Get Your Friend!

he meets you with a different story. But he gonna he's gonna be a little blown back by your little ass personality. And she she she littles. Okay, so she's four seven with a six nine personality, so whatever. Okay. So now, like the last two episodes, Bria has always known what we were going to talk about. But I decided to switch it up on her today and not let her know what we're talking about. I told her I want her to go into the subject completely blind

because I feel like she funked up last night. I'm in for a rude awake and you are in for a rude awaken her, honey, and listen, let me tell you this. You're my friend, I'm gonna do it, you know what I'm saying, because most of our friends. When our friends suck up and like players do, we got to get them back on track. We can't just throw you out there to the wolves like I'm kind of doing. But I'm gonna let you know, definitely doing it up

last night. Okay. So anyway, this's a story time for y'all. Okay, last night we went out to a rooftop party in Baltimore City and it was lit. It was freaking lit. I'm talking about one of the most littlest rooftop parties you could ever be at on a Monday night. Okay. And my friend is very extras She's very short, and you know a lot of people who are short have these you know, big man big woman complexes, and she definitely showed that last night. Okay, you were totally fine

at the rooftop party. There was an after party that took me to. She got I did thank you to it. I took you to. I wanted to see a special with somebody and I wanted to go there. You took me. I rode with her, so she felt like she was in charge. Let's just start there. We get there. We get put in a section, put up nice too. I'm talking, but it was lit. Okay, I'm listening. I looked around. I did not see who I wanted to see. So

I looked at Bria. I said to you, y'all, I said to her, listen, I'm not gonna be here too much longer. If Sharon Sharrench ain't in here, right, so, no, that's his name, Sharon Shrench. If Shrank Shrench, I'm not in here, I'm not I'm not gonna be What did I say? You said, I don't see screw from so let's go. That's what you said. I did not say that. I said, I'm not gonna be here. I'm not gonna be here too much longer if I don't see snu snunch. And he was like, all right, put let's go. But

she had to go to the bathroom. You said, are you okay to sit here? And I said yeah, I'm good. I'm good. I'm straight. He was like, are you sure? I said okay. He was like, do you need me to take your purse? I said, now, now, she's very protective of me, y'all. This is something y'all should know. And I do understand that everywhere we go. This girl is my little ass bodyguard in midget for him. So it's like, okay, cool, that's my girl. But all right,

I get it. She goes to the bathroom, she comes back, she ain't even sitting down for six minutes. Security roll up like a motherfucker. I'm like, hold up, what's going on you? No? No? So so then come out of nowhere right here. She yeah, came out of the ware. It was like, oh second, so you leave it seconds and I said, what are you talking about? Like I

didn't even know. I didn't even know. And so I saw it that like maybe somebody was getting put out of the club, but they had the wrong section, bitch, I'm talking about because security was the biggest fuck, biggest ship. And then another motherfucker was trying to do too much because he was trying to impress you. So you went downstairs and told me that she was going to the bathroom. You went down stairs, and he was like, hey, um, look,

she ready to go. So what it is? What it is, and she needs security to exit because I'm too short. I imagine those were your words. And he came up fifteen minutes later, give you this one and no, don't give me, no, don't give me Ship my surprise with this. I'm gonna give you this trying to you quote me, but I surprised with this. Baby, Oh Nino got me. You said you were ready to go because you did not see whatever. But the thing about it is I never said I was ready to go. I said, look,

I'm gonna sucking leave if I get it. Listen, no, no, no, okay, cool, no gout at the funk outgund. I didn't say wrong. I just feel like you should have told me, like, look, I got scary coming up here. We already get the funk out of here. That's it. Put me on points. You came back from the bathroom at K downstairs letting niggas. No I was ready to go, and didn't tell me Ship, So you were just like all right, cool whatever whatever

police I mean, not the police. Basically it's big walked up like shack, like yo, ready go, and I was like, uh no, because then sir walked up. It seems like he walked up with security at all. Was with him? Baby, It wasn't. Joe. I was like dash and have said nothing. First of all, I should have mind my business. The world, I should have said, look, friend, I told security to come up because you told me that you may not

be here. You told me you wanted to go. You told me that you ain't here, and so he ended up coming. I think Snurch was already there but was trying to Yeah. I think he was yeah, because I felt like he was already there now now that i'm thinking about it, because I didn't know this was one

of the thing. So then i'm thinking about I'm thinking he was already there, and then saw security coming up to get you and came up the blue light, I'm here, and it was like it's too late, like it was like a thing, bitch, it will never be too late for Snurs and so it's my god. But I was just saying, it just had That's just the way it happened. And I felt like as a friend, I was being proactive, but I may have overstepped. Listen, I'm not saying that

we're not proactive, honey, sweetheart. I just said that this could have all been killed if you was like, look, called whatever, whatever and whatever, we we won't be on the way out. And not even like cool, but liked because I had people buying me drinks and everything. Motherfucker was we didn't you? I know I didn't need no more drinking. I know I was. I do know it wasn't time to go. You you I told you that I might not beat her anymore. He was like, all right,

time to go because she's not comfortable. Cool. Yeah, but it's not that I'm not comfortable. I actually feel safe in that place. I just was like, where is that's all showed up? He did, and once he did, what did I do? Stayed? And that's just what y'all. He was like, no, for real, I stayed my ass right there and didn't listen and it was my fault. Okay, but look, we're not even talking. This is not even

that part. The part of it was when you kept telling that nigga sit down like you was the principal or something. I was trying to tell him that the matter was calm because he arrived. That's what I was trying. I was trying to actually please, and you was just like, definitely that the one thing that you was you did anything I said. I called for security because you said to me they you didn't see him and you were ready to exit. Period. That's what I got out the deal,

but did not say, well, I read between the lines. Okay, so look that's what you did. You read between the lines. You're my friend. That's what friends do. They look out for other friends and they may read signals a little wrong sometimes, but whatever, I'll take just what it was. That's just what it was. We can't change last night.

You know what I'm saying. But that's why I wanted to tell you and keep that ship just as real as I can keep with you because I'm like, oh no, no, no, no, no, frank with here in my mouth, and I kept yet you was like, sit on, sit doing on right here and talk to her. First of all, Mrs trench Bull, we're not st oh ain't you? Was like, first of all, you wasn't here, so we had I'm like, no, so the fun she's not talking to my man like that, like what's going on with you? Yes? And you knew.

So I was like, okay, all right, I got this. And I could see he was giving you that look like look, yeah he was because listen, I have to understand she's very short. He was giving you that look like, look, little mama, you better get it together because I ain't fucking around with a little way of telling me what the fights sucking around when no big women. He was like, you know, what's a great care out here? He said, Wait a minute, No, I wouldn't never have you put out.

But no, it was just like, wait a minute, what the hell is going away at this little this little girl talking to me like this. Then you hand to make up on last night? Girl? You really look like a little kid. Girl. You wouldn't let me got the makeup on because well, I said too, I was to get ready and decided to get ready. That's on you. You de started to get ready while a bitch was walking to the car. Listen, that was on you. Okay, I give your pass. So this topic would be friends

overstepping their boundaries and their friends relationships. Now you have to imagine the shoot on the other foot, because if I called Joe Nigga heard her, you will be like, I'm why do you say that? That's too huhh, And I'm like, no, I was talking to hu hunh because like you know what I'm saying. So we got snursh nursh and her hunh. So yeah, that's what we're not doing. Okay. I would never I love this friend. Yeah, I would never try to play I wouldn't ever try to play

out of position period. You know, even if when it comes to you, I got you, but I don't make decisions for you. Like if I was making all decisions for you, he would be like, wait a minute, I'm dating her, not you. What I'm dating Bria, I'm not dating you. And I do understand because at the end of the day, I sat on Dick last night. Keep that record, so whatever. But no, no, no, he's not upset with you. But he did express to me like

what was her problem? Like I never see her and he sees you, you know, out not too often, but like he sees you and he's like, look, FaceTime she literally never I'm sorry, you said what he'd be FaceTime you because this we're not doing. I said, FaceTime him to him. I would never over the fact that the men that you're shot with this one right here, you got I'm gonna give you this one. You got me all you just gotta get me next week. Either way, we got someone, we got something, We got some more

topics to cover. Now we got a commercial. And if you click off of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen. Now listen. So the first half was about overstepping your boundaries and your your friends relationships or your friends situation ships. Now the second one is about friends period. Now listen. So, if you had a friend that one day bought you around another friend and

introduced you too. If you started hanging with that friend because you two got so cool without the other friends, the original friend, the original friend who even was the reason that you two came together or even was introduced to one another, how does that affect the friendship between you and their original friends. Been on both sides of defenses,

it can destroy some stuff. Um, I have introduced people to other individuals and they have done things to me or we have had to fallen out, but they have stayed connected with my other you know, friends, and then

we're still friends. So it's like it's like a thing, but it's like a disappointing thing because like, how are you still friends with my in it like it's a thing, So like it can be a very hurtful thing too at the end of the day, being on the other side of the other fence, you was introduced to a friend from another friend and you and the other friend gets the vibing and it's it's a vibe like into vibes period. So when a vibe comes my way, I try to you know, I try to embrace a vibe

because I don't like negative energy. So I just like, we're doing this, we're doing that like it's my it's not, it's my type of vibe. Like I just I just always wanted to be in the presence of positive energy, if that makes sense. So I'll just go where the vibe is, where the vibe is taking me, because I know where I want to, So that that's it's a thing. It's a vibe for me. It's energy for me. It's

that type of thing. And it's always authenticity. It's genuinity, like if you are genuine and you are the type of it that I can go with anywhere. It's a vibe, like I said, for me, I told my listeners this ship last week, like I haven't known you for very very long, but I met you through one of our mutual friends, and you are very genuine. You make me laugh, and all I do is make other people laugh for a living. I do that. I have to do that,

whether I want to or not. If I have a show at eight o'clock tomorrow, I can't postpone the show because I'm going through some ship. I gotta go, you know what I'm saying. Unless there is a family emergency of death or you know, COVID or whatever can stop that. Not too many things can stop that though, you know what I'm saying, TV opportunity, Okay, cool, But I have to go out there with that hat on all the time.

I have to go out there with that face on all the time, you know, and I never get to laugh. That's why even the guy I'm dating now, he makes me laugh so much. You you make me laugh like I'm getting this laughter in my life. Now. I'm not saying I had like a hard life or anything, but you know, it's very trying when you have to make

everybody else laughing and you don't find much funny. Like too many people being caliber will allow people even in their space, make them laugh like it's like because it's you know, some people have motives and what they do.

You know what I'm saying, They want to be around you because who you are, that's my you know what I'm saying that that's the last thing I'm wanna do, you know, I just try to be who I am and the fact that I could be who I am around you, and that's still a vibe for you, and we can still do stuff and then you can still correct me when I'm wrong. I can say, like, yes, that was wrong, or you can come to me for advice.

Even the short period of time that we've been friends, it madness, Like that's a vibe, like you know, we always gotta go out and and doff, we can do stuff in the house, you know, we watch anything we can. How often, like almost every day more than I'm home period. So like I do understand that it's and and the access to my place now is very limited. There are I can count on not even two hands how many people know where I live now. And three of those

people know because they have to know. That's family, that's my team, you know. But you know you and baby, you know. So it's just like it's very different for me to expose everything coming from friends who just had

it out for me literally, you know. And and in the previous past, like oh I had a bit put my address out online, big reason why I moved, but because I mean seriously, like when we're speaking on friends and you know, meeting you do a mutual friend, like like I don't I don't even know what my first impression of you was or I don't even remember because I felt like we clicked and you know, we've seen

each other prior to meeting this mutual friend. We see each other out, you know, basketball games and stuff like that. But it was like when we when we clicked, when we were like when we were connecting, we clicked, it was like there was a thing. It wasn't like a who's that, It wasn't that, It just we just connected. It was like, um, you know, I know you're into the church absolutely, but you know I mean and then day my prayer is always the um. I want to

be in a divine connection. Like I don't want to know like relationships just because of who I am or because it's who else who somebody else is. I just want everything to be divine and lined up, if that makes sense, And that's that's the only thing I want. I don't want to be around the why because what they got going on, because but they got out ahead and they can give me inspiration to get what they you know, what I'm saying, So it's never my things to be around to my because of what they have

and all that stuff. It's always been a motivational thing for me. Anse and so us be into a mutual friend who we love to death, like you know what I'm saying, and you know we we still cool. Felt me true friend. But I feel like it was a blessing from above. And if that makes sense, it makes sense. And even if it doesn't, we can make it makes sense to people because it makes sense to us. So we just have to interpret it for them, you know

what I'm saying. On the spiritual level, Maybe this this was supposed to happen, you know what I'm saying, because you're dealing with things in your life. I deal with things in my life. We talk all the time. We talk every day. We prophesied to one another. You know, we were given encouraging words um to each other. And a lot of things that I say to you you feel from your heart, you know when I say them from my heart. So I do want to tell you

wholeheartedly I love you. I love you. Put your funk up last night and you know what it is, what it is, and you knew I was gonna come back to that. I don't know why you're sitting here looking like, oh she like she let me. Yeah, I love you to death. That's where friends are. But if you can correct me, am I wrong, and we can bounce back from that, then that's that's a whole you know what I'm saying, Like some people think that when you do this, it's like she's no, I can't be cool. She came

to her friend, She no cool. We were bounces back like double time from with we what was going on? You know that? And that's how we didn't like and you've kind of twt me even in the relationship with our friendship, you've kind of tipt me that, like, no, you can be friends after this, like after two three five weeks without speaking, like you texted me the next day like a good friends. Yeah, what you know? I

think you just mindset. We really got to talk today and was like OK, and then you went to sleep because we were so tired and boke up. I was like, all right, girl, we gotta do this podcast. Girl, we gotta chill. You know what I'm saying. You want to eat? Oh mission, Like we didn't let nothing stop it? And what we're gonna do when we leave today, via probably gonna get some drinks and some crabs. You're gonna get some drinks of some goddamn crabs and listen. That brings

you to the end of the episode today. If I can give a word to any of my women, it can be listening. If you fall out with a friend, you can honestly get back depending on the fallout. Now, bitch, she's been slept with your man, if she didn't called your mama crackhead, if she didn't stole from you, those are things you can't come back from. You know what I'm saying, Because Okay, my mom don't deserve that. I didn't deserve to get taken off by you. What the funk?

I look like a lick? And you know, certain things just you you just can't reconcile after, you know. But if you truly love someone, you wouldn't say anything to hurt them to the point of no return anyway. So I want to say that now. In the beginning of the episode, we talked about friends overstepping boundaries. You gotta check your friends, like I checked my friend on the episode. I really did. I checked my baby and she got it right, It'll never happen again. But one thing she

will always do is her best to protect me. And she cannot tell me that she's not gonna do that, you understand, because that will just be too much unlike her. Shout out to Labria Shannon on Today for her third week in a row, her third consecutive episode of Carefully Reckless with me just hilarious. What you gotta say. Don't surprise me next week. I promised, I want. I had to do this. You made my baby mad at me. He never gets mad at anybody I know he got.

He has the most laid back personality I know. Okay, all right, looks she's telling me to get off because she's gonna cuss this nigga the fuck out. She gonna cuss me out lotus nigga when we get off of here. So make sure you tune in next week every Wednesday, hump Day and in my best pan boys, I love me, I of y'all, and y'all love me. Ain't y'all of y'all? Peace feel. Carefully Reckless is a production of I Heart

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