfriend. I was only doing this ship for you, Marquise, I just gave him my name. I was only doing this ship for you, Marquise, but now you're your best friend. Gonna have to stop sucking, and we're gonna have to stop all working together. I

have a baby, I'm pregnant. Now. I want to take our relationship and subtract her and it can just be us and we can finally live a regular relationship life. I think that's what she's always wanted, but she just wasn't truthful enough to say it, and then she probably felt like it wasn't her place to dismiss you, to break up with you. The idea was brought by him, so I think that she had already been telling him how she felt the whole time. He just didn't tell you.

I think he knew that she didn't want polygamy anymore. I think that he just never told you because it's something that he enjoyed. So that's why you and him were still fucking off. He never told you how she felt, but you, in the back of your mind, you knew exactly how she felt because in your story you're telling me, you could have easily guessed this girl was uncomfortable with this ship. Now it's ran its course, it's not fun anymore.

It probably was never fun, but for a man, you tend to do anything to make him happy and to keep him happy so he can keep you happy. Get what I'm saying now. When she called and met up with your ass, and you went, you ran to our rescue because you still just loved her, you know, and or whether you loved he or not, you were still concerned about her because you seem to be a really really good person. You just like what you like, but you seem to be a really genuine person. So you

went to see what was up. You didn't know what she had to talk to you about. I agree that they set you up. She had her best friend come because this nigga never relayed the message to her that he had told you how she felt. He was supposed to tell you. Look, look, look y'all, I think that we just got chilled until she had a baby or we just can't do this ship no more. That was

too much like right. He would have never did that, obviously, and he probably lied to her and told her that he did tell you that, and she just probably think that you didn't give a fuck and you just kept sucking him because obviously, if she had his phone to answer text messages and all that she's been going through the phone and y'all probably was still meeting up and sucking all that type of ship. So she felt like y'all was playing in her face, hence why she said

it t y'all playing in my face. And then da, You're like, how, how? How? When really there was no communication between you two girls. He knows everything, but he's only telling one side to one person. You understand what I'm saying, making you think that she is still sweet, but you knew in the back of your mind it wasn't. So the best friend, not your motherfucking teeth, felt you beat her ass. You gotta restrain a note on the girl and look card he said it best, got a

bag and fixed my teeth. Hope you hold No, it ain't cheap, you tell on you five thousand dollars, dun teeth ain't cheap. Okay, I'm tripping off the fact that you shoved that motherfucker back up in your mother. Girl. You could have sucked up that route. You could have sucked it up they girl, you could have sucked up your gums. You don't be doing that ship. You put it back in your off like it was a piece of track. Girl, what the fuck? Mm hmm. And then

another thing, I'm almost done with you. Another thing you keep saying, Oh, he was my best friend. He's my best friend. He's the one who got me in this. You know what I'm saying, And he's not a taken accountability. I did take accountability, but he's my best friend. I didn't expect this. Listen, the moment y'all started sucking, y'all got into a relationship, whether that be three way, four way, or g one back and forth, whatever, he wasn't your

best friend no more. You don't fuck your best friend. You can suck your best friend, but then y'all are no longer real best friends. You understand what I'm saying. That's hard to do. He fell in love with you, Yes, I believe he's in love with both of y'all. That's why he doesn't want to let you go. That's why he got so angry with you, because the ship ain't working out no more. In his perfect world, he can have both of y'all together. He would probably even marriable

for y'all. But listen, because they have a baby, and because they are still living together, you will never be able to have him without her even as your best friend, because now they have an obligation. They have a child, and they'll probably have more. Who knows. He'll probably even try another polygamy relationship with her because she did it the first time and he enjoyed it so fucking much. It just didn't work out with his best friend. You.

You should have left the friendship alone, and I think you should stay gone. And then you kept saying, oh, she's sneaky and she using him and all of that. But when y'all all three were together, you knew all this because that was your girlfriend too, Okay, So I just think that you did what you were supposed to do. Keep that motherfucking piece order, restraining order, whatever, because you definitely got set up. Keep away from him. I get it.

You're gonna miss him, You're gonna you're you know, you love him, You're concerned, you care about him. Yeah, and I believe that he loves you and he cares about you too. But what y'all went through, it's too damaging to come back from with her. Definitely for her, but also for you too. You understand what I'm saying. I think that's a friendship that YA can maybe revisit later on in life, like later, later later, right now, it's still fucking fresh. All this just happened months ago, baby girl.

I think you need to keep that and they're going on some ice. Even if he does call you feeding with a long hand of spoon, you know, keep your distance. You know, if he just has to be your friend, keep your distance. But I don't think it's it's good that you guys are friends at all, um right now, and then you're gonna say if you want the parts two, it's a motherfucking part two. Yes, please send me the part two, but this is all I got for you right now. Check back in send apart too. And I

talked to your ass next week. Girl. You'd took up all my damn time. And just like that, we come to the end of another Carefully Reckless episode with your girl. Just hilarious. Make sure you watch Reckless Discussions tonight. It airs only on YouTube, and make sure you catch co parents and Therapy. Me and Jerome are setting down with other couples that are trying to co parent effectively with their exes. Tune into Carefully Reckless each and every Wednesday.

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