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you all that side. Now. With this pandemic, I often hear people talk about it and they'll give the devil credit for it. You know, people will say, oh, the devil is busy, and well I look at it in a different light. I look at it differently. I feel that sometimes God will do certain things and play certain things in our way to help us see what's more important. That's my message to y'all today. The pandemic, A lot

of people died from it. It hurt people. It took a lot of people out of here, you know what I'm saying. It affected families, that affected jobs, and um, that's the downside of it. To me, my experiences, I have learned so much more about myself, my child, I feel like the pandemic is God's way of saying, let's get back to how we used to be, or as close as we used to be as possible, you know what I mean, Like modern date things, something as simple as setting down with your family to eat dinner. We

don't do that no more. When's the last time you sat down and ate dinner as a family, even if there's no man in your house, if you only have one child, when's the last time you sat down with your child and eight when's the last time you sat down and had a conversation with your child about what they're going through? About school? Nowadays, kids cannot be in school. There's virtual learning, so their home with you. You can get to know them. You can build a bond with

your child. I'm speaking from experience. I'm not afraid to say I did not know my child, Ashton, my eight year old boy, like I should have known him. And I didn't get to or get the motivation to do that until we had to be shut in. I was forced to cook instead of going out to restaurants. Our mayor shut down our city. I was forced to watch TV and had been paying for cable for years but never watched TV. I always had my phone stuck in my face. I found more ways to be innovative online,

creating new content. I was forced to sit in the house. I built the studio in my basement. I became more hands on with my content, more creative, like I said, more innovative, finding new ways to make you guys laugh. I sat in my house and really became creative. Before the pandemic, we were just running around, running around, running around. I'm talking about getting hooked up with the wrong people.

Even it goes that far, letting people into our space, not paying attention to the things that we need to. Like I said, our kids are career not protecting our peace, our mental health, our privacy, our spirits. All of that is important. And this pandemic has taught me to protect that. It has taught me how to protect that. I've lost a lot of people, not in death, not to COVID. I'm talking about old friends, family members, employees, men, love life,

you know what I mean. Sometimes God will remove everything that's detrimental to you that you don't even know, out of your life, out of your mind, your body, your soul, your spirit, to help you see what's more important. That's a word, or to focus you, to help you prepare for the blessings he's about to grant you. You know what I'm saying. However, it's too much clutter. You may have too much clutter. It may be people with you. You may be surrounded by snakes and you don't even know.

So God will do something to get rid of them. He works in mysterious ways. Everybody is not worthy of a piece of your pie. Everybody is not worthy to get on that ride with you. You know what I'm saying. Everybody is not worthy to sit at the table with you. You won't know this. God will reveal it. And I had this prayer that I pray every morning, every morning and every night. Yes, I am very spiritual, you know,

And I'm letting y'all in on that. I asked God to prepare me, you know, And and I talked to him every day. And I have this thing called the Three RS that I asked and may be corny to y'all, but just listen to it. Reveal, read, and rebuke. I asked him to reveal, reveal anything unlike you that needs to be washed away. Reveal it. Reveal what whether that's people things, anything in my environment, in my atmosphere, that that's that's clouding my judgment, that's distracting me, that's tainting

my spirit. Reveal it and then get rid of it, wash it away, and then rebuke it so it may never come back to me again, So it can never surround me again, it can never get in my spirit. Feel me, this is real stuff, this is a real word. Reveal, rid and rebuke. I asked God to also prepare me for the revealing, because sometimes he'll reveal things that you're not ready to leave, you're not ready to get rid of. You know, you're not ready to to say goodbye to to throw in the trash, But you have to I

experienced that. I asked him to reveal, read and rebuke, and then when he did it, I wasn't ready to accept it. The people that I had to throw away, the things I had to get rid of, I wasn't ready. So when you asked him to reveal, read and rebuke, you also have to ask him to prepare you, to prepare you to accept it. It's a lot of things that you can hold on too, that we're guilty of holding onto that we know it's not good for us. It could be drugs, it could be habits. Like I said,

it don't only have to go for people. It could be your friends. It could be a man. Something that you know is eating at you, holding you back from doing things, and you know that, but you have to get rid of it. You have to be strong enough. You have to pray that God strengthens you. You know what I'm saying. I lost a lot of people, got rid of a lot of things. I call it my spirit spring cleaning. It's a tongue to us to say it with me, spirit spring cleaning for real, that's real

ship man. And this is also a word when somebody or something isn't right for you, God will continuously cause them or that thing to hurt you until you're strong enough to let it go. So don't confuse this man that keeps cheating on you and keeps a mentally abusing you or or or vocally abusing you, physically abusing you. Don't let the distraction be when he apologizes, or when he has sex with you it's great, or I love you,

Please don't leave me. You're all I have. Don't let that be the distraction, because it'll be good for a while, and then he's only gonna go back to doing what hurts you if he's not good for you. And God will allow it to happen until you're strong enough to get rid of it, even if it's a friend going behind your back doing ship, constantly showing you signs that they're not the person for you. They don't have your

best interests. They sneaky the way they move little ship that you're put in the back of your mind because y'all have history, don't let the history distract you. History doesn't matter in most cases. And I know this is hitting somebody. Somebody needs to hear it somewhere. I went through it. Also, you have to learn to take heath to signs seriously. You can't ask off of something and then ignore it when he shows it to you. Like I said, even going back to the pandemic, like I said,

I look at it differently. I was lazy as hell before the pandemic. I'm talking about paying people to do ship that I can do myself, You know what I mean a lot of things I didn't pay attention to, like the people around me, that I had to get rid of. But first it started with my job, my career me as the CEO of Jess Hillery is incorporated, Like I was paying people to pay my bills, Like what the hell? Why the hell did I even have anybody else having access to my money because I was

too lazy to be responsible. God will work in mysterious ways to wake your ass up. The pandemic forced me to get my ship together, to get my ship in order. I even built a stronger bond with God through the pandemic. I wasn't really worried about that before, when I was

just ripping and running, running wild. You know what I'm saying, traveling, blowing money on dumb ship, not paying attention to what's important around me, not saving money because I knew I could make it back, Like, oh man, I'm not worrying about that ship, shopping Chanel, findy Gucci product, like all that ship don't matter. It don't matter because when we shut down with a funk that I wear all that

ship at we had nowhere to go. That ship didn't do nothing but sit in my walking closet and collect us. He will let you know that ship don't matter. He will humble you. He has ways of humbling your ass. He will do it. I had to regain my strength. I had to recollect myself. I had to get my ship together, and I got it together. About friends, people who have certain problems that you can't make yours. You cannot make other people's problems your problem. Like I said,

I lost a lot of people. I'm gonna bring you all into my world and give you all my experiences, like firsthand. I don't have a problem with telling you all my business. Y'all know it all. Anyhow, I lost a god sister. You ever have somebody that you text and you're just asking how's your day? It could be a friend, it could be anybody. That person got a long ass book of how stressed out they always are, what they're going through, what they need, how you need

to feel sorry for them. You know what I'm saying. That ship is a burden in itself, and you cannot make it your burden. I don't have a problem with helping people. I want to help people. That's what I've been put on this earth to do. Help. That's what I do on my everyday life. When I make these videos and I put smiles on people's faces. I have messages from strangers that said that I've helped him not commit suicide. I've helped them get over the grief of

their parents or somebody that they had just lost. People are honest with me about that, strangers people I know you know what I'm saying. I make people feel better, but I don't always want to hear a sob story when I'm just checking in on you. Yeah, I'll pay a bill for you here and there. I'll even come see you, give you a hug, because you'd be surprised what the funk a hug, a real genuine holding hug

can do for somebody's day. But when I'm only checking on you just to tell you I love you, or just to really really see how you're doing, because motherfucker's may ask you how you're doing, but don't even care. People do it in their everyday life. You might see your mother and be like, oh, how you doing. You don't really want to hear how they're doing. That's just another word for hi or hello, that's just you speaking. But people have habits of saying how you're doing and

not really giving a funk about how somebody's doing. I do. But my God's sister, my God sister, she is always stressed out about something. I had to let her go. She likes to project her burdens on others. She loves she loves for people to feel sorry for her. She loves the sorrow. She loves to cry, she loves the attention of it. She's very selfish. I checked on her. Grandmother died. I checked on her. I can't believe that

she would leave me here. What do you mean that old lady was tortured here, she was suffering, she had cancer. She's gone. Now. You need to be happy that she's not here, with tubes and coming out of each and every place they could come out of. Her body was tired. She was tired. She told you she was tired, and you make her death about you. No, no, no, no, I will not sit here and feel sorry for you, y'all. You need to get yourself together. I had to leave

her alone. Hold up, hold up, I know the ship getting good. But listen to just a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. Childhood friend slash sister, the one who put my business out there a couple of years back. Y'all know of her. We even got back, right, We got back col I accepted her. This girl stopped speaking to my son, my innocent fucking child, somebody that she considered a nephew, and I consider her children my nieces and nephew. This was

somebody I had a twenty five year relationship with. I met her when I was two years old. She was seven when I moved on a block. We grew up together. She took me under her wing as her big sister. I lost my virginity on this bitch's couch. Do you understand what I'm saying? People? Later on we get back cool. She exposed me, first of all, because she got fired. I created a fucking job for her first of all. Then I fired it because she got too comfortable. You

can't work with family, you can't work with friends. Some of them is just not good. I fired her and she went online. She took it public. She got so upset that she went and told everybody that I had a b b L I had a fat transfer. That ship crushed me. Not only did she tell people that, but she posted pictures of me on a surgery table that I thought were safe. With her stid them paid somebody to interview her, to go and tell a bunch

of fucking lies about me. Tell me I do drugs, and I do this, and I do that, and I sell pussy and I what all the things that she has done. She put that ship on me. I even made up with her after that. I accepted her back into my life. And that goes back to what I say, don't let history distract you from the people that you need to get rid of. I thought I could trust her again. I thought that she had done the worst she can't do. The more harm I missed her. I

love her, that's my sister. I'm not gonna let years go to waste because of this ship. I should have. I should have never got back cool with her, because when I did, we fell out again and she felt some type of because she found out I was talking about her during the time me and her were beefing. Your motherfucking right, I was talking about you, bitch. What the funk you thought? Because I didn't retaliate online and give you any fucking followers and give you and blow

you up more. No, I was hurt by that ship. I cried for fucking weeks saying, how the funking my sister do that to me? And you get mad because it got back to you that I was talking about you to somebody, bitch, get the funk out of here. So now she's gone for good like she should have been. The first time, one of my friends I fell out with because I made a video about a certain situation she was telling me about. I told her I was

gonna do the fucking video. She got upset because the person that she was dealing with, a married man, had seen the fucking video and so did his wife. So she hit me and said, can't take the video down. No, I'm not taking it down. I didn't say no names, and you was okay with me making a video. But now that your spot has blown up by the wife that you knew he had, you want me to take it down. No, that's not how it works. You know. I got a good heart. Yes, the funk I do,

and I give people chances. But I'm a comedian I am, and if you tell me something, I'm gonna tell you first, like yea, I'm gonna make a video about this. If I know it will hurt you, I won't do it because I still have a heart. She was fine with me doing it until the wife's saying in it, well, bit you shouldn't have placed yourself in that predicament. So we went back and forth for a couple of days, and then she decides to expose both of my phone numbers and post my home address where my son lays

his head. Not only me, but me, my son, and my dog. She exposed my home address. Was she ever a friend? Guys? I don't fucking know. Men, this girl have stayed up and cried to each other. She's had a hardass life. By the way, mother, don't give a funk about of your father. Don't want you type ship. You got siblings that you don't even speak to you. Y'all all funked up because of y'all. Mother. I've cried

with you, You've cried with me. You told me that, you said you don't never tell nobody else, and I still didn't put that ship out there. But you hurt me. You did that. You consider my son your nephew, another one, but you exposed you compromise the safety of my child, bitch, And you got two girls, and I know where you live at and I still wouldn't ever do that for them.

Had to get rid of her. One of my employees taking advantage of me, Man oh man, this is supposed to be a goldfair man one of my ex security Yo, what you're blackmailing me? You're holding ship over my head. Y'all got videos of buh bupa. Oh all right, you're done. Had to get rid of him. What the funk wrong with you, nigga? Fucking with the wrong one? Now you don't have a job. Family member who was also an employee, fucked up my money, funked up my credit and was

unapologetic about it. What I gave you a fucking job, my nigga, I'm helping create jobs for you. Motherfucker's I could be doing this ship myself and y'all motherfucker's hurt me. That's crazy, right. Had to get rid of that one too. Female best friend, disloyal dis lawyer was fucked y'all know the person the friend that I said exposed my address. How about my female best friend hanging with this bitch just as cool with it as the day is long? I said, God damn, you're done. My male best friend.

I had to lose him too. He's so into drugs in the streets and thinking that I owe him something. Nigga, I don't owe you ship you owe yourself. You owe it to your kids to be their father. You don't like, honestly, you don't like when I put you in your place. You can't be my fucking friend. You can't come around my son, and you don't need go on your own fucking kids. Y'all hurt me, you feel me. Get your

ship together, get off drugs, get off the streets. Stop selling that ship, and then you'll stop doing that ship. Had to let him go. I add a songwriter, a friend. He helped me write nice little ass caddy sneaky, opportunistic going around. Tell people, oh, I wrote the whole song she did? Why the funk? Do you feel like you have to write the whole song? Maan, you know you didn't. Who the funk? You didn't? Just certain ship people do? YO? Like?

Come on, bro, now, if you got the piss from all the tea you've been drinking, now it was the time because we got a commercial. I'll be right back. So now we're gonna take it to just fix my mess. Okay. So I went on my Instagram and I asked you, guys, the worst thing you've ever forgiven someone? For go now. This baby girl said she would like to remain anonymous soul.

I'm going to grant her that she says, causing me to never be able to get pregnant naturally again because of stdo That ship makes me sick to my stomach. It makes me want to cry, It makes me angry. Now, I don't know if it was unknowingly. I don't know if it was intentionally, you know, but you never know these days. He probably knew he had some ship and he was just scared to tell you. He probably knew he had the ship, or maybe he didn't know. But

that's why you have to remain faithful. You have to strap up people, young people, old people. You gotta use condoms. My god, this woman can't even have kids. She can't even conceive naturally because of an std A Nigga gave her. Oh my god, I hope and pray that you are able to have children before you leave this earth. You understand what I'm saying. You can't even bring life into the world add to the population. Life is a beautiful

thing when it's done the right way. You know. Giving birth is something that women around the world can't do, would love to do. Some people would kill to have kids. You understand what I'm saying. And it's horrible that this is not a natural cause, this is not hereditary. This is something that a man did to you, baby girl. So you gotta leave. You gotta leave that ship. You understand what I'm saying. I really really do hope that you find the help you need. You know, I really do,

because that's some sad ship. That's some sad ship. I know, y'all can hear me getting emotional right now? That's some sad ship right there. M camp underscore. David Promo says, stealing from me then staged a breaking of my house. Oh you're gonna have to get one of your sisters or your mother or a cool cousin to slap that bitch. Ain't no way you're gonna stage or breaking. It's no way you're gonna steal from me, and I can take you back. You forgave her for that, David, Are you

fucking kidding me? I need to have a class. I need to do a tour, a tour or how to let motherfucker's go. I'm i'm uh, this is crazy. First of all, if you had the balls to steal from me, I can never trust you. I don't know what the funk you can do. If you can steal from me, and I loved you and you loved me, you can steal from me though. That's what happened in my past relationship Chris. Chris stole from me. After I took care

of the nigga. He stole from me. That's why I would never ever ever be able to trust him again again. Now I've forgiven him because that's the Christian thing to do, that's the that's the right thing to do. But I will never forget a motherfucker who stole from me that I was once with. I loved you, we were in a relationship, and you could fucking you can really steal from me. That's disgusting. Sheba underscore read says stole money from me hundred to be exact. My man at the

time we had a fight. He stole my purse and my phone, with drew money off of my card and tried to come back two weeks later because he spent all the money and was broke. Honestly, I'm just still wondering how he lasted two weeks hundred she but you worried about the long ship the nigga stole it from y'all. Don't give a fuck how he went two weeks on fifth a hunt it. You'd be surprised what your brocade can do. How long you can stretch five dollars in a week, You don't know spend a dollar a day.

Motherfucker's is making it happen. You must never been broke before Sheba, and that's probably why you stole from your ass. That's the only thing you worried about. Girl. You better get it to you, better get it together. Ship. Last one I'm gonna read this person would like to remain anonymous, so I will grant him that the worst thing you've ever forgiven someone for go fucking their siblings, sister and brother, blood sister and brother. That ship is incest forgave her.

But I ain't funk with her no more. And that's exactly how you do it. I don't know how to hell somebody is even able to fuck their sister or their brother like blood brother. I've heard of instances where people sucked their step siblings, step siblings, not even half brother. Because if we got the same of I don't fucking want you. If we got the same mother, I don't fucking want you boy, please now now on the step brother, al, I don't know you know, I on the point that

I watched. Sometimes I like to watch the step brother and the step the step siblings fuck each other. That's some cool little role play. But if you got any type of bloodline that resonates with my bloodline, I ain't fucking with you. That should is just disgusting. You should not even look at your siblings in that manner, especially if we grew up in the same house. What the hell is wrong with you? But there are sick and twisted people like that. There are, and a lot of

that should be generational curses. So listen, guys, when it comes to forgiving people, you have to know how to forgive and to walk away. Don't forgive and accept these people back into your lives. They when somebody hurts you, hurt you. I'm talking about, hurts you to your core, to the point where you never thought a person could do you like this. Don't sit and and try to figure out why they did it, or what their motive was, or how could you just know that they did it.

They meant it, and you need to move the funk on and get the funk away before they hurt you again and again and again and again, because sometimes God will allow the same ship to keep happening to you over and over and over repeatedly until you open your goddamn eyes and see I need to leave. I need to separate myself. I need to get these people, this, this person, this habit away from me. I need to detach myself. I need to rebuke it. I need to get rid of it. I need to I need it

to be revealed first. But I need to be able to accept that this is not where I need to be. This is not good for my life, this is not benefiting me. You'll need to understand that. Now, Just fix my mess. Ain't for nothing. I'm really trying to help y'all, but y'all have to help yourself. You have to know everybody is not for you. Everything is not for you, and you ain't for everybody. Everybody don't deserve you, and it's gonna be that way. That's how life is sad,

but that's how it is. So. Like I said, your God will remove people out of your life to help you focus on what's important or to help you prepare for the blessings. He's about to give you and everybody cannot go with you. Sometimes you gotta get rid of that clutter. Ask God to reveal, rid and rebuke anything out of your mind, body, soul and spirit that is unlike him, and he will do it. He will prepare you and is he only doing it for the betterment

of you? Trust me, you'll be better. It's gonna hurt letting a lot of motherfucker's go, letting everything go, letting drugs go, whatever helps you or whatever is not helping you, whatever hinders you, whatever is hindering you. Yo, he will get rid of it and he won't put it back in your life, but you have to be ready to leave it alone. Because God fights your battles. Yes he does, he does, and he helps you, but you have to want to be helped. So on that note, I'm telling y'all,

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