New Love

Tell us how you got to this place? So, y'all. A's y'all. No, I was single, but I ain't no more. Oh my lord Jesus Christ, she ain't no more, y'all. I got me amends now, and I'm gonna tell you how I got him and where he came from. I decided to go back out there. I've never been into like dating abs and stuff like that, but I saw that Facebook had a dating section. It's not like you went on a dating section of Facebook. Yeah, it's a date so it's like an old dating chat room. It

really is. They next to the messages, what is it is? Next to the memories? It's next to the memories, y'all. Yeah, alright, go ahead, I ain't never know. All listen, you're always leaving some shout out and then surprising me on the podcast. I ain't know they had a dating department. Yeah, they they got a dating department and took over every thing mark Berg, get your money, baby. Anyway, Um, I went into the dating section of Facebook and I created a profile.

You can create a profile using the same profile picture that you have, you know, just up on your regular profile. So this is separate from your regular profile. Yeah. So it doesn't give people your last name. It literally just gives them your first name and your age. You update your interests, ad age range, all the personal and things

that you're interested in. You update that. So before I actually updated minds properly as far as like the age range that I'm willing to deal with, the height range I'm willing to deal with. You can pick if you want to smoke or non smoker, drinker, non drink or whatever. It was a whole bunch of young niggas that was like coming at me, and I'm like, how the fun did these little nigga slip through the cracks? Because, first of all, I don't. I don't like younger guys. Notice

slipped through the cracks like it ain't motherfucking Facebook chat. Yeah, they definitely slipped through the fucking bites or whatever the fun. So you can filter your ship based on what you prefer, what you prefer, okay, So that means niggas was lying. No, I forgot to set that ship. That ship was like twenty six or something, and the young niggas on there like, what's up my wear you out? Oh yeah, first of all, oh, first of all, little motherfucker, how did you get here?

So anyway, I was talking at like seventy five niggas at one time, Dial seventy five niggas. It was seventy niggas Like that ship was like hitting, like somebody came through the block with the motherfucking chopper like that ship and she was like, Yo, how the fund did you keep up with seventy niggas? I didn't. I ended up getting five of these guys my number out of the seventy seventy niggas did not make the cutch. I gave five niggas my number, and this one guy, he was younger,

he slipped through the craigs. He was like, keep trying to slip the another. So they say like they were cool. So this one motherfucker, Lord, forgive me, and please do not think that I have anything against anybody with any kind of health conditions or whatever. But this one guy he was I told him, I'm like, look, I'm not looking for nothing, you know, I'm just looking for people to chit chat with so I can just you know, get by. I was like, I'm not get get by.

I ain't trying to funk none of y'all. Like, so don't come at me. I'm not looking for no sexual hookups, none of that. So one guy he was cool, So I was chick chatting with him, and um, he had an underlying health condition. And then this nigga talking about some gel I don't even work no more because it's health condition. I was like, well, you know, I wish you all the blessings with your health condition and everything. Um,

we just were cool. And then one day this nigga sent me a long age poem and I texted him back like I ain't even gonna hold you. I'm not about to read that ship. But maybe we should stop communicating because they look like it means something to you, and I don't want to mean anything to you, damn. And is it because of his health condition? No, because I just wasn't. I wasn't looking for nothing. Then I told him that and he pretended that he understood, but

he just wasn't what his health condition. Um, he had kidney failure. Oh man, he had kidney failure. You know. I have you know, tons of family members and stuff like that and loved ones that had kidney failure. So, like I said, blessings to everyone with any kind of you know, renal failure, Blessings to you all. But I'm a mother, a single mother of three children. Even if I was interested in somebody, I don't want to just go into or relationship or something like that trying to

have him to take care of somebody. That. Yeah, that's a lot. With three kids, that's a lot. I can see if I was with someone and you know when that happened while we were together, and of course you know, his kids was good and then they failed. Yeah, But like I, I can't just go into I can't. I can't see myself it's already failed. Yeah, I can't see myself going into that. But anyway, I had to cut him off and he act like he didn't get it,

so I just stopped answering the text. So then this other guy, he was like Hispanic or whatever, and he seemed like he was cool. He didn't slip through the cracks like he came after I changed my preferences and ship he was older, didn't he saying like he was cool. I think his teeth might have been sucked up or something, because oh my god, I would take Kenney fail you over some fun teeth. Damn. He smiled. He had the I can't come to get the mother, I can see

your teeth. He had the uncomfortable white people smile like all of his pictures. But he says like he was cool. And I agreed to link with him to get coffee, and I gave him my number and I was like, you know, i'll chat with you over the weekend, mind you. I gave him my number one on a Thursday, and I was like, I'll chat with you over the weekend, so we can, you know, set up when we're gonna go and you know, grab coffee next week. This motherfucker

didn't even give me a chance. Didn't get the weekend a chance to even roll around. I ain't working. This motherfucker goes and finds me on Instagram and he see him, you know, going off on my Instagram or whatever, and he texts me like, oh, I see you haven't texted me because you're so busy with your new boyfriend kissing your feet. First of all, sir, what told you come over to Instagram? Where defind me? First of all, you

gotta boyfriend? No, not nothing. Okay, So we're talking about kissing your v the old dude when I was putting the old neg kiss, I'm gonna say, hold on, now I'm missing the whole light now, no, no, no, no, I got you. I got you. I know what's going on. Okay, So I'm like, all right, you gotta know how that just sounded. No, remember the old dude that I was kissing? Sound like? Yeah, oh my god, hold up, hold up, I know the ship getting good. But listen to just

a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. Okay, go ahead. So, um, I just stopped communicating with him because I don't hear time, because you're just being nosy because who told you I'm over here? Then it was this other guy. Every time you turn around, he was always in the house. I'm like, nid, you have a joke. And then one met on Facebook chat. Yeah, on the Facebook dating net or not at but the Facebook dating section. So then sometimes he would answer the

phone and sometimes he wasn't. But I'm like, yo, if you're always in the house, like what you're doing, like you must have got a situation. And it's cool because I'm not looking for nothing, but don't lie. That was another one, and then this other guy. It was just like a brief chit chat hand that he would text and I'm like, look, my hands are I'm always doing something with my hands. It's better to just you know. And you know, they like, well, I don't know, right,

Like I don't know if you'd be busy. I'm like, okay, well the only way you'll know is if you actually call. And if I if I can't talk, I'll let you know that I can't talk, all right. So then that was that guy. And then there was this other guy and he was moving my preference because you know, I like the light skins. So out of all of these guys, the light skinned one was like the most persistent. We communicated like regularly, more than I communicated with the other

people that I met on there. And then one day he was like I got a confession, but not really saying he got a confession. I was like, oh, lor like what he was like, I try to highlight at you on my Space bag in the day and you curved me. And I was like, what my Space? He was like, yeah, so I just basically I, you know, admired you from before, like because basically I tell you like this occurred me. Oh wow, okay, so he slipped

through the cracks on my Space. He slipped, you know, cracks, he just was on there because I don't even remember him. Told then when I look at a picture of him from back then, you have your logging. Hell no, that's saying, oh I I don't hand my log in. That's crazy. If you got your log in, you'll let me know. If you got your log in, let me hold your up profile and look this nigg up real quick, right,

look hold up because he probably just said that. No. Go. Then when I go and I look at pictures of him from back then, I'm like, well, damn, why the funk that kind of him? Because he was kid of ship. You know, he light skinned, told it is a little model, chisel looking face. She was looking over the good niggas going to the bad niggas, the niggas that tregger like some ship straight poop poop. It's always the niggas they

want you that you don't want though. But I honestly, I feel like we linked at the right time because us being younger, you know, I had a lot of growing to do, get a lot of you had to get a lot of playout, just sys because probably if I would have talked to him back then, you probably would have broke my heart. And I probably would have tried to let us throat because he looked like he was a player most definitely, like look like he probably should have like ten kids right now, the country rain.

But I say, als, oh my god, y go ahead. So he was, you know, persistent. Our communication grew stronger, and one day I'm out, you know, selling my drinks or whatever. He came to support. He literally like got like every one of the drinks that I had in my cooler and he hugged me. And this was the first time that I had a hug from a man

in a little while. And the hug felt so good, like it just it felt like it was supposed to like it was supposed to be and I'm just like, damn, I want another hug like it's it just felt right. I know you're probably like, what is this been talking about? How you know how it is? And you know how it is when you get that hug and then they hold you a little tight. He squeezed your littless sad. I was just like, oh man, I felt like that was a comfort hook. It felt like he was squeezing

juices out for real quick. Yeah, so anyway, I might work one day and he pulled up and he surprised me with the plants. Normally guys you know, get you flowers, you know, but he surprised me with actual potted plants. Didn't know you like plants, no, but he loves plants. So that's some weird ship. You don't think that's weird. No, he just got me the ship that he liked. Do you like it? Yeah? Did a diet? No. He told

me how to take care of it. And I felt like from jump he was trying to give a lasting impression, because you know when you buy somebody bluecat flowers and stuff like that people, and people don't even take them on and put them in water. They just like him take a picture and pulled them and then throw them away even whatever the fun that. Yeah, I put my shtion in water too, But yeah, no, I feel okay.

But I'm just saying, it's just something different about a nigga coming to your job with a m like but it's all good, quay. She has a hating that is loose somebody because nigga ain't never bought her plant. No, y'all, shut up, because keep buying her them temporary, y'all. That's why she keep cutting these niggas off. Anyway, whatever for the next episode. No, so you know, I have plants

that are in my room already. I added the two plants that he you know, he purchased with my plants, and I was just like, oh my god, that was really thoughtful. And then my overthinking this. I'm just like, man, he's trying to make a lasting impression, you know. That's why he bought plants, like something that if you take care of it, it'll grow. That's like a relationship. If you take care of relationship and it'll grow. I don't know, mess that's how I took it. Oh so we didn't

say that you like that? Yeah, but that's good as manifestation also, so why yeah but not oh my god? First as all. So hey, y'all, So over the weeks, we've gotten closer and closer and closer. Obviously I couldn't keep my legs closed. I mean, well, and your woman, you have sexual needs, you know, and bitch who it's a first of all, tony. So what we don't need for her to go in depth with is because we

know just how she keeps laughing and just chuckling. And I know y'all can actually imagine how her face is right now, like she is like moving, she can't keep still. She really is feeling this, dude, Yeah, ain't feeling me too? From Facebook? You know. Him and I had a conversation and he was just like, you know, he feeling me. I'm feeling him. We're like overly feeling each other, and I'm just like, all right, I deleted that Facebook dating ship,

I deleted my profile. I want you to lete yours too, And he was down. I love that. I love that. That's how you none the mother's telling anything that right, So he and neither are you. No, we ain't on that. We ain't on that. We deleted that ship. Now we got a commercial and if you click off of this podcast,

I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen. I went on vacation for a bachelorette celebration because I'm in my best friend's wedding and I met the club with the girls or whatever we're celebrating, and I just happened to click on Instagram and I clicked on his little story bubble because I saw it. You know, he had posted some things and he posted me and I choked on the food that was eating the club, like, wait a minute, this nigga and posted me. I was like, Nigga's don't

post me? What was it though? What was it? It was screenshots to me and him on FaceTime, first of all, and then it's not creepy to me, but I just didn't know that he'd be screenshotting us while we're on FaceTime. It was cute at least. I wasn't looking all up or nothing like that, but I was surprised. I was like, oh, ship, Like, what was the first thing to go to your mind?

Did you? I know you didn't think it was creepy, but did you Like I was just like, oh, Ship, like this nigked these bitches about to be made on his page and he don't give a fuck. I was flattered him and I share locations. Really, we shared locations. We shared locations, and he was just like, you know, I don't have anything to hide, and I don't want

you to think that I'm working with these bitches. I never had a nigger share location with me, So that right there was like, kudos to your heads off to you, sir. That's some real grown man ship because I you know, I only shared locations with my home girls and my kids and Ship. Yeah, everything that I'm experiencing with him is new for me just from being posted. Just like, oh, Ship, like you're showing me off. This one bitch was hating

big time talk about something. Oh you're only sucking her because that's us hilarious, sister, Like, then shut the funk up, because like that means you came to my page to come look, yeah, to see to see who you know I was related to you, because you know, he was trying to get at me back in the two thousand's, the early two thousands, So like don't hate bitch. What if she came back like in bitch you didn't even want to give him no raps, So get the funk out of anyway. You know, I slave a bit. No,

we can't go there around no more. You're saying, yeah, speak for yourself, nobody playing, but either way, so you are in like a honeymoon phase right now. And boyfriend, oh my god, I don't but now it's all listening. My thing is I was with you, like on the phone with you every day, calling to make sure you were good. You never know how long it takes for your heart to heal, Ny, You never know whose treasure

you really are. Like if you get so stuck in one place and you you think it's like not like really the end of the world, but you feel that way because the heartbreak is upon you. Listen, I'm telling you it's always somebody winning on a treasure and that you, you definitely is what this man was praying for it because he told you that, yes he did. He told me. He told you that, he told me that he prayed

for me. Yeah, and he that you know, he said, I didn't pray you know for you, you know, per se directly but I asked God to give me what I need, and he gave me you out of nowhere. So that right there. For one, like just the fact that he prays. Yeah, you know, I love that he's girlfriend. He prays. So it's just like you know, he golferd and hood nig like he going for like not golfriend. Yeah, golf you're not a girl friend. Fuck you're look bit just get all in love and want to be getting with.

He a girl friend. Look, but y'all so he and he loves his kids. I'm a sucker for that. I many kids got He has two children, you have three, So he already know he's done with that like whatever that Yeah, he's all down for the Brady bunch. It. He's he's talking future. He's talking future. He's talking future, not the rap, but not that kind of future. Ool Jesus, I would hope that. But so what, oh my god, So what type of future ship is he talking? Like

long term you know, marriage, meshing, families, family trips. You know, so this is something that he's already wonted then, Yeah, I mean niggas is getting over real, Like he about to be thirty nine. He's a virgal like men. You know I'm a Zodiac person. He's my Virgo lover. His birthday is a week after mine. Have you ever dated your son? Yeah, August one, so I'm I told you I'm so zodiac like. So I had I had it

August in August virgo. I've never had a September one, but the August one was ain't right because that's what Michael Jackson was. First of all, big, don't ever try to there's no ever trying to play with Michael later because you didn't even know. You don't ever do that. You don't say yeah, not them, umgus, because that's what Michael was. Girl, Stop playing with Michael Jack's Okay. So it's safe to say that you have been completely hold off your heartbreak. I haven't. I did not think that

it would happen so early. But I don't think about anybody else m but him, Like he is all I see. He's all I think of. When he calls my my day just brightens up. He makes my heart smile. I can't even explain how a heart smile feels. But like I literally have like butterflies, Like it feels like I have butterflies on my entire tour. So were you scared at first? I really, I really do a heartbreak, I really was granted happened quickly, yes, but it happened naturally.

It wasn't a forced situation. It was just like a natural bond between two humans. And that's how your monkeys. I don't meddam not too goddamnit. Now you're trying to be too deep, bitch. Come on, come on back between two humans. What you thought you was aliens before? I mean, it's just amazing. He's extremely thoughtful. He sends me random cash apps and I'm not hold hold of funk up. That's what all this ship is like. No, it's not. No, oh, I know it's I'm coming. No, No, you don't never

tell me that ship. I know that's right, man, Okay put it there. No, because it's just being thoughtful. Ain't know all the ship that matters, like my birthday, my cash ap? No, No, she plays all that's just added to the to the love that you know. Yeah, he's a sweetheart and he deserves everything that he gives that

he's given to me. He deserves it. I had him a nice Father's day give oh, yes, and I took him on a date, our first official date, and you know, just to let you women know it is okay for you to take you're mad on a fucking date like because they deserved that ship too, especially when they're showing Hella love to you and they always there and doing stuff for you and reciprocate. Bitch. Yeah, first of all,

what they gotta be bitches, were just crying off. These men deserve to be treated as kings like they treating us like queens and stuff like that. They deserved the same. And all of them are not bad, Like, all of them are not the same. Like stopped looking at every man the same. All these niggas ain't no ancient niggas, you know, and all of us are not hosed, you know. So yeah, I mean we were, all of us not by no. Unfortunately I'm back for the streets y'all. So

it's like, no, I'm joking. I'm not I'm joking. I'm in this bitch crying every night, It's all right, No, not crying because I'm just I just need I just need to get myself all the way together. It's just like, you know, it never works like for me, Like I just be so upset, like because I have failed again, Like this is just I feel like this is because you got money. Yeah, I feel like it's because you have money, your celebrity, and I feel like it's just

hard just being in the line. I'm like, I mean, ship, my ship has always failed and I even got no motherfucking money. So I don't know. I'm just scratched that because yeah, it ain't because you're a celebrity. Ship just don't be working. Yeah, it's not your time, That's what we're gonna say. It's things have not worked because it's not your time. Look at me, I'm pushing forty. When I was your age, I was fighting on Luther's talking

lot at years old, just under the car. Yeah. But anyway, nonetheless, six years later, I am finally in a relationship where someone is proud to have me and consistent with consistent, proud to have me, not hiding me. And you know that is that's big dick energy. Okay, we're gonna initially right here, y'all because when you see your man soon as I get off, this is about the yes, you know why I y'all. Look, So we come to the end of yet another camfully Records episode What's Your Girl?

Just hilarious, say by shake because we ain't got time. By y'all, y'all going to see the weapon princess one day. Oh my god, this girl about to go to panel town with her nigga real quick, listen, just don't hand I'm the babies saying, oh I can't this shop is closed? Why because you got your right? Yeah, but remember I got my utious burnt too, and remember hold up all right, damn, look we ship. I forgot about that. Yeah, they smoked

at you. There's like a blunt they. I was like, damn, listen, y'all love me, and I love y'all, and I love y'all. Motherfucker's tooth for loving me because of y'all love her, and I appreciate and all of the support. Yeah from you guys. It was like that nigg and he was asking what was going on and all of that. So I just wanted to bring you back on hair and just give you a chance to like let people know you know, it's it's not easy going through a heartbreak,

but it feels good when you get past it. And you need to know that you need to love yourself and it's abouter to let motherfucker's go to show you that, you know, you just wasted your time and show you that they didn't really love you like they most definitely you know what I mean, like they're really portrayed to And just like that, we out of here and make sure you tune in next week every week, seven am, every Wednesday. Wife Yeah. Carefully Reckless is a production of

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