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Building a Better Dave

Dave Jacksonwww.betterdave.com
A funny look at relationships, marriage, divorce, love, sex, life, dating advice, and the weird thoughts that pop into Dave's head when he is sleep deprived. Guaranteed to make you laugh, cry, think, or groan. Life is too important to be taken seriously

Episodes

Why You Do What You Do?

I was interviewed for a show about not being able to have kids. That's not a door I open often. I was just interviewed to talk about #metoo and how guys can understand how to talk to women without being creepy. I'm not creepy, but I'm worried I might say something that I feel is nice, but it could be taken as harassment. In the end, never comment on someone's appearance. I've always been the night in shining armor. She pointed out that maybe somewhere I learned that "love is when Dave helps some...

Nov 22, 201915 minEp. 212

The Chicken Shack?

have you ever been so mad you can't fall asleep? I can't believe they are replacing another Akron Ohio landmark Stricklands Ice Cream with the chicken shack. This is insane...

Nov 20, 20195 minEp. 211

Paybacks a Bitch

While its fun to pick on your little brother, little brothers don't stay little forever. We remember the times when we got hit in the head with your class ring, the swirlies, and more. You know what they say about payback...

Nov 20, 201914 minEp. 210

Van Halen I

Scott and I went to Al's house. He put on this song and we looked at each other. How is he doing that? Wait, play it again (and again, and again). Clueless. Like put a gun to my head and I couldn't tell you how Eddie Van Halen was playing eruption. Now every seven year old at Guitar Center can play it with their eyes closed. Eruption, Ain't Talking About Love, Jamie's Cryin, Ice Cream Man, my favorite was Atomic Punk in which David Lee Roth makes noises that much like Eddie's guitar it had me go...

Nov 19, 201913 minEp. 209

Electric Ladyland

I was three years old when my brother called me into the "Rec Room" and put an album on, turned out the lights, and locked me in the room. I was three, and this was easily the most scared I had ever been in my life. The album was Jimi Hendrix Electric Ladyland and the "song" was ...And the God Made Love. This contains one the guitar tone that was so rude, so angry, I didn't understand what I was hearing. Electric Ladyland on Spotify Voodoo Chile (Slight Return) on YouTube Electric Ladyland on Ap...

Nov 17, 201917 minEp. 208

Double Live Gonzo

I walked into my basement to shoot some pool in 1978 and the sounds of Ted Nugent Double Live Gonzo and where you hear some guy say, "Anybody wants to get mellow you can turn around and get the F*ck out of Here." About the time I recovered from that he said, "This is a love song. I'd like to dedicate it to all that Nashville P*ssy." Besides the potty mouth, there is some AMAZING guitar work on this album. The song Wang Dang Sweet Poontang has a great solo where Ted has the rhythm guitar come in ...

Nov 16, 201911 minEp. 207

Not Fragile

While all the other songs on the radio were soft and fluffy, I found an album that had some of the heaviest music I had heard, and they were unapologetic. Yes, we play heavy music - it's no Fragile - Straight at you. The Band was Bachman Turner Overdrive and the album was Not Fragile. I think the album made a special impact on me as it wasn't second had music. It wasn't my brother or sister's music. It was mine. Not Fragile on Spotify Not Fragile Album on YouTube Not Fragile on Apple...

Nov 15, 20199 minEp. 206

A Night at the Opera

While Queen's a Night at the Opera has hits like "Your My Best Friend" and "Bohemian Rhapsody " but the AMAZING song is The Prophet song and it somewhat gets overlooked because of Rhapsody, and it's a musical masterpiece in my opinion. Here is a YouTube video of the prophet song. A Night at the Opera on Spotify A Night at the Opera on Apple Here is a video about the making of the Prophet Song The fun part is I have no idea what the song is about besides a prophet who has a vision. I dreamed I sa...

Nov 14, 201911 minEp. 205

Your Package is in Bay Three

It's weird as a person in his fifties who loves technology. I find it cool, and it scares me to death. Today I share a story about picking up a package the day after I delivered it at the Amazon pick-up center.

Nov 13, 201911 minEp. 204

Beware of Math

I have found when you start doing math to see if you can eat or afford something. When this happens you may be very close to doing something that you regret. I saw the peloton bike and then read about the NordicTrack S22i which is "cheaper" but still an arm and a leg. However, if I cut out so many of the monthly payments I make to different sites and figured I can now "afford" it. The good news is I'm down 2.3 lbs. My legs are on fire cause I went a too far and now I'm using Soak Fitness Spray (...

Nov 12, 201911 minEp. 203

Blizzard of Ozz

This is the album that introduced me to Randy Rhoads. Randy WAS MY DUDE. I LOVED the mixture of classic and heavy metal, and I learned every note on every record. It took me hours, but I did it. When Randy died in 1982 it wrecked me. My hero was dead. I wore a black armband to school to show I was in mourning. I found a clip on YouTube with Randy explaining how to play Revelation mother Earth, and that was the song that I was like WHAT? as well as Mr. Crowley. Randy Rhoads clinic on YouTube Rand...

Nov 11, 201912 minEp. 202

Kiss Alive I

I'm 11 years old in Mrs. Lewis' class who was the coolest teacher ever. Everyone had gone out to recess but me and my best friend grabbed the little record player and cranked it up to 10, and through the distorted speaker I head these things on the guitar called "Artificial Harmonics" come out of Ace Frehleys guitar. We just kept playing the song "She" over, and over, and over. Kiss Alive I on YouTube Kiss Alive I on Spotify...

Nov 10, 20197 minEp. 201

Let there be rock

My first concert was the World Series of Rock July 28, 1979 [24] Aerosmith Ted Nugent Journey Thin Lizzy AC/DC Scorpions But I saw Angus Young and was like WHAT? and that lead me to buying a Gibson SG. I bought everything they did, and LET THERE BE ROCK where every song is great, and I just played the grooves off this album. Let there be rock on YouTube Let there be Rock on Spotify...

Nov 09, 20199 minEp. 200

Ride the Lightning

I saw a band open for Ozzy I had never heard of, and MAN WERE THEY HEAVY. I immediately went out to buy their album. There was only one problem. My ears could not comprehend what I was hearing. At times it sounded like someone making fun of heavy metal. It was so fast and the guitar solos sounded like a fax machine in heat. Metallica's Ride the Lightning was like nothing I had ever heard before.

Nov 08, 20195 minEp. 199

British Steel

In looking at 10 albums that changed my life, starting at number 10 is British Steel by Judas Priest. It was like nothing I had never heard of. It was HEAVY and it wasn't by accident. The singer was amazing, and I loved the song Steeler that had about 90 seconds of the band playing one note at the end of the song. I loved that (in listening to it tonight, it's VERY hard not to play air guitar). Tomorrow, a band I heard open for Ozzy who had music that was different I couldn't comprehend what I w...

Nov 07, 20196 minEp. 198

Courage is a Decision

Fear is a reaction - courage is a decision a fluke of getting up early is my catalyst. Planting your flag can make it easier to move I'm playing with Healhtywage Start your own wager Join my team challenge for $20

Nov 06, 201911 minEp. 197

Dude Where's Your Beard?

Attention: There has been a shaving accident. You gotta me kidding me.... Oh Geez... Hmmm.... Here we go.....

Nov 05, 201910 minEp. 196

I'm a Sh*tty Friend

I had a second family in my early twenties. Post Mom, they were my cheerleaders, my support group, and all-around second family. Over the years different insecure girlfriends steered me away, and we lost touch. With divorce number two under my belt, I had nothing stopping me from reconnecting. I had thought about it. I'll do it next time I'm in the neighborhood. I should call first. Why do we feel so awkward when we lose touch with people. Then we reconnect and you pick right up where you left o...

Nov 04, 201913 minEp. 195

Getting Your Way All The Time

Thinking of the rubber bowl, and remembering some interesting times there. It was a huge (for Akron) stadium

Nov 03, 201910 minEp. 194

Teeth, Hair and Tear Gas

When I was a kid big acts like The Rolling Stones, the Grateful Dead, Simon & Garfunkel, Bob Dylan, Black Sabbath, Alice Cooper, Three Dog Night, Tom Petty, Aretha Franklin, and Ringo Starr came to a 35,000 seat stadium called the Rubber Bowl in Akron, Ohio. One band was the Osmonds and they left a memory that has me thinking of my Mother, and how Mom always knows what to do in any circumstance.

Nov 02, 20196 minEp. 193

The Not So Great Pumpkin

I watched the "Its the great pumpkin charlie brown" special as I do every year, and I was surprised at how scattered, and in general, "Not good" this special was.

Nov 01, 20197 minEp. 192

National Podcast Post Month

I'm going to try to put together 30 days straight for National Podcast Post Month http://napodpomo.org/

Oct 29, 20192 minEp. 191

A Very Good Week

It's weird how we remember things that hurt us in living color. These vivid memories never seem to fade away like old polaroid pictures. I've shared some stories in the past that sound like pity parties, but today (realizing this) I wanted to share a really good time.

Oct 06, 201919 minEp. 190

I Got No Problem With Jesus

Christians are known for being: Judgemental Disliking Homosexuality Asking for Money So when I see a church that pushes the stereotype it drives me nuts as none of the above is biblical. Sure homosexuality is mentioned seven times in the bible, but poverty is mentioned 300 times, and lying is mentioned 155 times source https://www.answers.com/Q/How_many_times_is_the_word_lie_used_in_the_Bible https://matteroffactsblog.wordpress.com/2013/09/11/the-bible-mentions-homosexuality-7-times-but-poverty-...

Aug 25, 201913 minEp. 189

Moments of Awkwardness

So my ex-wife calls me and wants me to be an escort to a meetup party at a normally off-limits room at the House of Blues in Cleveland. This is one of those parties like "40 and Fabulous" or for me "Fat, Fifty, and Frisky" - you get the idea. I have no game. When I was young, I had no game. I played the guitar and that might get me some attention, but that's another podcast for another day. Now with me being a middle-aged white guy when I walk into a room of strangers, I wonder if people think: ...

May 01, 201916 minEp. 188

One Day at JFK

Download File I get to the airport hours before my plane leaves. I need to pee. The woman sitting next to me seems nice. Will she watch my stuff while I go to the bathroom? Yes she will, and this turned into a bond that has sharing opinions on her latest project....

Mar 21, 201910 minEp. 187

Night at the Bondage Barn

So my friend Master Kuldryn invited me to go to a Dungeon in Orlando Florida. While I didn't originally want to go, a few of my friends decided it would be a hoot, and as an investigative reporter, I decided to support my friend and check out his world. I never had any intentions of participating in anything, and I didn't. The place we went to had no sex, no more nudity that you would see in a season of Game of Thrones, and an educational tour. I had a feeling when I agreed to go, I would get an...

Mar 11, 201944 minEp. 186

Treading Water

Download File I was in a meeting with some people preparing for a podcast roast. Last year they were roasting me, this year we're roasting John Lee Dumas. This made me reflect on where I was last year, and where I am this year. So I thought about: Weight Loss Dating Financial

Feb 18, 201913 minEp. 185

We’ve Always Done It This Way

Today at my church they are having a children's program. There is only one problem. We only have one child, and “Child's Program” doesn't roll off the tongue. Why would you have a children's program when you only have one? The only reason I can come to is that we've always done it that way. The church I go to came from a split church. It was awesome. We had probably 30 people in the choir. The music was awesome. The culture was awesome. That was probably close to 20 years ago. There is only one ...

Dec 23, 201820 minEp. 184

What I Did on My Summer Vacation

I had a great time in Australia. I really miss those people I was asked to speak in Australia. This is one event that I had to pick up the ticket, and it was worth every penny. I had to give up control I got to do new things I have never done I got to stand up for myself So many things in Australia can kill you, just like America...

Dec 03, 201816 minEp. 183
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