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How You Practice Is How You Play

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Tiffany is riding solo for this week's episode. First, she starts by sharing her experience speaking at the META breakfast and her special moment with Garcelle Beauvais. Then, Tiffany explains why practice makes perfect and stresses the importance of practice in business and in personal relationships. For this week's Boost or Break, Tiffany "breaks" the negative stereotypes people are putting on love and encourages people to speak positively over their lives. Lastly, Tiffany boosts to getting another invitation to the White House.

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Speaker 1

Hey, hey, Hey, we're back. We're black, We're brown, and ambition ambition, ambition, ambition, ambition, brown, ambition, ambition, ambition, ambition. I'm felling spices today. I still got some curls left over. Some of y'all may have sinked me on the interwebs. I told you that I took out my pipe cleaners and the curls is popping and they still you know, it's not it's not popping popping like Mandy popping, but it's still a lot of little life left in them.

Maybe it's not here today, but she should be back soon. Yeah, I mean, I don't know man who shared on social that her father was in the hospital that's why she's been away, so I feel comfortable sharing that. But he seems to be on the men. So she should be back soon. So we're gonna send our prayers to her and the fam. So you just have me Ja. I was just gonna give you a little update. And then I had a word on today that I think would be really helpful for your pocket book. So little update.

Last week I told you that I tell you I was doing Meta. So Meta had International Women's Day, which I think officially the day is the eighth. But they had a breakfast and they invited your girirl to come and speak, which was really awesome, and it just went

really well. It was I mean, I'm trying to think like it was all these vps at Meta, all these like you know, think about some of the most powerful one hundred and fifty most powerful women like the in the world, like coming together for breakfast, and it just was just a beautiful event. I ended up sitting next to Garcel Bouvier. I think that's how you say her last name. Remember Garcia. I'll fancy Some of y'all too

young to remember the Jamie foxhell. Back in the day, Garsett was on this show called Jamie Fox and her name was Fancy. But you know now she's on Real Housewives, I think of Beverly Hills, and she's done a bunch of other stuff, produces acts, philanthropists, business owner, just the all around wonder woman. And about three years ago, when my book Get Care of Money came out, I had sent it to the Ladies on the Reel, which she was a host on the reel at the time, and

I was also on the reel. I used to be on the reel all the time when it was you know here before it got canceled, and she posted my book on Twitter and I was like, oh my gosh, garzaps my book. Am So when I ended up sitting next to her at this event because she was also speaking too, I didn't think she remember me, because girl, you know, people be seeing you know, I didn't meet her. I mean we were like, you know, at that time, it was pandemic, so we were zoom, you know, the

reels like for other women. Jo. I just didn't think she remembered me. So when I sat next to her, you know, she smiled said hello, and I said hi. I said, you probably don't remember me, but a few years ago you shared my book on Twitter, and I just want to thank you in person. She looked at me and she said, Tiffany stop. I was like, not fancy knowing me. She's like, girl, of course, I know you. I love your work. I love what you do. You know,

I think you're amazing. Well I don't know if she said all that, but that was basically what she had met and she she just was so nice and I asked her to take a picture and she did so. If you have not seen my pictures for Meta. They're all over the Bunjanista Ig. It was just a good time, a good time, honey, and so I just it was just one of those occasions where your work speaks for itself. And that's what I want to talk to you about

to do. Man is not in here, So we're gonna be acting up, honey, Hey ba fan, We're gonna take a quick break and we'll be right back. You know, I like me a little word. This morning, I was talking to one of my mentees and oh, I gotta hit Martin Batch. That's one of my other mentees. And

so he was sharing. So he's got a daughter and he is coaching her softball team, and he said, kids have this this thought that they can go light in practice and they'll save it for the big game, right, And he's been trying to teach them through sports that the way you practice is the way you play. Oh, that's a word, we're gonna call it that. That's what we're gonna call the title of this episode. The way

you practice is the way you play, right. And so he's been trying to teach like the girls on the team then that you're not going to be your best when you play, you think you are like you know, like you ever see like you know, people are like uh if they do like a they're practicing for a play and actual play, and you know they're like, oh, I'm gonna say the big number, the big note, you know, my full voice for the play. No, you won't, because the way you practice is the way you're going to

show up for the play. Anybody who's ever been in any kind of production knows that at some point they do at least one full dress rehearsal run through. They put on like the clothes, the makeup, everything lights, everything's exactly how it would be the night the play is going to open, because they need to see all that's going to be required for like to make sure that

the actual play is going to be successful. And the truth of the matter is that your brain creates connections in the practice that those are the connections that are going to show up when it's showtime, baby. And why is that a lesson on today? That is a lesson because some of you are struggling during showtime because when it's practice time, you're not fully doing the work. What do I mean? So you tell yourself, man, if I were to get, you know, one hundred thousand dollars, make

one hundred thousand dollars. This is how I would navigate. Well, you currently make fifty. How are you navigating with fifty? Ah? Wait, hey, you're reckless with the fifty, right. And so if you think that having more money is going to make you more responsible or smarter with your money, it's not why because the way you practice is the way you what play? Say it out loud. I see you on the train, says I see you in the car, not in your head.

I see you washing dishes, I see you ironing, folding clothes. I see you right on the peloton or the bike or the treadmill. As you listen to this. The way you practice is the way you what put your bring in the air? Play? Okay? And so if you want to be able to manage a lot of money, well when you have a little, are you setting aside for savings? Are you looking to see what investing might look like? Are you living under your means? Living beneath your means

with the money that you currently have. I know that's not always easy, But the way you practice, the way you play that more money doesn't make you smarter with money. You just become more of yourself if you are. Like for me, everybody knows me. I've always been pretty thrifty, and so I was thrifty with the little, thrifty with medium. I'm still thrifty, relatively thrifty with a lot. But thrifty

just looks different, you know. Like thrifty with a little was like okay, I didn't spend money on things that I didn't need because that's all I could afford. Thrifty with medium meant that like okay, with a little bit of excess, I still save the little, invested a little, and still spent under my means. Now that I have a lot, I'm still relatively thrifty in that I still live under thirty. I live under like thirty, sometimes even

ten percent of what I make. So although it's a lot of money, ten percent of what I make, it's still significantly less than what I could spend. And so because the way I practice is the way I'm currently playing, that's just how it goes, I thought to myself. So like, for example, when I did the meta, when I knew that I was going to get an opportunity to self introduce myself. So sometimes they'll read your bio and sometimes I'll say, you know, tell you know, tell the audience

about yourself. So that morning, I said, let me practice. And because I have before, because I've done so many speaking engagements, there have been times when I've said to myself, I don't really need to practice because already know, girl, I do this ton of times. And every time I do that, I always end up forgetting something or I could have done a better job. But I said, not at meta, not in this room with the most powerful one hundred and fifty women like in this room, right,

And so I said, what is it? Before I left, Before I got they sent a car for me. All that before the makeup lady came. Before everything I told my asked myself, I said, what do you want this room of one hundred and fifty women to know and do when it comes to you? I said, one many of them may not know anything about my work. I want them to know that I serve women, especially black

and brown women when it comes to personal finance. I want them to know in the ways that I've served them and what accolades have already accumulated, so they can say, wow, this is a legitimate person. Obviously one, she's here at META, but I did not know the scope of the work that she's done. So that was one. I said, I want them to know that about me. And then two, I want to position myself to partner with some of these women in the room, to give them ideas about

what partnership could look like with me. That was two, no more than three things. That's what I was thinking when I'm speaking. But those are my two things. And so I practiced my speech. I said, Okay, Tiffany, if you're like, oh, hey, my name is Tiffany, one of the things you want them to know about you. So if I had not practiced, I would have been like, oh, I would have been running on and on and on all my name, Tiffany's finance, education women and blah blah

lah la. Because on Monday, so the thing was on Wednesday, the META breakfast. On Monday, we had done a run through with the organizers of the event, and so they did that. They said, oh, Tiffany, you know, do a quick two to three minute spiel about yourself. And I just went on and on and on, and I realized that's I don't want to do it on stage. No, No, what did I wanted to know? I said, I want

them to know numbers. I want them to be like, Okay, she's fun and light hearted, easy to work with, so I always start with hey, hey, hey, and everybody left. I was like, hey, hey, hey, it's I love to start with that. My name is Tiffany ch Aka. The budget needs done, and I teach financial education to women, especially to women of color, most specifically to black women. For the last fifteen years, number number one, I had

been able to serve nearly three million women. Number number two, number yeah, number two on their financial journey through my online school Boom. She had an online school through my New York Times bestseller, best selling book. She had a New York Times bestseller. And I forgot when I said online school news times that sell my award winning podcast, Okay, Boom Brian Ambition And what else did I say? I said,

I wanted them to know that. And I also said, uh, it's my mission to help as many women because they want them to know my mission to see they want to help on that mission, get and stay on financial track, I said. Four years ago this month, which was February at the time, I work with Assembly women Angela pe McKnight in my stay of New Jersey to get the budget needs to law past Law A one four one four making financial education mandatory for all middle school students

in the state of New Jersey. Boom, they were like what they started to clap. So there was like four or five different things that I wanted to infuse into my biome. When I introduced myself, it was like a minute and a half two minute most, but it was like, Okay, I set the stage, but that wasn't it. That was just a bio. They gave us the questions ahead of time, and I was like, Okay, when are you going to

infuse things into these questions? So I know, for example, I want to start to get sponsorships for my online school, the Literature Academy, and so one of the things I forget one of the questions, but I infused into that question because I had practiced it. I have already graduated one hundred and fifty thousand women since my school opened eight years ago, and as a result, I can share that what I've learned about from those women is that

this is what women want. Because the question was like something about like you know what are some of the financial challenges or whatever something like that women face. But do you see how I infuse like you graduated one hundred and fifty thousand women from your school. What's going on here? Because I practiced it so when it was time to play, when it was showtime, I was ready. And so my sister, tracing my pupaicis with me, she was like, wow, the way you were dropping numbers. I

mean I was getting applause, applause, applause. But that does not happen when I don't practice. I don't always practice, and I always regret it when I don't. I remember one time I did, like a news show, I can't remember, it was Picked eleven or whatever, and I was just so tired. I didn't get a chance to practice. And it showed and I told my sister I didn't get a chance to practice. She said, I know. She said it wasn't bad. But I know you when you practice,

you know. And so you have to ask yourself if you are in a position where things are not going the way you want them to go, if like your business or your money or your career, what does practice look like? Because here's the thing. The tree is gonna bear the fruit, honey. Like so one of my when my mentees come to me and they hit me with a yang yang yan yang about why does not working out? Why it is not working out? Da da da. I'm like, let's show me the fruit. Show me the fruit, meaning

the results. If these are your results, it is a direct indicator of the tree. The tree is you the work. So if your fruit is not fruitful, that means your tree is not doing what it needs to do. That means you're not doing what you need to do. I'm not saying you're not working hard, but working hard is not the same as doing what you need to do. So sometimes you think to yourself, like I'm at the gym every day, I'm doing all this cardio, but you're

not lifting weightsis well, you know what. Cardio is great for your heart and your lungs, but you want them, you want your shoulders looking like Michelle Obama. It's not gonna have exist not on the treadmill. So you working hard, you want to you want a treadmill three hours a day, and you think you're gonna cut your arms up. How make it make sense? Make it make sense? It won't you know like you say you want to lose weight

and you're always in the gym, but guess what. Ninety percent of that weighsis is the kitchen, what you're eating. That's how you practicing. Like you ever, if you have a trainer, your trainer can tell like that that you know, you haven't been doing anything in between, or you've been overeating or whatever. It is right because the way you practice is the way you play. And so if your tree is not bearing the fruit that you're wanting it to bear, you have to ask yourself what am I

doing at the tree level? Because at the end of the day, you know, because some people will just say, oh, well, you know, like I am doing I'm supposed to do. It's just not that that's not true. An orange tree is never going to bear apples, so you can certainly blame the fruit and then never succeed. Or you can look in the mirror and say, what do I need to do differently? How do I need to show up differently day to day so when it is showtime, I

get to show out. Right. Some people are begging for the opportunity, but the opportunity is not going to come because you refuse to do the behind the scenes work. You want to be on Good Morning America, but you haven't practice. Are you doing media training? What are you gonna wear? Do you have a makeup artist ready? What will your hair look like? You know? Do you know how to speak in sound bites? One of the ladies came up to me after the meta things. She's like, girl,

all your little sound bites. That was amazing because I watched a podcast or read a books some years ago about when you do media and press, how you have to learn how to like you know, like how I just said, the way you practice is the way you play. Y'all have heard me say need it? Love it? Like it? Won't it? Those are your spending priorities. Those are sound bites. Those are little clips that people can clip and take home with them or put on social media or put

on TV or whatever. I learned to speak in sound bites for when I do media and press. And you can't answer a question in ten minutes on the Today Show? How can you people raise their credit? How can people start to budget? Well, Robin roberts, they can split it before they get it. And Robin said, that's interesting. What does that mean? Split before you get it. It's a sound bite. Well, you're going to go to payroll and say, can you split my check before you get before I

get my check? Okay, then how does that work? Here are the four bank accounts, your bills checking account, your your spending checking account, your long term savings account for emergencies, and then you're saving, well you're savings for emergencies and

you're saving for long term savings. Those are your four bank accounts, Robin Roberts And she's like, okay, but do you see Like but that takes practice because what you don't want actually is to have to do the play without the practice, because you might not never get another opportunity to go back out again. You go on a Good Morning America and they're like, she can't come back. This is why, quite honestly, Like you see people like in January, Good Morning America wanted me to come on

three times. I'm like, is there anybody else? But you want to know why, because they don't have the time for you to practice live the happening to practice live. They're like, who has been on? Who have we sent on TV? Who delivers Tiffany? And so for me, if you're like, well, how do I practice for something like that? For me, one of the best ways I started to practice was going live. I used to go live on

social media all the time just to practice. I would practice a segment for TV on live and I just wouldn't save it with y'all. I would practice a speech where I'm like, Okay, I'm doing a keynot remember one time. I'm like, I'm doing a keynote in a couple days, I'm gonna practice with y'all, and I would just I just do the keynote to work out some stuff to see, like in the comments, where are you guys loling? Where you guys say ooh, that's a good one. And it

got me comfortable in front of the camera. It got me comfortable speaking. Also, I get to listen to my cadence. I tend to speak really fast naturally, and so I have to learn to slow down for TV, and I could be a little faster when I'm in person. But do you see like the way I was practicing was I used to go live, darn there every day, darn there every day, sometimes for hours. I would be live

and they'd be like, Tiffany is bugging. I'm like, no, I have one hundred thousand dollars keynote that I'm doing in two days, So y'all gonna get this on the live. So I know I'm red D so I could collect my coin in two days, you know. And so I just want you to remind you of them, and that if the fruit that you are currently bearing is not what you're wanting, it's not quite as healthy, it's not quite as as fruitful, is not quite as abundant, then you have to ask yourself, what is the tree doing?

What are you doing? You have to shift it at the tree level, which is you. It's like the bad news SIS is you, but the good news is Sis, it's you, honey. That means you could change it at any time, because the way you practice is what. The way you play, the way you navigate your money, the way you show up at work, the way you show up in your business in all areas, the way you

show up in your relationship. You know, you ever see the couples that go out like it's awkward to go out to dinner with them because they be all tight with each other. It's obvious. I'm like, y'all stay fighting at home. I could tell because they got dinner like Charles also type lift, could you possibly the specular? And Charles' is like, you're always escaped for the specular, and You're like, what the hell is going on here? They think they

fooling somebody. I'm like, y'all be fighting all the time at home, don't you why? Because the way you practice at home is the way you play outside at dinner with your friends, get her together at home, you could tell. You could tell the couples that are like, oh, having a good time, loving and laughing at home because in public they loving and laughing in public because you can't hide it says the fruit that you're bearing is an indicator of the tree, you know. So if you want

a good relationship, are you putting in the effort. I was just talking to a friend of mine the other day. Her friend just got engaged, and some men meant me to ask her. I say, how is she and her fiance? She said, what makes you ask? I said, I don't know. I just get this underlying current that hm, it's a little not so great. And she said, well, your current is right, Like you know, they're having a hard time.

And one of the reasons why, to me, people have a hard time in relationships is that folks don't understand that relationships take work. That's the practice. Now here's the thing. People hear the wad, hear the word work, and they think that I mean that it feels heavy, and oh boy, I gotta work to make sure this food is no no, no no. And maybe the word work is too heavy of a word. And the word I should use this

effort because effort can be delightful, as can work. So when Jerell was still here, I would practice figuring out ways to put a smile on his face. That's work, that's joyful effort work, right, So like, Okay, I know how much he likes German chocolate cake was like his favorite at one point cake, so I knew for like, and that's not an easy cake to find. So I knew for his birthday that I was gonna surprise and get that for him. And Jarell really loved lasagna and

he loved when I make it. Y'all know, I don't cook. I mean I can cook, I just don't like to cook. Particularly. I don't hate it, but it's just your girl's busy. But certain times I would be like, okay, I'm gonna go this weekend to the supermarket and get all the fixings, and I'm gonna surprise him and make him a lasagna, not for his birthday, not for any other reason, but

just because. And I knew I was gonna put a smile on his face, or you know, the next time he drives his car, I will have filled it up, or like I'm gonna put Like I remember, I bought these sticky notes that had hearts on them, and one weekend I like wrote all these really beautiful like messages to him and put it all around the notes, like in his sock drawer and the underwear drawer here places I know he would open and there was like a delight.

It was like months later we were still finding sticky notes, you know, and he would do the same thing, those types of things for me, And that's why I started to do them, because he was really romantic like that. Like I remember one anniversary, I was like, I think probably told the story, but I jurell knows that like Chiad, if there's one thing that you could set your clock to, Tiffy go and wake up in the middle of the night to go peek, because this bladders not let me

sleep through the night, not on today or tomorrow. And so I woke up middle of the night, you know the day were for our anniversary or the night I guess of what if our anniversary? And I'm headed to the bathroom, like what is that noise? I hear music playing? I'm like, is there is there somebody in the bathroom? Child? This man had put his phone on repeat that Tony Tony Tony song. Do you know what two days it's anniversary? Anniversary?

He had that He waited for me to go to sleep, set up his phone in the bathroom playing that music. Had rose petals all over the dagone bathroom and it was like a candle burning, which I was like, child, he's trying to burn us down. A candle burning. But also this beautiful necklace that he bought me, and it was something else, I think perfume, because he always brought me like the best perfume. And I just remember being like the effort because I'm like a late sleeper so too,

and he had always had to get up early. He always had to get up early in the morning to wait for me to fall asleep. I didn't even know where those flowers were, maybe in the car and where all these other things were hidden to wait for me to fall asleep, to set it up, knowing Tiffany's going to go to the rath and may have to be in the middle of the night, and she's gonna wake up and see that. And it was just so beautiful. And he taught me the effort and the big things

and the small things. And as a result of us always working on our relationship, it reflected when it was showtime outside in the streets, people would tell us like, oh my god, I could just tell you guys love each other so much. We didn't have to put on, you know, during the showtime, because it was like, we got to play the way we practice. This is how we are at home, and so when you see us out and about, this is how we are out and

about too. So in every area of your life. You know, you want a good relationship with your sister, do you call her weekly? Do you you want a good relationship with your parents? Do you go see them with your nieces and your nephews? Are you expecting your fifteen year old needs to be the one to reach out to you right? Are you practicing the way you want to play? Because that's what it's gonna take. It's not going to magically happen like, yes, it's work. But work can be joyful,

you know, work can be delightful. I delighted in and still with the people that I love figuring out ways to make them happy. I delight in that, you know. Like Girod used to like like leave a note on my car, you know, and I'd go, who the hell I put a thing on my car, and it would just be him like saying, I leve you in, I'm

stalking you. That was a vapor thing to say, you were right, and no'll be like turn around, I'm like, you know, And so I just say all that to say that, like that is the lesson in the word for today, whether it comes to your money, your career, your relationships, your business, whatever, your job, whatever, whatever it is that you're wanting that you know, you can have those things, but it takes effort, consistency because you really do get to play the way you practice, okay, And

so yeah, so I just hope that's a good word on today. It's time. Oh damn, I always forget. No, that's like the b a q A damn it. How does the brown break broke, So I don't know why I keep forgetting Are you gonna break? It's I don't know why, yo, my memory, you mighty had to step in, and now it's time to boost off, break off, boost up, break off, boost up? Break Are you gonna Are you gonna boost? Mean? While did backwards? What you're gonna do?

What you're gonna take? You know, I'm in a good moves. I don't even know if I want to really break like that, although I will say I don't know child the I guess if I was gonna break from anything, I'm gonna boost because something good is gonna good is coming. But if I was gonna break from anything, you know, I'm gonna break from. This is like not so much finance as it is like just like like LifeWise, But why is it like when it what is it me? Or it seems like there's this whole men hate women,

women hate men thing. It's not just in like the Black Girls space. I've seen it like all over what's happening. I feel like I've been out of the loop. But I'm like, you know, the whole Remember Kevin Samuelson, But like that was kind of probably at his peak. But like all the podcasts and all the I don't remember that always being the case, has not always been the case women against men anyway. I want to break from that because this whole ain't no good men, ain't no

good women. La la la la yea. Yeah, One that's not true. And two why would you want that to be true? You have to be so careful about the words that come out of your mouth. All men lie, all men cheap, that's not true. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, you know, or women only want you for whatever. That's not true. That's not true because I not only did I live it. I can look around my neighbors across the street. They're in a loving relationship. Of course, you

don't know everybody's business. I think about my designer Rihanna and her husband Jermaine. They're like amazing. I think about Terrell, Jirell's brother. He is an awesome partner to his long term girlfriend. I think about Oh, who is Oh? I think about like my friend Seanta and Dennis. That's such a loving relationship. I think about my friend Sahai and her husband. They have such a loving relationship. I mean, certainly, of course, there are a lot of examples of unhealthy relationships.

But I just say all that to say that something someone told me wants. It's like, why would you want to win a losing game? Meaning like, oh, it is true all men are okay, says congratulations, you win, you win, you win. Everybody's terrible. Yay, I don't want to win that game. Keep that over there, so you get to win that. The truth is every man is terrible, and then other people get to win that they don't believe it,

so they have the partnership that they desire. So like, why would you want to argue for your own limitations and win because you're gonna win every time you are and I know I have. It's not like, oh well that's so you're so lucky because you got lucky with Jarell. You think I have some terrible ass relationships girl, of course I did. Forty four, you know, me and Darrel didn't get married to I was thirty seven, a child, I was in the monck. Okay, I have plenty of

foolishness when it comes to dating, plenty, you know. And yet and still there was a Jirell, you know what I mean? And so I just say all that to say that, like, that's my brown break, but I'm gonna boost But that's my brown break. That like speaking life into the life that you want. Stop arguing for your own limitations and then being mad when you win because

you're going to win every time. I don't want to win at ain't enough money, I'll never make that, I can't have that, I can't live that, I'm always gonna be broke that I'm not trying to win that game because if you say those things, you're going to win. And then you get to win at a losing game and we want better for you. Okay, so we dropping all that negative tool. That's the brand break. But the bruce is your girl's going back to the White House,

the White House, the White House. Okay, yes, black girl in the White House. Hey, black girl in the White House. See, maybe that's what the next episode will be called, black Girl in the White House. Sell for those of you all remember like a set aside your political views, because I know, I get it, it's a shit show in general,

like you know, the whole political system. But last year I was invited to the White House for the first time to watch the State of the Union and then to kind of like share like the financial components of the state of the Union that we should all be focused on. And so, you know, at first they put you like in this pressroom, and I just thought, oh, we're going to be in this press room. I was excited. And then we actually went into the actual White House itself.

I said, not me met the first lady just happen to be walking about like, oh hey, girls, ay, miss I shook her hand or whatever, because you know, and then they were like, we literally I have a picture of me. Yo. It's crazy on like the front porch of the White House, you know, like well, not the front porch that we were on, the front porch too, but you know that like the circular veranda thing that's on the second level.

I got a picture of me. Just lean, I gotta post that picture again so I can gag the girls. And it was just so surreal black girl in the White House. Yeah, it was just really surreal. And so and actually the President pulled up. I didn't, you know, I thought we were just gonna see him like from Afar. No, he came up shaking hands. You know. I was like,

wait a minute. So, no matter your political leanings, you know, we're gonna set that aside, and it is I used to teach preschool in Newark, New Jersey, and your girl is going back to the White House and will potentially, you know, meet the President again, the first lady, even the Vice President whoever, you know, like in the actual White House I'm talking about, like you know, not a Jason House. Like literally I was on that veranda. We

were able to take pictures. It was surreal. And so it just is a testament to where your works can take you. That's why I said, with the black, the brown boost, the brown break is being mindful of the words that you say, because either way they're true. And I don't want to adhere to limiting beliefs about my ability, my business, my money, relationships, love friendships, you know, my

my familial relationships. I don't want to adhere to any limiting beliefs about those things because those things become true. Because there's no reason why this girl, you know, preschool teacher Tiffany, you know, should be invited back to the

White House again, you know what I mean. And it's because I, you know, I try my best to show up fully with all that I believe that I'm deserving and even still I still struggle with what does that actually mean because I still have some limiting beliefs that I tried my best to work through with therapy and just like you know, self work, and so I just share all that to say it that like, yeah, my boost is like I'm going back to the White House invited,

Like here is your invitation here. You know, the State of the Union is actually on Thursday, So you know, follow me on social because I'm gonna I like to do like a series of stories so you can kind of follow them along with me, go into the White House and all that I have to do to get ready, and then of course afterwards, I want to share like what I heard at the State of the Union and what components at least the financial and the jobs and the careers and even small business stuff that we should

be looking forward to for the rest of this year. You know that we're addressed in the State of the Union, so in the State of Union address. So yeah, I just want to leave you with all that, you know, a little positivity. Black girl in the White House, black girl in the White House, black girl, black girl, black girl in the White House. You know, I'm the mess.

Don't tell me, Mandie. I was in here cutting up. Yeah, so you don't follow along, I'll be posting of the bunch ofista ig mostly So all right, that's the show for today. I hope we gave you a little booze, honey. Yeah. I want for you what I want for myself, which is the best. Okay, all right, until Friday, we're gonna do b a qap up. Questions slide into our I g d MS the Brown Ambision Podcast, Brown Ambition Podcast. We'll answer as many questions as possible. I'll see you on Friday. Bye.

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