What Department Are You In?

not talking about relationships or anything like that. Oh no, we may get there, we may touch on that, but I wanted to briefly make this episode about things that bothered me in the past week, or you know, things that stuck out to me that I want to, you know, speak on. I think they they're rather debatable and I think you can help me with that. Stay what's up, Shana? What's up? I'm bike with another Carefully Reckless episode. What's your real best friend? Sina? Girl suld not me all.

I just feel like I have to say what I gotta say sometimes, Okay, And there is Shane a girl. All right. So the things that surrounded the baby, you know, all the things that that you know he had said. Um, I don't think he got canceled solely off of what he said. I think it was how he afterwards. Yeah, it was his deflection. It was like, I don't give a fuck. Fuck y'all, like you know what I'm saying, and you can't be canceled type of thing. Yeah, like

he's untouchable type. You know what I'm saying. That's what pretty much drove that ship into the ground for him, you know, because he could have come back from what he said. It was no justifying and he couldn't justify him saying it, but he could have caught it before a catapultic and he was he was. He was unapologetic for days and days after and then you come with this apology that you couldn't back. He took it back. Yeah, yeah, you know, look, that's that's gonna be with you. From

he took a bike. He took a bike, He took a bike. I'm saying, though, Um, if you apologize to somebody and now you know, you feel like you're not so I guess wanted people to be like, you know, all right, we forgive you, all right, now, come on to this festival, come performed for Uce, And I mean, he probably didn't get the reaction that he wanted once, you know, he did give the apology. So if you apologize and somebody don't uh reciprocate it, you're not gonna

take it back. I have, and bitch, yeah I have. You know, I've gotten to gotten into you know, trouble and all of that. So I I am one who I feel I can speak on it because I've gotten canceled by several communities several times. And yes, I apologize, but I feel like you should only apologize when it is sincere, or when you know, if you feel like you really hurt somebody. You know what I'm saying, Like, I don't apologize because it's affecting your money, don't because

then it's not sincere. You know what I'm saying. So honestly, I don't think he should have apologized, you know, because I still haven't listened to the whole thing. I still don't even know what. I don't want to hear it, honestly, Honestly, I was gonna say, I don't want to reply. I don't. Yeah, what do you say? Just for listen? It's like, nah, but I don't know. So if you don't know what he said, then you can't even have an opinion. Excuse me, If you don't know what he said that you can't

have an opinion. Run that, Mike, stop playing with base. But No, seriously, I mean, I don't know what. Look, I don't know right, Like I said, you know too much the council culture and all that. It's a lot. Yeah. Now Nick Cannon had recently just spoke on it, like he said, brother lost his dad, he lost his brother. Now, this guy's been through a lot of trauma, you know. But that that does not warrant you to go around

saying dumbass ship either. You know what I'm saying, because although I do feel for him, he had to tragic losses. You know what I'm saying in his immediate family, his he lost his dad, he lost his brother. I do understand. However, you know what I'm saying. To be I know, you still have to maintain a level of professionalism, yes, you know what I'm saying in class and just respect for other people, you know. And this is why a lot

of people don't feel respected. A lot of communities do not feel respected and they are hard up as well because l g B t Q, I A I it's I A. I didn't know it. You're in the community. How did you not know that? Yeah? You gay? Yeah, remember used to be gay, So I'm educated on the community. Once I got canceled. I went to a couple of

classes and they educated me on each department. So L G B t Q, I A, you got lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans sexual slash transgendered, queer, bi sexual, and asexual bi sexual? What is it? What is it? So? Um? Yeah, because you don't know either, I do know? Say it early independent? So oh so I got an independent department? Yeah? So are is that independent? Sexuals? Independent? Independent? What's the independent sexuals? Ye? So which one are you? In China? You are l energy?

What's what's lesbian? And gay? And which one are you t? And uh excuse me? See that swit that's what got that boy called that one day. See y'all get disrespectful and then what y'all wanna do is y'all want to throw stones and that hide your motherfucking hands. And that's what happened. When I jumped in that motherfucking niggas comments and was like, oh yeah, you f he was like, hol up, you was out of line, and what about this?

Didn't y'all think that y'all can come at me? I think y'all can come at any fucking body in the world. And then soon did somebody come back on your motherfucking a'sss like, oh yeah, because you gave you this and you that. They're like, oh, oh now I got what. I gotta be straight? Oh why I gotta be a trainy? Why because you look like you fucking bitch? I swear

that's that's what CE see, you gay ass bitch. But what about the time when you got Oh I was devastated when you got canceled that time because you didn't like the gaze and and I was like, this, bitch, don't like me? Are you serious? I was. You don't know what. I couldn't believe you were blown away. You don't even talk like that. But first of all, no,

we you're gonna come up with my motherfucker show. You're sitting at my motherfucking condo looking get this, got this beautiful fucking view, and you look here and say, I look like a fucking man. You know, I know the funk. I don't bitch, yea, I look like my mom. I look like my fucking mom. My mom looked like a man. No'm trying to put me anyway, Ye, so enlighten us on who you used to be. Excuse me, No, I'm nobody. I'm nobody. Baby, who are you who you used to be?

Because I told him it's week who you were in? Yeah, you used to I used to be interested. So I'm not even gonna say I used to be gay. It was I went to a bisexual stage. Um, you you were bisexual before as well. We talk about you know, we're talking about you since you want to be sitting on my couch looking out the windows, since you always want to say something, you keep talking about something that

you know nothing about. So yeah, I just want to know why everything is so sensitive these days when it comes to LGBT. Look, you don't keep pointing us out. When it comes to being straight, ship, you'll keep saying stop saying my let us say yours? R A spell it? How would you know you're gay? You know what? Well,

I don't know why everything is so sensitive? And you know what, like our banter that we just had, some people are going to cringe at that, but you think so of course why because everything is under a microscope, Everything is magnified and everything gets sensitive. But that's why I'm glad that we can do this, you know, you being a representative to know that we play oh oh my,

all we do is. I really feel like the Internet gave everyone an opportunity to have a voice and still hide behind a profile we don't know who like, like, for instance, trolls have never been bullying has never been at an all time high like it is now today. Like people people confuse freedom of speech with being disrespectful

when just saying anything just social media. Social media is a social media, but social media was not, like it gave everyone a platform everyone before, you know, it was just celebrities that really had a platform, and you couldn't even you could even touch you know what I mean, reach out to them like that. Now everybody may bit everybody and then they will respond because certain triggers, Like

triggers have become bigger than they used to. I remember when like everybody, like like you said, celebrities were hard

to even get in touch with. Like it's listen, everybody is getting a platform, and it's it's like you can become famous from falling, tripping and falling if you if you're tripping fall a certain way like the way he tripped and everybody, everybody, people are breaking their bones, busting their ankles up and everything just trying to trip and fall like the first guy didn't remember when you bust your ankle up. Excuse me, listen like the guy. Remember a video went viral of the of the kids singing

to the girl. Go to Marcus. Marcus, Yes, you remember that he now has a documentary off of singing. I swear it was a joke. I thought it was a joke, and I think that he really thought, Oh no, oh no, that's really he is goddamn documentary off of dancing and kissing on the girl ship. Let me get out here, That's what I'm saying. I'm about to go and trip and falling the middle of the street and see how

many people I'm gonna watching from here. But seriously, anybody has made famous now, and I feel like everybody feels like they have a voice, which is not all bad head but at the same time, it's not all good. It's like a gift and occurs. So I think that's why you know, everything is so sensitive. Going back to LGBT, I think, lordy, I had something I wanted to briefly fucking such your own beach beach. So I feel strongly that you don't have a right to feldal type of

way about the LGBT yes, I did. I feel that I can have I have an opinion about this. Now, when you attack one of them, the rest of them feel like you're attacking all of them. And it doesn't matter if they attack you first or not. You have a whole community coming at you by the end of the fight. You know what I'm saying, because I get that. I get that, But the straits are not coming out. The would work like if somebody smack a straight bit in my face. You think I'm gonna be like, oh,

you must not like straight people. No, smock that bit. She must have did something to get smile. And that's what it is. You know what. I'm gonna mind my fucking business, you know what I mean. Like, I'm not gonna ride for your straits. I mean, if need be, I'm writing for my gaze and I get it. What's up? You'll listen. If I get into it with you, my gage is gonna get you. Period. That's horrible. What if you started gonna get you? What if you started it?

I don't start stuff. We're innocent. We don't start start Like I told you, the the guys that I look like a training and no, no, no, he didn't even say, I looked like when he called me one, alright, and I'm a fucking f word fucking you know, I'm saying fiels naive, I straight said it all caps heavy on it, and everybody was like, oh, this side of this bitch feel about us. No, that's how I feel about that funk boy who called me out my fucking name. It's

like a person period. You call me on my name, like yeah, and if you're and if you tried your best to hurt me, I'm gonna try my best to hurt you. That's just like human nature. It's in our nature to do that, you know. And even if he wasn't gay and it was a straight guy, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, if he was, yeah, it's straight. She said that I didn't your ship part of your community. I didn't say it, So don't even try to cancel me again. It's just real sensitive these days and I

don't get it. Yeah, you know, it's so much comedy out there. Um. Back in the day, they used to talk about people in wheelchairs on crutches, everything, gay, straight, they crazy, everything, HIV like, yo, you had likes and we would crack. I had some of the most notorious comedians talking and speaking on anything. And that's when comedy was. When comedy is for though, to make light of situations that yeah, you know, but now yeah it's different. You

can't say, Wade, why you can't say anything? How did it happened? The Internet? People platforms, people on social media that like everybody feels entited, everybody feels like they can say whatever they want. You know. Two people like like people are too comfortable even speaking on people's children these days, like how these celebrities raised their kids and how you know what I'm saying, Like, damn, at one point children

were off limits. Now that's one thing that comedians never really touched on, was other people's children, you understand what I'm saying, Like, But nowadays you've got fucking people saying shit about even people's kids. Like even like, for instance, when Blue Ivy was like smaller, that ship was fucked up, Like how they was talking about that little girl like she wasn't gonna see this ship one day? Or you know what I'm saying, What was that? I think that

was one or six in part. I think Kruci was on one or six in Park and she had read the teleprompter and it was something about Blue Ivy's hair being nappy or some ship. Yes, and remember like they canceled the funk out of that girl. But she only read what she said like she read it, and they don't go over that ship all the time. You know what I'm saying. Before you think she would have liked said that ship, she wouldn't have said that. She made

that ship clear. I did not say that. That was not me, like, that was the teleprompter I was reading. And you can tell her face was like after she read it, she was like and they cut the fucking commercial. I was like, oh, funck no, she can't even take that back. Very fucked up. I know somebody got big fired that day. So you have to know how to

respect every community. Every community deserves respect. I'm talking about gaze, I'm talking about this able, I'm talking about straights, I'm talking about racist, I'm talking about everybody has to respect. There has to be a level of respect. You know what I'm saying. I've never disliked gays, or I wouldn't been you know what I'm saying. And with me, if you felt like that, back your your you know your sexuality wouldn't you know what I mean? But I mean

our sexually. I'm not gay, and I stopped being gay because you're always trying to fight some fucking body. Hold up, hold up, I know the ship getting good. But listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen something else that really really bothered me. Okay, So I woke up the other day and I checked my d M. S Now, I have a hippodrome. I have a show. I have a hippodrome. Now I have a theater show in my city. November

twenty six, November Drome, Baltimore, Hurt. Yes, Um, it's gonna be a sould. I'll show my my city. Always ride for me. It's gonna be crazy. November twenty six, Hippodrome. Like I said, now, that's a that's a theater in Baltimore City. Now listen, come see us. Excuse me now. Tickets are already um on Ticketmaster or a Juicilary's official dot com to get your tickets now. Look, I opened up my damn and somebody that I know, you know, he's somebody locally as well. Uh and and he's cool.

You know what I'm saying now this nigga asked me, Hey, when is your next show? It's November twenty six, Hippodrome. Alright, cool, get me some good seats and just send me um, send me the envoys or whatever, like I'll just give you the money skills like scilled. I don't do that ship anymore. Like I don't have to do that like I'm not up and coming anymore. I'm very well established, very hard. But I remember, I remember when you used to sell tickets off your back pocket. Absolutely like an

away from us, begging us about the tickets. No you please, these tickets from me. No girl, watch out, nobody want the tickets. This girl would not. She would not leave us alone, not us. I was right there with a yeah, you got my good lord, keep on putting the ticket in your face. Y'all want these no, yes, so tickets at every mall. I would go to security tows in East Point. What nobody even out Point. I was just catching the stragglers walking out the bed through Honey. I

didn't care. I was trying to move my tickets. I was just trying to because I've seen the greater vision for it. I've seen where I would be today. And I even seen further than this right now, you know what I mean. So I knew working hard, you know what I mean, Like what I would go to schools, get trying to get teachers to buy tickets. I'm talking about like everybody in the gym. In the gym, I asked you to take some of the work. I take

some of the work. One of them I'm trying to sell him some mom's daycare kids parents Like I'm like, nah, nah yo. Remember that one show when it was just me and bitch. It was never just me and you in the show. It was like five other people. But for you remember that it was what's that the first show? It it was I I remember I had like eleven people in the show. I'm gonna post that picture, y'all. Check my page. It was me and her in the middle of the floor, like five people in the background.

Check my inster story. Shortly, I've come a long way. I have. But the going back to what we was talking about, I work hard to get to where I am, and I just feel disrespected when somebody says ship like that. You know what I'm saying. Like, for instance, I was in Cleveland not too long Ago. Um. And you know another you know celebrity from our city, Chino Braxton. You know, he's famous for riding the dirt bikes and you know he's also a part of Dream Chasers with Meek Mill

and what have you. And he also starred in charm City Kings. Um, so big ups bought them more Celebritie. That's my guys. He's cool now. Listen. He was in Cleveland the same time I was in Cleveland. I was at the Improv. I had about six shows that I did, and he hit me up and he was like, yo, I know you should have sold out. I'll still pay you extra for the tickets because there are no tickets left online. I got like eleven people with me, and

he was serious. You know what I'm saying, Like, Yo, he he would have bought them, but I can tell that he went to the website because he said there were no meant there were no more tickets online. That's different. And then he wasn't trying to just get in for free. You know what I'm saying. He knows what support is, he knows what that ship is. So he just was like, all right, y'all, you know what I'm saying he came, he gave me feedback, his people who laughing, enjoyed themselves,

and he had he was having a party. He in return, he invited me to his party. I could have bought a section if I had my son, though I didn't go because I had my son, but told me I would have went. Excuse me if I didn't have ash with me, I would have bought a section, got a bottle. You know, I wouldn't want him to, you know what I'm saying, Because that's money in his pocket, like he putting money in your pocket, you know what I'm saying. Like and not saying that the guy in the d

M didn't want to put money in my pocket. But you're not gonna tell me. Yo, give me some good seats and not just it's not the long time ago. Yeah, they're not the long long time ago days. No, it's not. These are the right nowadays. And online, yes, go online, find your own fucking tickets, find your own seat. Yes.

And like I said, would you if you wanted to see Megda Stallion the Baby or Yalanda Adams if you into that, would would you jump in one of their d M s and be like Hey, Yo, what's up Landa? Let me uh, let me get the two seats in the front. I was just cash app you this bread. I would excuse me, you would Yeah? What what would you want to go see l John? You want to go see Elton John? Sure? Why not? Would you you want to go? Saying no because he's gay? Oh? Yeah,

what's up? No? So yeah you want to go see You want to go to a gay concert? That's what you wanna do? You want to go see Santanny? You want to go see Bobby Lights? Sure? You want to go see Littna. Sure you wanna go see Queenless? Absolutely everybody? Bread? What was he like? Not getting no more? Because she m wried to a man. But yeah, you could just switch over. That's what I did and I'm not switching back. So yeah, um now I got that chess. Because once you get you always and tell me I look like

a man. Huh, once you get you always gay. I'm not always gay And that's not even true. That's that's not true. So if um, if a man was gay, can you go bag straight? No? Why because that's it wasn't because it was in the well, I'm listening realistically, I just don't feel I don't know. I don't feel like a man can go by. I don't know. It's a double standard there, I know. Do you feel that way, honey, it's not about me. Yeah, so the question already did answer.

I don't think a man can just go from being gay to being straight. I do think women listen, well, let's just talk about this. I feel like women they play around with it a lot. I feel like women they play a little bit more than than men with that ship. If a man wants to be gay, nigger, nigga gonna be gay period, women that they didn't come up and they don't take that ship serious. That's why a lot of them was say, I'm not gay on by, but you you just having fun with women? First of all,

don't play with my sexuality. Don't don't play like I mean, don't play you pick a side. You know what I'm saying, Like no, because then you know what, I'm leaving this ship alone. I don't know, because I can't even been I I just I don't know. I feel I feel strongly about that, like women playing around with it, like even me, Like I was playing around with that ship, like I was attracted to one person, and like, even

since it is day, I will look at women. I love women, but I know I can never be with one, and I don't have a desire to have sex with women. But I love looking at him. I can touch you, feel you all day, but I am not I know I'm not gonna I don't see myself with a woman and I don't want to have sex with women. All right, let me look this up. Let's see what your sexuality is. I am very straight. Let me looking up real quick

while she's looking at being a clown. Like I said, I love women, but I could never fall in love with a woman. I could never be with a woman and I could never have sex with a woman again, like I've had it before. To try it, Okay, so if you don't try it sexual, I'm a paying sexual. And what in the definition of that is Webster? Webster, what is it sexual? Romantic or emotional attraction towards people regardless of their sex or gender identity. That's you, that's

not that's not me. Because I love men. Okay, you can love them, but you also have an emotional attraction towards females. Yeah, but I can never be so um we want, but pain is not a part of l g B t q I A or unless it's l g B t q I A P, but it's we'll just put the p up in the baby at the fift we got one. Come on, you ain't ship anyway. I have other things I would like to talk about, but I think you should talk about them when on your own podcast. Thank you. Just like that, we're at

the end. I think you should contact Charlemaine and you should. You know, I can put you in the room with one of them and you can ask them if you can have your own podcast. Absolutely, come on here every week talking ship like a man. And that's just what it's given. Huh, that's just what it's given. You heard what I say, and then now you can go back to work, take your ass back to work and do what you do. I'm about to go get my son. Uh yeah, and you don't have a son, so listen,

I have a son. Said that out some was I was like, they messed up the whole Yeah, no, listen, she messed up the rhyme. I got her like, yeah, we we planned to do a wild style together and this dumbass go ahead, say you have a son? And don't she look like a man to me? It was like I fell out. I was like, not how it was supposed to. We post know what she looked like you She was like, oh my god, I messed it up. I'm like, oh lord, and like I ran with that. Yeah.

I was like, shot, just take it easy on it, like you can't wait for her to mess up. You look like, yeah, but she messed up. He was like, oh yeah, I'm about to get him and he us like, what you say back? I forgot but I told that. Yeah. This was before she stole that book. This was before Oh my god, I just said that. I ain't say that to be I don't know white kids. She stored, say no, that's my girl. We can still listen, y'all. We've come to the end. We're gonna wrap this up.

I know y'all love my best friend because I love her too, But y'all can't have her or you shall die. So tune in next week. She may be here, she may not, She said, I don't know. I don't know if I want to come back for real, because you've been treating me terrible. I definitely don't want you to come back if I'm gonna be looking like I'm coming back like that, I'm coming back, So you don't want me. I'm back, I'm gonna I say, I want you to come back? Then what all right, y'all, we're about to

wrap this thing up. Thank you for tuning in and soon and then my deepest excuse me, that's not your line. Yeah, I'm just putting a mess in my podcast. It's real from us. Next week, you'll ain't no fucking us bid Yo, I'm coming back. You're not coming back. Yeah, I'm gonna come back with London, you clown, because you want excuse me, London, what about my cousin, clown, that's my fucking cousin. And there will be no London slander tolerated. Now, when she's

stepping the building, yeah, that's a big one. When she stopping up building, you're gonna be you're gonna be saying all that. Oh boy, my cousin is not both head, both of you all bitch. That is enough. And you're fucking gay? Now what again? Yeah? Yeah you like girls? Yeah that's dirty. Yeah. I didn't he teach you not to do that. Nope, nobody told me not to do that. Actually, all right, nobody said me how to be baldhead? Bit

you think I wanted to be bald? Stupid? Think I don't want to Hey in the front in the size and the back ship in the middle. Don't bitch, I got coming in the front. Don't play with me, all right anyway? So what all right, y'all. We'll be back next week, y'all. We're just gonna end it just like that, because you know we'll be doing what we'll be doing. We'd be living how we'd be living, and time out. So look, stay by. I can't say I got to get back to work. Yeah, she got to get back

to work. I saw her to come on her break and she did. She got nine to five. And we know, y'all, so yeah, yeah, and you talk about file you don't like people with the five, she said, she don't. I thought he's better than that, but you're not. Damn Yeah, you're nine of five. Gay. It's a lot of ship wrong with that. So By, we'll be back next week. Maybe we will, maybe we won't. We'll see, because we

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