EPISODE 27: Ever felt like you're ticking all the right boxes in parenting, staying calm, connecting with your child, and yet, your child seems to be that 'exception'? If that's ringing any bells, you're in for a treat with today's podcast! Today, we dig into the world of peaceful parenting tailored for complex kids with Sarah Rosensweet, a certified coach, speaker, and the founder of Reimagine Peaceful Parenting. She defines peaceful parenting as a non-punitive, connection-based approach that u...
Oct 10, 2023•49 min
EPISODE 26: TRIGGER WARNING: Today's topic covers self-harm. In this episode, we are diving into a topic that many parents face, yet few openly talk about: self-harm. We'll be hearing from a family who experienced this challenge firsthand. They'll share how they addressed this dangerous and frightening situation and where they stand today. Let's welcome Amanda and Marc Ferraro. This brave couple reached out to Calm the Chaos after discovering their daughter's self-harm behaviors. Understandably,...
Oct 03, 2023•48 min
EPISODE 25: Ever felt like your life is at the bottom of the barrel, thinking things couldn't get any worse? And around every turn, it just feels like more challenges are coming up, especially when it comes to your kids’ behaviors. Ever felt stuck, as if each day was an uphill battle, sinking to an all-time low and struggling in pretty much every aspect: at school around your house in getting your kids to listen If that's you, then you're going to absolutely love this week's episode. I have a gu...
Sep 26, 2023•42 min
EPISODE 24: Joining me on this podcast episode is Jenifer Beaney - a CTC community member and a mom of four who is going to talk about her adopted 16-year-old daughter, the tough times they had at first, and how she turned it around. Before joining Jen's family, her daughter was tagged "challenging" so many times, and the people in her life just gave up on her. In just eight years, she’d been shifted through 12 placements. (Imagine how challenging that must've been, even for an adult.) She was d...
Sep 19, 2023•49 min
EPISODE 23: We’ve all heard the horrendous stories of drugs, sex, truancy, friendship drama, and urgh homework, not to mention modern society's constant barrage of social media, influencers, and YouTubers. I’m not sure there is a parent out there who feels confident, let alone excited, about the teenage years. That's precisely why today's podcast episode is so special. Joining us is Danielle Rossi, an Australian mom of three teenagers who was grappling with some alarming situations with her teen...
Sep 12, 2023•34 min
EPISODE 22: When I ask my communities what is your #1 biggest struggle, guess what I hear a lot? “Electronic battles” “Sneaking Electronics” “My kid’s addicted to their screen!” “Getting my kid to get off electronics.” Sound familiar? Trust me, you're not alone. All of us in this digital age ask ourselves: How much is too much? What's age-appropriate? Is screen time harming my child's brain? So this week, I've got someone who can help us navigate these murky waters. I'm absolutely thrilled to in...
Sep 06, 2023•33 min
EPISODE 21: Do you feel like you’re trapped in a loop? Yelling at your kids, fighting with your spouse, and struggling to breathe under the overwhelming weight of daily chaos? Constantly wondering, "Why am I like this?" or "Am I broken?" Trust me, we've all been there. We get trapped in these ruts of doubt, self-blame, shame, and not-enoughness, not only in parenting but in many other parts of our lives. But I have good news. It’s not because you’re lazy or not trying hard enough. And there’s no...
Aug 29, 2023•25 min
EPISODE 20: This week, my dream came true. All I’ve wanted since starting my blog a decade ago is to help as many parents like me, parents who were feeling helpless and hopeless, to feel less alone. To show them that there is a way out. And this week, My "Calm the Chaos" book hit the shelves and I know it can do just that. Because the framework has already helped hundreds of thousands of parents, move past struggles with their challenging kids and begin to thrive as families. This week's podcast...
Aug 22, 2023•55 min
📖 Get your copy of Calm The Chaos Book ! EPISODE 19: It’s here! Today is the day we’ve been waiting for!! Calm the Chaos book is finally out in the wild after four long years in the making. And I can tell you, we’re all in a party mood here. Instead of doing our regular scheduled podcast episode, we want to step back and celebrate, not just our journey but the amazing journey of all the thousands of families whose stories form the basis of this book. And to see all of the lessons we’ve learned ...
Aug 15, 2023•45 min
EPISODE 18: Ever wished you could go back and talk to your younger self and tell them everything you wish you’d known? Well, in this week's podcast, we’re going to do just that. In it, we asked 21 parenting experts the same question: What message do you have for parents who are struggling, who are where you were at the start of your journey? Because parenting is hard. And sometimes, it can feel like we can barely keep our head above water. These experts are here to offer you a life raft so you c...
Aug 08, 2023•34 min
EPISODE 17: Hey guys, Jason here (again). Before Dayna is back, I'll be doing another solo episode. And this time, let me ask you if you relate to this: You ask your partner, spouse, or your kid to help you with the laundry, and they do. But when they don't fold the towels just the way you would fold them, you get angry at them for doing it wrong. As a result, they stop helping with the towels altogether. Now you get upset and say things like, "Now I have to do everything myself," or "It just ne...
Aug 01, 2023•35 min
EPISODE 16: Hey guys, Jason here! This week we are doing something a little different because I don't have my partner in crime, Dayna, with me. (Because she’s doing some amazing work with Village Impact in Kenya - check additional resources for more details.) Originally, we were going to dive into the fascinating world of sensory processing. But I’m not exactly the expert on the topic… I mean, Dayna has written an entire book on the subject. So instead, this week, we're going to tackle a topic t...
Jul 25, 2023•39 min
EPISODE 15: Today, we're diving into a topic that I've shied away from discussing for far too long. It's a topic that elicits strong emotions, heated debates, and carries a weight of history and trauma. Yes, we're talking about autism. As parents raising autistic children, we understand the complexities surrounding autism. We know the struggles, the victories, and the importance of creating a safe and supportive environment for our kids to thrive. And that's what we want to share with you today....
Jul 18, 2023•53 min
EPISODE 14: Living with ADHD can be quite an adventure! Trust me, I know firsthand. Living with ADHD is like embarking on a unique and exciting journey. Sure, it may come with its fair share of challenges, but there's so much more to it than meets the eye. In this week’s post, I am going to dive into the world of ADHD and share my personal journey with it. I share personal anecdotes and reflections on the journey of self-discovery with ADHD. The purpose of this episode is to encourage individual...
Jul 11, 2023•44 min
EPISODE 13: Parenting is a journey filled with joys, challenges, and the constant pursuit of doing what's best for our children. However, amidst the sea of advice and expectations, many parents find themselves grappling with guilt and shame over perceived shortcomings. It's not uncommon for parents to be bombarded with conflicting advice from professionals, experts, and well-meaning friends and family. The pressure to adhere to a seemingly endless list of do's and don'ts can leave parents feelin...
Jul 04, 2023•35 min
EPISODE 12: If you've ever wondered why the heck your kid does what they do and what it really means, then this is the episode you've been waiting for. This week, we're diving deep into the secrets behind your child's challenging behaviors — stubborn defiance, selective hearing, seemingly constant anger, and many other things parents are usually struggling with. Understanding these behaviors is key to leveling up your parenting game. Now, let me share my not-so-secret superpower of understanding...
Jun 27, 2023•58 min
EPISODE 11: What does it mean to you to be connected with your kid? When you say “connection”, what comes to your mind? I ask this because I believe that there's this whole misconception about what connection truly means. Many people have this idealized idea of connection time, having a picture-perfect scene straight out of Pinterest or a Disney movie in their heads. You know, birds chirping in the background, magical moments, and all that jazz. We're bombarded with advice, like spending 15 minu...
Jun 20, 2023•36 min
EPISODE 10: If you're going through struggles with your spouse or partner, whether it's about the kids' behavior, money matters, or anything else, ask yourselves: Do you both really want to be together and build a family? Are you on the same page when it comes to your destination? If the answer is “Yes,” then this episode is just what you need. And even if your answer is "No" or "I don't know," this episode may help you see things from a different perspective and recognize that your partner: doe...
Jun 14, 2023•46 min
EPISODE 9: "We don't parent that way." If you've ever said that to your partner and received a fiery glare in return, don't worry, you're not alone. It's frustrating when you and your partner can't see eye to eye on parenting decisions. Trust me, many couples face this same struggle. One question we hear all the time from parents who join our program or attend our free workshops is: "What do I do if my spouse isn't on board?" (Yep, that's exactly how they put it.) In this episode, we're diving d...
Jun 13, 2023•23 min
EPISODE 8: Are you ready to challenge traditional notions of parenting and create a family ecosystem centered on teamwork and mutual understanding? I'm talking about an ecosystem where everyone's voices are heard and each family member's needs are valued. Sounds like something out of a dream, right? Well, guess what? It's definitely possible, and we're here to show you how. This is the final stage of our Family Road Map. I know the idea of individualizing parenting and ditching the cookie-cutter...
Jun 06, 2023•46 min
EPISODE 7: Imagine a world where parenting isn't like playing an endless game of Whack-a-Mole, where you're not constantly bouncing from one struggle to the next. Sounds too good to be true? Well, this week, we're here to tell you it's actually possible. In this episode, we're diving into the Ahead of the Moment stage of the Family Road Map. It's all about leaving reactive parenting behind and stepping into the realm of proactive strategies and empowerment. The point is to shift our perspective ...
May 30, 2023•45 min
EPISODE 6: What is the best way to quickly defuse your child's challenging behavior in the heat of the moment? Yelling at them? Punishing them? Locking them in their room? Nah, that's not the way to go, although a surprising number of experts advise using such measures to set strict limits and insist on staying consistent no matter what. They make it seem like if you’re a gentle parent, your kids are going to walk all over you and have no rules. But using these methods, you’ll only add fuel to t...
May 23, 2023•43 min
EPISODE 5: What if I told you that you could have all the energy you need to handle anything your kids throw at you, and you could do it in just five minutes a day? Would you believe me? I don't blame you. Five years ago, I wouldn't have believed it myself. What I remember from that period (actually, I can picture it almost like it was yesterday) was standing in front of the mirror, looking at myself, and not recognizing the person staring back at me. Wrinkles, gray hairs, dark circles under my ...
May 16, 2023•38 min
EPISODE 4: Facing the most challenging behavior of your child is a devastating experience for any parent. In those moments, it's normal to feel afraid, hopeless, embarrassed, or even angry. In one of such moments, I thought Jason would divorce me… Seriously - after an epic fight, he took our daughter and drove off to his parents’ place. However, we soon realized that it’s crucial not to let these emotions take over. Because it obviously doesn’t lead to anything good. In life, we cannot avoid sto...
May 11, 2023•32 min
EPISODE 3: Hey there, parents! So, we're on our third meeting now, and I can imagine you've tried every approach in the book (or even those that aren't in books) and everything under the sun (just like we did), but still, nothing worked for your challenging kid. In the first two episodes of the podcast I’ve recently launched, we figured out that there's no one-size-fits-all approach for parenting challenging children. That's precisely why most mainstream methods fall short. They don't get to the...
May 05, 2023•35 min
EPISODE 2: Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try, nothing works for your kid? Most of the time, it can be incredibly frustrating and leave you feeling helpless and lost, while others seem to just stand by and judge from the sidelines. Believe me, you're not alone – countless families face the same problem. My family used to be in the same place. But don't worry – there IS a path forward, and I am here to help guide you through it. In fact, that is the entire purpose of the Calm the Ch...
May 03, 2023•33 min
EPISODE 1: This is precisely what the school principal told me when my son was in second grade: “Take your son, and don’t bring him back until you figure out what’s wrong with him.” I was crushed, but I realized that something needed to change. So I decided to quit my job as a teacher and start homeschooling my son. During that time, my husband and I were dealing with frequent meltdowns, which resulted in broken dishes, toys, and even holes in the wall. I felt like I was the worst parent in the ...
May 02, 2023•26 min
Start your journey from surviving to thriving as a family at: calmthechaospodcast.com Is your child's challenging behavior leaving you feeling exhausted, defeated, and hopeless? You are not alone, you are not a failure, and your child is not broken. Welcome to Calm the Chaos Parenting — the podcast for parents raising strong-willed, highly sensitive, and neurodivergent children. I'm Dayna Abraham, a parenting expert, and I've helped hundreds of thousands of families just like yours. Each week I’...
Apr 20, 2023•56 sec
