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Visit betterhelp.com to learn more and save 10% on your first month. That's better help H-E-L-P. If it's a kind of notary, notary for the future. It's better to finish working. Just as many numbers as you can see, I'm not sure, but at least not in postcast. In YouTube, the main thing is to find out if it's a business, a company, and so on. But for Cafe con Victor, it's like... It's like a gift for Victor, something like that.
But what I realize is that the episodes that come more to people, to people, to people after... When I read them in the DMs, these are the most personal episodes, like these notes for the future. And it's a bit of what's to be seen today, or what's to be seen today. And another day I received a message, directly, on Instagram, which I was asking, which were the videos that people asked to see on the channel.
And then there were several messages that they had to see with technology, which is a bit of what's going on, a bit of the main camera. And many of them surprised me a lot, they had to see with greater success, with the concept of taking a little bit of your life's risks. And there was still a specific, I don't remember the same person, but I said, it was adult, how was adult, two points, love, financial and technology. My reaction to a very curious remix.
Obviously, in those themes, they were so... In a way, for me, it was normalized, right? But I still want to talk a bit about the concept of, it was adult. Because that has happened, as in my head, during all these days. And yesterday, I felt, I was thinking about how to make this episode and I said, you know, it's very curious. Because you're not that adult when you're 18 years old, or when you leave university, or when you have a first-hand class.
You're not that adult when you realize that your moves are worth to belong to you. That is, when you're able to make your own shit face your own face, you're not that stupid. I'm sorry to say that so much, but it's true. That for me, is a good adult, the one who's able to make that face of his moves. And I realized that I had become an adult, or that I had been going through a lot to become an adult before what I thought. However, I didn't feel like an adult until I was very little.
And that's what I want to tell you in this episode. Millennials is like the most terrible thing about being adults. First, I'll tell you about the millennial perspective. I think this is also very valid for the Z-Up generation. I think that between the Z-Up and the millennial, there's not much difference. For example, we can have with the Vibhumus. Millennials. Maybe the late millennial. So, many things are happening in Vibhumus. The topic of generation is, honestly, it's a joke.
They're marketing terms and are termites to separate the population. Basically. But there are things that are just like generation. A way to think a little bit special. I think that the millennial, in the Z-Up generation, we have a lot of sense of reason. And it's because both have grown up with the Internet. And the Internet is like a kind of... ...putting everyone around the world, you know? You have the digital culture, it's for everyone.
You can see a meme and understand it with 30, 20 or 15 years. If you're in the movement of these memes, specific. I think it goes much more through groups of interests that are more generational. Before I was a kid, when... I think, for example, when my parents spoke about how it was their medium-consumption. It's something that made them close. It was all the same because the TV was on the ground, the kind of consumption, the kind of things you show.
Now, as we have an access to the Internet, we have access to everything we want to do, to see videos of the technology, perfect. There's a community that goes from 15 to 45 years old. And that more or less, they have very similar things. Obviously, their motives, their economic possibilities to access one or the other are different. But at the end of the day, a person of 15 and 30, in this case, 40 years, will be able to talk about the same review. That's what I'm talking about.
The generational decisions are sometimes less. That's why I have no point in saying, I'm an adult, I'm a kid, I'm a young teenager. I don't know what makes sense of how it's going to work out. I think that now we have access to a lot of information, a lot of things that allow us, for example, in certain moments of our life, to take the reins, the reins, to shape them. And there's the issue of episode.
For me, when I started taking the reins of my life, I started to know what kind of person I wanted to be, what kind of man, when I was a kid, I said, what kind of man I want to be when I'm older, I want to have these values, I want to live in this way, I want to live in this other way.
For me, it has been something that has made me realize that those principles of being an adult, the ability to choose the ability to be responsible for the things you choose, and for things you don't choose, and you have to be able to solve them. In some cases, yes, in other cases, no. But the feeling is responsible about it.
There's something that is quite interesting, regarding the issue of millennials, we have been very much thinking that we are adults, and I think it has to do with the issue of work. And that's something that later I'll comment on later on, but in the end, the issue of money, the issue of economic freedom, offers you a sense of adulthood, because when you have money, you can take certain decisions, you can go out of your parents' house and go out.
You have to pay a corner of a floor, you have to pay for your food. In those kinds of situations in which you start to be responsible for your own existence, it's when you are an adult. But, of course, what happens when you don't have economic capacity to be able to take a decision on your own existence? Because in certain ways, your elections are 100% not belong to you. And that's something that I think the millennials have succeeded in. It could be a reason.
And they have been the most important work with what we have been doing. And one of them, for me, are the weak ones. I thought 90s would be the University's exit with the University's exit. In 2014, 2015, there were more or less vacations, and I think that's the end of the university. I think so. Yes, more or less, there. Well, total. But I started to work as a doctor from early spring. That is, as a second career year, in the first and second year, I started to work as a doctor in a company.
When you are a doctor, you will finally get a little money. And when you get a little money, you can't go to the office. You can't go out of your parents' house. I went to the hospital when I passed. I was very lucky. Because I only had three months of vacation. I passed another year, but I was already quite a bit more lucky. And then that year, I lasted. At very little time, at least one year, and I was already working on my own. As a doctor. And for me, that was also a very peculiar case.
But, well, I'm going to go to the economic part, the part of what is meant to be the money to be able to emancipate. For example, as many friends as they had not so much luck or whatever it is, and to be able to work on vacation for a long time. They accepted jobs for 300 euros, 300 euros in Madrid. You can't do anything about it. You have to continue living with your parents because you can pay the transport money and little more, and become a driver. You can be a driver, basically.
So, you can't emancipate. You can't take certain decisions about your life when you are in one or two years. By winning that. And there are also other important things. And that is that it dominates a lot your self-esteem. The fact is that, you have to say, that little money won many times of what my parents earned and the Chinese parents do not have university studies. And the options we had in that time were not as good. Well, in that time, I had to go to the library.
But you understand what I am saying. That is, you didn't have too many options. And this happened to many people in my generation. For that reason, I understand many times when the millennials have not been more than before. Because recently, in the last five years, when I saw that my friends had started to put good jobs there. And there they have been, very cool, now finally, I think people who are more than capable have already had jobs of adult people.
You know, with responsibility with a job team and providing a dream that allows them to take decisions. And those decisions, the first thing I have seen has been that people have been there at home of their parents and have started to live for themselves. And they are not in many of them sharing their peace. They are already living with their partner. And that is another point of being adult. The topic of relationships. After all this I am doing, I will do it, I will go and global it.
And I will give you a kind of scheme that I follow that I maintain a little as in my plan. You know, in my plan. And that plan, as I said, has a plan or has to do a load of your things for me what it means to be adult. In fact, it is something that I usually do. I know that it is like, oh, I have been very inventive. No, not for you, you know, I have been very usual. But well, and with the topic of having money, you will have to administer what you offer is a free attack.
You know, you have not just where you want to live, but also what kind of food you want to eat, what you want to consume, if you want to be vegan, if you want to be already, you are not at home with your parents. You know, you already have a decision about your life. Or also what kind of trips you want to do. When they say, the owner of happiness is true, not happiness, but of freedom, to choose many things.
So I think it is important to understand that, above all, to romanticize certain aspects. I think that one, there is no need to return a crazy one, it is a crazy game. This is always something that I often talk to today. Because the game does not mean the gambling. You know, it does not mean that. I mean, the game of what is life. The work of money, you know, not to go to the access, I am going to work only for money, you know, to accumulate, to have more, to buy a Lamborghini.
You know, no. That type of things do not give happiness. But if you have happiness, for example, you know that you will be able to play a little bit of time. Or, at least, that is the happiness that gives me my life. Or you know that you will have to pay a game of play. That type of things, that type of conversations that we are following are very adult. Okay? Because you are starting to make a car, not only of your own, of the present, but of your future.
And that is also important, that you withdraw it now, because after putting a scheme. However, also make a greater or make adult, okay? You know that you have to solve some things, you realize that you have a much more limited resource than the money. That is your time. The time is expensive. And it is important. If a resource is probably the most important resource that we have in humans. The money comes and goes. But there is a certain thing, okay?
And the certainty is that the time does not return. The time you are playing right now to listen to this episode. If you are dedicated to every 100% of this episode, this time you will not recover it. It is a time that you will invest, if you have served something, or you will lose it. If you have served it, absolutely nothing. I hope that you will be able to do something. In fact, a premise or a norm that I have, I will now go up a content is that the content is going to be useful.
Because, because I have always been like a crazy person of time. In fact, since they were very young, I have always controlled quite a lot of time with the topic of, for example, the topic of one time that I told you about the block, that is, blocking the calendar, putting everything when, for example, that today is the same. But, for me, for the less, it is very much the same. You know, how long do I have to eat? How long do I have to rest? Because I have to find a balance.
Not because I will rest. Now I will eat. No, but because it is time for you. And it is time for me. It is time that I am not going to pick up the phone. By the way, not from the phone. The other day I did the interview to the people of Lightphone. Very curious. Very curious. I will talk about this. But, you know, I am doing the challenge of 30 days using the Lightphone. I started only with 7 days. In fact, in the beginning of the video I said, I saw it was a week using only the Lightphone.
I know that I don't know when. Yes, and I use the Lightphone. I have realized that I don't know what I have to ask. You know. So, what I decided to do after a conversation that I had with them. Well, they live well. They work on the side of my house. You know, when I live on the side, it is 15 minutes in busy. I went to the other day to my office in busy. I mean, talking to them, I was studying and doing different things.
In case of how people use it and say, okay, the case of using it as a secondary phone, which is the best thing for me. And what I am doing is using my... Well, using it, now I am using this one, as the main one, but what is going to happen is, they are going to be a secondary. And my iPhone is using it as a secondary phone for the video, but when the term ends, it will be my main phone. I tell you the reason why. But it has a good idea to the iPhone and it also makes me feel sorry for that.
Why? Because, because, for the time, in the end, the time we invest in things is super important. Because it is the difference between investing time or taking time. Okay? And when it comes to time, it also talks about relationships. The relationships we create with people are the time we dedicate to people. A positive relationship is a relationship that you dedicate time to what you think.
You know, with your partner, with your friends, with your family, and there are relationships that are a absurd relationship and that you have to cut off from the root. Why? Because what you do is, that you lose time with those people. At the same time, okay? For example, when I was going to the institute, I had a group of friends who didn't bring me as much as another group of friends who brought me much more. And then, sometimes I took the back and thought that time was lost.
And curiously, I think that is very normal and very Spanish. I don't know how to be in other countries. But as Spanish, as we are very, our group, our band, the people of the town, the people of the institute, your class, you know what you play football or what you are. Or what you play at the Mavic cards. And suddenly you start investing time and time and when you want to realize you have spent five years and you describe anything in common with these people. You know?
So, I think there is a very adult very mature, in other words, I don't have anything to do with this people. But the next step, more adult, is to take the card as a matter. And you know, that I don't get asked, that I don't get asked to follow this people, because I don't get anything. Because it's a type of relationship that I don't get anything at all. Take care. I don't say that the relationships are very useful and that they have to be used for a specific purpose. I don't say that.
But if I say, well, I say, if I say that the relationships have to be open for a purpose, something so simple, like being happy. But if you are on top, you are with that type of group of people that don't accept you for being the person you are. Or don't share the same tastes or the same feelings in a total of you. Or something so strong, like the following, that you have to hide part of who you are. Because if not, they will accept you in that group that face, that's it. You know?
Look, and this happens a lot with the LGBT people. The LGBT people, I mean, I have always said that we are a little like Superman in this aspect. Because we always have to hide part of our identity because of fear of being rejected. When, really, the ideal could be so clear that as Superman at any moment, because you feel the somehow comfortable as to be able to be with your friends, especially with your friends. There is no outside world yet, I'm going to be completely complicated. Okay?
And I don't understand that I don't want to always be with your head, of Superman or whatever you want. I understand it perfectly. Take care of it. Here, I don't play anything. You know, I spend all these things to judge people each one of them lives as a column, as a column, but if I think it's very important to have a group of friends that accept you with head or without it. You know? That you can be with all your colors.
And I mean, for example, to be a person of the GTB or two, having an official that perhaps your group of friends doesn't end up liking you. For example, you like cooking, or you like the dance. And that's why it means that you are from X or I condition, absolutely. In the end, it doesn't have anything to see. But the result of your group of friends is not afraid of being told today. It's because I'm going to be cooking with my mother for a moment. I mean, water is so simple.
Well, if people are not, why? Because they only want for a facet of your life. And people want it in their complete facet. So, the best thing you can do and an very adult option is to take care of the relationships with the ones you are surrounded by them because in the end, we are the person or we are literally because in the end, all those people have a strong effect on the person we are.
So, think that those people are giving you a good effect because in the end, that will be what you reflect on you. And cut the root of that. Or decide to create a better relationship. That's a very adult way to take the relationships. And above all, take your time. Look, I have always said that the university in the end, is always like or like an extension of our life in Fandil. Because you go to institute, you go to college, then you go to institute.
The decision, at least in Spain, to go to institute, is very fast. With eleven years, I think you go to the institute, and there are up to 17, 18, depending on each person. But, of course, the most normal or the most usual in Spain is then go to university. And you know that you are going to be there four years more, three years more, well, no, four years less. And then, you know that you are going to go there with 22-23 years of university. That's not the case.
So, it's like we are going to put in the decision of our life until we reach university. Because many times the university decided to study X or Y and we do not do it. We do it. Our group and our parents and the person that less probably has decided what career is, you have to study, it's you, that's why it happens a lot that people return to university when they complete X or the topic of the Masters. The Masters to form a form of another when you are already working.
The story is very, very, very, very, very usual, because you really realize that you have 27 years and you start to take your own life you don't live with your parents, many of the lazos of my age, you have cut them because you are in a labor and you realize that life you have and the life you are going to live during the rest of your life, it's not that you have designed, it's that you really want for you.
And it's when you are in other times you have to study the Master career that I really liked to study. You know, you can be very difficult to take, take, take cards in your responsibility about things you do and have a good plan especially because I think the adult is that. He is the decision-making decision-making as I said at the beginning and the decision-making of your movements. And that also happens because of the health and the people of many things.
Total. What I have said is that I have been abstract but I want to share that I was doing since a long time ago. That is a scheme. And I complete it with every three or four weeks. I have a notebook. I will write it. It's like I took my time and now I have a notebook. It's very easy. What I would say is that that you are a white eye. And one of the faces is a scheme that means taking or being an adult, taking a series of challenges in your life.
And doing a plan is taking the resources, the economic resources that I have. The time and work is something that I will not say I take a long time. My work as I love is something that I invite so give me that investment that I have before. Just I have to stop and I remember I decided to go to my psychologist because I have 24 years I am not very confident in the world to be able to grow and to grow. For me, that was one of the most clear examples that I have to take in the subject.
I have always considered mature. And when I was young, I was told that it was very mature for your age. I am understanding that time is not unlimited. We have a time to enjoy life. I have always wanted to enjoy life in a specific way. I have a small taste, to have a house, to have a place that I never knew once I have got the company I would have organized I would have organized I would have organized I would have organized I would have organized I would have organized I would have
with my work, okay? The first point. Relation with my work, see your time, because because of my work to see if the autonomous, well, practically almost all my life is very connected to the person I am.
So, I know that I am in the projects, in those that want to be doing the things that really motivate me, that really fill me, that I am not changing my time for money, but that I am changing my time for something that I like to do, for something that helps me do things, that for me is fundamental. Take care, maybe for many people I don't know, but for me it's like the angular stone, it's what really makes me happy. And that is that, it is diluted by the rest of the scheme.
The knowledge that, for example, I have a job, I allow myself to obtain some economic outcomes, and that economic outcomes allow me to have a freedom of choice of certain aspects that, well, my life, where I live, what, what is my wish? At the end it is important, because that is what I say, I don't dilute myself in the rest. The second point would be social life, where here, or social life, life beyond you, okay? Life beyond your age. So, what I do is always start with a value
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I'm also with someone I want. Why? Because I don't do it alone for me, I do it for the other person. And then, that promise that I want, I leave it for writing. And then, I'm going to ask more about your day. Because my goal is that people who decide to have social circles, partner, family, friends, we'll go there. I want them to feel loved. I want them to form part of my life and to be active. I mean, I want them to not be secondary actors
who are around. I don't want them to be part of the truth. And I want them to have a quality. So, taking certain decisions, and analyzing your partner, your partner, will be extremely relevant for your life. How many times do you not want to think too much in your partner? Because you know how you think too much, you leave that person. Guys, you're not in the place you should be. Basically, leave that person. You know, leave
to lose time. You and the other person. This is something I swear. I mean, I feel like I'm very sick of keeping my partner as stable. I have very few partner, but as always, as very stable. Some friends ask me, like how do you do it? I say, because I always think that I do it. First, I analyze what I do, and then second, I analyze a lot of things, and if I didn't study, if I wanted to be, I would have gone. You know, I don't want to lose time
for anyone. I don't want to lose my partner either. So, I don't go on the second, third, fourth opportunities. No, no. It's not working. You know, it's already getting lucky to have very clear things in that sense of perceiving very quickly, which are the vibrations of each person, and then it goes down, it's out. I mean, what is life? This, this, this. I have another friend who does something very cool, and it's very curious,
and it's that when someone asks him what things want life. You know, so, with this, I have decided a little bit of things, yes, things, no. Because it's still important to have to be aligned in certain aspects, then there are others who are dying, but having, as a kind of, that is, not being with someone for being, but you are with someone because you want that person to have another one, and you want to use that person, you want to know what
things you can bring to that person. You know, the concept of the orange medium, well, I don't
think so. I don't consider that there is already a orange medium, okay, and that there is that that you find that other orange for you to complement you, no, but I still think that there is outside, there is a person or a variety, no, no, it's not because you have lost your partner, there are no more people there, that is, the world is plural, and we don't adapt to it and all this, well, but I still think that there is another person outside, that you are not going to complete,
but you are going to complement you, you know, that is super important, do not feel that you have to be with someone to be a total you, but what will you know what will help you, what will you spread, and what you have to do the same, what will help you and what will you spread,
and then that is something that seems to me that it is okay, that relationship and the front stop, I did not even start to become a podcast in this very short time, that zero, there is no way, there is no way, I already do it with my close circle, I do not do it with anyone,
I do not see how you move, well, then, second, inside the social life part, social circle, this is my family, which is the relationship with my parents, which is the relationship with my general family, and then I say, oh, I could be better here, I could be better here, I could do
this better, I could do this here, and then one thing that I have realized that many times, the fact that the people are your family of blood, it does not mean that you have to accept anything, I have the luck to have parents that are incredible, they are, they love a lot, and you have a very,
very good relationship with them, but that does not have to be the norm, there are many people who have family that are worse, you know, and that they use them or that they are so bad and that they do not know how many, I think it is important that you discover these types of things and that you realize that your family of blood does not have because to define the person you are and not much less the future you want
for you, I think it is super important and that even when we analyze the relationships of couples, how these toxic relationships, these relationships, I think it is also important to analyze if the relationship with your family is a toxic relationship, in fact, see if there is some kind of solution and if not, well, it is necessary, what is the core of it is already, but I think it is very important, for example, the gift of this has helped me a lot, many things, because there is always
no relationship with someone who has been in your family, which is like a piece of cake, you have to work if or if because you are a father, you are my family, you can create a lot of that person, and it is very likely that you want a lot of people, you have created that person, you have grown up,
I know how to do it, and you want that person, everything, okay, but that you want a person, it does not mean that you have to wait for all that person, you know, you know that you are going to be there for that person
when you need it, it is always going to ask, but one thing is that, one thing is to help your family because you want them and because if you feel that responsibility with them, another thing is that you have to wait for things day after day after day, especially the toxicities, the little gift you
do, you have better distance and when you need to wait for a moment, you will be there for you, that's it, I think it is important to be aware of that, and it is a way to take the reins in your family life that is going to be super important, then the next thing that I always
analyze is the topic of the friends, then I make a list of the people of my friends who are in my alrededor, the people who want to have my alrededor, the relationships that I am starting to build or relationships that I have left to do, and I see if they are good, I see if the
people I am putting in my new relationship in my new circle are people that I want you to know, because sometimes we start to make friends of people who do not care about anything, who are simply friends to be equals, and that's it, I do not want to, at this point of my life, I have 33
years, I do not want friends of equals, I do not want people who do not care about anything, who are only here because they suddenly say, I have arrived, you know, I do not want that, that I can have it when I was small, when I was small and I was going to, well, when I was going to
school, these will be interned in London, well, there are people who have passed luck, well, people, that is, they were good, then I have done friends there, but there were many people, you were with a circle of suddenly 10 people and those 10 people will be circumstantial, however, if one of them takes a couple of people in different years, they have been like,
why? to see, you never get close to the idea of knowing people again, because you can surprise yourself a lot and you can finish becoming friends of yours, but but but but but I think it is important that you analyze and that you do not let everyone enter like this, you know, everyone
is my friend, no, everyone is our friend, the people, that is, friends, people are not what you want to spend time, they are people that support you and that you support, I know you want to have your life more beyond the circumstances specific in the ones you are, the brand, because these are vacations in a camping does not mean that everything depends on the people of the camping are your friends, no, because then when you return, when you take out your people, you take out your
camping and you go to the city every day, it is a test that you do not go to the same places like the other vacations, I say this, I say this, that you return to plant red, I super brown in the plant, you know, that as someone goes to my friends because I stay at my
house and point, no, I say that, but that you put perspective on things, you know, it is not that you do not go to exaltation of everything, very part that knowing of who you are surrounded, I have already commented before, but of the most important things that you can do above all, above all,
when you are younger, when you are at the university institute, friends are so influential, so much person you are, which is very important, really, that you take your time to know if those people are doing well or if they are looking at you, because you can change literally
the people you surround with those who are surrounded, you can change the rest of your life, it is that I'm streaming, I'm streaming, the issue of the people who laugh when you think, I'm the one who makes you very lucky to steal people from me, they are so
healthy, from people who do not abuse substances or anything similar, so it is very normal, very chill, my group was a little bit freaky, they liked the rare periods, or also the magic cards, the security guards, the comics, a part of a group, then another part
was that of more than freaky, more normal things, then I have the chance that I have grown a little like that, you know, and also with time, introspection, that is, what kind of person I want to be, you know, and then that has given me a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot, a lot of
truth, I continue with the scheme of this, then we have the resources, that those resources are that will allow you to do certain things, then we have the social circle part, and now we are going to a part that I consider the most important ones, that is health,
and inside health, as I call it, the epigraph is my relationship with me myself, but your relationship with the light of now, with the one you feel is Victor, now I feel like this way, and then I have always lived it in three points, in how I find myself at a mental level,
because I say health, health, how I find myself, how does it work here, then I say, well, it is nervous, I am with anxiety, or I am still, I am a fucking mother, I love you, you are the one who is the perfect person, well, everything is just a point, a point also
things, well, I have been well, thank you, but I appreciate it, I appreciate that you first of all, no, please, we do not go with those jokes, this is not a podcast of productivity, it should be for basic and planned people, here we are to talk about the intense things,
then I go a little to that, things that you have said, things that have done well, things that, well, to do a analysis, see how you find your emotional level, you know, many times the simply ask yourself how are you, we are so used to it, how are you asking yourself,
how are you, very well, very well, and where are you saying, mother, I have this problem, I have this, I have this, you know, it is very probable that all those problems that you have in your head, I have been developing the previous points, I decided to develop the first part of the work,
part of family relationships, because most of the times all that bassoon, all that shit comes out of there, you know, then that how you depend a lot on your work, on your relationships, of your friends, all that, but when you get to this point,
the point of asking yourself how I find myself, well, you have already solved a lot of that and where you can already know how to do it more directly, how do you find yourself, well, I am in peace, because this has happened to me, this, this, this, this, this, and I am taking things
quite well, I am doing this type of things, and although I have a lot of work, I am not doing it myself, I have a lot of work, I have a lot of projects that are at the event of Merch, that is the YouTube channel that we are going to be the host, to the videos that we are doing
and so on, these days, they are being like OMG, OMG, OMG, we are doing this, yes, we are doing this, wow, I am doing a lot, then, but at the same time it is like, okay, perfect, it has the work place in the work place and it is in the place of relationships that I want to find, but how
I find myself and I say, well, I started to have a lot of work, now I am in peace, I find myself well, I am very happy, I am very happy, I am grateful for being able to dedicate myself to my work, I am grateful for being able to work, I can say that my work is not a
waste of time, but it is an investment of time, then that is what makes me happy, together with how I find the level of emotion, I find physically, okay, then I have taken weight, I personally have taken weight, I am more fat than before, and maybe I do not know what it is like to be super
MGM, I am not going to break the paths, well, but I do not know what I want the conscious, because I know that my physical state is also an academic state, my body is 100% united, then I can take two, I can do two things, that is, do not ask me how I find physically and not follow, pump pump pump pump, follow when you are anxious, well, I will eat things that you do not have, or take time enough to cook more healthy food, or you can say, okay, this is a little bit, I have taken a little
weight, okay, then I am going to do a plan to try to reduce a little weight, for example, do more salads, I will reserve a couple of days this week to the gym, I will do this, I will do it, you know, but a little bit, I think it is very important to have a action plan, as you have a action plan, when you have a map of things you want to do, plan if you do not plan a little bit, in a realistic way, be very happy, it is a very healthy way to keep yourself busy, not distracted, but busy and with a
little purpose, it is not distracted with a little purpose, then analyze how you find physically what is very important, because it will give you a little a clue also and how you find that mental level, okay, then it is as health, physical health, mental health, then I put something else that is, I do it that I live myself, okay, this could
put it in mental health, but I have decided to take it out always, why? because I think you know that I am a little bit ill, which doesn't matter to me, okay, because I like my work a lot, my work is part of my work, but I am also there that my work is, then that is why I
leave a completely out of a part, I like playing video games, perfect, here I am playing now, well, I am dedicating the time to play or read, I am dedicating the time that I want to this edition, so here is where I put it, because the dedicating you a time for things that
do not have a direct translation in your work or in other things, but the only translation that you have is that you are enriching you that you have a personal level, okay, for me it seems to me that it has a lot of value and then it seems to me that I always put
the theme of the eye inside what is health, health, how you find yourself now, but the time itself, the time itself, okay, and that leaves us the last point, the fourth, and it is your relationship with yourself in the future, here I have always been a little hacker, hacker of life, because I
thought a little how I would like or I would look at people who had certain aspects of life and the results of a form that I like to have in the results and what I did was a little and I would generate a verse, how they have achieved it and this made me see a little bit of
life I want to have and it is a question that I am frequently asked how I want to be bigger, okay, how I want to be more bigger and that question is super important, super, super, super important, the having a action plan, you probably do not know exactly if you want to work
in XOI, if you want a family with one with five children or with any child, maybe you do not know, it is not worth it, but it is important that you have a small action plan of future, because when you look at that future, it is worth planning, it is worth everything and delaying a plan, but it is not only you think about it, that is, I use something super, super, super, super important, it is worth the internet, I think we are surrounded by a lot of influencers, because I do not know who
is influencing the fan, I see things and mother of mine, in their jats, in their Lamborghini, in their movements, all those movements, all those movements for view are distractions, so I think it is very important that you design or that you think as you want to design your life in the future, but
that you leave aside the Lamborghini, that you leave aside the jats or the balls in first class, that if at some point you have it, it will be a secondary of your life, but it is not the central axis of your life, it is worth flying in first, it is not the central axis of your life, it is something that happens as a derivative of what you are doing, but it is not the goal, when you become this type of material things in your goal, it is when I think that then you start to commit certain
mistakes in the design, for me it is very clear, for me for example my goal of life is to live quiet, something so simple as that, to live quiet, to enjoy, to enjoy things and to live very quiet, of course I am obviously happy, so when I think about the eyes, I see myself, I see myself
being taller and I have my partner, I see myself with him, I see my parents, I see tranquility, I see a large house even in perhaps in the field, in the beach, in a more natural place, not much in the city, I also tell him, I do not know, maybe later I will see him, I am not
delighted, I am not in the city, but I see that type of thing, you know, I see a coffee, I see things of this style, you know, where I tell him, okay, what are the steps I can do to get there, some kind of, and I would generate a verse of everything that I need to be able to get
that type of things, I want to live quiet, perfect, then what I need, for example, a pension plan, wow Victor, you know the melody, not a pension plan, you are the ball of bollet, it seems to me a joke, but as I am very of a very young palo, I say it as I do it
as everything, I do not know until the point in a future I will be able to have a pension, then what I do, I have a pension plan, it is already that the circumstances of life are that I can have a pension, well, perfect, thank you, I feel very grateful, that the
circumstances of life they tell me, well, there are no pensions, well, because nothing happens, I have already done my duty in this case, you know, that is, it has been independent, I have tried to anticipate myself, especially if I want to get a peace with the larger ones, and I have not
expected someone to take a decision for me, I have not expected a concept, it is worth it, that many times I listen to it there, but people who do not like me listen to the concept of the father of the state, it is something that gives me a lot of cringe when I listen to it
outside, but the concept of I do not expect someone to take care of me when I am older, but if I know that I find myself, well, perfect, I would be grateful, but I do not do it and for that, you know, then for me it is something that helps me to anticipate
a problem, and anticipate that problem, I generate tranquility, so it is a tranquility that I have when it will be greater and another tranquility that I have now, I am going to know that I think that these things are good for me to get that way, and where they are,
I put you this example, which is an example that for me it works, you may be another person, but for me it works in the sense that I consider it is the face of the beginning, not the face of your movements, the responsible being of your life, both
good and bad life that you have, obviously there are many things, many, many things, many factors that we do not control, and that the diseases, for example, the family, although there is before the topic of the relationship of the toxic and other things, many
times there are things of the family that cannot be controlled and that they are given to you, okay, so that all these things can be given to you, there are certain changes that you can do with you the same and the common relationship, the common way that affects you in your life,
so it is a bit that, the card, the concept of taking cards in the subject for me is what means to make or be adult, answering the question of the main principle, the everything, how is the adult, because it would say that you are a plan, that first you think about the
resources you have right now, that then you think about the social life you have on social figures, the couple, your friends and of course your family, that after you do your analysis about your mental health and your physical health and that you also
think about the balance that gives you life, that ocean, and that finally you will see if you do like a kind of exercise of closing your eyes and thinking about your future, that is, how I want that future to be and think about the points that you need and going back, okay, when you will
go out when you go to that future, so think about all those things that you are going to have to do and start going away, looking at the other day in the episode, in the episode, I do not remember it was in the 14th, I think, I was talking about eating the apple, okay, I was talking about a
thing that I was proud of having taken certain decisions, how to eat the apple, I had taken a great situation, and how it was, I was finally grateful to that Victor of the past to have done certain things, certain incomparably, the power of the camera before, when I was not
interested in being comfortable, working sometimes doing certain things, or from there I thought something super specific, okay, but once I had to accept a job that I did not find myself doing it because I found it, it was, it was, it was, it was, it was, it was, it was with
plants, it had fiber, but we literally had no money, then it was like, well, because you did it and I was going to accept that job and I did that consolidating, it is a client, and I know that client, you know, he really did it, he said that, but he knew that he was going to accept it
and do it, he did not do it, he was going to give me something very fast at that moment, that it was the money, but he was going to consolidate a client, and then he said, well, look, I do it, I I do it, I do it, I do it, I do it, it is at the end, it was much easier than what I thought,
I was going to make a video, obviously, that's what I mean, I'm going to make videos, I mean, a video for my youtube channel, the client is super cool, super grateful, so I can cover everything, then the change, a little crazy, I do it all at that moment, but I
consolidated that client and at the end of the day, I lived an experience that I had very cool, I don't know, but what I'm going to do is, when I told the other day of eating the soup and how I felt proud of certain decisions that I had made in the past, I
decided that I was at the moment Victorcito, because at that moment, for doing certain things, because the current Victor is still there, you are also true that that Victorcito, for a while, what he did was this exercise, you know, and I did the exercise of how I want to see
the future, what is that relationship that I have with me from the future, and I wanted the Victor of the future, it feels proud of Victor of the past, that for me is the adult, there is episode, I liked it, I think it is my favorites, I think it is my favorites,
in short, I am enjoying a lot, it is the new season of coffee with Victor, actually, so to speak, that I am enjoying my favorites, we see each other the week that comes as always, I have prepared a coffee, leave me in comments if you have listened to me through YouTube, you have seen the video, there are copies and all these things, I would like a lot of if I share it and then if you are listening to it through Spotify, Apple Music, what is it?
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