Over My Dead Body

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What I'll be doing, I'll be fixing mess.

And we got my girls Taylor here, Taylor probably knock going be talking today. She getting further and further into this pregnancy, and she getting closer and closer to this due day. When is your dude a bol July twelfth, Oh, July twelfth, Okay, oh my god, So at least you don't got to go through the whole summer pregnant.

I like you've seen that. But regardless, I'm probably gonna be yeah in size and im.

Like, I know what I'm saying.

It's annoying your shit being pregnant and as hot as a bitch.

Yeah, because I mean, even how the wedd has been going, I feel like they don't really get hot until June.

Yeah, exactly, Like seasons are definitely different.

But all right, so we got another crazy ass motherfucking's story. I didn't really read all the way into this because I really liked the element of surprise.

I like natural reactions. So we're gonna read this. Okay, Hello Jessica.

First of all, don't nobody fucking call me Jessica, But hello Jessica. I just recently lost my husband of fifteen years. We were lovers ever since college, so it's just so weird trying to continue life without him. What's even weirder is that's not even the word. But I'm gonna let you slacksh your husband that all right. What's even weirder is I, well, what's even more weird because I can't even bring myself to talk that dumb Okay, what's even

Years we were together.

Oh shit, surely after the funeral at the repass, all right, this way, I stopped.

Okay, so it's about to get good. Oh my god, I mean the piece, but it's gonna be it.

Shortly after the funeral at the repast, I was approached by this woman who was clearly way younger than me.

I'd say mid twenties. Okay.

She asked me if I was his wife, and I said yes. So this bitch is popped upout the fucking repass. Bitches as reckless as fuck. Okay, she told me that her and Edwin, Oh yeah, this was definitely a old nigger. Her and Edwin, I can say the name, what is he gonna do?

Ah? Ah?

Wait what she said? She told me that her and Edwin, I can say the name, what is he going to do? Because you know I.

Tell people that I keep it anonymous. So she just said his name, but she like, what you gonna do he did? Oh my god, she got a little sense of Haimer. Okay, her and Edwin had been seeing each other and that he promised her a brand new car and a ten thousand dollar check to start her business. Oh yeah, this definitely sound like a sugar daddy, because I said, I said, oh, is you out of your mind? She said she didn't want me to find out about her this way, but here we are. I asked her

What the fuck?

She said, that's not true, because my husband got a sect me and she said, no, no, no, he just got it after we gave birth to my daughter. Jessica, I choked. Oh, Jessica, I choked her. Oh shit, Jessica, I choked her. That man told me he had a vasectomy two years ago because we were struggling to get pregnant, and I guess that was how.

He dealt with it.

Oh man, We definitely argued about it because that was I don't think so unless she tell us that by the time I finished the story, but so far, No, we definitely argued about it because that was another thing that was quite weird. But it's just crazy how he supposedly got of exectomy two years ago when he met her. Now they have a kid. Wow, back to it, though. It took three of my cousins to get me off of that wench. M. Yeah, she' old to you calling

Oh? Wow? Well, she ain't never say how.

Old they were, but this nigga name is Edwin, so obviously he was a bit seasoned.

And then she's more than likely older as well. Well, she asked you for I think she did.

Said how does she deal with all this? I think she did the right thing to you. But what's so fucking heartbroken? Is that doing not even hear like you know what I'm saying. Yeah, it's like, excuse me, I'm back in the grave.

That's so crazy.

No, I know, but it's like, you know, he not even here. You can't confront of soon. Now you're man that your dead ex husband. I mean, now that you're mad at your dead husband, you're a widow and it's fucked up.

Honestly, that would make me I won't even feel sad about him dying anymore.

Yo, To be honest with you, I was literally about to say the same ship.

You know, I very fucked because this is easier for me to get over.

Yeah.

It's so betraying though, because it's like nigga and then it's like, Nigga, you died and got away with the ship, right, That's that's what they took.

Get me upset. Yeah, he literally took it to the grave sala. That's crazy.

Yeah, but I ain't gonna lie to sent that bitch with him, because ain't no way you knew he was married. You knew she had to know. That was her sugar daddy. She ain't lot that nigga. She had a baby. He was probably he was giving a bread and she like, look, I'm just going you know, because and it's the thing you had.

Your child, you hid your child.

Yeah, but her asking her going up to the wife that.

Yeah, that was pointless as fuck.

Hold up, hold up, I know this ship getting good, but listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial.

If you love me, you'll listen, because.

Yeah, because he probably didn't leave a will or anything, you know, or if he did, shorty and a baby not in it, you know what I'm saying, Because then that would alert to do that obligated to what pay Like they were married.

Yeah, so all your debts become like inclusive. That's why, mother, that's.

Right, that's what He didn't want to marry me in DC the real way. Like you know, remember, it took them a while to really finalize the marriage, to officiate their marriage because he was in a lot of debt I think like with like courts and ship courtporateceedings like all of that type ship and if he would have married Yandy would have married him, his debt would have

That's I think that's a lot of people in that type of situation though. Yeah, like people just think, oh married, and no, you gotta think about other ship. I heard say this, well not that, but what's your name? Ari Fletcher sayce she don't want to get married in a sense because.

M but she already married the big they already married. They're married.

They've been married for a while. They've been married for like a whole year or two. I remember her not with that nigga. Yep, they went and got married quietly some well probably not quietly, but like privately.

He has said, well, how do you know though that she she showed the ringing they found out.

Yeah, I think it went.

Viral, but I didn't know if it was.

They're married. She is money Bag's wife. She is Mario's wife. But time she was saying like she didn't want because it's a child support or something.

But she probably didn't want Mary a nigga who couldn't afford child support, because then that becomes her bill too.

But money bag, yo, better be able to afford the child support. Money bag? Yeah, yeah, exactly. You can't be walking around and you broke a stop.

Like come on, now, I know manifestation works in many different ways, but that's not it, you know, so, but this lady's story is complete asinine, like it's crazy and her But I'm upset.

Yeah, I know, right, it's like him. I know. I wonder what type of measures could she take to and they had a prenup, would it be the same thing?

Still, No, I'm not sure. We got to ask Lauren because you know all the lawyer and ship. I have no idea.

It's just like I'm almost at a loss for words. I don't really know.

I mean, she she the advice that she's asking for is how she can deal with all this.

The thing is to tell you the thing that you have to kill two bodies. You have to kill the way. So that's crime. I don't think she I know you did, like.

If you if she was to, you know, do something to the girl.

Girl, it's still but the baby. She don't want the baby. It's not about even the mom though.

It's still like that was the dad though, So it's still she need to take care.

Of right because she because if she killed her mother, but she's gonna have to take care of that child.

But then because that's our step child, honestly, right.

But it's eight months she honestly get away with because maybe eight months she could make the baby hers if they don't have any kids too.

Though he was not gonna remember they much. I wonder how who Edwin was. Listen, those fish were still swimming. I would I'm like thinking about this though, because it was me.

I would be like, you know, I would have to kill her off, raised the baby, like.

Yeah, okay, give the baby away in better hands. I would have every single day I looked at that baby, and I know this, this mind canceled, but that's.

All right, get checked my mind, like you know this is my child?

Yeah, yeah, exactly, you got it. Almost developed a mental illness like that baby because both of the parents gone.

Yeah. I wonder how he died. Was old. He probably had a heart attack or something, all right, but he Ain't he better not be that motherfucking old for real? You all here cheating.

I thought, like, all that ship supposed to expire at a certain age, you hold a ship. That's crazy, Lord Jesus anyway, so you just want her to just find a way to kill the lady, kill a side check and take the baby and figure it.

Out just as she wants the baby. And that I just feel like, okay, you know, because.

The baby's innocent, definitely, so the girl. No, the girl is not innocent in any of the shit. No, Okay, So Taylor could be feeling her hormones right now, but I think to deal with it, because that's what she really want to know how to deal with it. I think you should definitely start some type of therapy for yourself.

And I know this seems repetitive.

All you've probably been hearing from people is go to therapy, Go to therapy, go to therapy, and listen. I've never been a fucking therapy so I don't know if that's gonna work for you or not.

But it's really really a great outlet.

I've seen that so many people do work on themselves, and the work that they're doing on themselves they get from their therapist.

You know, I'm not mad.

Yeah, I'm not mad at people doing it. Like before, like ten years ago, black people really didn't want.

To do that shit.

I can't speak for whites, you know what I'm saying, Like, I can't, but I can only speak for my people and mostly the out Yeah it is, you know, And the problem with black people though, like we don't trust motherfuckers. We don't trust people with our business. We don't really like for our business to be ever thrown back in our face.

I know that's the thing. But we're just guarded as a people.

Anyway, you know what I'm saying, a lot of people, A lot of us hold shit from our friends, like really good friends. A lot of us like sit with secrets. We sit with shit, and that's how people go crazy.

But a therapist, I mean, the only thing is that theists probably gonna just tell their person.

Yeah yeah, no, I feel you, but I do kind of understand why, like fans is wrong. My ash dad Rome has been trying to gather himself to push toward therapy for about seven years.

He cannot do it.

Charlemagne even referenced him like to like three of them He did one session with each therapist and was like, yo, I nah, I just don't feel right.

I'm like, what is wrong? Though? I don't know?

Or is this the fact that he cause I think he has a ga of his mindset.

That's a therapist, another person that is not biased and that won't judge you. You just gotta lay it all out, but you gotta tell the true if you got to keep that shit a hunted, yeah, because Rome will hold back like that's what I'm saying.

Enough, this is a therapist. You gotta trust them.

You have to trust your therapist, right, because then you're a lie about shit and they can't really fully assess you if you're not giving them everything.

You know. But I do know that Rome was.

At first, he was very hesitant because he felt like a lot of therapists were white and he didn't want to be looked down on by a white person. Like He's just like, no, they if they not my color, they can't relate to me. Like that's exactly how he feels. It's a lot of black therapists, so and that's exactly what Charlemagne referred to him. He referred black therapists to him. Two men and one woman and room trying to flirt

I'm like, look, no, you're bad and you're trying to be good.

So just focus on the you know, the whole subject here, Like, let's focus on the goal.

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This means a therapist, like I know how his friends are. Just that's just maybe it's a setting.

Right, and then Rome don't really have many friends. You can count on one hand how many friends. Wrong guys same here. I mean I was just, yeah, yes, you grow into yourself and you grow away from other people, grow apart.

Maybe they're just gonna sit back, have a blend his hand and talk to him.

Yeah yeah, setting.

Maybe he's seeing too much like oh he's trying.

Yeah yeah yeah, Because yeah, Rome don't like for it to feel like an interrogation, like why am I just telling you all my information? Like and I'm uncomfortable we in this clinic or we in this office and this is just set up to it's too corporate, like so yeah, I do get it.

But what therapists will smoke a blunt and hear me out. Therapist out with you definitely would give the outlet. Right hmm. That's different, right.

I like that because now, in a sense, no, seriously, because he might be really onto something. Because it's the settings and you have to provide that safe space in that environment for somebody to even open up to you, to be vulnerable, you know what I mean? That's different. That is different, all right? Let me ask you this smoke hookah, that's different, all right? What about wine? I would say no, hard liquor. I would just say why because but then sometimes it really opens you up.

Liquor really may open you up.

I'm not saying like drink champs this shit, but I'm saying, like at least three shots, two shots whatever, and your therapist is not drinking. You're you're comfortable enough to drink. They may have a glass of wine, or they may a mocktail. They may act like because they still got to do their job, but no, you really might be

Yeah, but like if it's like a.

If it's therapeutic for you, yeah, yeah, you might be onto something.

I never heard anybody refer to.

A therapy session with like spirits and and when I say spirits, I mean like wine liquor shit, like you know, wine and spirits, or like even hookah or you know, marijuana, like just for stress relief and just to open up and loosen up.

Yeah.

We talk over a blunt of a glass of wine all the time, you know, and sometimes those are the best, most needed conversations.

So yeah, I might look into that.

You know, I want to how long you got to go to school to be a therapist, because that might be something I might do, like just go to school and then allow my clients to to smoke and ship if anything. Y'all heard it here first and Tailor gave me the idea. So I know you're gonna want some money, but exactly exactly or addibles, you gotta eat the edible? Oh yeah, I was gonna say you gotta eat the edible like ten minutes or no, it's thirty minutes before you come to my session.

What ayauasca? Ayahuasca is different, Yo.

Don't they need like a person there.

Yes, they need a shaman, they need a guy, a spiritual guy sense.

Yeah, therapy because they're going through.

Well, yeah, that is definitely a form of therapy. The ayahuasca. Yeah, you're right, but those people that ship can go and that's shit lasts for so long.

I do too.

Oh that's what's up. You're not scared to try r ak it. That's cool, that's what's up. I want to as well. I love when Charlamagne was like yo, because I was.

Like, how you like, what do you do? Like? How do you do it? He said? It gotta call you.

Yeah, he said, pep.

Or people make it seem like you see a whole nother light up understanding of life.

See, that's what I want to do that though, But I feel like they don't do that shit nowhere in America. I think that's like you gotta go out the country or something, because it's like a whole camp. It's like a treatment camp, a holistic therapeutic camp or some shit. Yeah, so we gotta do that. Soon as you drop my baby, we gotta go ahead and do that. Oh you had shrimp tea. That shit hit you quick. Didn't it.

Yeah, I was cracking the Oh yeah, watching Bad Trip with.

So you did trooms and watch Bad Trip movie? Okay, all right, because Bad Trip. You can have a Bad Trip if you No.

I don't.

It's a funny ass movies.

Okay, this movie Bad Trip? Who else is in it? Is that Mark Wahlberg?

Who is it?

Oh?

Eric Andre? No, I never saw a Bad Trip. It's on Netflix. I'm gonna watch it. Okay.

I never say I never even heard of it. And so just now, no, I'm telling you I didn't shit, all right, I gotta watch it because my peoples.

Yeah, and then I started crying.

Oh why, yeah, you was definitely big high. I don't know. I was just you don't know why? Right?

Yeah, that's what shrooms are, you know. I feel like yo, it makes you. It puts you in touch with your feelings and then things that you bottle up, that you keep inside and that you're just scared, the like that ship will make you release it.

And to your.

Point, ayahuasca is that too, But it's just that times ten. So yeah, we're gonna do some drugs well after you have the bedding. But we've come to you at the end of an the can'tfully work this episode with your girl, Just larious what I'll be doing. I'll be fixing mess or at least I'll be trying, y'all. Say by the tailor, Tailor, say bye to the people. Catch us next week. Peace Carefully Reckless is a production of iHeartRadio and The Black Effect.