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LET'S DISCUSS THE DOMMES IN THE DUNGEON

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THE KINKY TRIO SITS AND TALKS ABOUT DOMMES IN THE DUNGEON.

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Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress. I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and I've got with me Madame Liv. Hi, good morning. Good. Morning, Liv. And today we have our special guest, Charles. Yeah. Hello, we're all going to talk on British accents in this episode. How about that? We can do that. We're just going to forget in 30 seconds anyway. Shut up. Go back to care, Charlie. Yes. Yes, ma'am. Charlie likes it. Remember the commercial? That little YouTube video.

And it was he bit my finger. That's. Right, Charlie? He bit my finger. Charlie, that hurts. Oh. Let go, Charlie. It was a little boy and a little baby. Versus do it harder? Yeah, so cute. They're all grown up now. Please. Just do it harder. That was between you and your brother. Oh, oh, I got nasty. Yeah. I don't know the video. No, he does. It we're going to send them the YouTube video. All right, so we did a fantasy Friday with the three of us a

few moments ago. Charles, why didn't you tell us how it went? Well, she did things to me. Made you feel Randy did it not. Oh yeah. Yeah. Feel naughty? I think, yeah, I think you saw that a bit of a bit of a leakage problem. Well boys and girls, they made me put on pink panties and walked to the house to go to the dungeon and she put a blindfold on me, suspended me to the ceiling and started doing naughty things to me. I think she made me guess what implement she was hitting me

with. So when we use a little bit of everything, I just cleaned everything down there. Several paddles, Dragon's tongue, a metallic flogger, regular flogger, two or three paddles. One of you hit me with several items. The alley is 2 paddles. 1 of the paddles that I had down there I did not use. Oh, that big bastard, The big one. I didn't. Yeah, I didn't recognize him. And the furry paddle.

That was fun and after, oh, he put me on the exam table and started putting clothes pans all over me and then we played with the hot wax and you seem to enjoy the hot wax. I love it you. Said you used to. You said you used to enjoy it. I think you. I think you. It looked like you enjoyed it. Oh, I thought you said that you used. To oh, I used to love it all the time. Haven't had it in a while. That was that was that was very nice. Appreciate it.

I'm glad. We did a little CBT with the hot wax. And then breath play. Oh yeah. Oh, and lots of breath. I don't know if we can talk about all this on these guys. Yeah, you can talk about it. We just can't visually show it. OK, we'll visualize this purse plastic bag on my head when they got in a tied down tightly with a collar and then we got done with that was manual strangulation of the carotid and oh, hand over the nose and mouth. Quite lovely. They didn't, they didn't.

I didn't black out though. Yeah, you got a little light headed. There I was, very light headed. I love it. That's very, very interesting, is it not? Oh hell yeah. So the whole point was we were doing a session with Charles through live, doing all of it. That way he could get kind of a good understanding of how she works in her sessions.

Because the point of this episode is Charles can give his opinion of all of the Doms that he's experienced and he had not yet experienced Liv. So Liv said, well, let's just do it. Let's go do it now. She was excited. Yeah, only. Taking my best friend, look what I can do. Yeah, and you do good. Good for you. Yeah. Thank you. I enjoyed it. And you know, so she did a base exception with you. However, breath play is never one of those, and wax play isn't a part of what we usually do.

Yeah, not as like a. Beginners. Yeah, an intro. I don't know, I don't see why wax play couldn't be for a beginner if you do it right. It's just messy I think. And well, if if you know you're going to do it ahead of time, like put down some plastic and keep some baby a wall coconut all on hand, you know that we

can get it out of the skin. Yeah, it's just like the first time you come in, maybe like the second time when you know them a little bit, like, hey, we're going to do this and prepare your body for it. I got you. Make shavings. Well, yeah, but as far as let sensation goes, as far as being too much, I never have thought of it being too much. You know, for a first timer. I think there's a moment too, of an anticipation because it's

like, oh, is it going to be hot? You know, is it going to burn me? Well, different candles have different temperatures. Yeah, if you use the low temperature BDSM candles, it's pretty much, you know, you're good to go. Like with the one I brought today, I didn't know y'all hadn't used. I was going to use it on myself 1st and this haven't gotten around to it. Oh, it's OK. Well, it definitely doesn't, isn't a problem.

I've told Barbie before she's really big in the wax that some of the brands from Walmart that they make in China will fuck you up. Because yeah, I get like these burns on my body. When I used it one time, a red 1 and it turned of skin, I'm already white, but it bleached it even further. It burned off that top layer of skin. So you have to be careful and try a little bit on your body first.

And you always suggest doing it in the corner of like your forearm where your forearm meets your elbow. Yeah, that's the best place because you'll see a if you see a little reddening, you're going to see a little bit of red is because, you know, applied heat to it. But it you can also tell for allergic reactions because of all the different chemicals they put in these damn things now. But I've always tested it there and if it looks a lot redder than normal, just don't use that candle.

And then you can always vary the altitude as well. You know, the higher it is, more time it has for the air to cool off the wax before it hits your body. But most of them I want to have a problem with a few candles, and it's mainly the really brightly colored ones made in China. The one we used today was fine, and the one I used on someone the other night was perfect. Well. Good. Yeah, Barbie said she had gotten one at the store and it was said

low temperature. I think she got a sex shop and she said she took it home and it burned her. And so she was like, fuck this. So then she went to the Dollar Tree and she got those religious candles and she used those in her drag show. Is that burlesque show she does? Yeah, she she did this this one show and she said she literally poured 2 candles like this over her head into her mouth.

The most I've ever had was 2 giant beer mugs or somebody melted that, a bunch of candles and at the top few inches were liquid wax and she poured it all over me. It was a show at this little club and it was fine, but you know, she was like 5 feet above me. That went around. So that was more for art than for BDSN, but she knew I was. I was going to volunteer. I guess you saw it in my face. That's very cool. I heard Barbie she got the glow in the dark candles.

She did because. She used those here yet no I want to throw that I. Got I got some. Glow in the dark. Yeah, the neon ones. Oh, I'm waiting to your my boyfriend's waiting to use him. Awesome. I asked him for him and then he got it and we just. They've got some that glow under UV light and some are straight up glow in the dark, but I haven't tried either of those, but Fetlife has got a lot of cool pictures of that on there. Very cool. Oh. Hell yeah.

So, Charles, you've traveled the world, you've gone to several Doms. 19 pro doms before I met y'all. OK, that's that's a lot of experience, Yeah. What is your take on how Liv did with this? This the first session for you? If you'd come in from the street, you just met her. One of the better ones, yeah. Yeah. Because she, she didn't push my limits too far to tell where I was feeling it when I was about

to call yellow or something. And she would naturally ease up and a nice mix of sadism and sensualism. And it made me. Somebody walking up the street would not feel uncomfortable with you. This is part of why you get so many repeat guys coming in because you're not too demanding, but you're not too soft. There was a nice little limit there. You know, some people like need like I guess the Abd LS need like a very sensual, very soft. And I think you do that with your Abd LS.

And then like hardcore pain sluts come in. Like when I usually go to a Dom, it's for something horrible. I've been wanting to try. I need a professional. And sometimes they're they can be a little too hard and you know, people can, you know, become skittish, jump out of the front door. I never did because I'm too cheap, but you did damn good. It was, it was, it was a nice mix and it's a. Good compliment.

Thank you. And you, you mixed a lot of different sensations together and you did it well. So congratulations. Yeah, it really shows how much of A sensualist she is. You know how she rubbed the tools on your body and. Experience, it wasn't all about usually my thing is pain when I go to a proton that sometimes it's some kind of role play fantasy, but usually there's some kind of pain sensual stuff is it depends on who I'm with. To me, that's more of an emotional thing these days.

Like I haven't tried abdo because I just I just don't get it, but I'm willing to try it. But you have to want something like that, you know? But you did a good job. I appreciate it. You had fun. Well, thank you. Well, one day we're going to put you in a diaper and a onesie. That'll work. We'll go from there. But I'm going to laugh and. I'll laugh at. You too, and I don't want to shave, I want a nice 5:00 shadow. Absolutely. Hopefully with a cigarette hang

out of my mouth. Oh, it's got to go. You know, completely inappropriate adult baby. OK, you want to make it as well. I want people as possible. Absolutely. Hell yeah. What if you think about how many, how many really cute adult babies have you had come in? There's a few that are probably adorable. All of them are adorable. I've never they really are OK. They're the cleanest. They always smell good. They smell a lot of them smell like baby powder. They're fucking adorable.

I mean, they're sweet. They're kind. I'm thinking like a truck driver named Vinnie. No, I've never, yeah, never come in super. I would love that family. Never super. Mainly, but like super like grunt I guess, or yeah, yeah, the truck driver vibes, I guess. The manicure, no knocking truck drivers. I love them. But I mean, you know, as an adult baby, it just doesn't fit. I think Charles is stuck in the 90s cartoon era. Yeah. Where like Jessica Rabbit, you

know, she. Yeah, she she had a little little baby man who would dress up as a baby. It was. Yeah. Yeah. It's a whole thing. That's. What my brain is, it came with the same cartoons. And Looney Tunes, Yeah. Little mobster in the crib. Utopia Live brought up. Yeah, I'm. Gonna have to watch. That you'd like it, it's. Cute. But but yeah, all of our adult babies, Liv and I recently did a session with with my favorite adult baby and you know, he's

just so sweet and precious. He's fucking adorable. He left us the sweetest feedback review on Fetlife. He said he could still smell our perfume even after he left. So sweet. And that's so sweet. We read him Peter Rabbit and we. Cuddled. I watched you read Peter Rabbit to him and he was so soaked into it. Like he was completely in his Abd at like, like people get into like their subspace, whatever that space is for them. Yeah, he was in it completely.

I love doing it. I just, I loved when, when my nieces and nephews were all little, I used to love doing like different character voices, you know, reading them books, making them excited to read, you know, it was so fun to me. So when we get to do that scene, you know, in our session, it's always fun. But you and I, when Liv and I were together, they're doing the adult baby. It was the honesty. It's just such a fun time for me when it's both of. Us it's fun, but.

Yeah, it's. Like it's hard to come up with new things for them. Yeah, and I think again, you know, I, we asked them, you know, we asked two different of our adult babies what they would want to see in our little adult playroom, you know, and so we'll, we'll get a few other things to kind of incorporate into the session. And I mean, they, they all love the rocking horse. Oh yeah, they do. They do. You know, they love their good reading. You know they love the feedings when you feed them.

Yeah, we fed them. We applesauce pudding. Charles is thinking something disgusting. I like titties. I can't help. It well Liv and I don't lactate. However, I brought out a breast pump that I just bought for the dungeon and yeah, look at your child like. Oh, I saw it it. Is. It does. I'm curious. Yeah, I've got the adapter. I just didn't pull the adapter out. Oh, it was still in the box. And I saw it and I was like, oh, we should bring this into the adult baby.

And Liv could kind of tease him with it over her clothes. Well. You could get a steam of milk out of the refrigerator and just keep it, you know, warm up a little bit. Yeah, like you don't know or something. Yeah, we could do that out of your. Shirt. Like you want that diaper changed, don't you? You know. I think he actually would like that. I think so. Too, you know, keep quiet. I guess I need a pacifier so I

can keep quiet. There is one in there, but I don't know like something you wouldn't want to put in your. Mouth No let's let's get. You. I was gonna say, well, they have the big adult pacifiers, which are best. We can order one off Amazon for you. Yeah. We're doing it tomorrow so I can go do. Something tonight I gotcha. I don't just going to be a repeat thing. I want to try shit but sometimes it's a one time shot. I got. I feel like you would enjoy the cuddles. And. I might.

Like it's like one-on-one time. No. It's basically what's it called aftercare, but like a whole session of aftercare. It's like emotional shit. Yeah, is that? Nurtured. And well, this is new to me. I'm trying this stuff with me like like in the past. No, there's very little fucking emotion going on other than pain and rage maybe. Maybe you need it? I needed the other stuff and maybe a little combo. Maybe you need this? A little bit. Oh, you're going to melt my

little cold, broken heart. Don't. Want to sit in between her titties when you? Get fuck yeah dude. You've also experienced Ruby as Charles plays with his non existent titties, yeah? That was hurt. No, you don't have your titties on yet. It's your little flat chest, Yeah. Well, I think they're perfect. Aren't they? Yeah, you have nice little titties. You want to know what we what we've done as far as sessions? Yeah, tell us about Ruby.

Most of ours were on videos before they pulled them down. Yeah. Fairness, because most of the stuff we do is more hardcore. How we used the word for that. She's pretty fucking good out of that. Really is. She is, isn't she? Just give me one of the best vlogging sessions I've ever had out of shit loads and she's really good with that thing. Loves electrical and she loves that if she gets a pain slut and knows it, it's like it fires her up.

And no, she does sensual play too but that never has been my jam and I think she's no upset. No we've mainly impact an electrical with her. She wasn't involved with the hair removal. What else do we do? I didn't do needles with her. She kept doing the electrodes with you. Yeah, and the zapper. Yeah, the Violet wand and the the homemade bug zapper. Yes. That had a lot of current and she loved that thing. Yeah. And Dragon's tail and Dragon's breast.

She's really good with the Dragon's tail, but more for the pain sluts, I thought. But I do know that she does these people for the sensual play, but that just never has been our our thing. We kind of just go at it. Well, I was going to say Ruby. She's pretty well-rounded. I mean, she's got puppies, she's got slaves. I've seen. Her do a sensual on one of the girls that came in during the party. Yeah. And I've watched her work on other people and I've seen her do her needle play.

She's very thorough with it and a lot of different type of electrical play. And she, you know, she can be very sadistic, but she can be very kind too. And she's been kind to me, too, to make sure she didn't, you know, injure me because I've got a lot of Boo boos over the years. She's really good about watching out for those. Yeah, she's pretty incredible. She goes from Texas a lot to Washington and even New York. She's gone out and they've loved her.

In Virginia and the DC area. She's been very popular with a lot of people. She's very open minded to hardcore fantasies, which is kind of was my thing for a while, trying to recall what else we all did. I think she's done a lot of paddle work. I didn't see too much of her fire play though, but I know she was getting into that. Yeah, she does a lot of the stingy implements. She loves to do stingy, Yeah. And one third is more of my favorite.

But, you know, yeah, it was nice to try it, especially the next. The first time I met her, she was using a Dragon's tail on somebody. And I kept asking questions about it. I knew what was going to happen. Yeah. I'm sure she got me with it. So what about Abby? You've seen her a few times. Abby's like a chameleon. She does a little bit of both, you know, She can be very sensual. She could be playful if that's what you need. If you need pain, she'll dish it out.

She kind of senses the mood of the room and goes with it. It's very interesting. So I could see her being really good with the Abdls. And also if you're a pain slut, she could really dish it out too. But she would be more for, if you want to come play, you know, and try a little bit of everything, She's a really good one for that because she's kind of adapts to whatever's going on and real friendly. But she I think she could be a real bitch if she wanted to, if that's your thing.

I've never seen her that way. She always like teases and the tease play teases. She's. Yeah, she's fun. She can be a sadist for sure. She's definitely more playful though. She is very. You know the DOMS. I haven't played with Barbie. Technically, we did kind of a scene outside for our party that we won't discuss here because, you know, others were involved. But I hear good things about her. I wouldn't mind being a session

with her, but. You know, what I like about Barbie is she can be the way she says something. She's very cavalier. It's like, oh, yeah, you know, he wasn't bleeding, but that's not my business. It's she's just really funny. And she, you know, she adds a lot of humor to sessions. You know, she'll tell people like, I don't want you to look at me here. Put this blindfold on like. What's the way to do it? Yeah, I'm not touching that unless this is my boot.

Exactly. I hear she started to love CBT which. Yeah, she does. I could see you're beating this shit out of somebody if that's. Oh, I've seen, yeah, I've seen a little bit of that. She's very funny. Other than that, you know, I don't know a few. I've seen a few people that have played with her and they seem very happy about it. Because I haven't done a session with her yet. They would probably be my parent. She could probably be a lot of fun though.

Well, and you know what I think about everyone that works in the dungeon, that is, that plays in the dungeon, you have Liv and Barbie and Abby and Ruby. And what I really think, and they all share that same thing, is that they all go in and they listen to what the person wants. And they're all versatile enough to work with everybody and fulfilling what they really desire. Most people come here. I want to say, must we go to a pro Dom?

Yeah, I've done a lot of it. It's when you have an itch that needs scratching and by, you know, you fantasize about something in particular, like trying electrical, or you have some kind of specific fantasy and you have to go somewhere where they can play it out for you in a safe place. Because you can't just find somebody on my Fetlife and cross your fingers and know what the hell they're doing because things can go wrong. Plus the mountains of bullshit

to get there. You know, the false promises and then catfishing and you know, maybe they don't show up. Which one? Flakiness. Oh, there's a lot of flakiness out there. Russ Wobble was going to pro Dom. Let's started that up because I wanted to try something specifically and needed to be safe. And it's better if you're in a place where somebody who's actually trying to fulfill your fantasy.

But so anyway. Yeah, I you told me a story the other day and you were you were telling me this woman was absolutely gorgeous and you were really enamored by her physically, but the fact that you were playing with her consistently and you were going to be her full time slave. Oh yeah, that yeah, that wasn't even going to be a yeah, that was going to be 24/7, Yeah. And yeah, she was fucking gorgeous. Yeah, she was half Caucasian and her mother was part Inca, part Japanese and all gorgeous.

Used to be a pro Dom in Atlanta. Yeah. Anyway, whatever happened, she got thrown out of the country and I went to go to Peru to see her and it was a little bit of fun, but she was, she was mental. Now, I'm not saying I'm normal, but yes, God damn. Sometimes she would go crazy for no reason. And like, like public play is always a hard limit with me because you can do whatever the hell you want behind closed doors, but in public, unless it's like at a party, keep your

shit to yourself. And she knew that was my hardest limit and tried to break that damn thing constantly when we're in public. And that just kind of eroded any feeling I had for her. But yes, she was gorgeous. But that's not enough. Yeah, that's interesting. It was not enough. So you're saying that she kind of broke the trust? Oh fuck yeah. Because that was like my harvest limit and she tried to break it as quick as she could and very publicly and it was not cool.

And that just, it ended it. I didn't have any more trust for her after that. Yeah, I think too, when we get new people that come in, I mean, once you break that trust at the very beginning, it's kind of like. Why the fuck should I? Why should I give you a second shot? You're supposed to be a professional at that. Yeah. And then you, you went straight to where, like, some people might not want anal, and that's a hard limit for a lot of

people. I could see you trying to ask and what they want to try, but if you jam a dildo on their ass when they said no anal, Yeah, you took the trust and you're not going to get it back. I mean, I don't care how nice your tits are. Somebody like, yeah, the one we're talking about had perfect. Oh my God, they could have sculpted this stuff and put it in the museum. Oh Jesus, she was nuts. The beautiful ones usually are.

That's all. Well, I'm not beautiful, I'm crazy so. You're beautiful on the inside. Oh so. I have no ass. But I was going to say, I was going to say when people come in, they automatically assume that we're going to, you know, break their limits and it's going to be hardcore and we're going to hurt them and leave Marks and because they don't know really what to expect of it. Yeah, I think maybe just watching too much porn, you

know, maybe. And people have probably had bad experiences, especially if you go on, I call them hookers or whips. Basically, you take a woman who's seen something on TV and the next thing you know she's beating people with extension cords. Now if that's your thing, rock on, but don't do it the first fucking day. But if they go to one of these ladies who's never had any experience, it's probably not going to be good or it won't be good enough.

It'd be really half ass, like with a flogger and you just just tapping somebody like a feather or they go too hard, you're breaking that extension cords and leaving welts. And this training is good for everything, whether or not is your doctor or mechanic, you know? Yeah. I went to this party one time and it was, you know, supposedly this reputable, reputable group and they were playing this game. I guess they were going for a

prize. I don't know what the point of it was, but they had probably four or five couples teams and it was, you know, guy on girl, girl, girl, you know, that kind of thing. It was kind of a multi mix, but they were using implements and each team would be given 1 implement and they were saying how long, how hard that person can take it. And I'm watching this and I was like, this is not kind of fucking in Well because it was blood and broken skin and it was graphic.

I was like, oh, and I cringed and one of the locals came up and said you're supposed to be a pro Dom. And I was like, yes. And I would not do anything like that. I get it. If they enjoy it and that's what they want to do. I don't think that's what Dom is. Well, I don't think so either. And but you know, this is again, supposed to be a reputable group. And she's like, what do you do? Feather domination, Mistress Mia. They just should be using

people's what that was. And I was like, what the fuck? It's about trust. But. Yeah, it's just submitting to. Somebody and then trusting you with that power, you know? Yeah. But to go into context though, it depends, because I don't know if that person being hit, that might be their thing. Yeah, again, a few people who are fucking hardcore and they need it. Well, I mean it. It really does depend though, and who's doing it. Dude. I don't know if they knew each other. Yeah, you know.

Yeah, that would be my assumption. They all knew each other. I would. Hope so, but. Again, like I said, I it's cool if they want to do that, but I didn't want to watch it. No. And it's. I don't really want to say people bleed either. You've gone too far when you break skin. That's just my personal preference. Yeah. Because mainly you don't know where that whip has been. Now your skin's broken. And hell, hello, Hepatitis C. Yeah, to reach his own.

Yeah. I just can't see if you go to a pro Dom and want to bleed the first session. I don't think that's a good idea. Get to know him first, if that's your thing later on. Yeah. I mean, make sure they know what the hell they're doing. And I get that some people might need that, you know, sometimes I want something a lot harder, too. But yeah, get to know the person first. Very true. Well, we've had some fun. It was a good day. It's been an interesting day and tomorrow we'll be doing some

adult baby play. Charles, I need to get a cigar. With your passy, yeah. That'd been my cigar passy part. OK. 5:00 Shut up, all right? Gonna be sexy. No, whatever the kink. All right, So thank you again for listening and feel free to check out our loyal fans and you'll see additional videos there as well as call me mistressshow.com and until then, live. This has been the latest episode of. Do you want to end the session? Never what? I don't want to hit it. Oh.

But go ahead and say it, Charles. Go ahead. She's giving it the choice. No, say it again. Well, I'm not talking. Call me Mistress.

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