Can't Keep My Mouth Shut

Normalise Women Wanting Casual Sex Too

Why shouldn't we want casual sex too? Why shouldn't we enjoy sex for the sake of sex too? Why should men assume we immediately want exclusive relationships if we want sex?

The No-Contact Rule After a Breakup

Take my advice. Do what I couldn't do. And go no f*cking contact as soon as you possibly can. It's THE only rule I suggest you abide by.

REAL Love is Slow to Grow & Takes Long to Go

In case you all needed a reminder (I know I do)

Sex is Better Sober, Change My Mind

Sure, some alcohol lubrication helps get things along between the pair of you, but the actual act of sex itself is much better sober. Here's why...

Going Balls-Deep in BDSM, Pun Intended

You asked, I delivered. I do so love going balls-deep on such topics!

Partners of Addictions - The 3rd Ugly Person in Your Relationship

Do you stay and help, or do you leave? When do you know it is time to go? Can they ever change?

Unapologetically Sexual - Celebrating Women’s Bodies and Female Sexuality

I'm here for it. For all of it. I want you all here for all of it too.

How To Get Over A Break-up, FAST! Part 2

Let's get to the final stage together because once you get there, you'll feel AWESOME!

How To Get Over A Break-up, FAST! Part 1

You can boss it. I did it, you can too. I have faith in you.

Victim-Blaming & Gaslighting in Relationships: How you need to deal with it

It's not right, it's not okay and it is enough alone to be the reason you leave your partner.

I was in a 'Domestic Violence' & Abusive Relationship for 2 years at just 16 - Here’s My Story

It's taken over 15 years, but I am finally telling my story. If you or somebody you know are suffering from abuse in the home, please do reach out to the below Singapore based hotline for help: National Anti-Violence Helpline (NAVH) - 1800-777-0000 Alternatively you can call your local police department.

Single & No Safe-Distancing? 10 Tips on How to Approach Someone in Real Life

WE ARE FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. No more group restrictions or safe-distancing yas!!!! Here's how to return to normal dating life again, and my personal handy tips on how to approach a hottie in real life so you leave with their interest and number. Thank me later.

Are You Sabotaging Your Own Relationship?

Deep Dive into the Tinder Swindler & Inventing Anna: Narcissism 101

Have you seen the Tinder Swindler documentary yet? What about the Inventing Anna series, based on fake German heiress Anna Delvey, real name Anna Sorokin? If you have, you'll know that these two human beings have SO many things in common - mainly, they're portraying NARCISSISIM 101. "Narcissism is extreme self-involvement to the degree that it makes a person ignore the needs of those around them ." Let's deep dive, shall we?

We Need To Talk About Kayne West (Ye)

Kayne West, now known as Ye. Genius, or lost the plot? Loving concerned father, or abusive ex? Creating 'art' or creating online threats and bullying? We need to talk about Kayne....

How Did Your Ex Move On SO QUICKLY?

Does it reflect badly on you? Does it mean you're the issue, or they were? Does it mean they cheated? Should it be a concern? Does it mean absolutely nothing at all? Let's discuss, shall we...

Single for Valentine's Day? Here's How To Find 'The One' For You

Don't worry, I gotchu. With love, Nixalina.

Why Do We Settle For Less Than We Deserve In Relationships?

Are you desperate for a partner? Are you staying for the wrong reasons? Do you even know what you're worth? Let's discuss why we allow our significant other to treat us far less than what we deserve.

Why is Everyone So F***king OBSESSED with Becoming an Influencer?

Since when did taking photos of yourself on repeat and videos of self-obsessed footage make someone a person of influence? Since when did people choose fame with zero talent over actually honing a talent? Who are these people even influencing? Why does everyone think that they have to become some social media influencer to be successful at what they do? I do not get it.

When is ‘Too Soon’ Actually Too Soon in a Relationship?

Ohhhhh, did you get together very quickly? Is it a whirlwind? Engaged? Children? Ohhhh it is all TOO SOON. RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG! But, is it? Who decides when 'too soon' is actually too soon? Who gets to decide what an ideal timeline is for your own love & life? Let's discuss shall we!

10 Tips On Learning How To Trust Again

If you feel stuck with your trust issues, please do not give up - things can change. Rebuilding trust isn't easy but it is soooooooo worth it when you get there. Here are 10 ways to get your trust back, in both yourself and others.

Best Alcoholic Drinks For The Festive Season Including Low Carb & Low ABV

Fancy having your own home bar cart? Want to know what drinks are the best this festive season to keep the ol' calories low, or even better, low abv? With thanks to The First Pour , I've got you covered!

21 Signs You Should Break-Up & Move On

"Once a Cheater Always a Cheater" True or False???

So, what are your thoughts? It's a tricky one, isn't it. Let's discuss, shall we!

Storytime - It's all just "Tampons n Tweezers" really

If you can get through this episode without clamping your legs together, I salute you.

Ten Tips to ‘Keeping the Romance & Sex Alive’ in a Long Term Relationship

It might get boring, it might become non-existent, but sex in a long term relationship can be rekindled. Here's how to keep the romance going...

Spillin’ the Tea on My Relationship - From How We Met to Now

Who is this guy? WTF did he come from? Did you...actually...do drunk first date dirty dancing on your IG stories? Tune in to my tea-spill, I know you want to.

SG's Jill Lim talks being a Young Mum, Media Career Success & Marrying a Rockstar

Did you want to know how it feels to marry a rockstar who was on a dark path? Or how about juggling being a mum AND keeping your career as a radio host? What about dealing with a loved one in prison? I sit down with Singapore's home grown Jill Lim of Kiss 92 FM to discuss all of the above, and then some. She's cool AF, you're going to love her.

Storytime - I was 'Catfished' before Catfish was a thing, then met the REAL man

I can't even fathom that this is a real story, but yes, yes it is. *sigh* Please DO NOT do what I did, but instead take my tale as a precautionary one. P.s always trust your gut instinct.

Freud’s Madonna / Whore Complex of Women - Let’s Discuss

“Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love.” Freud Freud's longstanding theory denotes men both consciously and subconsciously place women into TWO significant categories in their minds; - "The Saint" nurturing, homely, chaste, safe, mother-type, marriage material aka Madonna - "The Sinner" sexually pleasing, seductive, degraded, promiscuous figure aka Whore Let's discuss, shall we?