Cadre

Bloomington Center for Connection•cadre.podbean.com

Amy Makice, LCSW, and Kevin Makice explore concepts from Relational-Cultural Theory (RCT). The current theme is Playful Connections, an examination of play as a creative process of transformative connection and a key component of growth, resiliency, and joy.

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s01e13 - The Disparity Trap

Game developer Christian Telesmar, creator of 'Disparity Trap', joins Amy, Kevin, and Don Griffin, Jr. in a crossover episode with "My Racist Friend" to discuss Christian's board game about the game of real life. Christian explains the origins of the game, and Amy highlights two new RCT concepts: Desire for More and Strategies of Disconnection. Christian Telesmar will provide the keynote presentation on Friday, September 6 as part of the upcoming 2024 Relational Summit on Playful Connection. Don...

Aug 04, 2024•26 min•Season 1Ep. 13

s01e11: How To Play

Jonathan H. Liu, a writer for the GeekDad blog and board game enthusiast, joins Amy and Kevin for a discussion of considerations when starting, playing, and ending a gaming session. We revisit some of the How to Play guidelines gleaned from an interview a decade ago. Jonathan will join us again on Friday, September 6 for a panel discussion on play as part of the upcoming Relational Summit on Playful Connection. Some resources mentioned in this episode: Play and Connection (BCC) https://www.bloom...

Jul 07, 2024•32 min•Season 1Ep. 11

s01e09: Co-Creating Memories

In this conversation, Amy and Kevin explore the benefits of remembering and recalling connecting moments in past play, by intentionally cultivating a repository of positive relational moments. Some resources mentioned in this episode: "Dave's Mad Monkey Tea Party" (video) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0MVA6Spl7PQ "Wired to Connect" (book) by Amy Banks (2016) https://www.amazon.com/Wired-Connect-Surprising-Between-Relationships/dp/1101983213/ "Frederick" (book) by Leo Lionni (1967) https://www....

Jun 02, 2024•23 min•Season 1Ep. 9

s01e07: Healthy Conflict

In this conversation, Amy and Kevin explore playful ways to healthy conflict, identifying the conditions for tension and how play can help keep us engaged with others long enough to help us move to new understanding together. Some resources mentioned in this episode: Positive Discipline https://www.positivediscipline.com/ Playful Parenting https://www.playfulparenting.com/ "Let the Playing Commence: A tribute to Bev Boy" (article) by Jennifer Berke (2016) https://www.communityplaythings.com/reso...

Apr 23, 2024•23 min•Season 1Ep. 7

s01e06: Sharing the Experience (Follow-up)

In this conversation, Megan Clendening joins Amy and Kevin to recap the latest session of the Relational Cadre with a follow-up discussion of the importance of open spaces for making mistakes, embracing uncertainty, and the transformative power of metaphors that can help us view the world differently. Some resources mentioned in this episode: "A Personal Reflection: The Power of Code Switching" (blog post} by Bibi Al-Ebrahim https://amizade.org/a-personal-reflection-the-power-of-code-switching/ ...

Apr 06, 2024•25 min•Season 1Ep. 6

s01e05: Sharing the Experience

In this conversation, Amy and Kevin preview the next session of the Relational Cadre with a discussion of metaphors, memes, and the need to understand each other in order to invite each other into a playful space. Some resources mentioned in this episode: "The Selfish Gene" (Wikipedia) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Selfish_Gene Empire Carpets commercial (YouTube) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SLJxCURQVJc Kilroy Was Here (Wikipedia) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kilroy_was_here Yes Yes No s...

Mar 20, 2024•23 min•Season 1Ep. 5

s01e04: More Imagining Together

In a conversation taking place after the second Relational Cadre session of 2024, Amy and Kevin reflect on the discussions and playful activity of the group around the topic of Imagining Together, part of the year-long focus on Playful Connections. They talk about some insights and questions that arose from the session, and try to connect play to serious benefits in other areas of life. Cadre is a podcast that explores concepts from Relational-Cultural Theory (RCT), a psychological theory that s...

Mar 08, 2024•25 min•Season 1Ep. 4

s01e03: Imagining Together

In advance of the second Relational Cadre session, Amy and Kevin dive into another topic in the Playful Connections theme for 2024 ... Imagining Together. When we imagine together, we have to hold two things in our heads at once: Play is purposeless, and the purpose of play is to connect. Play can use accessible activities like improv, storytelling, and role playing to help us link our imaginations with the possibility for co-creating connection. We can hold a space together where we can be vuln...

Feb 22, 2024•21 min•Season 1Ep. 3

s01e02: Worldbuilding

Amy and Kevin dive into the first topic in the Playful Connections theme for 2024 ... Worldbuilding: Co-creating Context. We use worldbuilding to connect in many ways, from our pretend play as kids or adults to conversations with friends in which we imagine our futures together and apart. Worldbuilding is a symbolic creation for healing and growth. The scope and process of constructing an imaginary world varies greatly and often includes consideration of how we might be impacted by geographies, ...

Feb 19, 2024•20 min•Season 1Ep. 2

s01e01: What is Play?

Amy and Kevin introduce the theme for the 2024 Relational Cadre and Summit hosted by the Bloomington Center For Connection. Playful Connections is an examination of play as a creative process of transformative connection. Play includes engaging in activities out of curiosity, and helps us develop clarity about ourselves and others and build stronger, more authentic relationships. It's a key component of growth, resiliency, and joy. This episode reflects on some of the ideas that came from the fi...

Feb 08, 2024•19 min•Season 1Ep. 1

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