How Close Is Too Close?

on Reckless Discussions. It's my favorite cousin London, say with yeah, bitch, Now listen, we're not gonna get away like miss Perfect Patty Pussy and ship ready doing this and what's up you? What's up your per But I have a new slogan from this perfect right, what's miss perfect girl? What's the new slogan? Bitch? Hashtag? It's the guard in me? Hash things to God to me. I keep telling you don't have to lean into the mic like niggas can't hear you die? And a ross we heat you. Okay, it's

a garden you. But you're drunk currently? Is that correct? Um? A wow, I don't snitch, excuse me, Yeah, she's drunk. She's drunk. We're gonna that's funny, but no, I'm happy to have you on girl. You finally came on the podcast now listen. London has been saying forever, Oh, I want to do a podcast with you. I want to do a podcast with you. But when she actually gets around me and it's time to do it, she's like,

nowhere to be found. No, I have to be a mom because I have a five year old hate when a bit saved one kid and be like, uh, if you have a kid, you would understand. Bitch, I have a kid and she got money, so she had a babysit his nail. Excuse mad didn't always have money. I didn't know I was you have money. Now you have a babysitter nail. Because it's like me, be like, does anybody wanna watch him? One for twenty two forty let's let's start here. You don't know you don't let anyone

watch your son. You don't because you just swear he's not no one can care for him like you do, and rightfully so no one can care for him like his mother. But bitch, you don't even trust people to watch him. So since I got you here, I want to name this episode how close is too close? I want to name it that because we're very close. We are very close being closed since we was fucking little. But the thing about it is, sometimes we can be

overbearing to each other. Yes, and I say each other because not only are you overbearing to me, sometimes as a protective big cousin who just knows it all, I'm overbearing to you as what what would you say and tread lightly? Is the hood investigator? Hold on? Why the first word had to be fucking hood? Bright? Alright, Okay, I'm from the suburbs, you're not. You're from definitely from Sound right yea? Yeah? So we wreaked together and we're

cousins and we nosy. So it's like, how do you mix the three without being like, I'm gonna let her live her life and still be here for her a lot of the times, Like I could be nosy. We already know I'm sorrying about she don't order a thirty dollar pansy from Fanshanov and I'd be like, oh my god, I gotta get that, or or or if I order a three hundred dollar pants suit from the dig in fotail, She'll be like, um, why you do that? What you could have got the same one on this You could

have got the same one on shame dot com. You could have got the same one. Like so she's very or if she ordered Oh yeah, I acused me. I mean, I'm sorry, but I had to be real with the people. You know, I see a lot of things that's going on, and you know, I'm like ship she getting up one point and sick. Yeah, basically yeah, that's when it's too close. I swear to guard and then look the location bation

when I'm somewhere. I tried out to check it. I promise you, I really it would have to be like you bleft me for five hours street and five check it. And that's something you have a friends, I can't say, but me personally, it gotta be like, okay, now, bitch, what a funk you with? Like the day, last ten minutes, I was like, I'm checking the ship now, and and I pulled up and then and then I was like, let minutes be here, but I wasn't nowhere. I had

to get gas. But I don't know me mind of your business, I swear, like so recently Josica was like I had taxed her something and she was like, well, you should know you got my location. I said no, like I didn't, and I was like I hope that she really don't think I'm checking her ship because I ain't know clown the streets, like yeah, it's not you know, like I'm my business. Until it was like, okay, this is in you know more specifically towards beating me. I

don't really have patience like that. Yea. She hates waiting for someone because if Jessica had a way too, I was with someone, she relieved I would I have to try this on you as a prank one day to be like I'm gonna be there too, and it's like actually before you could be like I'm fucking gone, like I would never talk to you again. Johnson over hated. But long story shows I don't invade your privacy unless

it's like destriment. Like the last time I did it and I felt bad was like Robbin showed up on you, oh ship, because I was like, you know, that was like crossing like cousin boundaries because I knew when you was there bond Robin didn't. But it still was a point where it was like in my betraying my cousin like a little bit. I felt bad for that for a long time. I don't think I've told you, because she pulled up some arms, spread over, doors, spread over in the back, and I was like, I hope she'll

say it was me. And then she was like, because I don't know how you found out, but I definitely told the okay ship And it was only because she was so stressed out. But I felt bad and I was like, this is crazy, Like me and my cousin are such because like before favorite Joss, like I got your back, you know you want to do something, let me know. Hey, yo, don't you ever slide your fucking pointy finger crushed the bottom of your nose like you

just had some crack on it. But for real, like when I started working for you, it's like it's a difference between like what I completely can't say, but what I can just certain people like your mother, your son, myself, Like I have to know who you are. So it is hard sometimes because we're like savorite cousins even though

we're so different, we're favorite cousins. But it's hard sometimes like being your worker b or your executive I guess, but also still respecting that we're cousins and we still want to be like go to slide to me, like wisions where I hang out? So five a m. Don't tell where I'm at because you know I don't look out for you a few times, but sometimes I can't, especially to Aunt Rob and said, you know how ideas and you mother, and you just want to fucking have fun.

All you do is work and you just want to go ahead fun. But you're supposed to get your kids soon as you get off, or get your kids, in my case, as soon as you're laying. I'd be like, yo, I was supposed to be back on Monday, all right, So if she hits you, be like, she's back on my day, bitch. I flew on Sunday. I'm partying all Sunday funk that. So yeah, give me extra day, bitch, let me get my life, you know, saying you know, yeah, I know she pleasen't want to listen to this because

she listens every week, so she's gonna hear. You know it's on you, So hold up, hold up. I know the ship getting good, but listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen, have you ever felt like I did anything that made you say like, she's too in my business, So she's too close, So she's too comfortable, you know how close it's too close? And in my case for you, I don't think that you I would maybe feel like that

because you issue issue your energy. You are very much like I got you big if you need. But I'm gonna let you experience what you go through like you never was over. I'm over b like who you're talking to? What's saying? Dress? We live like case search, case search, my cousin will kay search any fucking body in my

round that's not even only niggers. Y all. If you ever get to meet me and I ever want to befriends you, she's going to k such you and tell me all about your history and be like, bitch, this person used to do scams, hide your fucking credit cards, like and like, honestly, I don't know if it's a bost Moore thing, but like I will go to the motherfucking county Federal Mexico and also come motherfucking search perer. So yeah, basically, I'm the one that does too much

and you chill, And that's a problem. But Jessica does get to a point where she has tell you what it is and you don't want to hear it what you mean? I would like, so I think it was me? She like it was very much you. I'm like, okay, bitch, fuck, so what do you mean? Like if I if I was saying, like if I was talking to a guy and he cut me off, and I'm like, yeah, I'm vnding, And she'd be so emotionless, like she's been wanting to say it for happen in her life. She'd be like,

he probably don't like you. I'm like, alright, bitch, I got money fucked. Oh my god. See one thing about her, though she's very prideful, she does not like to hear that someone may not like her. And and in life that's going to happen, Cousin, Like, motherfucker's ain't gonna funk with you. You ain't everybody type, just like everybody ain't

your fucking type. And remember one day we had somebody tell us that maybe it's a scept guys that you're attracting and the people that you're attracting, it's you intimidate a lot of people because you're very headstrong, You're very like you're sure of yourself. That's intimidating to a lot of people. When you know a lot of people, they honestly Kyle or because they're like they don't know ship and it's just horrible. Sometimes nobody want to be around

to know at all. You know what I mean, I feel you, and honestly I hate you don't know it all? I know I do, I really do. Like sometimes I just want to be like um busted by you always like that anyway, Yeah for sure, but like like I don't know, people must understand me. But you, like I said, you have a good way of like not being in too much in my business and I'm all the way in your business. But I know how to relax, right,

you know that? Like I just know you. So I'm like, Okay, now I'm crossing the line if I didn't mention this seven seven eight times and shame you're trying to talk about it. I got to back up. But I might still mentioning it because I'm a knownion like that. I'm like, she can be like this just talking about that ship I don't even want to talk about because that's a good y'all. She's like, you want to everything, want the hush hush tip. But I know are so I respect it,

but I'm nosy, so I'm like, tell me. But she's very much nosey. And I know out of you all there, I got nosy as cousins. I know y'all do, and they happen to be your favorite cousin and their nowsy because this is my favorite cousin. But she's very nosy, Like it's actually obsessive a little bit, because it's like a tripping that I always one of her business, maybe because I don't have enough business or something. Well do

you feel like you don't have enough business? Well, listen, let's just say London moved into her own house, bought her own house as a goal for thirty. She actually didn't when she was twenty nine, but she bought her her first house. She moved away from Baltimore, right, So she moved away from all her family and all the little bit of friends that she is. And I'm sorry, I'm sorry she moved away. She moved away from her family and friends and to another state. Although it's not far,

it's not right there either. It's not like down the street it's not you know, you can't throw a rock from Baltimore to her house. You know, she lives in Pennsylvania and it's a neighborly state. However, she still feels alone up there because it's just her my little cousin, which is her son. She has a five year old baby and a dog. Actually she gave away the dog. I didn't give her away. I got her. I just

can't take her. So she gave away the dog and so it's just hering her son and he moved in a big ass house in Pennsylvania where they have no friends and no one to call on, and every time they turn around there lonely. So you know what I'm saying. No, So she moved all the way up there, and her social life depleted. And it was the one weakest COVID It was during weak ast COVID, so her ass really,

you know, she shut herself out from everybody. She isolated herself and she literally was just like, I'm not gonna catch this ship. If it's the last thing I do, I'm never going to. She was just and she spent a whole two years building her and her son's immune system up and their house slash bunker because they never exited the home. And yeah, that drove her fucking crazy, and it drove her son crazy because she was driving

him crazy. They were driving each other crazy, and and it's just like you never know how bad you really do need a social life, like you know the people that's always like, oh, I don't have friends. I don't have people. I don't I don't want friends. I don't. I used to say that ice Fla, I don't got friends because I don't want friends, like I don't want It's really not cool all the time, because being lonely is really not a you know what I mean, I feel like um. In the COVID situation, it was kind

of it like because I was finding myself. I just turned three, I left relationship, and it was like it was cute for a second, but then it was like, okay, now this two years later, life opening back up, times becoming back lit. I don't want to be home, you know. And I just had to realize like that it was waking ship what I was doing, but it was worth

it in the moment. But at the same time, very much was watching my cousins her best life because she only quarantined like two times in life, right, Okay, So moving on because no, but and then I did catch COVID. I know, I couldn't believe in London never was like she finally yeah, excuse me, So how about when I called it? And mind you, London never caught the ship. My mother never called the ship. Nobody but me caught the ship. I swear not. No nobody around us called COVID. No,

that's never had quote Prince had the flu. Now, my god, you was so and I didn't even call you know, you didn't end She wasn't trying to be closed then, No, it was only because I was like and I was like, damn this over the phone. What if it goes to the phone like say, no, honestly, I just Jessica so private once ago, it goes back to our conversation that I was not probably COVID. You're the one that diagnosed

me with COVID. Do you not remember you dropped all the way down from your house in Pennsylvania to COVID test me just to tell me just to throw my face. Yeah, just this because you ain't quarantine Jazz. But that was loyalty. I really sat in the call with Jessica, and I took her class, like miss non covid. I took her time, stayed everything, stayed in the call off. Yeah times, people, we're gonna sit. I ain't going with you know how she did she did, She stayed in the car room

and all the time she tested me. And that ship popped up in two seconds. And look we was about to go out to eat. What we were about to meet up without want and go out to eat? Was I was out? Some bitch was really go eat and not your mom? And I still went because I was like, she still went and listen if it was a different guys, now, I'm like, dude, when I was still gonna go, yeah, I had to think like responsibly, like responsibly. You were

very much in the motherfucking' tagious stage. So I had Remember, I thought I gave it to my boyfriend. I really thought, because I didn't, I'm sorry. He was in the club, big music and everywody. You can't even smell a hooka tastes hooka taste a food taste of drinks, okay, and thought it was the a leergies that first don't try to have a year later. Bit now we got a commercial and if you click off of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen. Okay, So back

to how close is too close? Well, I actually have a question for you. So you know how sometimes you have your friends or cousins who do you think it is more like basically secret confidential that you'll tell your secrets to you like your friends or your cousin, because sometimes cousins can be like the cousin has been a little sneaky bitches, right, you'd be like, I tell her everything, still our home girls, But then you have cousins who to everything too. So I mean, do you feel comfortable

talking to your cousins about things that you like? Mm? I don't want to want motherfucker's tone about Okay, Okay, so I I think I know where this is going. Okay, So, more recently, London and I have not been as close as we used to be. I used to tell her everything. There was a time that there was anything about me she didn't know. And I do want understand. I understand how it it looks to you, but I feel like the older that we have gotten, let me let me

finish the older. Because you looked like she wants to say something. Y'all, London is master of cutting people off. Just take a deep breath and listen. I feel like you've become so much more judgmental than you used to be. Or maybe you've always been judgmental. It's just that I took the blinders off because you've always been the same way that you are. Now it's like you got better, but then you got a little worse, like back, you know, and it could be your own ship that you're going through,

because people go through things that trigger other things. You know what I'm saying, so you know. But it's like little things like I used to always involve you in my personal life, my love life, like you would know everything about the guy I'm dating. You would know everything about bitch I'm talking about, even down to sex positions. How many times I came on a nigger dick and don't anything anything. I know that was Tama. But this

is carefully reckless and bit whatever. But it's like I've noticed or recently, you'll look at me a certain way. You'll you'll share a comment that's very judgmental. After I tell you what I feel, what I'm going through, or about a situation any situation whatever. You always kind of seem like you find a negative in something. Even going back to my birthday. You missed my third or birthday

because you didn't like my boyfriend. You still don't like my boyfriend, said the day, Well, look, she does not dislike my boyfriend. She just doesn't know him, which are her words. Because I caught a Mike off, she was gonna definitely be over talking me, so I had to cut her day and Mike off shut her down because she needs to hear me. That's also her problem. London's problem is she does not like to listen. You don't like to listen, and when you are listening, you're only

listening to respond. It's like you really, I don't know. I don't know, So I kind of fell back from telling you things about my other friends, things about my relationship, things that I'm feeling, just things that I'm going through the motions on the day to day. We do talk every day. You are my favorite cousin. Y'all want you all to know she is. But sometimes you know, I'm not gonna say outgrow because outgrow is the wrong word

for us for this situation. But when you kind of evolve and you kind of feel like the other person didn't like us being close. And I'm evolving where I used to love to be messy, I used to love to talk a certain way I used to love to and I feel like I'm kind of growing from that, and I feel like you're not in It upsets you because I'm not the same way that I used to be, which is still good for me, because I'm evolving. Change

is not always bad. That's just what I want you to know and to keep in the back of your mind. You know, when you feel like I'm acting different, when you feel like you know, it's really not that. It's just I feel like I can't talk to you about certain things until you kind of mature a little bit in those areas. I don't know. I don't know a lot of I'm very sorry. I love you to death. You are my baby. Not only are you my baby,

you work for me. You're my executive assistant. You help me run my company, you help me run multiple businesses, you know, day one, but personally, and I know that you have felt the distance. I have created a distance between us, you know, And like I said, it started back on my birthday. Like you make a lot of selfish decisions. You can be very selfish, and I just want to tell you this, Like you know, I wouldn't sit there and tell you this on Reckless with you

know us for but carefully Reckless with us too. I'm letting you know, Yeah, you can be very very selfish and judgment too. And I'm glad that we're actually here having us talk and I can tell you this ship because you need to hear it. And right now you're looking like you want to shed a tear and I'm not about to do that on the episode. Let me comfort my cousin. Y'all, we've come to the end of yet another Carefully Reckless episode. What's your girl? Just hilarious?

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