B*tches Be Betrayin'

you'll in on my business. I'm gonna tell y'all my ship. Now. I got a question, seriously, has there ever been a time you betrayed a friend? Now? For me, yes, there has. There hasn't been plenty of times, but I can wholeheartedly say I betrayed a person. Grab your t is story time. Now. A lot of y'all may be familiar with me and April Jones being friends for a little period of time.

Now April Jones, just in case y'all don't know, she is a reality star from Love and Hip Hop Hollywood, and she happens to be the mother to both of a Marian's kids. All right, man, April Man, we was cool. We hit it off cool, right, we became uncool because of some petty ship. I stopped coming to l A. I would tell her I was coming to cheer with her. Made a couple of plans, and they fell through, never came or whatever. I'm the type of person like this.

I don't have to talk to you every day to be a good friend to you or to remain close with you. I'm one of those types of people that don't have to talk to a bit every day for us to remain in that good spot where we show always remain right. But April is the type who needs her friends to talk to her. She she loves the attention from our friends and ship to each your own. That's how she fosters her relationships. Our friendships. I foster minds totally different, which is probably why I don't have

any friends. That's fine, So me and her I fell out. She had got upset. She told certain people not to talk to me. Oh, don't hang out with her like on some little middle school ship. Fine, that's cool. I'm grown. I don't give a funk anyway. Any and everybody have you introduced to me that could be on your side. I don't give a funk. I was gonna fine before I met you and them, and I'll be fine now right now, Monice, all right, this is her arch enemy.

This is actually her ex boyfriend's baby mother, little Fizz. By the way, Now, I had talked some ship about April to Monie after me and April hadn't spoken about six months. So I thought I was never gonna reunite with this bitch. I thought I was never gonna be our friend again. Right. I talked a lot of ship, a lot of ship. I'm going to admit it, some cold hearted ship too, you know what I'm saying, Some ship that I was feeling. True ship though like all true,

all factual. It was just fucked up that I said it to a bitch that hated this girl. Right. Cool. So one day, about eight months later, me and April decided to reunite. In my mind, I'm not even thinking about the ship that I had talked about her months ago to Monice. But anyway, I meet up with April. We cool, We reunited, We met, We had lunch. Then she wants to show me her new house, the new

house that her and Fizz had gotten. This ship. I'm like, okay, cool, pull up, it's nice we're in there, we're drinking, were having fun, we're talking. I'm apologizing to her about what she needed me to apologize about not being a good friend that she wanted me to be. She's apologizing about being petty, you know, stop talking to me forever and ship because I bluffed all one time in Chicago. Alright, cool,

you know, she jumps on Live. I did not know that she was going to get on live and announced to everybody that we were reunited. However, I still didn't give a funk. I'm all right, whatever, cool, this this is the live ship. We're doing it. We're drinking, we're chilling all right while we're on Live together. Though this is on her live, she starts throwing a little subliminals at Monice. Okay, I didn't know that they were still beefing. I mean, I guess this is gonna be a life

and ongoing lifetime beef, you know what I mean. But I didn't know that. So of course Monice must have gotten the hunch that we were on live, and she looked at the Live she saying April was talking about it and just seeing me with her, so I guess she feels like, oh, hold up, Jess, hold up, hold, let me pull out the motherfucking receipts because your ass over there with the bitch that you're just talk big shit about a couple of months ago. Let me go and Rekin do this flame. So we get off live.

Me able get off live. We're still talking and Ship she going through her comments or whatever on her last post and they're commenting Monie on Live talking about you and Jess. So I'm like, oh, Ship, I'm the one that's like, yo, let's go to her live, Like what the fun is she talking about? Still not even dawning on me that I fucking talk shit about April to her months ago. So I'm the hype one, my dumbass, like, let's go see what she's talking about that what she

ain't got nothing to say about me? Whatever I click on the Girls Live, man, all I hear is my voice because when I had talked about April, No, I didn't text it, No, we weren't on the phone. We were sending fucking voice notes back and forth, and Monie kept them because y'all know, if you got our phone and you send a voice note, that should have disappeared in two minutes. She kept them all, all of them, each and every cold hearted one. Man I clicked on

that live it was me. I was talking about Fizz. I was talking about her. I was talking about man. I was on there while and I said, I don't remember exactly what then was It's like and fuck her and she want to keep having Fizz watch the kids? Why she going fuck this nigga and that nigga and she phoned me and ship and then this nigga. No, she y'all fucking niggas. But at the same time, he just gonna watch the kids and ship here there for when when Ship don't work out with the other niggas

and ship. This nigga is a clown and the the man I'm going in, so imagine what's going through my mind. Imagine the look on her face. And then Fizz walks through the fucking front door, and um, he hears my voice as well. He walked in right on the part where I'm talking about him and ship, right, it just had to happen like that. I'm like, yo, really, So after a couple of minutes past everybody's quad, I click out of the ship. Nobody's gonna say nothing, something like shout,

I might asppoed be the first to say something. I'm like, I don't even remember saying all that though, Like I ain't even gonna lie, like when was this, I don't I don't even I don't know. So she cut me off like, bitch, really, Jeff, really, I'm on crack, like I'm really a drug that I never said she was on crack. I never said. I never said you was on crack. Yo, I didn't. I did not say that. Um, it hurt her feelings, it did. I could say it

in my face. Uh. Fears was still sitting there looking dumb, playing with his head just like I said on the voice recording as he was walking through the door. So I guess that prompted him to play with his little curls even more. I was embarrassed. I was humiliated, and so was she, you know what I mean. So in that time I had to be remorseful. I'm like, Yo, my bad, Joe. I did tell you I talked about you. I just didn't tell you the extent of ship that I had talked and who I had talked the ship too.

You know what I'm saying. I get it. It didn't have to go down like that it really didn't. I thought I was never gonna be a fucking friend again, nigga. Honestly, for real, you stopped talking to me because I bluffed you out in Chicago one time, like for real, like the funk, I didn't want to come there. It was a fucking blizzard, my nigga. I it. I don't like snow like that. I like to look at it. I don't like the crash and slip and fall in it. You feel me, So I didn't want to go. She

knew that I ended up going to Atlanta. So that was the whole reason that we fucking fell out. The craziest, most pettiest ship. Bitch didn't talk to me for six months. I never thought I would see her again. I never thought I would even talk to her again. Period. That still does not justify me going to talk shit about her to her enemy, I swear to God, Joe. But let me tell you something A funny part of the story. So her phone was blowing up the whole time. Guess

who the funk it is? Mona Scott Young sh an't asked the phone. April went in the bath room. She cried, she felt betrayed. I get it. I just didn't know what to do it that moment. It's like she didn't want to hug from me, she didn't want to hear ship something like, Yo, already deuces fists. Tell her when she get out the bathroom, I'm gone. I'm done. He didn't say the whole time. He was just like, all right, like yo, this nick is with all right, cool, So

I'm gonna leave. So I proceed to leave. Mona text me now, yes, I have Mona's number. She text me, do we need to say the cameras? No, we don't. Yo. This bitch is and this is her life. This is our real life right now, you know what I mean? And even though this is what the fun they signed up for when they wanted to be on Love and Hip Hop, just let her have some time right now. She's upset, she's hurt, and I want her to get ourselves together and ship. So now I don't send no cameras.

I'm about to go anyway, so I laughed. Later on that day, I get a text from April. April was telling me the only way to make this right is if you do a scene on Love and Hip Hop with me. You have to go on there, and you have to act like we're gonna play this to our advantage. You have to act like you told me everything already that you had said about me to her and everything, and um, we're just gonna flip it and we So I'm like, na, yo, I'm not really trying to do

that ship. That's not how I get the funk down. And I don't want to do it. This is not how I want to debut myself on love and hip hop. I don't want to do that ship. If I'm gonna be on it, it's gonna be on some other ship. She's like, well you did this? Did you betrayed me? I am your friend, Nick Mitch, you was and then you wasn't, and now you all again. Bitch, Come on now, stop skipping like we always been friends like forever. No, bitch, come on now, Yo, you stopped talking to me for

half a year. Fun's wrong with you? You what my friend? Bitch? Friends don't do that because I bluffed you, but I felt bad. I'm like, all right, ship, I'll do it. Fuck it. But my fans and my my my people, they know me. I was getting so many comments like bitch, you look like you lying you and April both flyers. Just you don't even look like you want to be on there. I didn't. I didn't want to do that. I did that ship to make up with this bitch,

you know what I'm saying. And then even after I did the one scene on the episode, this bitch still ain't talk to me. I'm like, oh, funck, no, you mean to tell me. I went on there and I lied for you, my nigga. I went on there and I lied. I really lied, and and and that's something that I wanted to do. I really wanted to do it to, you know, to reconcile and ship nah showed. He still was like, I'm gonna need some time, like

I don't. I don't know what, bit you ain't no time when you wanted to act like you knew about this ship on that episode. So I was like, man, fuck you. So I went on live and I told them that I fucking lied, and I had the producers hit me and ship like, no, you can't do that. Now, yes I can. I'm not a cast member. She is and she dragged me into this ship. So now yeah, but in hindsight, I got what was coming to me because I should have never done that. I should have.

I shouldn't have done it. Do I regret talking ship about April? No? I regret talking about April two Monice. That was just bad. You never go back and talk about someone just because you're mad at them or just because you don't like them anymore to one of their enemies, somebody she would never probably be cool with, you know what I mean. So I was fucked up on my end. Yeah, I ate that l I took it, you know what I'm saying, because it was crazy. Do I do that

ship to everybody? Have I did that ship more than once? No? Funck No, listen, No, not to my friends. Now listen. I have to tell you all this. Man. April, we weren't friends for very long. I met her on the set up I got the hook up to and we hit it off from them, I was already in contact with Monie. I met Monie first, and Moniche has never built that uh in person connection. Me and her was just talking on the phone, texting DM and all that type of ship. But me in April, actually our chemistry

was like they're the energy was cool. She was a cool person, So I'm all right, cool, it's somebody I can, you know, hang out with while I'm l a and ship, you know what I mean. And it ended up coming to that which brings me to just fix my mess. The segment where some of my fans send some of their personal dilemmas and I give my advice to help them deal with the ship that they probably got theirselves into, just like I had got myself into that little shin

dig with April and Monice. So look, I posted on my Instagram A time you betrayed a friend go, and I'm just gonna read off a couple of good ones. Boushe Bree on Instagram says, after a wild night with my home girl and her guy friend that she was having sex with, we went back to his place where they asked me to join and I declined. I watched, but I happily declined, so after the fact he would hit me up with casual convo and long story short, we ended up having bomb sex before she even found out.

I blocked her on everything. Whoa damn breathe damn how you're just going like you're just gonna block the bitch Like that was fucked up? She probably still to this day don't know why she blocked unless that nigga told her. But now, yeah, that's that's sucked up. I don't even know what to say about that, like if that was your friend, but you gotta unblock her and tell her. Look, I sucked your nigga. I'm not gonna lie, but this is your fault. This is your fault. You invited me

in the bedroom with the nigga. You wanted me to sit there and watch you'll have sex. I've seen the way his big juicy dick was swinging back and forth and ship, and I've seen that you was loving it. I didn't even want no pause in it. But then he started hitting me up. That's what you gotta tele a Brithe Then he started hitting me up right, and then I just couldn't resist, and it was it was casual convo, but then we ended up having sex. And then I blocked you because I felt better than want

you to find out, and you blocked me first. So I did that ship for you. That's how you gotta come out, and she probably gonna smack the ship out you, but it'll be worth it because that was your friend. Bitch. Okay, Charles G Classic underscore man underscore. I I I on Instagram says my pastor lied on me because I left his church and he said I stole from him all because I wasn't trying to be gay with him. Um

wait a minute. First of all, I said, a time you betrayed a friend go Did you you really wanted to tell that story? Charles? This this must be this must have just happened because you want somebody to notice badly. Um, I guess just find another church home. And first of all, I got some questions for you, Charles, Are you gay because or you? Are you gay and you just didn't want to be gay with him? Like? Did he think you was gay? Did you lead him on in any way?

Because it had to start somewhere for this man allow on you and say you stole from him because you wasn't trying to be gay with him. Was you trying not to be gay with him anymore? Or what? Because it had to be something that led to this series of events and you left the church. I don't know, Charles, get back at me, baby, that's an incomplete story. I

need you all to be one percent transparent like me. Okay, flashy underscore lights underscore si Era on Instagram says, I slept with this man she was talking to, but our friendship ended like a month before. She did some stupid ship, so does it still count? And she was in a relationship so the nigga wasn't even hers. Um, bitch, yes, that ship still count. You can't be out here sucking

the niggas that your friend is sucking. And because she cheating on her nigga with the nigga and ship, you think it's okay because she don't even belong to the nigga and the nigga don't belong to her. Bitch, I still fucked up, you fucking nigga that she fucked. That's betrayal. I don't care. That's fucked up, Okay. Last one, I'm gonna read. Candy Can thirty one on Instagram says, my sister slash friend was stabbed. Thought she was a gonner. I expressed my emotions a little too much with an

ex mutual friend. Long story short, they fell out and the ex mutual friend used everything I said as ammo against her. She never forgave me. All I could say was, bitch, I was scared. I thought she was gonna die, so bit you tell my business while I'm on my deathbed, the one of our other friends and ship. Then I come back to life, and then you like, hey, hey,

y'all thought I was dead? What's up? Y'all? And me and the bitch fall out, and then when we fall out, the bitch tell me, oh, yeah, so your other friend had told me that the dead when you was dying, but now in your lives, so now I can tell you and you deserve that. How the funk you talking ship about somebody on their deathbed but not I'm almost

dead and you out here crying telling my business. The fuck y'all different, You're all a little different that I was talking about a person who was very much alive to another person who didn't like her. Y'all. Motherfucker's is ruthless. This is this is crazy. Another question I want to ask. Okay, so listen, I'm not on the side of the people who did the betraying. No, but there are certain reasons why people do these things, and you have to think

to yourself, what constitutes me to perform this behavior? What constitutes the behavior of betrayal? That's what sho I really got on this, and like I said, for me, I never thought I was gonna talk to Shorty again. Honestly, me and April stopped talking for six months. Six months. The eighth month is when she came back around and ship and that was it, you know what I'm saying, Like she got over it. It took her eight months to get over the fact that I bluffed her out.

That's a grudgy bitch. I don't like them type of people, You understand what I'm saying. Like I said now, it does not justify me talking as much shit about her to somebody who she would call an enemy. But all in all, that ship was petty. You know what I'm saying. You never stopped talking to a friend that long for some petty ship like that. I could have died, She could have died. Anything could have happened. Thank god, none

of that did happen. Speaking of betrayal, in this week's Current News, you're gonna talk about Messica Kalisha and her now ex fiancee, Jamaar Champ. Okay, So, like a couple of weeks ago, it had hit the blogs and it hit hit you know, all airways and ship that Messica Kalisha was engaged to Anthony Hamilton look like to meet nigga look like Anthony Hamiltons like a young ass Anthony Hamilton and ship. She looked happy. Even her daughter looked happy.

You know what I'm saying. I love Cary Barbie. She looked so happy. The nigga even looked happy. He was trying to show off them new teeth, but he looked very happy. She had an engagement party. They were just on some island together. The ring was beautiful. Uh, they're kissing and I love you. You love mean type ship. You know what I'm saying. They seemed happy. Not too long ago, it hit the blogs, the very same blogs that blew up their engagement that they were now not

engaged anymore. She's very hurt by the situation. He posted, it's many little girls out here. When the little girl is healed, the woman will show up. Sorry, well you talking about then? She posted, Men don't have to be perfect to make a woman happy. All a man really needs to do is love her, like he promised when they first dated. So she's hurt now when I look deeper into it. Uh, these were her words, just came

from her um. Apparently he was trying to use her for cloud to build his businesses and use her past experiences and use her for her connections and networks and ship. Basically, Loving hip Hop is probably about to film again, and this bitch then got him on the show and ship and he fucking used her. I hate to see that ship happened, but it fucking happens. And I hate to see men prey on women that they know are all

in loving hip hop. So you're act like you're just gonna fall in love with this bitch, and when they start recording, you don't want nothing else to do with it because you already done got there. I hate when niggas do that. I hate that. I hate when bitches

do it. A bitch. We'll see a nigga about to be all love and hip hop and be so in love with this nigga and and and man and fall in love with him and ship and make him announce that this is his girlfriend on Love and hip Hop, and then the next about the third episode ain't to give no more than the nigga with another bit like I I can't stand it, or the bitch with another nigga loving hip hop reality stars. I gotta understand. They prey on y'all because y'all are on TV, you already

got the cloud. And little do y'all niggas know that's praying on these women. And little do yall bitches notice praying on these niggas this Loving and hip Hop show. They're not even that way. They want to be at the reality star, Yo, They're not at what they want to get more. They used reality as a vehicle to get certain places, you know what I'm saying. Like Massica, she was on Loving hip Hop. She made it to

an episode of Fucking Power CARDI. She used Loving hip Hop as like a stepping stone to create her mile stones. Do you understand what I'm saying? Now, she's one of the hottest female rappers. She was in a movie like y'all have to use that ship like that. That's why Mona creates these opportunities for people to grow, use her ship to grow. That's just what it is. Some people just don't know how to get out though. That's it.

And other news, Danny Lay, the Baby's alleged girlfriend. She made a song not too long ago, and it's called yellow Bone all right now. The internet gave her a lot of blowback about this ship because she's Dominican, Spanish. She says she's black, she's white, she's a bunch of things. So basically, she's mixed. She's a mixture of ship and she is yellow. I don't know. Sometimes some pictures she's not.

In some pitches, she yellow, then she beige, and she browned and she pale like I don't know, she's not a yellow bone all the time. But anyway, the song hints that he wanted a yellow bone, so he switched. That's what he wants. The Internet is blowing this ship up now. They already don't like this girl ever since. They feel like she took him from Mimi, who is the baby's child's mom. That's the baby's ex, the girl

that he was with when he got famous. And ship right, she's getting blown back because I guess this is a diss or, a shot at brown skin girls. I'm honestly gonna be the first to say, uh no, I don't think it is. I mean, Beyonce got a song called brown Skin Girl. You know she's not putting down in the other shade. Actually, Beyonce and her song talks about

different shades. You know what I'm saying, But brown skin happens to be the most beautiful shade to her, you know what I mean, And even to me it is you know what I'm saying, You're supposed to feel like that, whatever shade you are, you're supposed to feel like that's the most beautiful shade. You know. You gotta be comfortable in your skin. And it's a lot of insecure females

that attack Danny Lay about this song. Let her have her a little wet gas song, because honestly, the ship is trash and she sounds like a six year old little boy that's making a TikTok. It doesn't sound the song is trash just because the song is trash, not because she's talking about yellow bones and that's it. She's a very talented artist, but this song, it just sounds like she was just high ship one night and just

wanted to play around in the booth. That's it what I have put it out if I was her funck No, make a better song for the yellow bone anthem, please. But I don't see anything wrong with the fact that she wanted to make a song for her yellow bones. I really don't. But it could be a different one because you represented them totally trash lely baby, that's it. Um y'all can't say whatever the funk y'all want. It's all types of colorism and this ship, you know what

I mean? Like, all right, she said, a yellow bonus what he want? That's how go yellow bonus what he wants? Yeah, a lot of niggas want yellow bones, you feel me, But then you got your niggas who loved the melanet and the bitch of Scan. Hey, he let him melanin and the bitch of scan brown bone, black bone. We get in with it. A a brown bone, black bone, We get in with it. Boy, what the funk? You aren't think the dick? Hey, you know what I'm saying.

You're saying, so ship, that's it don't matter to me. And other news, DJ Spinderella speaks out about being excluded from the Salt and Pepper Lifetime bio Pick. First of all, Lifetime is trash as fuck for even trying that. How the fuck you're gonna do a Salt and Pepper bio

pick without Dj Spinderella. That's who made their fucking music, Like unless they just gonna do acapella everything, Like, I don't understand why the funk she's not in it, but she said, sorry, but I gotta speak on this lifetime special. Too often black women who have made meaningful contributions in their industry are left out of historical narratives. So she's heard about that ship as she should be. Fuck y'all. Honestly,

fuck y'all. But it's all good. It's all good. And the last news story of the day, somebody to pray for, y'all. Dustin Diamond is diagnosed with stage four small cell carcinoma and completes his first round of chemotherapy. Now, for those who don't know who dust and dimind is that screeched from Saved by the Bell. He looks amazing now when you fast forward, and um, he will not be in the reboot of Saved by the Bell, which is also gonna be on TV. They're rebooting it and I love it.

That was one of my favorite childhood shows coming up. But um, he has cancer, y'all. He has uh and he's in stage four and it is very sad, you know what I'm saying. Like you said, you never know what somebody is going through, never ever know. We lost Chadwick Boseman just this past year to stage for colon cancer, fucked up. Pray for people. Pray for people. Always have in your mind that you don't know what somebody's going through, and that whatever you're going through, someone is going through

some ships in times worse. So always thank God for that. And with that being said, that brings us to the end of the show. Listen to y'all. Cherish your friends. Don't betray. If you even feel a sense of betrayal coming from you, then that really ain't your friend and or that ship is too toxic and you don't need to be friends with that person anyway. I thank you for my fans who told me a part of your life by letting me in your business and allowing me to help fix your mess. Also, I hope it gets

better for my girl, Ma Sica Calicia. Baby, You're gonna find somebody who's going to love and cherish you and that little girl that you got. Fuck these niggas. You hear me, Danny lay go back in the booth. Rewrite it, baby, rewrite it. We want to hear it. Trust me, Some don't, but some do. Rewrite that ship because that ship is trash. Spinderella, Baby, you're worth more than fucking lifetime. Fuck them and your story will be heard one day and more than likely

one day soon. Y'all, please don't forget to pray for Dust and Diamond a k A. Screech as we know him. Keep fighting, baby. The Lord is behind you. Give the battles to him, for it is not yours, it is his, and he will have the last say. That's the end of Carefully Reckless. Y'all. Be back next week next Wednesday, Every Wednesday Hump Day and my best pan voice case hit me like just you got your ass, nigga, Shut the fucker. I've been out hit on my cash on

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