Episode 295: Pregame - HELP! My Ex Won’t Move Out

get away from your family. Oh and if you can see Aaron how he's on the couch in the background, I can't even take it. Sweet baby, all right, Megan Numbers, she said, what happens if you are sick? Do you have someone on standby to cover games? That is a great question, great question. It's not me. One time when my appendix ruptured on a Saturday night and I was in the hot hospital, Peter Schreger filled in for me on It's the only time I've ever had to have

somebody fill in because I was in the hospital. But yeah, I mean, obviously I don't care if it was anything other than like a life threatening situation. I would have gotten my ass out on that set and dealt with it. There's been plenty of times we've been sick, but yeah, that was a situation where I couldn't get up. I was in an AID car and AID car I was taken to the hospital in a car. So Shregs filled in and obviously was a professional and did a great job.

But yeah, I don't know. I guess what would you do. You've never had to have someone fill in, right, I mean, knock on wood, I did when I COVID like, they wouldn't let me go because our makeup artist tested positive, so they made us sit out. But that was like the whole weird stuff during then. But yeah, no, I mean I've had my cervix removed twice and I've literally will parts of it and I go back out there. I don't. I mean, I did have a fear the other day when I was getting ready to sit down

with Mike Tomlin. The night before I told you this, I had a piece of pizza and knee sausage tasted off, and I thought to myself, Oh my god, what if I get food poisoning? The damn supposed to sit down in my dealin and I had. I don't care. I will pump any medicine in my body like I'm not missing a game. No, And I'm knocking on wood right now because I don't even want to think about this. My hypochondriac friend was freaked out about it. I said, here's what we're going to do. We're not putting that

out in the universe like it's actually gonna happen. You're fine, don't think that, because if you think it, then it might happen next crazy here we go, Kimberly Rene zero zero. What do you do when you outgrow your friends or friendship groups? Huh? Conversation or let it go. I don't really want to have that conversation. I feel like your actions say enough, right. Oh yeah, I think it's very I don't think you have to guess with Aaron and

I we're interested continuing friendship or if we've outgrown it. Yeah. I think there's just the point where you stop responding to text or calls or invites or those kinds of things. And I think I used to be someone that wanted to maintain all these friendships because I just want to, you know, I don't want anyone to be mad at me,

and I want to me not anymore. I am looking to get rid of people, okay, And I'm gonna tell you why not in a brady way, just in like I want to give the energy that I have and the time that I have to the people that I want to give it to. Because there are when the some situations have happened in my life, there have been a very clear delineation of who is team Carissa and

who isn't. So that was an opportunity for me to take inventory and it made it really easy for me to cut down on the Christmas card list, if you will, on that. So I think it's healthy to also purge some of these relationships that don't benefit you. And it's

not in a narcissistic way. It's just like, hey, by the way, you might not serve what they need either, So just holding on and like it feels like hoarding, right, Like we donate our clothes, we donate our bathroom supplies, we get rid of things like why are we going to hold onto some relationships that we know don't benefit us anymore? There was a time, there was a place,

there was a chapter keep it moving. So I fully believe in this Kimberly, and I think that depending on who you are and what your personality is, if you feel better addressing it and having that conversation, you should do that. But for me and Aaron, I think we're both in the same thing. We just let it fizzle out. Oh yeah, no, yeah, I'll see Aubrey one fourteen. How do you not get distracted by someone speaking in your

ear piece while you also talk. That's a great question because I know probably for a lot of people that seems weird that someone's talking in your ear while you have to speak words. It's just a muscle. It's like anything. I think you the more you do, the longer you do it, the more you get used to it. And I don't know how the brain works. I don't know if my brain works sometimes, but the left and the right where it's like taking in of the information and

then being able like your motor skills. I don't know if that's your left or right side, but retention of information and then the other side of your brain is doing something else. The same way that we can multitask, and you know, think about all the things you can do two things at once. I think for in this particular case. It's just the more you get used to it, the easier it is. At first it was awkward, but now, however, many years in, it's easy for me to do you same.

I just think it's like practice habit. It's just it is what it is. I don't actually feel comfortable unless I have seven voices in my head and mine is the loudest one, which is crazy. And we don't mean the IFB sure, okay, easy E. Three thoughts on Bill Belichick getting hired on with the Chapel Hill football program. Obviously a big conversation with my announcing crew this week. Yeah,

interesting move. Didn't see it coming. Kind of thought we'd either see him back in the NFL somewhere in the NFC. Maybe that's what I believed. It goes to show. I don't know shit. Yeah, I'm shocked, and actually for a school that's more of a basketball program than a football program. So cool, good Anya, Yeah, I think it was. Jimmy Johnson spoke about this this week, what he said last weekend,

whatever it was. He just said that it's fascinating that the what's you know often spoke about as the greatest coach of all time can't get a job in the NFL. I mean, there was all those coaching positions open last year and he didn't get one for whatever reasons. I say the same thing as Julian. Edelman also echoed those same sentiments. Of course, having played under Bill, that it was interesting to both of them that he didn't get a job in the NFL or those opportunities didn't present itself.

But I also think that you know, I'm with you. I'm not in the front off. I don't make those decisions that is above our pay grade. But just from an observation as a football fan, I'm excited that Bill. Obviously his love of coaching is still there, that he's like, hey, I'll go and coach. It's not it's not like a Georgia. It's not Alabama, it's not this huge football program. But I know that it's also very meaningful to him, you know,

a full circle moment for him. And he grew up and his dad was a big they lived there, I think, did they live whatever the connection was, whether his dad was his dad there, lived close to it or staff or something, there's a personal connection there. I know. In his press conference he said that he just remembered being a young kid and growing up and all he learned was how to say, you know, beat Duke, So I think it must there's got to be a number of

different variables that go into making that decision. But excited Bill Belichick being in football, whether it's the collegiate level or the pro level, is always good in my opinion, So definitely brings eyeballs to that program. I love what Jewel said about the Nikes and just saying like, yeah, you know when the Bill Belichick Jordan's come out, like, that's so funny and it's great. I'm also curious to see how he does with the landscape of college football

because it is completely different. Some would argue kind of needs to go back a little bit. It just kind of seems like there's not enough rules in terms of I don't know the money and all that kind of stuff, nil and all the things. But again that's above all of my pay grade. But it's different. It's different from when I covered it, and it's different from when I went there. So I'm interested to see how he does

with all that the changes. Yep, Anonymous, My ex and I broke up, but he won't move out of the apartment, what do I do grab his shit that's not going out the front door. I have a couple thoughts on this. Obviously, this is the apartment in your name, Is this leaves yours? If it is not yours, then grab your stuff and leave, because I just I will not be held hostage by somebody saying, oh, I'm not going to move out. And again, like, if you have to get first of all, first and foremost,

be safe. Okay, But if it's something where it's contentious and he's like not, you know, moving out, then just you got to grab your stuff and you got to move.

It might not be what you want to do, but at this point, if he's going to be so stubborn and make your life miserable, then just take the high road and say fine, unless that place is in your name, do not move out, because then if he destroys the place, I don't know, you know how intense this breakup was, but you don't want anything to affect, whether it's your

credit or just any of that kind of stuff. So I would say, you know, obviously, try to have a reasonable conversation with him, offer to help him move the stuff out, offered. I would even offer to pay anything to just get him out of there, and if he won't move, then you need to get a couple of your friends over and get the stuff out. But yes, that is ridiculous. Grow that's a sad situation and also scary, and I echo, please be safe. Yeah, yeah, Camil, Yeah,

I know it. Okay, Well, I love you. Merry Christmas to everybody. I hope you have a gay, happy and healthy one. And yeah, holy shit, before we know it's gonna be twenty twenty four. Wow, twenty twenty five. I missed the whole year. Lots happened. Love you guys, and thank you as always for being loyal, loving listeners of the Calm Down podcast. We love you and appreciate you always. Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.

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