What Turns You On?

friend Shana. Now listen, this episode is getting towards something that we all love hot and stave me sex. Everybody got their different strokes because it's different strokes with different folks. I'm gonna die right there because y'all know me. I like me some sex. What makes you come out? Hold everybody riding it today ain't ready? What makes you come I'm gonna start while y'all thinking, because I like this.

I like writing dick, honestly, I really do. It's like when you get on top and you just start grinding. It's like a grind motion. Just yeah, it's not I don't really like that. I ain't a bouncing riding a bouncing I'm not really a bouncing that should be hurting a little bit. You know what I'm saying. I like to like find that spine and just grind and grind and then there you go. Bamies. What makes you come? Sina? First of all? She get come? Now? What's little hammy? Yeah?

What makes me? Ya? Oka o? Yeah? Okay, okay, but I'm I like to satisfy. Yeah makes me? Yeah, yeah, that's the satisfying like yeah, okay, be I mean, you know, I like I just be, you know, happy girl, that's away far? What makes you come? Cousin girl after my wine on a Friday night with my toy? Honey, I got you got my business. I gotta get it. I got you because I keep hearing about it's like, I gotta give it. Have you tried the roads road? I got you one? Have you tried? How was it? That's good?

I do like it. It's not nice, but I have another toy. Are you always trying to be fun? One? One? Four? What are you? Girl? What makes you come? What makes you come? I'm sorry? Question man, she's telling me she's coming. Oh yeah, okay, all she gotta say a question for me? Obviously obviously you got different modest, different kids. Women for me like different things for me is going to be that that got four thousand spit dripping dripping down my balls?

You feel me like that ship that's so good, I gotta get wipe my ass. You know what I'm saying, Like that a little too probably you haven't make it to that good good. We know this now, that's what it is. A black black four A right to get him to my assip has to be that wet. All right, We're gonna cut that on keeping anyway, you got my dog? Do you feel that you have to be mentally attracted to a person to have sex with them? Because listen,

let me elaborate. A lot of people can just have sex and be attracted to a person just physically, but honestly, for some people, you have to be in the mood. You have to, like, I have to like really really mentally connect with you. I have to connect with you to just lay down with you. You know what I'm saying. So is does that pertain to everybody? Like? Do you have to have a connection? Okay, so you're not just a you're just busting nuts, busting everything down everybody. But

it's not I'm not ready. Everybody ain't given. How about you, like m No, I don't think so you know, you can just go and yeah, like if that's if that's the vibe though, right, you know, like if it's like we're going into it because we want to hurt, then whatever, Like I don't have to be mentally, but you can't be down and you can't be a claim. So I got I got halfway because you can't be giving like very much because I don't think I gonna think you're

very much. I don't know what the you're gonna be doing in that department. That's so it's like I need, I need for you to add something, a mental advancement somewhere there to the department. Okay, I like that, all right? What stimulates you during sex? What stimulates and listen, I just asked what makes you come? But climaxing and stimulation of two different things, stimulation and sensation that you fail you know. I like being touch personally. Yeah, the touching

is like definitely the big Yeah. I like when you like, oh yeah, I like you don't get kids from my neck, you know, let be something I'm doing time. Yeah. I never heard that out there because I don't want my next made to be big and he can just like on the basics. He could teach you some stuff. Now, I learned yourself because I'm inexperienced with dating. Okay, but you're like you're like, okay, so you like physical touch. Oh yeah, I like to be kids like, oh yeah

I did. Sucking tongues and everything about what about hold up cousin, Hold that cousin chefs kids? He speakins with what stimulates you? I'm like, she, we are growing? What are you talking about? She? No way, you got a grip when she when you know she like being on top? Okay, she sort outside, so you wait, yeah, that's who you are. Yeah. Did you say short man? Excuse me? Excuse me. I'm not a short man. I'm average hypeful man. We were average hypeful man, short complex. That is a typeful man.

I thought it was no, no, no, it's not going to that. No, I'm not. I don't have short man complex. I don't set upset, and you are absolutely upset right now. It's okay whatever I'm saying. And still never told me, let's stimulates yet I told you when and you just said no. I said she because you deeper, Yeah, like you know, like, yeah, she's still not right, not answer the question when she grabbed both my side and oh, man like, oh so you want her to grab yet

I want to grab my right. We get we get it. No, I don't want you know, you don't want her boy free. You don't want her to grab grabs? What do you want? Old ladies asked why he on top of you behind? That's why didn't say that? Yeah? Do you like that now? Like star that's what he said. Yeah, guys like yeah, like that's like things like my nipples playing the nipple thing. That's the big thing. I ain't like nipple. Yeah, like your nipples played with why they got to be an?

Why do you guys? That is weird? It's actually I want my body. I got all this big you want suck on my neck? Please go down? You like, okay, yeah, alright, the bottom of balls. Okay, so you're like right before you get to just the tip of your hands and just rub the bottom. That's interesting. Old I think we need to miss not I that no not no, no, no print not And you say yes, it's not that

part no, because that's what we heard. We heard. Anyway, listen, we're gonna go to scenarios okay, because y'all, motherfucker's nasty. I'm knowing who I'm with now. Alright, cool, you got some hands sometimes some of my women. Everything is perfect. Well, you're gay, but you've been straight before. Every thing is perfect. Go on a date and you're just about to funk this guy right for the first time, and people's draws

down and he is uncircumcised. What is your thoughts? Man, I'm gonna have to gonna see if this thing, Like I don't have to put my hand run a little back of it all and be like, okay, I just want to tack to see if it was thinking if it had lit in there, because if it did, so you can actually put your finger inside there. I mean, I'm sure you can. I don't know, but I've had an uncircumcised person and I'm I'm telling you like, it's like, like, motherfucker,

you gotta pull down. I thought you pull it back, not forward. Yeah, that's what I did. She must have westside the whole, That's what I'm saying. I'm pulling. Oh, you're like, you're just thinking like he was in front of me. Yeah, I can't an uncircumcised dick. I don't know what's up in there, right, I can't get man, since you know you clean that it really right? I don't know, so no, um, I can't so my thoughts with I don't know. I've never smelled an uncircumcised that.

What about you, London? I never ever did that one Either way, I'm not perfect either way. I feel like every man should be uh circumcised. I really do feel that it's that that's not today. But it don't matter. I would never if I was to his mom and baby younger. Blame the mother and the dad. My opinion is every man should be circumcised. I mean I just felt like, yeah, you can find anything but change. It could be anything that's crazy. Because you told him don't circumcise.

My son said change. So I did not, Yes you did. You said you did, but I said, okay. I never said don't put my nephew out there like this. Oh who wasn't definitely said circumcised. Don't remember that that's how he became circumcised. If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back. Next scenario, having sex on your period, nect like you didn't know you was on your period. That's right, that's for me. I'm like, well, like, I've never done that. Have you

dress multiple times? I've never done I'm telling you I have done it multiple times and whatever it was in my younger days. But yeah, that's it. Just takes care everything. No, no, no, it does not listen on your So this is my thing. The first time it happened, he was ready, some somebody was read, somebody was ready, come over. And the thing about it was, I went to the bedfrood before and I saw the blood in my stream and I was like, shoot,

I was just like getting something. I'm telling you. I did not know I was gonna come on, but I didn't tell him not to come. I just act like I didn't know. Yeah, And that's what it was because I wasn't bleeding yet. It was the first deal I haven't, but I did little night and I was like, damn. My ship was said, turning lights one, let's give him mother fucking crime sing girl. But you smell like the smell blood wasn't thanking all blood, which my ship was

not exactly giving very much. My side. My period, Oh we will that period question listen, No way you can speak on it. We get a shower for the tale downside. But yeah, yes, you do like the shower. Why would you bring a tie with a shower? No, no, no, I swear I don't the water dust stuffing to the woman's blood. Like no, what you're thinking about is a tough so that can stop. The water shower is on you, just coming down on you. You're sticking listen. I don't

think you understand. I don't think you understands that told you you know it's crazy though, I run only run red lights with my children. I'm gonna say that either way. You are just like, you're not even gonna know they're gonna be a kids. So the kids so it was after they have children, like I don't do it with not period. Okay, I understand like pray like pray. I'm just like you like she's like, how do you know they're gonna be because I'm a cycle? Huh? Okay, Yeah,

I want to specify which one? You don't know a motherfucking thing about me? So I need you to specify three. Okay, all right, we're good, bro, there we go, brother, good, all right, that was it. We're done with that, all right, said again. Threesome desire. I don't have any desire of having a threesome because I don't. I don't ever want to share anyone. I don't. I've never wanted to have a threesome. I've never been a threesome kind of girl. Yeah, I never we need never. No. I mean I could

watch that R Yeah I watched that. That is I don't think I watched. But I don't want is killing me? Why you had a three? Don't have done anything? I really embraced in a three didn't but I was opposed to. I was there. You never had one? Good bro? Did you ever have? Sure? Okay, alright, cool, great you did I have? But I do not like them? Okay it was for the team. Took one for the team. Yeah,

for the team. But you know I don't made a cut prints off and not hold on, pause, hold on, hold on, not pause because not took one because I don't take ship. So okay, because because I'll see what the y'all day spend this mother, come back right here. Because I never I ain't never been that type guy. But you know what I made. Somebody wanted to fund somebody, and but that person wanted to have a threesome. So I was just like, oh, I just entertain this, but

that's not No, that's not my preference. No, all right, I got you. Listen, ladies, if a man brings to have sex with you, what are your thoughts? Initially he's responsible. Oh that's good. A lot of these guys they want to rawn dug it, expect to get something a lot of women. To a lot of women, that is um insult really, but how would you know that have sex? Though? How diould you know? Yeah, like you're walking to do it, like, hey girl, what's that going? But here's the here's the

trick though, right, there's the trick. You can't buy like a magnum like you know what I mean, you gotta you gotta step out the box of what I'm saying is how you get around a woman being insulted as a male bringing a condom is that you get a particular con sheep skin that nested. People don't know that. Okay, maybe he's allergic to late lam. Let me get you get what I'm saying. So so that could be a reason for her mind because you know, women think of

particular way. You get what I'm saying, So you bring if you bring if you have a brand that maybe she'd have been never heard of research because you know what I'm saying, Like, it's different. Is it like one of those things where who said you was getting something? Huh? You know? But I keep these. I keep these because as a male, your pushback could be I keep these because I'm gonna ergen to latext. I have to have a particular time so instead of missing an opportunity with

with with everybody ain't gonna thank you like that. Yeah, guys are literally like something. It's less likely than a guy would hold up excuse me, a guy would less likely show up with a condom. You know what I'm saying. But there are something that just do and honestly, I'm like, but there are also other perspectives where a woman will feel disrespected. Yeah, like you know what I'm saying, Like, you know, women are like yeah, some women would be like,

damn what you think? I gots like, I don't if we don't want to tell you there are are women out here that thing. Oh yeah, child as women up and they ain't children. I ain't think. I ain't if I bring conom I ain't thinking you don't bring condors. Pause. But I'm not gonna any thinking about safety. I ain't gold you like me personally, like, I'm pretty sure the other men out here don't think about safety. I ain't

be quiet, Prince. I'm pretty sure other men I want to say with him out to say, Okay, honestly, we don't want me thinking about safety. I'm true. I just ain't trying to get another check honestly. So you know when I'm bringing a condo, that's my thing. I'm bringing a condom to protect myself from getting you prayed. All right, listen, question when the last time I burn a condor? When the last time I brought a condom? Yeah, dude, I'm gonna race. I don't need something very safe, and they're

just like that. We're gonna go to confessions anyway. This is when everybody goes around the room and confess something. I tell them to confess. Now this, since we're talking about sex, we'll pertain two sex. Go around the room and admit something most embarrassing about one of your sexual encounters. One time. One time I was extremely, extremely drunk, I was having sex. I thought I had nuts and I had to piss. I couldn't stop. Wait, wait, wait, I

don't even know this is a thing. I've never heard it. Okay, so it's been wait stop, I just had I had to peece so you couldn't stopped paying feeling it's like you who you know what I'm saying? You feel me interesting? The gym for uh? The episode does anybody have any gyms to drop? Do what pleases you? And yeah, get it how you live because that's everybody need there rap smocked up sometimes are you trying to be deep? And he's saying dumb and ship ship anything but no gym. Okay,

I'm gonna drop a gym. Keep some ship to yourself. That's what the gem of the day is, some ship to yourself. But I have as much sex as you want to, food and multiply, and just like that, we ain't worrying about it. No, yes, be safe, be safe, use condoms and that have as much sex as you want to, but also be fruitful and multiply like I'm trying to do it. And just like that. We will be back next week with another Carefully Reckless with my

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