Separated Ain't Single

roll with me. He everywhere. He's gonna listen in story time. Alright, So look y'all know I was dating Country Wayne, I want to say allegedly, but a nigga was dating a bit. He was, and he ended up being married. Now let me walk you through this. Now, Wayne liked me for quite some time. He was, I want to say, chasing me for two years. I don't like to say chasing, but that's what he was doing. And it was cool. You know, there's a woman you like attention, you know,

from elsewhere. But I was in a relationship, so I never entertained him until I broke up with Chris. Shortly after I broke up with my ex. He popped up in West Palm Beach, Florida. Now I had a show and the improv he came. He popped up with his two brothers, and he wooed me, you know, as they say. And you know, I was not looking for love, but I was, you know, a little vulnerable after breaking up with my ex. And Waine looked good, you know, he looked good. He got his clowned out ways, but he

looks good. And I allowed him to woo me or whatever. So after like a couple of months, we made it official. We were on I G. Then we go on our first trip. He took me to Puerto Rico and there is where I found out that he had a wife. Now, why the fuck she didn't come out before this? We had already been together for like three months, and then she decides to come out and say, I didn't know anything about us getting a divorce. I'm still happily married

to my husband, Dwayne Coley. Which was some truth and then was some lies as well, because they in fact were in the middle of a divorce. But this nigga went as far as to even getting some woman that he had posed as a goddamn lawyer to call me to tell me that the divorce was final, which don't be over there laughing. He got the woman to tell me, yes, in her most professional voice, that the divorce was final, y'all.

And I went with it. I believe them. And Ship and then the wife, Gina, she started going to shade room with Ship. Then she started talking to my sister about Ship. But she never would call me. I sent them my number. She never would call me a nothing, never ever even talked to me in the d M s. Right now, I'm saying all this to say, this man felt that he didn't do anything wrong because he was not with her like he wasn't with her. Nigga, you're

still married to her. And that brings me to my question. This separation make it okay to cheat? I think absolutely not, because you are still legally fucking married, you know what I mean. And then they were living in the same fucking house. You know. Sometimes she would go stay here, I imagine, and then he would be gone most of the time, because we are comedians, we are on the road most of the time. He does stand up and ship and then you know, sometimes I guess he would

be filming or what have you. So she would see him barely, you know, barely, but at the same time, you know, and then he would spend a lot of time with me. And let me tell you, this man was in Baltimore for like too much straight help me look for a house that he got for me, like seriously moved me out of my other house and got me. So I'm like, yo, through all of this, Gina, you

never came out and said anything anything. That's when later Ship admitted, Okay, we're in the middle of a divorce, but until we are finally divorced, that's still my husband. And I could not argue with her anymore, and she was right. I had to leave the nigga. Does separation make it okay to cheat? In your opinion, bro, No, it does not. Doesn't make it okay to cheat because a lot of times in separation situations people often end up getting back together. Look at look at Uh. Look

at Crystal and Neo. You know, they were in the process of found divorice for you know, whatever the reasons was, um and then quarantine brought them back together and they are happily married and living life like that part of their life never happened. So if you cheat and do things in between that time, you're only making it worse than what it already is. Yeah, you're right. And I remember I was watching something about Crystal and Neo and

the problem that he said. Crystal never came out and said you know what the problem was or whatever, but Neo this Nigga said, our demons didn't mesh Neio, what the funk are you talking? And in the political ship, sir, like Nigga's always saying some ship to make them sound like, wouldn't hold hands, like, sir, they're demons. That's not what they did anyway, like what the funds hold? He was dead ass, he said the ship Hella Times and Hella Interviews.

But I'm glad to see that back together. That actually my good friends, you know, and they are back together. So no separation does not make it okay to cheat. No, And the reason that's why it's still cheating because you are still legally married, which brings me to just fix my mess. Now we got a commercial and if you click off of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen, they know this segment is where I

catered to my fans. Now I asked about this situation, A lot of people write me, I'm just gonna read a few off that I picked. Danny from Birmingham says Alabama. Yes, Obama, She said, I am married to my kids father. We are currently separated. During our separation, he stepped out and now he has a baby on the way, but we're still living together and has decided to work it out. I can't get that off my mind. Though. That's a really tough pill to swallow. So are you going to

work it out? Danny? That is a hard pill to swallow. Like I just said, they were separated, y'all, weren't divorced now. I I feel if you have an agreement with your husband or your wife, if we're married and we tell each other, we come together and we have a talk and you say, look, while we separated, we're gonna date. I feel like that's the only way if both parties agree. You know what I mean, Because he's still stepped out

on you, Danny. He stepped out on you, and he made a baby that ain't even stepping out, Like you're imparted in somebody else completely, Like I know that's right to you. I don't even know what imparted, mean, what the hell is that? And you'll listening, I don't my ship trying to fucking outdo me with the words. You'll say this, take it, imparted, drop some you'll drop some legacy, and somebody else. And he still lives and they have children,

you know what I mean? And then imagine what he has to go home and tell his children if this girl keeps his baby. Now, it ain't no telling what kind of girl she is if she crazy enough to keep it just because she is being spiteful, you know, because like you said, with those situations, people normally get back together, but the nigga always, if not just the majority of the time, guys always have this thing where they they like the butter a bitch up to get

what they want. And he may have told her that he would leave. His wife may have told her that, and she might keep the baby out of spite, or she might just get rid of it if she if she's fucking smart. Because this woman here, the wife is telling me that they're trying to work it out. So obviously he wants to be forgiven and he don't want to be with the girl. But I still wouldn't trust this nigga, because now you have another baby mother outside of me that you're gonna have to deal with for

eighteen years plus. I even people just stop at eighteen games. That baby gonna be your baby forever, forever, forever. Now, you can cut off all times with the mother at eighteen, but as long as the child is here, it's going to be connected to the mother and the father. So it ultimately connects, y'all, you know what I mean. So you have to deal with this woman whether you like it or not. Danny, I wouldn't be able to trust it.

I would run for the motherfucking hills. Then, I just I can't prince what you think, what you want to tell her, because she still has feelings for him. I think that if they're still having sex, she should use a condom because he probably just out here raw dog and everybody period, And that might might not even be the only bitch out here that's pregnant, you know, I'm sure it's not just the only one that spoke out. And then separation always ain't easy because they have things together.

Get out, Danny, go somewhere else. Alabama is pretty big, so you can ali bye bye your way right on out that door. Now, I don't have like the background of them and how long you'll been married. But you know, if you feel like it's worth it and you believe in God, if it's Aud's will, he'll bring you all back together. Pray through it. But me telling you from you know, woman to woman as a woman, that's a no good situation. I've seen a lot of situations like

this and they don't turn out pretty. So that brings me to my next one. So now we got seven from Utah. People don't think we're making this up. Seven from Utah. Been in a relationship for four years, been suspected he was cheating, went through his phone, and he's been creeping with another guy. What is her husband's name? First of all, a shut up prince, she said. I definitely wanted to kill him at first, but honestly, I feel sorry for him because he's still is in denial.

I would like to move on with him as friends and help him live in his truth, but he is denying it and still is trying to fix it with me. I ain't working with it. Okay, Now this is kind of different. I kind I like her disposition. I like it. That's a hard pill to swallow to find out that your man is cheating on you with a man, creeping with men and ship. You know, but she seems like the bigger person. She seems like she really want to

help this nigga live in his truth. She want to help him come out and um ultimately be his friend, you know. And that's a strong motherfucking woman. I too has to be. She is too okay with this. But we often see a lot of women murray gay men. So did you not see these signs in the beginning? Yeah, yeah, that is true. You know, did you not see these signs? Because it ain't something that just went to sleep and woke up and he was like, I'm gonna go had sex with a man and cheat on my wife. Like no,

this ship is deeper than that. Yeah, you know. Now they're not married. They're in a relationship, but like you're sitting and for four years. So but he can't marry her because he's not attracted to her. So at this point, she's an arm piece and you know that's just what it is. Yes, she says, cover up and eventually you know, and his arm piece and um, she's talking to me like she knew this though you know what, you know

what I hate that? I hate you if he is he a pastor seven come come back and email us and let us let us know if a past because my brother that he's saying he think you no woman to show. He might know who that he is because that happens a lot here, so we need to see. But uh, you know our jokes aside seven off for real, man um, I think that's very very big of you to, you know, try to help him come forth and you know, living his truth. But baby, if he's not ready, he's

not gonna do it, you know what I'm saying. And you can't. It's not one of those cases where you say you can't help somebody that don't want to be helped. He doesn't feel like he needs to be helped. He just needs his own time. It's everything happens with time, and he'll be comfortable enough to come out whenever he whenever he's ready, you know. But what he can't do is keep hurting women. He cannot keep dating him and if that's not what he wants now, he can be

bisexual too. She didn't give me much clarity on that. She didn't tell me that she just said that she had been suspecting he was cheating and he was creeping with a nigga she found out. Okay, Well, like I said, he'll come out on his own time. You know, that's not something you can force someone to do. But it is absolutely wrong of him if he's not bisexual to keep dating women or to keep dating you and ship like that. You at least have to be honest with

this person enough to tell them. Look, I like men and women, you know what I mean or whatever? You know, So honesty is key and a lot of this ship. The last one I'm gonna read is from Sheriff from West Bottomore. It says, hey bitch, Yeah, she definitely from absolutely stupid dumbasking you simpleton. Yes, she said, hey bitch, my nigga won't post me this bitch from Bottomore for

my nigga. Yeah, she definitely something going on. Hey bitch, my nigga won't post me, So I know he's cheating or he's hiding me from his ex wife who he claims he doesn't want back. Little do he know. I called her myself and she told me that he told her I am the FedEx delivery driver in his neighborhood. Well, do you really work for FedEx? Because I've been waiting on this goddamn package for two weeks and I need

the FedEx. Do she work for USPS? I don't know a boy, no mo Fex, but I know USPS was back throwing up and bitch, I don't even give give problems where my ship? I don't care because I think I noticed, bit right, Yeah, yeah, I think I noticed. Bitch. You know she don't work for FedEx. She worked at I've guard as the bartender her ass. Yeah, but I'm Sharon baby. If he ain't gonna post you, Um, it depends on the type of nigga he is. You got, you know, two types of niggas well, more than two types.

But in this case, you got the type that won't post you because he likes to eat his business separate from though most people on Instagram these days they have business pages, business accounts and ship and I know that a lot of y'all listening like bitch, please every time I nigga say I want to buy my businesses because he's hiding. Yeah that's not every time, though, not every time. There are really guys out here who have businesses that he liked that they like to keep separate from their

personal lives. And then you got the other type of nigga who won't post you because he is hiding, you know, and he don't want to post one bitch and lose all the rest of this bitches, or not even losing because bites don't leave these days. Bitches get mad, they vent on social media, tell all your business, and then they end up right back with you later once everything calm back down and ship. So you got those two types of niggas. You have to decide which one he

is sharing because you know him. We don't not to mention who wants to post their relationships status on social media because the problems that every every individual fall short of something. So the problem is that as soon as you ship relationship, because nobody's perfect, so as soon as you post is kissing picture of you ain't get nigga

or whatever the case it. Maybe somebody has a story in the d M of how fucked up this person is, what this person did to them and how they reacted or this and the third, but don't tell what caused this because there's a reaction to ever reaction. You know what I'm saying, so social media has ruined it. Like I haven't been a multiple relationshipship. I'm in a new relationship every two weeks. But I mean posting the motherfucker, you know what I mean? Like, yeah, see that's what

we do. It's okay, quity season's good coming up. But yeah, you know what I mean, Like, sure, hoise what I mean. But you just I don't think that you should post your relationship or who you're dealing with on social media. Period. A happy life is a private life, and it's not let you hide in anything. You know, what you do in the comfort the comfort of your bed room, your home is between you and that person. You don't gotta post it. You don't gotta post it. Can't live through

social media. Social media will ruin your life. And that's exactly what everybody does. Just like people get together for the image of it, just to see how many comments they'll get on it. Let's pose like this, y'all could yo, they could have just seriously got finished cheating on each other or arguing about something, or he could have burned

her because he got an STD from somebody else. But they're gonna get on social media and paint this perfect picture, you know what I mean, like social it's like an imagery and I can't stand that ship. And then not to mention share it from West Baltimore. You said you called the ex wife yourself and she told you that he told her that you were a delivery driver in the neighborhood. Baby girl, in my deepest beast of own voice, what in the fuck did you think even just hearing that,

it's the audacity to call his ex wife don't like skills? Yeah, yeah, you did that. And then you like you climbed up the tree and the motherfucker shook that bitch and you fell back down because you cannot do that. That's out of line, that's overstepping your boundary. You never called my ex wife and then you found out something new. Now you never told me to see people. They only leave

like a bit of the story. I want to know what the fun she said to this nigg And oh, so you told your wife that I was the I wouldn't have said it. That would have been the last time he saw me and the last time she ever heard from me, because obviously he's still sucking with his ex wife. You know, she's an ex but she was his ex wife. They shared a lot of history together for him to even be talking about his new thing with his old thing, and that thing being a wife.

So Sharon, I'm just saying, baby, I don't know, maybe you need to date around some more in West Baltimore or some ship because this guy don't seem like he's in to you much. And yeah, and I think you need to stay yourself because if you call the people x as and ship, you got some insecurities within yourself. And it's a lot of toxicity going on there. Like that word, that word that was Yeah, yeah, well, you know, toxicity.

That was my first word. You know, that's the first word I have to said when I was you know, little That brings us to the current news. We're gonna wrap up that portion of just fix my mess. Yeah, yeah, I hope we helped, y'all know. Yeah, absolutely probably did. Let us know if we did. Hit me in my d M s and we'll be right back after this.

That brings us the current events. Now Listen for me, there are a lot of celebrities that have gotten caught cheating on their significant others that I want to speak on briefly. Little baby, and Jada. Every so often there is something in the media, there is a woman that comes forth about, you know, sleeping with little baby and ship like that. Now it's a rumor that he has contracts with these women and he pays them. Yeah, and I don't know what the contract is, you know that

of A and d A or whatever. But they're not supposed to say ship. And every time one comes forth, everybody bashes Jada because she still stays. That poses this question, do you let a niggad cheat on you because he's rich and you love the lifestyle? Are you okay with being publicly embarrassed? Are you okay with humiliation? Are you okay with decreasing your dignity? Are you okay with that?

It's his millions, your Berkins, your big home, your Bentley's, your ferrar Is, the races, all that, all that designer ship? Is that lifestyle worth your heart? And you know as a woman, what you stand for, your pride and everything. Not to me, not to me? And I could be just different, you know what I'm saying. I've never been in her in her predicament. Jada has her own money. She's a money maker, you know. She she's a hustler. She's an entrepreneur, but she's not little baby, you know

what I mean. And her money don't make him, and his money makes her. You know what I'm saying. It makes her, it betters her, and then they have a baby. She's in love with him. It's a lot of other factors, but families break up every day. Um in regular life celebrities, it seems like a little bit harder the infidelity I feel when you're a celebrity, I feel like they kind of wanted overlooked because I got this money, I bought this ship for you. Because I remember a little baby

tweeting who goes harder for their girl than me? And I'm not just talking about financial gifts. I'm talking about in every way. I remember. I put that in jest with the mess, and I named about ten other niggas that immediately came to mind. Who goes harder for the girl. We're not saying you don't love her, you love her

to death. You don't love any of these bitches, But that does not mean that you get a past the cheat because you ain't gonna love this bitch, or you ain't gonna buy a nothing, or you ain't gonna, Yeah, why I step out on me? Jadab's fucking beautiful. That's your son's mother. She's beautiful, beauty. Ain't to it though. She cooks, she do TikTok's, she cleans, she takes care. You know, all the new little you know, millennial ship, they all do it. Why can't you just keep your

ship at home? Because he gets bored, Yeah, he gets bored. And the fun part about it is that he can go out here and do whatever he wants to these quote skank as bitches that he wouldn't do too his girl because he considers her wife. Yeah, you just never know why people move and do certain things, like because everybody is coming forward, is even strippers, ex trippers, bartenders or whatever. These are. These are people who this is

what they do for a living, you know. So he can do super nasty ship with these people that he wouldn't even think about doing to you know, Jada, because he respects Jada. You know, he loves Jada. He don't love these these these bitches. That's why he has them, uh signing in das or whatever the case, contractual joints. But they're not even working because they're telling on us

that's still period. So you know the type of consequence are they facing because they keep coming out and not paying somebody six thousand for them to telling on you. Giving away Freeman, that's a charity as it's so many starving kids that can have that money. Baby Ship, there's so many other little babies out this motherfucker you get that money too, and then we have the baby and Mimi. Now, Mimi has never come out and said this nigga has

cheated on me with Danny Lay. She's never said that, So I'm not gonna say that he cheated, but I believe he goes back and forth between the two people. We see it on social media all the time, and we have been seeing it for months now. Danny Lay cannot stop posting this nigga when he's around me. Me.

She don't post them, but you know they're there. You know they're around each other because they posting their stories, their locations and leaving the shade room, leaving the Hollywood unlock, leaving to the neighborhood talk, leaving the jazz and brand and all the other people. They know what I'm saying. So he goes back and forth. That is still infidelity. You know what I mean, because although we never heard Mimi say, oh he's cheating were this is like a

love triangle. It's like Tara Amediate and Peter. And it makes me think, like, do they have an agreement that we don't know about what that's not publicized? Because that ship don't ever get messy, It don't never get too messy. It never goes over the top. So that that that agreement ship now that you just said, and I'm thinking about it as well, because bitches argue like Jada has.

Jada has went back and forth with most of every most of all the bitches that didn't come out and said they funck little baby, And I wish she didn't do that because it's like, you don't need to do that. You don't need to do that. You don't like if you check him in private, like she tweeted before, if you check him in private, he's checked. Fuck it. Don't go online and start fussing with these bitches. That's what

they want. They want to be in your shoes. They want your life, you know, and that little bit of piece that he's giving them makes them feel entitled. Let them bitches talk, because if y'all don't say ship, It'll go away. Baby, get on there saying ship too. Oh, this is like y'all lie, y'all lot no no, no, no, no, no no, Just don't say nothing nothing, say nothing, and

it'll go the funk away, guarantee you Visiness Turns. When Turns got that motherfucking car accident, we still don't know who the bitch was he got to a car accident with. We don't know it wasn't his girlfriend, but we don't know who was that. Nigga ain't never said nothing about nothing. He popped back on the screen talking about yeah and this is the Star's power party. Like nothing, he say shit, He ain't entertained nothing about nothing, and it eventually went away.

Should I keep bringing it up every now and then and just with the mess, But he won't say nothing about it. It will go away. That's how it is. You ignore ship and they gets smaller and smaller. Then we go to Cardi being offset. Now this was more so in the past. We haven't heard anything about him cheating, you know, lately and for a long time, I honestly felt like he's changed. At first, he was like little baby offset. This nigga was like little baby, this motherfucker.

But I feel like he changed. I think he It's just that she can't say nothing else about it because remember the last time he cheated her comeback was I went back because I'm a dumb bitch and I like Dick. So at that point, even if he cheat on you again, what else can you say because now we don't want to hear it, like we know you're gonna go back to him. You're a dumb bitch and you like Dick.

You said it, not us, you know so, But yo, yeah stop because that's still at the same time, that still won't stop the bitches from saying, yeah, you're right, Oh he did this, he did this. Yeah, bitch, what you're gonna say, whether she's gonna come back with it or not, it's always a bitch who wants somebody to know that they fucked your nigga, or they fucked your husband, or I'm sucking a celebrity fuck his wife. That's offset bitch, I fucked him that type of ship. Bitches just want

people to know that. And that's that's really really fucking sad in hindsight when you think about it, because it's just like everybody wanna be famous. That motherfucking yeah, that fucking fame, that image, that that ship social media. Yes, the industry used to be so motherfucking different. Oh it's so sad now. But that brings us to the end of the show. I just want to leave you with some positivity. Three things in your relationships, Please please, please,

please be upfront about everything. You never want to have your significant other in the dark. Your girlfriend, your boyfriend, your wife, whatever, your lover. You don't want to have them in a dark about anything. Do not hide your feelings. You can't do that, whether you're feeling some type of way about this thing or that thing, because that's how

people go and look other places for other things. When you start lacking whatever it is you're lacking your relationship, you don't have the balls to say it, so you start cheating or you start going you know, and some people cheat for no fucking reason. But if you can help it, these things could help you. Be up front about everything. Do not hide your feelings, and communicate. Always communicate yes, yes, yes, yes. And I just want to add to that and have a peace of mind, even

if that means being by yourself. I don't never be when nobody for convenienced, because that ship is whack and that's our ship bubble and it can become very toxic. So we're gonna leave you all on a note. Today they buy to my brother brother, say by to them. All right, fancy y'all later. I ain't saying to be word today, but see y'all later. I love y'all very motherfucking much because we want them to come back next Wednesday.

That's it for Carefully Reckless, y'all, and then my best pad voice peace be like just you got your ass, Nicka, shut the fuck up. I've been out hit on my cash, on you bot, my hustle, I've been stop. I don't do no getting. Carefully Reckless is a production of I Heart Radio and The Black Effect. For more podcasts from my heart Radio, visit the I heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.