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Ep 229 - When It Comes to Wealth-Building, Don't Settle

Aug 12, 202056 minSeason 5Ep. 229
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We got a HUGE response to our episode from last week! And since we got into Christina and Amon's channel, we've been diving down the YouTube rabbit hole and we wanted to share some of our favorite channels with you:

Our Rich Journey (of course!)

Our Rich Journey Junior

Minority Mindset

Investing with Rose

His and Her Money

We're interested in hearing your favs too, reach out and let us know who we should be watching!

And y'all had great questions this week. We'll be talking about:

  • What are your thoughts on pet insurance?
  • I really don't like my current job, but I'm moving soon. Should I quit and get a new job knowing I'll only be around for a year?


And finally, Tiffany is looking for an animator for a new Mali More project! If you are one or know someone who is, please go to https://thebudgetnista.com/contact/, send me a note, and make sure to put "animator" in the subject line.


See the links below for more:

Get to know Kamala Harris

policygenius.com - You can shop for pet insurance here

https://www.valuepenguin.com/insurance - You can also shop for pet insurance here

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Speaker 1

Hey, Hey, hey guys, It's me Tiffany and it's Mando. We just want to say thank you guys. You guys are amazing thanks to you. Since we started our podcast, it was just me and Mandy listening to ourselves to now we get over one hundred thousand downloads a month, and I know it seems like that's awesome, but we can do even better. And we have a favorite.

Speaker 2

Ass just a tiny favor if you could please share our show, share it on your social media. You can tag us at Brown Ambition Podcast. Take a screenshot of the show that you're listening to and share it on Twitter, on Insta, on Facebook, tell a friend to tell a friend. You can tag us on social media. We're at Brown Ambition Podcast on Insta, at the BA Podcast on Twitter, and of course our Facebook group. You can find us under Brown Ambition. Don't forget to tag our personal handles too.

On Insta. I'm at Mandy Money, Mandy with an Eye, and Tiffany is at the Budget Nista. When you tag us, we will share your post and help amplify it. Even for thank y'all for all the love. This is just gonna help us give us that little extra brown Boost.

Speaker 1

Hey, Hey, Hey, we're back. We're black, We're brown and bit shan. Hey, Mando, do I sound like I'm in a different background, Mandy?

Speaker 3

You know?

Speaker 2

No, I mean, are you on the beach or somewhere. Are you in some form of paradise that I will be jealous of?

Speaker 4

No?

Speaker 1

Well, I mean kind of. I'm in my designer, her office, Rihanna of remain home because my internet is trash. The storm left me. The storm we had last week left me, I don't know, just without a strong internet home. And so she's housing me. So I'm in her office right now. Her office is everything in a bag of chips. So I'm not gonna lie. I'm not mad at it. So I like being here. So I live here now.

Speaker 2

Well, that's nice that you have someone close by you can go to. Yeah. That storm that came through just like knocked everyone on the East Coast power out except for my street. We felt really good about ourselves because we were the only street in our entire neighborhood slash

county that seemed like it didn't lose power. And it was the same week, like last week, I was going to get my first haircut in nearly a year, and then also my first head shots and nearly when did you and I do our headshots for the show five years ago? And of course both of the people who were doing you know, those services, their power went out and I had to reschedule and all this. But and then a little did we like on Friday we lost power while they were fixing whatever, we lost power, and I,

you know, it screwed my whole day up. But I just feel like lack of internet should be a crime. Yay, it should just but I'm glad that you have a refuge. Okay, we've got like weather, it cannot be what we start talking about. We have got to talk about Kamalama.

Speaker 1

I was gonna say, yes, that's how do you feel? I feel both excited but that also scared because I'm like, oh God, like, are people gonna, you know, like, are people going to vote like for a black woman? I mean, I know they're voting for US president, you know, but meaning that is that going to be a reason where people say nah? You know, because honestly, I don't know I could take four more years. I don't know if this country could take four more years of this trash.

So that's the only guy. I was both excited but like I said, also really a little bit worried.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I think the emotions everyone is feeling because it's this news came out, you know, maybe a couple of hours ago, and I immediately got on Twitter, and it was just a fireball of emotions and so many emotions, and you know, you get caught up your My initial reaction was, I truly felt this sense of relief and fear that someone will ruin us for us. It's very

odd and I'm struggling. I'm not the kind of person I usually avoid Twitter because I am afraid that my hot takee will get me in trouble, as it has given has gotten so many other folks in trouble, And I like think a lot slower about some things. But I'll try to, you know, I'll try to put a name to what I'm feeling. And I guess it's I'm super optimistic. I'm so freaking happy that Biden picked a woman of color, and such a qualified woman of color

at that. Kamala Harris is everything that I think conservatives are freaking are terrified of. She is strong, she is ambitious, and I mean none of these in a negative way. She has for me come from such a diverse background that I believe she has exactly what it takes and those the ability to empathize with people from various backgrounds is just something we have sorely been lacking in our administration for so long. She stood up to Biden himself,

and she is known for eviscerating people. You know, her back around in law is just you know, Goes is storied, and she is known for her ability to use words, you know, and use people's actions and really just like

call you know, speak truth to power. And we saw that happen during the debate when she called Biden out for his lack of support around bussing what was it back in the seventies, sixties, seventies when she was a young girl, and that, you know, I immediately thought of that when when he when he made the announcement, because you know the fact that he could get over himself. You know, can you imagine Trump ever like lifting up a woman, let alone a woman who deigned to speak

against anything he had done in the past. But Biden no right. So Biden at least could get over himself enough to say, you know, forget about this you know this sick burn that you levied against me in the debate. You're someone that I can learn from who won't be afraid to challenge me. And I'm just putting words into his mouth, but I imagine all this must have gone through his head and I want to rock with you and I I'm free. I mean, her nomination is historic,

yeah it is. But if she's elected first black VP, first Asian American VP because her mother was of Indian descent and her father I think was from Jamaica, first woman VP, like oh, I just I mean, I and the fear I feel is just like, please don't dig this from I was like, I want to be hopeful and I want to you know, I want to believe that I have to believe. I guess now that America wants someone like this in office. We have got to

come out, you guys and vote. You've got to, you know, come out or vote or mail or whatever.

Speaker 3

You know.

Speaker 1

Yes, even though they're trying to defund the UH.

Speaker 2

I just it's kind of terrifying.

Speaker 1

It is. I just it's like someone I was watching like this, like I don't know, some some Instagram like video and it was like it was supposed to be funny, but it was also terrifying. And like this guy was pretending that his friend woke up from a coma and he was explaining to him how twenty twenty was going, and it sounded so crazy.

Speaker 4

When did he go into the koma like before, like you know, like like two years prior or whatever, But like, so can you imagine someone waking up and being like and then we can't go outside this quarantine.

Speaker 1

Here's a virus going on, it's killing people. People are fighting to go outside anywhere, Like can you just imagine all? But it just sounded so crazy. So yeah, I just I'm trying to temper my hope because I was hopeful last time and we see where that got us. So yeah, it's just but it's at the very least it was very this. You know, we're celebary. That was going to be actually my wien for today, like Colala Camela, Camela, and I.

Speaker 2

Can't wait till the end of the show to talk about this. What I mean, I get it. You know, there may be whenever you said hope, I thought about memoir the audacity of Hope, and I have I you know, it's just I don't know what it's been. Maybe it's because the world is so dark and everyone is so cynical lately, but I have felt more hopeful and optimistic.

Or maybe I just survived that crazy few months at the beginning of the year with the newborn, and I'm just like, nothing can kill me, you know, I can do anything. I choose optimism, I choose hope. I think it really is a choice. And I don't not saying that if that's not where you're at right now, not you personally, but anyone listening. If today is not the day when you can feel optimistic and hopeful, and that's okay.

But lately I've just felt this. I've felt grateful in a lot of ways for the changes that I've seen the last few months in our country, the way that we're talking about systemic racism, the seismic shift I think in those conversations, the fact that my mother for my birthday got me a gift card to a black owned business out of Chicago, owned by a black woman called Glamorina. And is it Chicago now now I'm not sure, but anyway,

it's called Glamorina. Like my mom did that, she went out of her own way to find a business owned by a black woman, because she knew that was would be meaningful to me, Like who is my mother? My mother voted for and I know she listens to the first of all, she also listens to the show. Now also another change, and she listens to it and doesn't

like get angry. I think at what she hears, you know, when she's she voted for Trump in twenty sixteen, and I choose to you know, I think that I have examples, you know, just too many little, too many little signs that the weather is shifting, that there is a change coming, and you know, I hate I mean, it would destroy me, devastate me, I think, maybe even more than the first time around, if he who must not be named were

to win this election again. But I can at least say change, Like, there has been good that has come out of this last four years. There has been great there have been great moments, there have been conversations that never would have happened. There's been you know, for all of the devastation that he has wrought, I think that there has been there has been goodness. And that's just kind of what I'm trying to focus on. And I

think we and whatever you need to hear. I just want to like motivate anyone to you know, just try to be hopeful and encourage people that you know who are cynical to who don't think their votes count, or who yes, they absolutely do, or people who don't think that there's a point in voting because oh, Trump's just going to win. Like we can't. We can't let those thoughts get in the way. Just choose hope, because I think that that is what it's going to take. It

will be a tight race. I'd be shocked if it weren't. Every vote is going to count. There's too much on the line. That's how I feel here. I mean, not you, I'm just imagining.

Speaker 1

I'm usually Sydney, and I'm not like saying I guess I'm just like just the emotion of it all. I'm like, I'm just gonna I'm just gonna live somewhere in the middle so I can manage my emotions. But no, no, but I can understand honestly, to your point, the the fact that Black Lives Matter has become quote unquote mainstream is like tremendous enough. Like Patrice, one of the Black Lives Matter founders and she I remember when she came

up with her book. I actually went with her to Sydney when she got well, when Black Lives Matter got the Sydney Peace Prize, and so she came to represent the organization and I went with her because Drina was one of her clients. So we went and she's just awesome.

But I remember her book was literally called when they call you a terrorist, Like that's that's that's like where Black Lives Matter were was just a few years ago, and now it's like this mainstream thing that that companies are like posting, you know much the disagree and of you know, of certain people. But I just think that, like to your point, there's definitely a shift that we're seeing and feeling, and I just pray that the shift continues, Yeah,

because honestly, we need something because this ain't it. This ain't it? Other than that, what else is happening in your life?

Speaker 2

Oh other than that? Well, we had a huge response to our last episode where we had Christina and Aman from our Rich Journey, the YouTube channel that you need to put into your rotation if you have been asleep all this time and aren't aware of them. We had a huge response. People love them, and I feel like we had a lot of new fans too, maybe who listened to who watched their show but hadn't heard of our podcast. That was a great conversation. I'm still feeling,

you know, actually discovering their channel. And then that led me down this like beautiful rabbit hole of other Brown voices on YouTube. There's not a lot of but there we're out there sharing wealth building strategies, and I got I started to feel more optimistic watching them and watching others, and it just felt like the right time to have their voices on our show. How did you feel about our Rich Journey folks? And I actually want to get to some listeners responses.

Speaker 1

No, I thought I was mad that my internet was like nothaky for you, Tippy, I was like, ah, but I will say that they were really inspiring. You know what really struck me most about a Moan and his wife Christina is that there was a sense of peace and joy that I felt that it wasn't all see look right on cue Rio's like joy.

Speaker 2

I love my little joy nugget. Seriously, He's making up for all the pain and exhaustion.

Speaker 1

Right, So that's I think That's what actually moved me the most. The financial component. Obviously that was like super like you know, inspirational and things like that, but lots of people get to have money. What they have is greater than money. They have wealth, like true wealth. They seem healthy, they seem happy, they seem whole. It resonates with them in their videos, It resonates with them like

just like from conversation. It just I felt it from them, and I was just like, wow, like I want to reach that level of like not that I'm not joyful, but there was a level of peace. Y'all know, I'll be stressed down and anxious by everything. So there was a level of peace, and I was like, I want some of that. That seems real cute.

Speaker 2

Thanks for putting a name to that. That's what I felt there was. There was something magnetic about them, and maybe yeah, it is that. It's that sense of there's no bullshit there. It's just two happy people and not just happy with their wealth and their financially secure security and financial security and god, I can't talk either, but

their relationship, I mean, twenty years together. I continue to I have to stop comparing my marriage to every other marriage out there because immediately I'm like, well, men, Enrique, we can't sit down and talk about money, like we still end up fighting about it. We can't even agree on like what to order for dinner sometimes. But like they've had twenty years together and you can tell that they've they they have such a mature relationship, matures respect

for each other. They i mean, their daughters if you haven't checked out, there are Rich Journey Junior channel. I think that's also a really that their daughters are amazing too. Yeah, it's just it's a and it's a positive voice out there. It's a positive voice out there that is saying you can do this too, Like we got here and we are generously going to share, you know, our strategies, and

there's nothing in it for them. I mean, yes, of course, like any other popular YouTube channel, they have ads and they have affiliates and all that jazz, but that's not where they came from with it. And and you know that is what I'm choosing to. There's so many options we have to you know, screen like shows we can watch and content we can consume, and so little time

to do it all. But you know, I'm I'm trying to choose more voices like theirs to fill my you know, brainwth or whatever, fill my world with because I feel good watching watching them talk about even things that already know about. I don't care, just it's nice to have, you know. They're like the friends in my head. Like you guys say, we're your friends.

Speaker 1

Yes, And the educator in me is just really impressed because like watching their videos, I've been binging them. They're really good teachers, you know. So I'm like kind of a teacher snob. I don't know if you guys know that, but like there are certain things that I look for that I don't even I can't even articulate. Like it's like if you're a really good painter or really good

at playing a sport, you know, there's certain footing. Like when I used to play tennis, I could tell the way you walked on the court whether or not you really played tennis or you were just playing playing for fun, which is fine, you know, but like there's certain stances and so the way like watching them on their on their you know, their YouTube channel, I was like, Wow, they're really good teachers. They explain things in a way that even if you've never heard these terms before, they

intrinsically knew that they would explain something. So let's say, for example, I was watching a video they had today about tax efficiency when it comes to your investing right, and so they, you know, they didn't just try to like fly into it, like they would say a thing and'd be like, let me tell you what the what the term tax efficiency means taxable account? What does that really mean? So they would say a thing and then recognize that there are terms there they need to be explained,

and they would explain them. That's a mark or a really good teacher of anticipating where the learner is going to be, like, wait, I have a question. In answering that question before it's asked, that's a really like a really strong mark of being a really good teacher. So I just am impressed with them overall. But you said we had some listener letters or listener comments.

Speaker 2

Yeah, I'm not going to put I'm not going to share names, but one of the one of the comments I was kind of prepared for. And I guess I'm grateful we only got one of these, But I can imagine that maybe other people were thinking this. Christina and Iman and you guys should go back to the last episode and listen to our interview with them if you haven't yet. It's episode two twenty eight from just last week.

But I even mentioned this on the show. I personally have had some cynicism around the whole fire movement financial

independence retire early. It's often people who have, you know, really either they have and inherited something, or they have they live in such a crazy minimalistic way that it's not realistic for most people that kind of sucks the joy out of all their life, or you know, they can you can point to their financial independence by looking at Okay, they had a really high earning job, and you know, I had a little bit of centizon about that.

But I had to acknowledge too that I think part of me didn't want to like I guess and I'm trying to like articulate this part of me felt some type of way about these types of stories because I guess I was a little insecure that I hadn't achieved that kind of independence yet, like insecure in myself and also like that is not my life. I work nine to five. Yeah, Like, what do you mean I don't have to have this job? What do you mean that in eight years I should I should be not working.

But my identity is my job. How does that work? And finally like when I and it's true, you know, to my own point, yeah, those stories, you know, there weren't people of color in those stories. It did feel like, oh, this is only something that like privileged, someone who already has inherent privileges could accomplish. Christina and Aman kind of forced me to look at that and say that ain't true.

They did it. And one of the comments that we got from a listener was, well, you know, because both of them they are they do say that they work in public government and you don't have like my husband works for the government too, and their salaries are public, and you can easily find out not easily, but you can generally find out what someone might make depending on their job. And someone did a little bit slewth thing, I guess, and had responded to me about the show

and said, well, they make X amount of dollars. They made X amount of dollars, you know, through their jobs, and I kind of felt and then that comment was sort of discounting their success and kind of saying well, like, of course they were able to retire early. They earned X y Z at their jobs, and I kind of

I understood where this person was coming from. But I also think listening to their story, like, yes, they achieved wealth, and one way they did it was by gaining the education and choosing careers that would help them go in that direction. But that's okay for us to talk about. Yes, there's nothing wrong with that. Like, don't you feel like there's this sense of negativity around anyone who acknowledges that it takes work and you have to be you have to, like,

you have to reach out for wealth. You know, it's not just going to find its way too. You have to, especially if you're coming at it from a disadvantage like so many people of color art, Like, you've got to

be intentional. You've got to you know, there's there's steps that you can take, getting that higher education degree, you know, being really ambitious in your career, you know, getting a sponsor, a mentor, you know, these things that anyway, and and Christina and a mom prove that if you take these steps,

you too can build wealth and it is attainable. And I think personally having like I'll speak to my feelings in the past, I have felt a little like, yeah, like I said, just a little insecure when I see those messages because I'm like, well, but I don't have that, so what's wrong with me? And I'm definitely in a whole different place today. I'm excited. I'm optimistic. Their story lit a fire under me more than it ever has no pun intended.

Speaker 1

I just realized.

Speaker 2

Maybe a little bit of pun intended. But I choose, like I said, I choose to be optimistic. I choose to see them be so proud of them, even though I just met them virtually. I'm so proud of them, and there is more of that for all of you guys listening. It does not mean that they could. They did it, and there's no room for you to achieve it. Like that's the beauty of their story. It shows you

that there is a way. It shows me that there is a different lifestyle than the one that I have been heads down, you know, building for myself.

Speaker 1

And I'll say for so long that like, even if, because I do believe there are some obstacles that will prevent some people from achieving that lifestyle, that's just life. But what I will say is that even if it's not eight years to retirement. Even if it's not, you know, like being able to move to Portugal. What I will

say is that there is better available to everyone. And that's what I hope that you take away from Eman and Christina, that like, because I mean, look at me, I mean I in the last I mean totally in total over the last ten years, I mean, my business has grossed, I don't know, will be fifteen million dollars. And although I guess I am financially free, I guess you know, I still work like a damn dog, you know who, like building a bunch of these, because I

have other things I want to accomplish, you know. And so certainly it helped me look at myself and say, huh, you know, like what is the desired outcome? That's what it helped me look at because you have enough, I guess, Tiffany technically, but I'm not working for the money. But anyway, I just wanted to share that that the for me, what I hope listeners got from their story is not that hey be like me. It's more so that better is available and here is an here's an avenue, one

of the avenues that you can take. And so I hope you just internalize that because you know, like Mandy's story to success is one that I mean, you didn't grow up with money, Mandy. You know, your mom raised you and your your siblings and it was hard, you know, and from what we know, you were a rebellious young woman.

Speaker 2

I mean, you know, I stood up for myself. I don't know what you're talking about.

Speaker 1

Specifically, and so right, and then but then look where Mandy is now despite you know, not growing up with a silver spoon. And then look at me two immigrant parents, and you know, yes, I grew up in a two parent household. But my dad was an accountant, my mom was a nurse. These are professions that you know, make decent money. But my dad worked for a nonprofit. So let's be real, like my mom made more, quite honestly.

And I'm one of five girls, and I was a preschool teacher and that was my plan up until age twenty nine. And now look, so there is there are so many different paths, so to me, the destinations are not the same, but the path should be always to better and that's what we hope to illustrate with our show.

Speaker 2

Could not have said it better myself.

Speaker 1

Thank you tell me now, look, we're trying to we're starting to trade.

Speaker 3

Y.

Speaker 2

Yeah, and then again, go check out our show, our interview with Christina and Iman. And if you listen to it first and you felt some type of way about it and you didn't leave there feeling excited, listen to it again after hearing us, because you know, it's like Tiffany said, there's not just one verse. You have to They inspired me to find my own version of freedom,

whatever that looks like. And I feel like I'm at the point now where I've ticked off some boxes and now you know, they it just they came at the right time. One of the listeners who message just said one of the things that was most apparent was that Nandy really needed to hear this story, and you need to hear from Christina and Iman. And I guess I did, you know? I think when you know there's there's this

point now where okay, it's level up. It's like level up your money and really start to grow wealth and decide how you want to do that. And am I going to you know Christina and im on they're transparent about how they built their wealth. They side hustled, but they had great careers in government, Christina went back to law school. They flipped houses in the Bay Area. I'm not I have decided like real estate's not my way to wealth. I don't have the tolerant, like the risk

tolerance for it. But but I'm excited to find my own way there. And and you know, hearing their story has given me, of course has given some ideas. But if you look at people's story and say, well, they're just saying that I have to do it that way, then you're not really listening. Yeah, and you've got to you know, take your inspiration, but then be just be excited to find your own way to to to wealth and wellness. And you know, Tiffany and I I can

feel like with this show. We are talking about wealth building a lot more on this show, and it's something that I think we should really be intentional about because look how far we've come in the five years since we've done this show, and we have to acknowledge our longtime listeners. They've grown too. Yeah, Like the questions we got back then are a little bit you know, are

different than the ones we're getting now. And if y'all have specific questions, you know, scary technical investing wealth building questions. I'm ready to tackle them. I think we should, you know, really, you know, embrace those types of conversations. So you know,

what is y'all's plan to build wealth? What questions do you have around stock market investing, investing outside your four to one k and if you know, and for those of you who may think, well, I can hardly imagine investing outside my four to one K because that's all I've gotten so far, and I'm not ready for that. Like listen anyway, because the hope is that one day you will be ready to invest beyond and to grow your wealth, you know, beyond those standard those standard wealth

building practices. And I hope that we can help y'all think bigger, bigger than even we have on the show so far.

Speaker 3

Yeah, well that was good.

Speaker 4

You know.

Speaker 1

Usually I'm not really a super fan of guests, not to say all of our guests are great. That's what. We don't have a ton of guests because or what not be you know, well, just because I like our conversations together and sometimes you guys are like, I don't need a guess, But we're fortunate that all of our guests have been amazing. That's because we pick you know wisely and we don't overwhelm y'all with guests. But no,

that was honestly one of my babe bab baits. And like I said, now I'm tessively stalking them on YouTube. So they're my new besties.

Speaker 2

New besties, And we were just real quick for people who were looking for because I wasn't. I had dabbled in YouTube, but I usually was looking at recipes. Not dabbled, but I watched a lot of YouTube, but it was usually a recipes or I don't know just how to train your dog not to bark at the mailman. I wasn't looking for financial advice there. But now that I have started looking, there's a lot of great content out there.

So Tiff and I we share some faves. Do you want to for anyone who's looking for like some YouTube channel? What do you call them? People I don't chan to watch?

Speaker 1

Yeah t channels to subscribe to. So we actually have two of our new paves. Like, I didn't realize that you watch my fave all time fave is Minority Mindset with Jos brit sing he is. It's not sex, it's not seek I Alush. I always say sek, but he's like, no, it's called sex. I think it's sex. I think that's the way you're supposed to say it. But yeah, he is awesome sauce. First of all, he is fun, he's engaging.

He's in an attorney but like so like he's super smart, but he knows how to explain it's he literally explains the economy, so it's almost like taking an economics class with him. It's not so much like there's personal finance things there, but especially his more recent things are really like, this is what's happening in the economy, and let me explain it to you in a way that you're gonna understand when I tell you, I listen. I watch his videos every single morning. It's one of my go tos.

He posts a video about six days a week, and you can sign up for his free emails, which I don't get a chance to read as much. But I watch his videos every day. And then you and I both like investing with Rose Light.

Speaker 2

Yeah, investing with Rose. She's super I love her. She's you're talking about being a good teacher. She has a really nice Yes, she has a I don't know, I just something about her tone and her approach to talking about finance. She's someone that my husband and I could both look at and listen to and get educated. And he and I were we were bickering back and forth because he was like, no, you're defining index fund wrong. No, I you know, I was like, no, you and index

when it's a type of mutual fun. He's like, but it's also an exchange change of fund and I was like, no, it's not. So we watched Investing with Rose and settled the argument, and I think I forget now who was right. I think we're both a little bit right. But she really helps, you know, explain things to you in a way that makes it, you know, easy to understand. And one note about just just Bree and minority mindset. I signed Enrique up for his newsletter yesterday and without asking

him because I knew his newsletter is great. I love it. It is between that and he's got a whole I mean, he's kind of like building a whole brand in a whole mediacast. He has a whole team, you know, like.

Speaker 1

Yes, the they have a free curriculum like a kid could full out, Like if you want to teach your kids financial literacy curriculum just be had a curriculum need And I was just like, I mean, he I don't even know. He's like such a sleeper. I'm like, why hasn't anybody picked up on this dude. He's amazing, funny, like just super intelligent, but like bracings down in a way in full fledged. Like you said, he's a straight media company, So.

Speaker 2

Watch out for him. And I love and his show Minority Mindset. When I first because I'm in brown ambition mode, I was like, oh, you know, minorities like brown people. But he means I love about it. When he says minority mindset, he means, you know, building true wealth, the minority of people are able to achieve it, and here are the skills, and here's what they understand about the world and how it works to achieve that type of success. And yeah, it's a great channel. Investing with Rose is

the other one. Who else are you? Are you loving? I know our friends his and her money. They have a really successful channel on YouTube a Lot and I forget now tal and Tie into a Lot. Talent, Tie into a Lot. Thank you to have them on the show. We're supposed to have them on the show a while back, but that never happened.

Speaker 1

It. Who else is my listening to? That's yeah, I think that is. Yeah, that's like my go to right now. There's a few things like sometimes things will pop up and I'll watch like but as far as like who I like my go to to actually go and watch on purpose? Those are my on purpose watchers.

Speaker 2

You guys, tell us send us an email, Brown Ambition Podcast at gmail dot com. Hit us up. We never talk about Twitter anymore, but that's the thing. Hit us up at the BA podcast on Twitter, or of course our beloved home Instagram at Brand Ambition Podcast on the Gram. Who are y'all listening to or watching on YouTube? Like? What channels do you binge on the weekends? Like the money nerds that we know and love, let us know,

maybe we'll shout them on the show. Maybe we'll have more of them on as our guests or vice versa.

Speaker 1

Yeah, that would be awesome, awesome sace.

Speaker 2

Well, let's take a quick break, shall we and come back and dive into some questions.

Speaker 3

Yes, let's do so.

Speaker 2

All right, we are back again. Y'all can hit us up with your questions. Hey, we have a website, Brandhambisson podcast dot Com with the ask us anything tab, y'all can check that out. And if you're looking for but yond iTunes a place to find old episodes or you know, check out our social handles in one place. You go to our go to our website Brandission podcast dot com.

You can also send us emails via email, snail mail, snale, Gmail, whatever, Brand Ambission Podcast at gmail dot com, or Instagram at Brandanbision Podcast. Let's Die Then, this question is near and dear to my heart because I recently decided to cut this expense from my budget and I want to talk about why. So this question comes from listener Ranata. She says, what are y'all thoughts on pet insurance? I've had insurance for my nine year old dog for the past three years.

It started out at thirty dollars and every year the price increases. It's now at forty five dollars and I'm beginning to question if it's worth it. It doesn't cover any routine visits, only emergency visits, with which we rarely use. Knock on wood, I've had four months of emergency savings saved up. Working your way up to six months. I'm contemplating canceling the insurance and putting that forty five dollars per month into a separate bank account instead to save

up for any of her medical emergencies. What are your thoughts, Well.

Speaker 1

I will say, I mean, I don't know how long dogs usually live for, but I know that my friend Cabral has a little shit to Bentley, and Bentley is like death now. He's like half blind, and he's been in and out kind of like I know he's been in and out of the hospital for just because he's at that age. And one of the things Cabrel said that he wished he'd gotten was pet insurance. So I guess it. I don't. I mean, I don't. I've never had I mean I had a cat, but she ran away.

But whatever, we know the way the cat who lived across.

Speaker 2

Who lived across the street went on to a better life. But it's just like they feed me on the regulars exactly.

Speaker 1

Not that cheap stuff that that high school or next door feeds these They feed me real food. So yeah, so that's one thing that he said. He was like, I guess with all of bet news, like you know, medical conditions, he kind of wishes he because he's like some of the things he knows that's his baby, so he's like some of the you know, that's his last bill was like three hundred dollars, and so he's like,

I wish I would have had insurance for Bentley. So I can only speak from someone who you know, who's going through it now with their pet and trying to figure out I think I think I think Bentley's like twelve or twelve or thirteen years old. So yeah, that's that's that can only speak to that. But I know you have do you have insurance or you had it? Yeah?

Speaker 2

So with Mollie, yes, we got her when she was just over a year old, and I forget when maybe a few months in. I mean we probably had a few hundred dollars of vet expenses right out the gate for her. You know, she had to have an annual Even though they come when you get them through a shelter, they become neutered or spade or whatnot when they have some of their shots, but you know, there's additional things

that you have to go. All of a sudden, it was like she needs a blood test and a fecal exam and I walked out of that that, you know, hundreds of dollars poorer and feeling like, what just happened to me? What is this dog costing me? And I actually did. I shopped around and I got pet insurance. It's about thirty bucks a month, thirty five something like that. And you definitely should shop around, you know, the same way we've talked about shopping for life insurance policy sites

like policy Genius and Value Penguin. You can compare pet insurance policies pretty easily online these days. And she's right. I mean, they don't cover a lot of that routine healthcare because that's actually what comes up in the first few years of their life. And that's the shitty thing

about it. I'm not gonna lie, but to Tiffany's point, you have to think about the breed of dog that you have and what are the you know, what health issues complications do they tend to deal with later in age, and do some research and find out what maybe some of the treatments might cost for something like that, and see if you'd be willing to come out of pocket for those expenses. Pet insurance, unfortunately, it is one of

those types of insurance you know it does. It's not covered in Obamacare sadly, so that means that pre existing conditions can sometimes exclude coverage. So like your dog can be denied coverage because they might even just be a type of breed that you know tends to have certain conditions, or you know, if you get insurance later in life, they can they can deny you a policy or charge a lot more depending on like what types of issues

a dog has already had. If you've got the space in your budget, it could make sense to have pet insurance. But really what they'll cover is treatment that are accidents, like accidents. Why am I talking like that? Accidents or you know, unexpected like injuries, you know, hippick. I hate to say these things. I don't want to put that energy out of the universe, but you know, anyway, they get really sick, they have a virus, whatever. I recently decided to stop putting or stop paying for help or

pet insurance. And I decided it for the same reasons. It sounds like you're you're thinking about renata, which is, you know, I could just put money aside and have some money set aside for if something were to happen and at least then the money is staying in your

bank account and not going to some insurance company. So I came up with a number that I felt comfortable with, and it's a few thousand dollars, which is just and you know, and I have it in a savings account, and I have it, you know, earmarked for Molly should anything ever happen to her. And I'm continuing to contribute a little bit to it each month, and you know, I hope I never have to use it, but I'm

okay with that. But to your point, or to your question, you say that you have three to four months of emergency savings already saved up with you yourself and your partner, and it sounds like you would be potentially dipping into that savings fund if something were to happen to your dog. And in that case, I don't know, I would caution you because you don't want your dog to bankrupt your emergency savings. You know that you don't want to like

put your financial security at risk like that. So maybe pet insurance, you know, makes sense for now, And and once you get once you get more comfortable with where your emergency savings is at, you can start a separate fund, you know, for your pet as well. It took me a while to get here to where I had a separate savings account for my dog. And I waited until I got a dog, you know, for a reason, not just because of the yard that I wanted to have for the dog, but also I wanted to have you know.

Speaker 1

Yeah, that's so.

Speaker 2

Yeah, it's difficult. I don't think anyone ever regrets having insurance, but yeah, it's that's how insurance works. Then that's the dumb realization I had about life insurance. And I asked my financial advisor. I was like, so, I just spend one hundred dollars a month and like, if I don't die, it just goes away. I don't get the money. She's like, yeah, that's how insurance works.

Speaker 1

Like, guess what on the side, you get to live if you do die.

Speaker 2

You know, your family will love the money, Like I don't get to enjoy it because I'll be dead. Yeah that hm. Anyway, so it's a I'm sorry, I can't give you like a straight yes or no, but I could see the argument either way, and yeah, it's all I got. Tiffany, why don't you have a pet what's what's happening? Doesn't Supergirl want a dog?

Speaker 1

She wanted one first, hot second. But if you know Supergirl, like I know Supergirl, she doesn't like outside, she doesn't like bugs, she doesn't like this, she does I'm my girl, do you know, like if that's a whole animal, she's not prepared. And so she wanted one, just like as a little kid when she was like steven or eight, for like a good three months, and then she realized, wait, I don't like any of the things that go along with an animal. So yeah, I don't see her ever

getting an animal. And I wouldn't mind necessarily a cat, I guess. But to me, dogs are a lot of work. I mean, my Rihanna, Who's house I'm taking over right now? She's got a dog, a big French bulldog named Henry. Henry.

Speaker 2

Wait, French bulldogs are a little.

Speaker 1

Oh well, maybe it's a.

Speaker 2

The library ones like an English bulldog.

Speaker 1

Yeah, English bulldog, that's what it is. I got my regions mixed up.

Speaker 2

Yeah, it's like all the frenchy lovers are like, how daring.

Speaker 1

I know he's huge and we call him Handhand and I'm like, yeah, I love Hanhand from Afar and it's a lot. So yeah, like I said, I could see myself maybe with the pet I don't know, cat scratch things up. I don't have the patience for the scratchy scratchy so.

Speaker 2

Catch Yeah, just wondering. All right, awesome, Well, thank you for that question. Let's get to another one. How much time do we have to When is your free office expired? We could take one more, all right, sabulus. This one is from someone in wants remain anonymous. Mysterious. All right, but this is an interesting question. This listener says, I'm

currently struggling with contentment. My fiancee and I were going to quit our jobs and move out of state after we got married this summer, but then our wedding was canceled due to the COVID situation. Now we'll be in our current place for another year, and I don't really want to stay at my job, but they've been so great to me. Back in March, they laid off twenty percent of the company, and my boss asked me if I could scale back in my current role and work

in a different one. At the time, I didn't mind because I was so gracious to even have a job, especially when we initially plan on moving in a few months. But now it's six months later and I'm still working in the other role, and I feel like I'm not advancing in my career skill wise or financially. Would it be crazy to get another job knowing I'd be there for only a year? Or should I just tough it out at my current place and be grateful? So many people don't even have jobs right now.

Speaker 3

There's a lot of.

Speaker 2

Emotions yet it is good quote, but this is probably this is a great question because a lot of people probably like, if you weren't at a it's kind of like you're stuck. Even people who like broke up right before the COVID pandemic and ended up still living together because you know, they couldn't just like leave during a pandemic, and they're like, oh, man, I hate you, but I'm

just stuck with you in this apartment or whatever. You're like stuck in a job that you don't like, but it's a job that you feel grateful to have, and you're wondering, should I just be grateful and stay here, or you know, would it be crazy for me to move on despite how good they've been to.

Speaker 1

Me, I'm learning that. I mean, it's a job, and so I think that you should do what's best for you. I know it's hard. I mean I don't think that you should not think about, you know, the company they work for, especially if they've treated you well. But I do think that ultimately you have to do what's best for you and try to lighten the blow as much as you can for the company. So you might, you know, stay on two weeks to help train somebody or whatever

that looks like. But I wouldn't. I wouldn't stay in a place where I'm unhappy because the company. You know, you feel like, oh, you know, they kept me on because guess what, there are twenty percent of people that they didn't keep on. They did what was best for them. As by way, those those twenty percent, you.

Speaker 2

Know, just laughing on the babies are very wild here. Socials dinner in that up. So a good point.

Speaker 1

So that's what I just say, like, you know, because I mean I've been struggling to have a decision that I have to make it I'm like, ah, I'm this closed. I was this close to making a decision for what's best for the other, like group involved and I was like, well, so you're gonna make a choice that could affect you for the rest of your life because you're like, I don't want somebody to be disappointed in me. I want us, especially as women, to like break out of that habit

because it's not helpful. And the truth is whatever that other person or organization will, they will rebalance and they will manage. And so it's your responsibility to take care of yourself. It's not someone else's responsibility to take care of you. And so that's yeah, I think that's really important. That's something that's a lesson that we all need to learn.

They're like, Okay, I have to take care learn to take care of myself now, not doing so in a way that's purposely harmful to others, you know, but to do so, like okay, well, what is it that I need to be happy, to be joyful, to be successful and work toward that with integrity, and that's all that can be asked of you.

Speaker 2

Yeah. Absolutely, And you've given them six months, and I think the gratitude goes both ways. You stayed with them, they should be grateful for you that you're willing to switch jobs. Essentially is what it sounds like and do something different to feel the need that they have given that they had to lay off a fifth of their company, so they should feel gracious toward you. And of course I feel the same way. I'm grateful to have a job. But at the same time, you should like treat this

like a relationship, a healthy one anyway. I know there's some toxic relationship behaviors, but one of the things you have to do is that other person is not a mind reader, right, so you know, if you like, I would tell your boss in a way that you feel comfortable doing. You know, tell them, Hey, it's been six months you asked me to kind of pivot and take on this different role. Is there any chance you can

get back to doing what I was doing? Or can we Is it now okay for us to talk about the next step for me, because I do want to advance, and would I would play I would be transparent and tell them honestly where you're at and where you want

to be. And I recently did this and I have done at ut jobs before where you have a frank discussion and it doesn't have to be you come to the table with the perfect vision of what you want to achieve written out, but you come to the table because you want to express to them, Hey, I want to if I'm going to stay here for a while, I would like to know that there's opportunities for me here that I can continue to advance. And I think

it's been long enough in the pandemic. Although it probably depends on your industry and even where you're at geographically, you know how your company like, what the prospect is looking like or the future is looking like for them. But for a lot of businesses now I feel like the light at the end of the tunnel is approaching or they can see it, and they're starting to think past this crazy time and they may be open to

having that conversation. And at least at that point you've laid your cards on the table, and if you want to start looking for another role somewhere else, then you can start doing that. The timing of it, because she says basically like they'd still want to move out of state after they get married, and if she were to take a different job right now, she'd only be there for a year because their plan is still to move.

And do we think that's crazy. We actually recently took a question about this similar like what happens if I start a job and then quit it very quickly after starting? That's tricky. Yeah, taking a job knowing that you're about to leave within a year, I mean, yang, that's not the best. And would it be a job that you could work remotely at? I don't know.

Speaker 1

Yes, I would still look because you're right, it might be, especially with what's happening now, like the opportunity to get a job remote a remote job is way higher. Also, too, you might take a job as like a contract job, which it is a year, So I wouldn't. Every job is not expecting you to stay on for thirty years, you know, So I wouldn't take it off the table because you're like, I'm only gonna be here for a year.

But not necessarily because to Mandy's point, it might be a job that's really flexible that you can live wherever in order to do so. So I would at least look and look for something within the parameters. What would make you feel like it's fair, Like, Okay, you know what, I'm gonna look for a contract work where it is a year's worth, and or I'm gonna look for a job that I can take with me, so you know, just keep your keep your your options open and definitely look all.

Speaker 2

Right, Well, thank you very much for your questions, and that's a wrap for the question segment. You're gonna boost a break? Wait, I saw your intro, you do it?

Speaker 1

Are you gonna boost or are you gonna I'm actually going to deferm my my boost to you because my boost was gonna be Comela since I'm short on time, so that's my boost if I'm Kamala.

Speaker 2

But okay, that's fine. At least you didn't say kampala, which is also trending on Twitter. Do better, y'all. I don't know if it's autocorrect or what is happening. Maybe,

like she, I don't know, people are writing kampala. Yeah, I want to do a brown boost for one for the Brian Ambish and listener Stacy, who reached out to me because she saw I was a woman in need and she guessed correctly that she and I live in the same neighborhood almost kind of in the same town, and she offered to do my hair for me, and little did she know, but I was really having a hard time finding a natural hair salon where I live.

In the suburbs outside of New York City, and she was fantastic, and so Hugh was shout out and thank you to Stacy. I paid her. She did not do it for free for those who were wondering. And I sat there with her, and I had actually been going to I had been going. I went one time to a hair salon in the last well not even the last year. It was before I had the baby, and she it's a curly hair salon, but you know, it's owned by a white woman, and her clientele is a

lot of like I saw a lot. I saw several, you know, women of color walk through and get their hair done or at least coming through to talk to her while I was there, And honestly, I felt some kind of way, especially in the last few months, thinking about trying to promote or not promote, but like, you know, vote with my dollars and take my money to more

black owned businesses. So when I was when I was rebooking an appointment with that salon, I was kind of thinking, like, man, I wish there were a black owned, like a natural hair salon near me that I knew of. And so Stacy's message came at the exact right time, and I was so glad to get to work with her. And also the I found a great photographer out here just by posting in our my local you know, Moms of my town Facebook group looking and I just like asked

for what I was looking for. Hey, guys, I really want to get some headshots done. I'd love to work with a woman of color. Do you know anybody? And her name came up and it was a really great experience. So it took a little bit of extra Googles or searching or whatnot. Well, actually none in the case of Stacy.

She just fell into my lap. But you know, if y'all are out there wondering, you know, where are the black owned businesses If they're not easy to find for whatever reason, I think just raising a hand, asking your circle and trying to go find them, you know, it matters in some small way. So that made me feel good.

Speaker 1

But I will pull all the apb out if any of you guys know an illustrator. I want to build up Molly Moore's my children's book.

Speaker 2

Have we even talked about Molly Moore in a while?

Speaker 1

Yeah? So we've sold like ten thousand books isn't that crazy?

Speaker 2

What know, it's not crazy, but that's exciting.

Speaker 1

Yeah. So it's just so, yeah, we sold I'm printing like another ten thousand a month or so because there's maybe like fifteen hundred if that book's left at the distributor. So for those of you who are new, I wrote a children's book called Happy Birthday Molly Moore. I did a Kickstarter where basically I asked people to purchase a book and put a little extra s thank on it because for every book purchase, I was able to then

print a second book to donate. So we were able to get I think just under three thousand books purchased and donated, so the donation unfortunately, they're still sitting at the warehouse separately because the schools have not been opened, because we're donating them to like in mass, to specific schools. But anyway, saying all that said, yeah, we sold like

ten thousand books and we're printing another printing. I remember when I was printing ten thousand, the distributor was like, are you sure we don't people don't typically sell that many, and I was nervous, like, I don't know, maybe I'm wrong, but sure enough in like two and a half months gone. So you can find Molly Moore at Mali mollymore dot com. It just teaches age appropriate financial education to your little ones, ideally ages three to seven, but certainly younger and certainly older.

It's just about a little girl to her birthday and she has to learn the lesson of like what really mattered most.

Speaker 4

Family, a lot of very generous friends, yes, family and friends or gifts instead.

Speaker 1

And so I say all that to say that I like I have. I've been having all these other projects that I've been working on, and I've kind of neglected Molly as far as like what I've been wanting to do. So I want to I have the molly More YouTube channel. There's nothing on it though, but I would love to start to do an animated series that can start teaching specific lessons. And I'm looking for an animator who can help.

Obviously I'm paying. So if you know an animator, if you're an animator yourself, if you can go to the budget Lesta dot com and just click contact me and just type in like the subject line like animator and then yeah, or maybe you know someone send me their link. If you're you have like a website, send that or whatever. Like, I don't think you're allowed to attach your portfolio, but you can certainly send a link to things and we might request a portfolio or well, I'm assuming if you're

an animator, you'll have a link to your work. Yeah, because I just I'm excited because I feel like there's something special with Molly Moore and I, you know, I just want to see it all the way through. So I just, yeah, that's my app I'm just reaching out for. I would prefer a black or brown animator, but it's not a deal breaker if they're awesome. Like to me,

it was a deal breaker. The illustrator had to be black or brown, and he was Jazz is African American, because that was just really important to me that when you open the book and you see my picture, and you see Jazz's picture, and you see Rihanna, who was our art director, when you see their picture, it's animated picture, but still or illustrated picture, but still it was important to me that those pictures were black and brown people, just because I knew those books were being the hand

of hands of little children who might not have ever seen that. But for animation, it's different. You don't get to see who's drawing it. So I'm open to receiving animation requests from a wide range of people, although I do have a preference. So yeah, that's it. Get you a book if you haven't already. Molly Moore m A L M R E M.

Speaker 2

A love it. Okay, Well that's fine. I mean, I've struck my husband always rolls his eyes when I specifically say I would love this person this role to be filled by a person of color. It does not mean that we're taking like it's not like we're saying no to candidates who are not people of color. It is about it is about making sure that the people that you have at the table, in the pool of potential candidates, that you're at least seeing a diverse group of candidates so that people have a chance.

Speaker 1

That's it.

Speaker 2

And yeah, it's a little uncomfortable for people to hear that kind of thing, but I don't think there's anything to be shy about when you when you specifically intentionally say you're looking for this type of person. I mean Biden for of reasons that he was going to look for a woman. It's okay, exactly, and I think that that is, we have to dig and we're comfortable with it, or else we're never going to fix, you know, those issues. But that's a whole different I'm just starting a whole

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Speaker 3

Yes,

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