Jess & Rome Get Real

Your son made its call reckless before years. No, Yo, it's low as to be trying to really really boss up on me. He'd be trying to crack on me and everything. You think, your little comedian when you get in here. Um, the topic that I wanted to discuss um A lot of people always asks. They always ask about like how you and I got to this point, you know, where we can co parent healthy and like in a healthy way, and how we have made this um,

this this great environment for ourselves and our child. Like we were like, we're definitely like a happy family, but like we it's like, man, you are siblings and people don't even they don't get it. They love it, but they don't get it. So I want to talk about that like because it took a long time for us to get here, but we did. We did get it, And I don't think it took a long time. I just think it took some time. It's took a lot of work too, it took a lot. I wouldn't even

say it work. It just it was pride. I think it was a lot of pride in the way like you know, we was, we was young, We was coming from two different backgrounds, and for the longest I really couldn't understand you, like why you did the things you did when you came from a two prime household, and you know, as as I grew and you know, learn to get out my feelings with dealing with you, I took a step back and I said, well, damn, let

me try to understand it. Which I can't get you personally into that or far as me at Ashton, it was like it was easy for us to just separate and go out ways because we had your number one lady in the middle, your mom, My mom. She took it was so much easy. Ways though you'd be like, all, well, fuck you, bitch, or whatever the case. Maybe I never was really that disrespectful then, so I wouldn't really say that,

but you never you never really did. You didn't talk to me like I talked to you the correct and you know, like I said even then, like I'm like, damn, why is she talking to me like that? Like he's like, you know, like I was a little I don't even timid, but just like still really emotional. But definitely I think, mom, your mom, Mom arrived and you know, shout out to her. Always give her flowers. Why I always give up flowers, But I believe that her being your mom and a

daycare provider really helped us a lot as well. So of course I didn't have to see you. I would pick him up on a Friday, drop him off Monday to daycare, go to school, and you will get a Monday through Thursday, which in the normal world for moms that have, you know, custody of their children, that is normal for the dad to do. Yeah, it is not a problem. You're not a dad beat dad because you get your child through Monday. I mean primarily a kid.

You know, a kid lives with their moms, so you know, primarily in some cases, you know, because nowadays, you know, there are a lot of single dads too, and you know, and and they get like they had their children from sun up the sunday. You know, they have to they have to be basically the mother and the dad, you know. And I give those dads their flowers as well, you know what I'm saying. So I'm not gonna always um

only give the moms a single mom life. You know, some light, No, definitely, but that's WHI always take the credit for, granted with me and you And wait, what was you saying? Because you said you couldn't understand why I would do the things I did? What the hell was not doing that was so necessarily you was doing bad thing? It was the way you like just like nobody really seen that side of you, like the party side, the wild side, like for a long time. We're gonna

put it on here. For a long time. It was, oh that's wrong, baby mother. I know I've said that, but a lot of doing before I was, before Jessillaris was even thought of. I was just wrong, baby mother. Nobody. Yeah, we will take it because of you. We're gonna take it back before Ashton. We're gonna play it like that. We're gonna take it back before Ashton before that, you know, it was that was wrong, baby mother. Everybody was trying

to figure out who Jess was. You know, Facebook was popping, and then she had the ball blonde head head we played the kan Yeah yeah, Ama Rose things. So you know, like then I started going parties. Well, um, a couple of friends of mine from school and um, a couple of parties. I'm gonna put you on the flying you

know now people seeing you. Now you're going out more because for a long time, like I said, you in school white people, so like you've really never really I never really seen a party side until after that, like after that fact, so right after that part, but it was like why the fund this girl always got a party, Like why is she not family going to like your mom my dad still together? You know, they got two houses, like that's the life. Like I was like that. I

was like, that's all right. So when you grow up like that, you know what I'm saying, Like my mom didn't let me go off. My mom didn't like it was. I was just doing everything that I wasn't allowed to do when I was younger. My mom didn't like me hanging with fast tail girls like fast ass girls, and and she did Yeah you know, I was definitely sheltered, you know, And it wasn't like I thank her for

that now, you know. But that's why I always I started sneaking out and I started stealing our car coming to Baltomore because you know, I went, like I sent to an all white high school in Pennsylvania. So I started. I got into two drugs and Ship, I got into all that. When I started drinking up there with them goddamn white kids. I'm like, oh, Ship, all right, you working all the way in Baltomore, Mom, Ship, I'm about

to start sucking up out here, you know. And when I got back to Baltomore, that's when I met you after my high school year is and I'm like, okay, all right, so now I can party in Baltimore, like now, you know. So that's what it was. I was just trying to I guess, you know, get my years back that I spent bench you know, not able to do that, Ship, okay. And then yeah, like I think that that was that time.

And then it was a situation. You got into this when I really liked, knew that I was in love with you, because when you came to me, I really could I really wasn't you know, what's the way do you? I can use not emotional. I really wasn't sympathy sympathetic. I really wasn't like, oh, well she coming to me like whatever, I don't believe I really believe you. But

about you know with the John concil block, the model. Yeah, so you know, like when you know, we sat in the court room and you know you at this point, at this time, you're pregnant, so like you know, you're showing a little bit. So when you were set in the court room and um, all I heard was Tom, I ain't hid is a suspension the weekend ship and none of that ship. So like you know, at the sentence was over, I was all right, well she got

go on weekends. So this one, you know, it got a little good for me because I'm like, oh, she going to jail on the weekends. I had a call, so I was going to jail, and all you was worried about was the bitches you was going to see while I was jail on the weekend, because she was gonna hand in my car. No, it wasn't necessary that it was because I was always scared to drive outside of the neighborhood. I adn't really get that until you know, man, you started driving back and forth the p A. You

don't let me drive. Mind, I still only had a college. I didn't have a birth to you at that time, but I was yeah, didn't so until late. But remember I used to work with the car washing the part of car and current cleaning. Real good for the gentleman ties. Stay. But I think that man, you gained such a great bomb because you was dead when I got all of those things, birth certificate, my my permit, my license, and we found out the real spelling US spelling to my name.

And I had to go do so much things and it is getting me changed. And this is me by myself doing it. Like like I said, Man, you know, I love my dad to death, but my dad didn't really do he was supposed to do. And my my mom, my stepmom, my stepmo was really just a provider. My stepmom really wasn't a lover. Like she didn't know how to kiss you. Yeah, yeah, it was never I love you. It was never man, let me hold you. It wasn't. But she made you know, she cooked the lot she

supposed to do. And you know me, I wanted that because I had lost my mom. So now so now I'm an adult in the dating world, obvious, really don't know how to date a woman, right, okay, but you know what takes up. It takes like a lot of balls to even say that that's really good that you know that. Yeah, my dad made it cool, like yo, all right, even my right mind. You know, like I said, he a shame this game. We had this conversation a lot. Now. My dad made it cool that it was cool to

just fun different women. It wasn't cool too, I know, I didn't want to disrespect a woman like there, but he my dad made it like it was just cool to date the multiple women. It was like, you know, at eighteen nineteen, my dad like, oh boy, I'm shortly marvel, like I need you had a niece or a sister. Oh oh, I got you, especially when I got a little older. You know, let's go back to you know me, and you're like, we're gonna fast forward a little bit till now acton like one or two for a long time.

I'm gonna say, like seven months, we ain't. We didn't. We don't communicate. We didn't. Yeah, we didn't communicate at all. It was very rare. It was always arguing, like you know, and that that was around the time where you know, you bust my window out the car, you know that jazz and selling and ship Yeah, yeah, you know, that was around that time. But um, after think that was the only problem. After that, you know, I ain't talked to you again. I just your mom let me know

that you was home. Uh we went on, man, I created my schedule then't I think the comedian stuff started probably like a year or two after that. I want to say it started around when Ashton started. Two years after that day, so acting three now it's two, it's two thousand. You know, I catched me, I catched allege that. Um but by then, you know, I had just brought a cough for my twenty second birthday with working money, you know, I catched the check. I'm still going to school,

so everything is opening up for me. But you know you, on the other hand, you're still trying to make it. And one thing I can say, we never could be struggling like a motherfucker's we never could be up at the same time. So like here, I catched the check, you know me, you know me, I'm just so happy I'm younger. Even all this money, I can finally do what I want to do. Now Ship, I could date the chicks that I wanted to date now, like a whole lot. When when I say that, I'd be like,

you know how, you know why, I wasn't enough? No body, you're gone, but no ship. No, by then I'm two when he was broken. No, that's not you're gone already. You know already. Basically you're already gone for me, like you probably had like three or four boyfriends. Matter of fact, remember the first birthday you had a boyfriend as your first birthday, when he first known how to walk, he

had a little push of turtle, you know. Yeah, so by then, like even then we was we wasn't and yeah we weren't buddy buddy then, but we was cool. Yeah we were we were Okay, it wasn't too the second year when I'm like, all right, you know what, I ain't wonder about what she's doing no more. I'm not about to let her keep getting me upset, and you know, whatever the case may be. Then act in turn three. All that ship happened. Now I'm doing good

for myself. By then, you're doing what you're doing You got a boyfriend though, So even when the money and ship really started, when it started really really coming, when it really came, you know the most thing you asked. So I always loved you doing like and I never shared this story, but I'm a share today. When the money came, you never asked me for ship. You said, wrong, I don't want being mommy house no more. Now mind you,

we haven't coming. We're communicating a little bit more. Way before it came, you don't even know it was coming fresh on. But I wanted that. I wanted telling you that, you know, I was get catching the cabs and shipped to the appointments. So then the only thing you said it was wrong. I just want you to help me move. I said, all right, good, findal apartment and I will pay for you. Never found the apartment. You went and got the house man. You got the house, and there

was you and um, what's that guy named? You're on a J. And I'm like, I know this bitch ain't just telling me she wanted to move and move with the motherfucking nigga. But by then me and A J was click tight, like yeah, I like a J. That was my favorite man out of everybody you had, that was my favorite boyfriend you had. Man, we didn't had some of the best talks like that always. Man, we had we had a one on one talk you ain't even know about, and that's what we said about how different.

And it wasn't necessarily did something to me. It was more so me being you know, the cocky person that I was, and I don't want you run my mother. Yeah, yeah, you know so man Ajia had a great talk. Man one shout up to you boy make man, that's one that was one of my like my dogs. I don't know what happened to in whatever case may beat throughout he got locked up. Okay, you got locked Okay to see even after that, then when y'all get done, you

know you got Chris that coming you are. I don't know what was up with you, but your ain't like me for some reason. So like by then, I'm still you know, I still got money, I'm still working my ass, so I'm still doing damn. But Chris didn't like me because we were really close, Me and you were close

like that. So I'm trying to figure it out. So like it's times where I'd be shocking, I'd be like I know my being like this, and I'm like, no, I ain't get because I don't want cars, friction in the household anything because that you never have an But but it wasn't necessary. You never you know what you wasn't that type of woman. Yeah you didn't come from the household, but you would never even know because you're never trying to know. And I never tried because you

had a boyfriend. I didn't want to overstep my boundaries. I didn't want to cause problems, and honestly I didn't because I used to ask actually like yo, like you think I should She like no, because that's phone cause

you know, friction, I like whatever. So it was a little bit of times one time I told you no, but it was times before that You're actually like pay a little bill or something, and I do that like that was all you actually and literally and and if I was asking you that ship I need literally did like you know, I never asked exactly exactly I said, and like even even even to the point where you know, like I said, man, you know I got family used me and all that ship I used me, And I said,

you're like my baby mother never tried to use me. Never never like, never tried to use me. And I really feel like even then, you was the only the only genuine, genuine baby child mom I had. You was the only probably true friend that I had where it was like, yo, this female never asked me for and honestly she was really entitled to it. I'm gonna saying titled because you was my child mom. So it was like, YO, you could have always called, oh, actually need this, actually

need that, need this, but you never did that. You never did that, And um so I boomed fast forward by now ship got fucked up, running out one and low you on your peak. You know, you know you ride money running out you know. I got fired, and that's what really happened. I got fired. So now you know I stopped spending people like, oh he went broke. I ain't go broke. There, I humbled myself at little bit I did, I said, Joe, like the savings, I ain't you know, I don't think it was hopen. I

ain don't know if. I ain't know how I scammed and I don't know how to do none of that. He was not security, that's all. I not security. I was. Now I'm a nursing support. So he fired me, and I'm like, damn, they will find me right right right right now. So I'm like, damn you. I can't spend no more because I don't know when the next time I'm gonna get a jaw. I went a whole six months without a jaw. It wasn't to my aunt, shearid.

It was like go to such and such. You know that you know the manager and you know that the hr I'm like, real, I got my ship. I went up there and just six months later, so you know, I'm on my last and you know, I ain't gonna say who I went back to you at the moment, but you know, I wind up going back to my second child mom. And I did say it. No, I was gonna say no, I ain't gonna say I wind up going back. Yeah, I wind up going back to hub when things you know, but I didn't want to

be with the when things right. It was just knowing. It was just at the moment, I can't say that, um, but by then you know you're reaching your peak and even doing that stage like now you're traveling. Now you're traveling. Don't want to answer my calls, you know, with Chris Chris Witch you endemic that created a jealous spot with me because I'm like, damg, she really don't answer my calls.

She really ain't sucking with me. I say, way, we weren't even in a bad spot for it to be like this, so I'm not confused, but I'm already funk. I know you don't like me. You're in thelocal trust girl. Now, okay, cool, that went on like a year some change. It wasn't until you really up and just left your alone you got a relationship. I got everybody back like again, Like honestly, I don't know what the funk it was. It was

just like he just had me isolated. It's fun from like I wasn't I wasn't even close with London when I was with him, Like I wasn't talking to Shana as much when I was with him. Like it was just like like I don't know why, Like it was like he had turned me against other. Well, and then this is the you know my closest people. And the thing is, you're not ever supposed to give somebody some power over that. I mean, give somebody some power like that over you, like you never post you. I don't

know what it was what the hell it was. But Chris had a motherfucking hold on me, you know what I mean. Like, the only person that I was even close to, like around with other than him was my son, Like that was it. Me and my mom, Like we we talked. I would never go around my family though, Like it was crazy. So I felt lonely, as fun

to you, while I was with him. I'm like, damn, and I felt lonely because I had caught everybody off, you know, indirectly, and that ship like really fucked me up something like, y'all, I need to get away from this nigga for different reasons. Not only is he stealing stealing from me, Not only is he cheating on me. Not only is you know, is he not even good for my son? You know, he's also fucking just not good for me. Period. He's not a good person, you know.

And so I I realized that. And it's like, you're never supposed to stay with somebody so long to where you start hating them. You gotta break that shut off, because um, you know, it's not good to hate someone. And then the thing is, I think we're both doing great, fucking great. I don't know exactly how he's gonna He has a beautiful baby. Um, I hear you know. Um, I think he's been blocked so long I can't even go to his page. So and I doubt that he

comes to mind. I mean, I don't know, you know what I'm saying, Like he has a beautiful child, and um, I've seen the baby. You know, other people screenshots people like oh, she had a baby, and they send it to me. Um, baby look just like him. I know he's in a relationship. Um he is top tier uber driver, Like he's like yeah, like he's doing exceptionally well, like okay, and I still wish him all the best, but they say even doing this, Bard is great, like everything is great.

So I'm like, maybe that was the best thing for both of us. Like you gotta understand, there's no disrespect to anybody, but you blew overnight. It wasn't that long. And then so to take a young man from not saying nothing, but to take a young man on a fame fame part like from nobody know me to dang, I'm all over the world. You know I'm doing this, I'm doing that. And I was like, you know, it's crazy because for a long time, like and I can only imagine how you felt in my predicament. But I

used to sit back like, damn you. I knew we probably wouldn't a relationship. But that supposed to have been me with her. Why because I felt as though I needed to be by you to protect you from certain ship. So you have said that UF felt as never ever told me I've always I felt like that, and I always I was dealing with it like I was dealing with it. Was though she used to dream me like

during that stage I was going through other ship. Now that's when I started drinking a lot, because like now people know who you are, but people know that you was my Now if you really didn't know, you didn't know, but people knew that she was my child mom. And I used to always grot fake pages used even in public, like damn she made it and she left you or she made then she don't do ship full you high fielding and nothing. It should be so much. And I used to have a cane to you why because first

and foremost I know how that is. Like when you're in a certain predicament, you have a certain type of money, like you have a certain type of stature like it's hard and it's stressful because there was more money comes, more bills and more problems and more expensive by entitled yeah what I said, you know what, yo, I think the bar we created right now to this day and

today is January twelve, and I just sat back. I sat back and I said, you know why, in due time, I honestly believe that me and How will have the calderness co parenting. You're always making up some band words cos I like it, man, how it will be calls you for our sons soon. It wasn't about nothing. It wasn't out just the MESSI was. It wasn't about none of that like it was. People always like, oh, she fund said, well, that's just our natural personalities. I've never

even said you. I just said our because when we're in the we're in the same setting like it's nothing. But always after the emotions and ship went away from the baby mama baby father drama, it was always a vibe. It was always catchy. We always have fun. So I just together and how much like yo, like, all right, okay, it had come a time where me and Hug can

be you know close. I always wanted that though because I was like yo, like I used to see people cooked, like older guys close with their children, mom and stuff with them, Like damn, I wish we can do that and don't have to be together. So I was never the ones who oh my baby, man that bitch. No, I wanted to coordinates while because I've seen from other situations that it was healthy for the child. Hold up, hold up, I know the ship getting good. But listen

to just a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. I've never, honestly, I've never seen uh bond like ours. Like I've never seen a co parenting team like us. I don't know one couple well, one x couple two parents that are not together and gel well and it can actually work together and not have to like force it like in front of their child, you know, but they really hate each other. I've never I've seen that this function. I've never seen like how

we are. And a lot of people love that ship, you know, yeah, a lot of people a lot of people about us. A lot of people love it. But us, granted we ain't perfect, you know, like we be. If we argue, we may not speak. We talked about each other. We do all of that for the for the net sayers, and for the haters who won'ta say oh they phony. They just say that it ain't nothing other, it ain't nothing,

never phony. It's just we at the end of the day heard being missing Llarius and me being a regular person. I am. We still are Ashton's parents. We're still going to go through that. You know, you're gonna you'ren You're gonna hear everything. Man, You're gonna it's gonna be a lot of haters and say, oh, I don't like they. I swear you're gonna head after this come out. You're gonna head. But fuck them. It's gonna be people around me. It's gonna be it's gonna be close and media people

that said fuck them. You know for a long time, and I said, man, I appreciate that we can have this bond. Also more appreciate you know the position that you know, you allow me to be put in, even you know, being beside beside you of it than your child's that you know, your business partner, even for your moral support and ship like that. You know, it's so much stuff like sometimes you get on my fucking nerves because I'll be the old day like the funk, like

why would she say this? Why would she say that? But I'm like, you know what, that's her right, Like even with carefully reckless live discussion. Yo, I'm going through you know, the comments of course on YouTube, and we got so many fucking dudes. I'm so excited, like you know, and one actually drops tonight seven pm. So make sure you're doing to that. That's the episode two. And this

one is it's even steamier than the first one. Um, and my mic ain't for cannot no, no, you know you your Mike ain't gonna suck up this one on this one. But I noticed, like in the comments, people will say, oh, just still want him more, he know, he's still in love with her, or he want her back boy and she want him back. Clear that shut up. I mean, it's self explanatory. Man. You don't have to want somebody back, Like I had a conversation with my homeboy the other day and I don't want to. But

they never hear you say it. I'm speaking to the audience, I'm speaking to everybody who said but I'm speaking to her. I'm speaking to the artist and speaking to everybody who said, but I'm also speaking to my motherfucking bro. Mr Kara, this is the cleared up to you. This is to clear up to a Yeah, that's my that's my brother and his wedding. I do not want my child mama. It's no attraction there. She's a beautiful woman, yes she is. Do I love her? Yes? I do. I love as

my child mom, my friend. You know things that my brother and my sister, however you want to put it things in that nature, Like like I was telling my my bro, I said, Bro, my child mom can walk in front of me naked, and I don't give a fuck literally, like yo, go put some fucking clothes on, Like what are you doing? Like it's been times where I didn't walk in the garage, through the garage coming to the house and you know, just to pick my

son up. But like people will be like, oh yo, lie yo, brono, I don't have to fucking lie, bro, Like I ain't never had a a problem and getting a woman or you know, getting asked like that moment. I didn't that. It ain't too many I haven't touched. But it's like niggas think that you gotta be sucking your baby mother because she and I asked them whole I'm gonna take that back, I asked him. I said, is it because she's just the largest? Why I should

try to get back with her? Nobody wants to give me a real answer, though, but I know that's what it is, because if you wasn't they with me saying I would bro go back to your first billy mother, because you ain't staying go back to your second? Yeah, y ain't saying go back to your third was never existed. But so why does it go back to my first one? I'm already on my fourth one? Why why is it?

You know? So I'll be trying to I'll be really wanting to know the answer, like yo, like come on, Like is it because you had a couple of dollars that ain't never move me? So you know, no, to the world man, to the public, to my peers, to my brothers, to my family, I do not want my child mom. It is nothing we're able to be in a room or setting an environment involved, like to know what's just to love us together? If you have a around us, you'd be like, damn, wow, I'm pretty sure

something of her boyfriends can have a boyfriend. Now, I'm pretty sure you'll still be feeling a weird like, damn, no, this ship really really yeah, honestly, he has like no issue and you know, man got histories like literally, so I wouldn't think it would be Yeah, and then he and his son's mom are like, dangn like us. Ain't nobody like us, but they're definitely on the level where they can talk about their son and they you know,

and probably even laugh and joke together. And like he's been around you know, our boy friends and ship and you know, and well he hasn't had a girlfriend since her, you know me, you know, yeah, like my boyfriend was single for eleven years. You know that was his last relationship and when he was in with his his son's mom. But you know that even that, like he just was like y'all loved the dynamic that you're on wrong man,

Like I love that. I ain't nobody you. He did not love you on our first date, ruf Chris, but I was invited. I didn't say, come on us go you said, honestly, you tell him that, Oh well, I didn't know that I showed I was never gonna say I showed up. But even if you would have, but I still would have came because you are that person. But he would have known that because he listened to I did not know. I really thought. I really thought it was a huge planned it for us. I ain't

even acting. We was talking and when y'all walking to it to the bathroom, I don't know if it was the Father's day thing. Yeah, so what I'm thinking, I'm like, oh, you know me hard, I don't really do it. And I didn't think he was gonna come. That's why I was like, I don't think you were going to come because dad, I took my dad off for the first time. Yeah, so I didn't and you had told me he was gonna spend, but my dad wanted to do he wanted to do, so if you didn't, you want to do that, right?

Sounds like a yeah, you know. So I ain't able to eat too much because I knew what I had, what I wanted. But yeah, man, I think once the emotions and the feelings is gone, Yeah, and the pride and ship is a way I think that people can really find the good and that when you're not together, corning is great. Yeah. And then when you can actually put everything on the table and actually like tell me like why did you hurt me? Or Okay, this is what I did and it's no secrets. That's the thing.

I'm sorry. Like even to this day, like you know, I go through hell and hot water, and it'd be like even with my second child, Mom, it's like I can't get on the same page right because she's worried about what I do too much, like it never you never, you never, but she says she is. You never call me and just make it about to live. It's always I'm about a bit you laid You want to be leave pressed to be laid up with a bit, but

check you laid up how you laid up? But you gotta what I'm doing, yo, because I have I have a I have a two year old baby boy. She's still like yo, like come on, man, I got a five year old daughter. It's still and bound you granted even on the time of man Bryson Mom, like you know, yeah, I went back, you know, not really thinking Bryson Mom was gonna take me back. I went back. I did. I fucked up. But like for a person to say that they don't want a person and they moved on.

I should not be going through what the funk I'm going through? I shouldn't you laid up? But check you're telling me, Oh, I'm pressed to lay up with a bit. You know everything I do? You worried about I switched my car as a problem. I moved out of the house. Oh, it's a problem. And this is we still talking about the second baby here I move out of the house. It's a problem. Oh why are you this? Why? Why are you worrying about me so much? Well? Why is

that even a question? When you know why she write about it because it's a question, because why Then it becomes a power struggle where she want to control things. You want to go, what's my daughter? She want to go to the media and bash me about shaking things when yo, come on, yo, how long ago was that we still making things? Rather year like, come on man? Then everything everything? Every time I'm dealing with someone new player is always oh, you're just mad because I ain't

want to funk with you. Yo, I've been accepted that. So now list six. Why can't you just be cause you yeah, you know, and it's not the download of death a character or to degrade, but yo, like at some point women gotta let that hurt go. But it's gonna take Yeah, it's gonna take a long long time because honestly, I'm gonna tell you why before we get up out of here. You you just admitted it and you didn't even know. Um you know, you you used her. You went back to a lot of times when it

was convened from you. But that was pulling on her heart strings the whole time, you know what I'm saying, Like, so you made her feel like that. You gave her a lot of hope a lot of times like oh he might come back for good, to the point where even when she know you didn't mean it, she tricked herself into still like just holding onto that time, like believing. She tricked us out into believing you. You know what I mean. She just got used to being let down,

so she heard out taken white here, you know. And then that's when she would say little things to to the latest baby mother like oh yeah this that neither. That's why she made it a point of running back every time, telling her oh, you know, yeah, Rome just left here, or Rome just asked me can he come to my house? Or he just wanted to do this, and one of and what it it wasn't working out

with her. I'm really changing and really trying to be a better man, better that better everything, to be honest. But because you can't keep doing what you did in the passion, don't get nowhere. People never get nowhere. We're trying to go, but it's like it hurts so bad that I never can get through tour. Yeah, now you will be never could get through tour. Like it's always about what I'm doing. Yeah, when the last time we touched the Bryson to Brihanna was pregnant. Okay, so yes,

so that was like that was still almost three. But that's different you're doing. That's different times because she ain't got you all the time. She ain't gonna be lonely while you ain't knowing you to come back. You're doing what you're doing. You got you having your fun, You're going on dates, you get and dressed, you going and then't look like fun. I don't you look like fun the time she worried about you, I don't. That's her

problem now. But that's why. Actually the last time you touch it, because that's still recent to this, it's always or you broke this or you broke that. Oh you ain't got this or you ain't got that? How you this? How you that? That ship? Don't bother me? Man? What can we do to move forward on being better parents for my daughter? And it's and it will happened just as long as you stay stay out of her bed, you stay out of the house, you stay out of her face, and you and so that that she will

have no other choice but to respect that ship. You literally, you know before we get out, you know that. I just have to clear it up because it's gonna be alive or a post or whatever the case, not even alive because she don't really do live. It's gonna be a post where trying to at me, manipulate me, deafromize my character and all of that when it ain't and I'm not responding to that. I'm not responding to it

no more. Too mature, I've grown, I'm not. That's why I said, that's what I'm in big, like you're too big now for that ship, not even like status wise, I mean just like your mind is, you're on a different plateau like mentally, I can't be back and forth with no more man. But like I said, little all the people out there. That's how I mean jest, be you know, gain the relationship we have. We're not perfect, No, we definitely jailed a lot. I haven't seen a coprunching

like us. Um to all you fellas, continue doing what you doing. Be great, you know, be consistent, Um, Always get your point across. You know, always try to be civilized. You know, you ain't gotta be right ry all the time to you women, same as you. You know, take your time, Try to let them emotions go. If you still have emotions there, don't be afraid to explain that. Maybe y'all can do better with him knowing you know,

But don't try to make that man life miserable. Don't try to take from that man, especially when you know he may have other children or another family or trying to move for or even may want to be with you. Allow that man to grow. Help that man grow. You're losing too many fathers out here, Black fathers. That But it's me as a little baby father out of head, and I know for a fact it's gonna get there. It's gonna get there with your your other baby mothers

and ship. But they ain't gonna never be like Justin Roman. On that note, I'm out of head carefully right. Lets make sure you you tune in each and every Wednesday hump Day, and now make sure you tune in at seven pm every Wednesday for the live discussion. Love y'all. Peace Carefully Reckless is a production of I Heart Radio and The Black Effect. For more podcasts from My heart Radio, visit the I heart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.