Were You Born Like That?

is overweight. I'm just gonna say it. I'm not gonna say her name because I don't want people to further bully her, because I know the internet is very cruel. The world we live in today is cruel as fun, right, But I see it, and I have a concern. Okay, Now she's not even six yet, but she is big, like she's fat, she's like obese for her age, you

understand what I'm saying. And her parents dresser in all types of nice clothes and and she's she's very cute, cute, little chubby cheek little baby right now, and I love it. I go through the comments because that's just what we do, we knows. I know I'm gonna see some disrespectful ship under this baby picture, you know what I mean. But it wasn't So I can tell her parents or whoever

runs the page. They do good with filtering out negative comments, right, So I come to this one and I see this may have been like an avid follower of them like this. This is a like a genuine fan of this baby, right, and she keeps up with the page because she called the girl her niece. Now, you know, when there are internet babies, we adopt them, like I've adopted so many Internet kids, like, um, I don't know if y'all are familiar with like Byron Baxter, but I love the Baxter family.

Like that's like my little nephew. I've adopted him from the internet, right, so I call him nephew. Now, people do this ship all over the world, So understand this

lady was not even being negative. She said something along the lines of can we stop dress saying my niece and these tight clothes if you know she's already like you know, a little big and it's not okay, y'all need to get her in like some type of physical activity or something to run off you know a lot of the pounds and ship like that you know, but it was and it was that's not verbatim, but it was more of a concern than an insult. You understand,

like she wasn't bullying this girl, right. The fucking parent comment it back. It was like, bitch, do I tell you how to raise your kids? And this is a fucking child and y'all need to mind your fucking business and all of that. And for me, I had to stop myself because I was really about to comment to the mom, like this is a fucking concern. Do you not look at your daughter and see that there is something wrong? Like do you feel like there is nothing

wrong with her weight? That ship really hurt my feelings to see, like what she's gonna have to go through in school because she has to go to school, what she's gonna have to go through in her future life if they don't change it right now, there's no fucking reason that she should be fucking She looks like she's about what sixty five seventy pounds and she's fucking five.

You understand what I'm saying. And then I go further do more research, and I see her parents and they the most too fit motherfucker's I've ever seen how it's the mom my size I'm talking about fit, look like she running twelve miles a day. And the dad he's nice, nice and bill you know what I'm saying, like, hey, don't hand, no muscles or nothing, but he ain't walking around all that and ship and I think that's very unfair. That's very fucking unfair. So that brings me to carefully

reckless discussion. Now, look, that was the end of story time. I have a guest here with me today, my sister bar Schet say what's up? What's up, y'all, what's going on? I'm head on carefully reckless with the one y'all love just hilarious. Yeah, look, y'all, ain't gonna look now. She usually be like yo yo with a holes that. I don't know why she didn't say that because I was like, no, she she alsoft spoken and cute. Now I'm not gonna edit it out saying yo yo with a holes that?

All right? Cool? Now, listen, I know that you've been on your weight lost journey. You know, for a while you were trying to lose weight. For a while, he felt like he wasn't doing it. But what helped you lose your weight. Well, it all started when you fired me and I couldn't afford to buy food anymore, so I just started losing weight. This is not You're funny. Should not identified her, y'all. I just in case y'all forgot who well she was. That's my sister who told

you that I had surgery and Ship nine next. So to do that dumb as ship and y'all wouldn't never known of Shane stay Ship. But now yeah I did so yeah now, but you look good and you look good too, now, but how you lose weight? So it was actually a mistake. Well, I'm not gonna say losing weight was a mistake. Um, I decided to go green for thirty days. Yeah, I went green for thirty days and I lost nineteen pounds in that thirty days. Damn okay.

And I was just like, oh, Ship, now explain going green because you know a lot of people like, what's that? Like you smoke weed light? Yeah, definitely not that. You never have never, So going green for me, I ate a lot of greenery. I eat a lot of salads, I ate a lot of green vegetables. I did a lot of smoothies and juices like cold pressed juices, like stuff that didn't have a whole lot of sugar in it, but basically just going green, eating a whole bunch of green,

leafy stuff. Yeah, I did that for thirty days, lost than eineteen pounds. Boom was like, all right, let me go, try to put some chicken up on the salad. Try to put some the rotissary chicken from Sam's Club. I know y'all know about that would be so good you used to be. I don't know what this like anymore. But I put some of that on my salad and it made me sick instantly, and that thirty days, my

body detoxed itself from meat. Okay. Then I ended up becoming a vegetarian because it was out of my system for that thirty days, and my body just rejected. You wasn't even trying to become age. So that's why you said it was by mistake. Yeah, okay, okay, so you never told me that. You did tell me that you did that thirty days ship, but I didn't know. I just thought you didn't want to eat meat no more. You just literally that was just supposed to be like

a cleanse, And yeah, it was a soule mistake. My body was like, oh, like what is that? And honestly, that thirty days it got rid of so many impurities in my body. I felt good, like my knees felt better, like my my skin got clear, like I felt more well rested, just everything. It gave you a burst of energy as well. It gave me a big burst energy. And the thing about like meat and ship. Okay, so guys, I don't know if I told y'all a lot of y'all see if y'all are avident hilarious watches that I'm

trying to um cross over to vegan. But I'm still like pest catarian because you know, I still want that source of protein, which I know you can get other places. And you know, I know you you don't have to eat meat to get your protein. You know what he said, You can definitely get it from a nut. Yeah, alright, bitch, Well I want the salmon protein, Okay, pes catarian is um just seafood. But I eventually will be vegan. That is my goal to be vegan, because I want to

get rid of dairy. I want to get rid of fish eventually and all that. But I stopped eating read meat about six months ago. So I haven't had steak, I haven't had burgers and yup, six months ago. No lamb Actually lamb is not a cow, but it's close enough. And I ain't been eating that even Yeah it's yeah it red meat, so no red meat. Um, and I eat chicken from time to time. Is as long as it's bait, I eat it from time to time. Remember,

I couldn't live with our wings. But you gotta think about it because meat and so many hormones, and like you you get all of that ship and just like you know how we have different mood swings, we have like humans have diseases. It's all types of like all types of imperance is already in our body. That ship happens in animals too, So you're eating all the stress from a cow that probably like you know what I'm saying,

like all the different things that they go through. We don't understand that we're eating that ship like pigs, chicken, like all that ship go they go through shipped too. We are eating their stress, We're eating their hormones, all the issues that they're going through, like animals get stressed up. You honestly don't know what they're being fed exactly. So all of that stuff that the people that are I

don't even know, not a breed in them. But yeah, you know what I mean that are maintaining or raising these animals. You don't know what diet their fee exactly. And although the packs of meat say grass fed and all that ship organic, you do not know. So that's why you have to be careful when you're eating these things.

And listen. Like back to the little girl that I was mentioned in the story time, I feel like if they just change her diet and put her in something physical for sure, but you're diet and things that you eat like you're eating habits, Yo, she can really lose

that weight right now. Why she's still so young? First of all, how the fund did it all get on her because they got baby pictures where she was smaller, like that ship didn't happen, Like, oh, she got big people in our family and should we just naturally big? Hell no? Uh So they need to change her diet had I mean like her dietary right now, Like they need to change her eating habits because she has a

YouTube channel where they have her doing munk bangs. Now listen a munk bang is where like you're sitting you eat all you can eat, like you just eat food. People do that ship for money, and I know that her parents are getting a nice check and she's gonna be a rich little baby. But she if she makes it, she's gonna be a rich, unhealthy child. Not you know, not trying to be ignorant anything. You know, that's that's serious,

that's that's not no, We're not trying to be ignorant. Yes, diabetes as a child, you know, And and it happens, like what the funk? You know what I'm saying, Like, so we need to change that ship. And then I know when she goes to the doctors because they keep her upright, and I'm not saying they don't love her. They love her. I know she goes to the doctors, and what the funk are the doctors saying? Because I know that they have like being my charts, So like

what the funk? Like, I know that her doctors are concerned. We're concerned, you know what I'm saying. It's not even bullying. It's not good to normalize or be city, especially not a goddamn children. It really is not. But honestly, I feel like, I mean, granted this, this little girl is clearly obese, but I feel like those being my charts,

they need new charts altogether. For those who don't know what being my is is the body mass index and this these are the charts that were created by Europeans.

I feel like they are created by Europeans for Europeans, and you know, they go by your height, and they feel like if you're a certain height you need to be this week, I'm five ten and at five ten, standing five ten, they feel like I'm supposed to be like between a hundred thirty and a hundred forty pounds, I'm gonna look sick, very skinny, will be sticking out like I'm not. I'm not trying to look like that. I don't want to look like that. I feel like

they should change the charts. I feel like they should have being my chart for European people. I feel like they should have a be in my chart for Asian people. And I feel like they should have a being my chart for African Americans and all other you know, you know, every other race. You guys get where I'm going with it, yeah, for sure, because you know, different races of people are

built like different ways. You know what I'm saying. White people are naturally thinner like they they're born like straight up and down like the Washballs, you know, like the Iron Boys and ship like not not. You know, that's why all I'm getting surgery, you know, but I'm sorry, Um, it is what it is. And then you know, Black people were born thicker, you know, curvier. You know, all of us aren't born you know what. We come in

different sizes and shapes and forms. Every race does, but typically you know, we're born with Black people call it. We were born big boned. Hey, y'are not everybody y'all, you know, we're just naturally curvyer though, you know what I'm saying, Like we you know. And then Asians they're born short and you know, boxy a little bit. I'm nut the rice like a box of rice. You said, like a box of rice a yo. My sister said, I didn't say this because I have an Asian fan base.

The Asian roommate. Yeah, oh yeah, su yeah, yeah, she had an Asian roommate so you can talk about them. Yeah she yeah, she was like an African Asian, African American Asian that bitch was not Asian at all. She would be like, share, what the funk you're doing in my bitch. I'd be like, oh, okay, but they're born you know, each race is born different. You know that they have their own like fucking body man. So yeah, I think you are definitely right. You're definitely getting that

something there. If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and then we'll be right back. I just really would love for us to stop normalizing, you know, obesity. Let's take it the big pun. He died from a heart attack. He was huge, you know what I'm saying. He died from that. That's the three reality of it. That's like the end all be all. You can lose your fucking life, all that fat built up around your

fucking heart, your clogged arteries. Yeah it's not then it's wearing tear on your knees, it can stop limbs from working. It's bad, you know. So that's why I really want them to see what we see when they look at their daughter enough to help her not to you know what I'm saying, Like, because you can't beat you can't beat the world. You know what I'm saying, They need to change yourself. They need to take their daughter to my doctor because my doctor. I felt like my doctor

hit me on scared streak. I went in there, understand. They said, you're morbidly obese, and I'm like morbid. When I hear morbid, I think of death. So that right there was enough to scare me because I'm just like, damn, I was two hundred and sixty pounds. I just didn't even notice that, Yeah, because I was told so. Like when I look back at pictures, I was like, damn, I like a teletubbi in this bit like, but when I look back, I'm just like, damn. I never want

to be that again. But honestly, it was what the doctor said to me that made me want to lose the weight. Or maybe not really, I ain't gonna say want to lose it, but get more serious about what I was eating. Because I was on the seafood diet. I said I eat it. I said, I eat it. And then when I was on a roll with you, you eat, you eat every fucking thing. But then you had that high as well. Yeah back then, and then

you had the highest metabolity. I'm not built, and yeah, I was trying to gain remembering that I was trying to gain it and I couldn't gain the ship. Yeah, all these fucking chefs coming preparing all this good good, all its fatty ship that is going in you and just being burned up and going in me and just sitting on me. And that goes to what you're saying, Like you're saying, every race is different, but everybody is

different as well. So you know, you can go to a buffet and eat tons of food and literally gain one pound. I can go to a buffet, I can eat the same amount of food that you've eaten, and I can literally be sitting there ten pounds and on week and it just sits on me. It disperses throughout my body differently, and it sits and it sticks, and those fat cells is just it disperses differently, and my body is not burned it the way that your body or the way that someone else's body is burning it.

And obviously with this with this baby girl, it's not burning at all. Well, we don't even know what the funk they're doing to help her burn it. Maybe they ain't doing ship, you know what I'm saying. What I'm saying, And she's so young, so babies have energy, like she got probably more energy than me and you, so it'll be enough. It will be easier for her to lose that ship right now, you know what I mean? Like I just think it does it will Like if that's

not it's not good. And it bothers me that her mom is so defensive to concerns already stopped posting it in but that's how she made the money. She's animated beautiful little girl like as a nice, great personality. She's so cute. But it's like, I just I really would love to like even with Lizzo, you feel me, Like when she first came out, I got you know, you know the fat people they canceled me because they said

I was fat. No, it's a difference between fat shaming and being concerned and and just you know what I'm saying, Like the lady on Good Morning America had said something and they fucking fired her. I think they if I'm not mistaking somebody and said something about Lizzle, Like, but why are we applauding her being fat? Doesn't she like she isn't she more prone to like diseases where she can die she can die from or than you know what I'm saying, all of that ship and they fired

that lady. You know what I'm saying, because also she was white too, so it's like, oh, you're picking on her and she black and you white. Oh you gotta go. But no, if you really look at what the funk she was saying, she wasn't coming at her, she wasn't bullying her. She was saying what the funk needed to be saiding this to truth. And Lizzo has been losing weight, which is great, but when she first came out, you know, she she was just like I'm comfortable on my skin

and out, you know what I'm saying. Like, I mean, Shorty had got upset with me to the point where I jumped to her DM and I did apologize to her, and she ain't saying that like she was being smart and ship, and I was like, all right, bitch, I'm only fucking apologizing because I don't want you to feel like I hate all fucking fatties. You know what I'm saying. I don't hate fat people. You know, I love fat people that they're comfortable, you can you know, they're warm,

you know, you can lay on them. All that type of ship cancelation number sixteen coming. But at the same time, you know you can do ship with them that you can't do with skinny people, you know, and you know they block you good all types of ship, you know. So I know I'm jump joking, y'all. No, y'all know the scaly, reckless but not real ship. I felt like that lady was fired for no reason that she could have issued an apology. But then what am I apologizing for?

I met? What the funk? I said, I'm more concerned about this singer. Then it seems like like y'all are fucking just scared to say anything because everything is so sensitive. Now. No, no, it's not healthy to be fat at anything about being cute. It's just about being healthy. It's not healthy to be obese. Okay, fat a all right, all right now, but obese and she knows that as well. That's why the she losing that weight. You know, some people actually can't help it.

Some some people actually it's just genetic. They can't help it. But other people, like like baby girl, obviously it's not genetic if you look at her parents, right, so that if it was genetic, I do understand, like noting Professor even though that's fake, all of them bigger ship, you know what I'm saying, But it's real life families like that. Yo. I know my son's over and looking so cringe e like, yo, you are, oh my god. No real ship though, for real,

for real all right. And then lastly, what I'm gonna saying before we get the funk ab out there, my six hundred pound life, y'all need to watch that show. That doctor on there, yo, he the most realist doctor ever. Now he'd be making the motherfucker's lose that weight. Like, listen, it's said, it's said, but it's needed. People on their being washed with sticks with sponges on the end. That's crazy that show. I watched it one time and I'm not a TV watcher, but I watched it once and

I was just like, this ship is sickening. I can't watch this. Yeah, you have to have a strong stomach. Yeah, that show is not for the week speaking up stomachs. Yeah, And it's fucking crazy. And like the doctors say on the show, he'll asked him, how did you let yourself get this big? Like I really want to know. I'm not making fun of you. How the fund did you let yourself get this big, like you know, and they tell him or whatever, and a lot of you know,

most of the people, it's not genetics. They literally eat their way out their house. They eat, they eat. They they have enablers around them, like the doctor be getting made with the family too, Like, yo, what do you mean y'all buy her sixteen pieces a day? Oh? Because she gets mad at us and she yo he he literally looked at one lady and she was like, I didn't eat today. They didn't feed me today because he instructed them. Like no, she gets small proportions of meals.

She's only getting three meals a day. No, it's no way to just lead pupposed to be eating sixteen times today. This was a real episode, I'm telling you. And um, the lady got upset with her. But know what, you're gonna get up, sit on me, beat me up. You can't even get up. That's the fucking problem, you understand. So where did you find that? That's funny? Yo? So not the fat part funny, but the die. So the lady got there, you know, they got to see him

every couple of weeks or whatever. So she got there and her her sister was there with her and she was mad. So he was like, why are you angry today? And she was like, because she didn't let me eat. She didn't let me eat, and I feel like this is bad and and this selfish. I would never deprive anybody and food. They were white. Yo. She was like yo. The doctor looked right in her face and was like, you think that you honestly can't miss a mill. You can miss a couple more. You don't have to eat

for a couple of weeks and you'll be fine. I was like exactly. She cried right there, and he was like, you want change, but you don't want to change yourself. You don't want to work for the change. You want to be this big for the rest of your life. She's like, no, but not eating. It's not gonna change anything. You said, it's gonna change everything because my six hund pound life. They have to have surgery, but they have to lose a certain amount of weight before they're able

to get the surgery. That's where it goes back to the B and I. You have to be a certain being I to even get on the table unless it's an emergency surgery. Yeah, yeah, no, for sure. For sure, No, seriously, they They even fucking do that ship for the surgery that I got. They do that ship for bbls. Like if you're too big, they'll make you come down, lose pounds and ship and then make sure your heart rate is good and then they'll do the ship on you.

And then you know another thing, even if you get surgeon. Let y'all know that ship. Even if you get surgery, you can still go back to how the fuck you were if you don't maintain. If you don't maintain it, that's why a lot of girls go back for their third and fourth and fifth time. Like Cardi said it, No bitch, I'm too lazy to getting the gym. I'm gonna have a light pole at that this baby after the next baby in the head cat light pole at the culture was born. I don't give a funk I

am like some people are just there. Yeah, you know, if you got the money to do it, and you don't want to work out, you don't want to dedicate that, you know, with our band on the road. Her schedule probably doesn't permit it because she's a mom as well. She says she would never hire your fucking nanny. She's probably too busy to do the ship. Listen, others feel other ways, you know what I'm saying. But like, even if you even with surgery, you have to eat right,

You have to stay physically active. You have to do a lot to maintain your body. That's where I got my fucking six peg nigger, that's where that's why my body still looks good. No, not cause oh I got the the BBL fucking what four was that four or five years ago? No, that's not why my body was. Yeah, like it just being fitted, you know. That's what I want to let y'all know. This was more informative than anything today. Um, I would like for y'all man, just

take care of yourselves. Take care of yourselves and even your fucking children, because they can be unhealthy and you can help change their lives. That little girl has no control over that ship right now, but she's gonna be one angry fucking kid if she grows up a one angry grown woman if they don't get her help, you know what I'm saying. And she's like, yo, y'all really, let me get that fucking big and then I gotta live with this ship. And y'all look it is a motherfucker, y'all,

look like a fitness Couple's wrong with you? Get one body and you can take care of the one that you have. And she's a miner. She doesn't know any better, so her parents need to make sure they take care of her until she's old enough to take care of her dance. So basically all in the nutshell, and just like that we come to the end of Carefully Reckless episode. Make sure you'll tune in next week's say by peace outshore Piece out Hools, I Love y'all, and then my

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