Rooking Jubels second date update. The guy on the phone for a second date update today is a bit of a ladies man. He spent his first date with two women. Yeah, work, that's impressive. One of them is named Jamie and she's not calling him back now. The other is a hot little side piece he likes to call mama. Yeah, he went out on a date with his mom and another girl. Talking about I'll let him explain it, Ben, how you doing?
It's not hi, it's it wasn't as weird as it if your mom was on a first date, it's as weird as it sounds. No, No No, you haven't heard the whole story yet. Don't judge until you've heard the whole thing. All right, Well, we'll get to the mom thing in just a second, because I'm also curious how your mom ended up on your first date. But first, let's talk about the girl that you want to call. Her name is Jamie. Yeah, Jamie? And how did you meet Jamie
a dating app? Okay? And what stood out about her? Jamie? Oh man, Jamie. She has this like curly blonde hair and like beautiful like tan like like like skin like chocolate like beautiful, milky tan. I don't know. I don't know why, Ben, but your description of her is creeping me out. Why. I mean, I know tan scan blonde hair, but the way you say it, it just sounds like you want to make like luggage out of her. Nice she she's she's a pretty girl. I was enthralled by
her beauty, but no, I'm not. I don't want to make luggage. Okay, I don't know why. Just the way you described it seemed like that. So you obviously thought she was attractive and very much. How long did you guys talk on this app or whatever before you guys went out a couple of changes a day for like a few days, maybe three or four days. But I was playing of cool, not texting back too fast, you know. So what did you end up doing on your date?
So we met for drinks? She got a beer, which I think is cool, No cool for a lady to get a beer. Again, your description of things really creeping me out. I don't know why. He hasn't even brought his mom into and you're already bagging on him. Man, Just picture you look you get her skin like I could condition that like a nice leather. And then we had a drink to drinks beer. I'm not trying to creep anybody out. I'm just I'm nervous. I'm telling the story.
I know. I think you're doing just fine. Then don't listen to him. You don't sound like a serial killer. Thank you, I'm welcome. So how did you go from beers to hanging out with your mom? Okay, so we were gonna get some beers and then we were gonna go see this play. All right, We're gonna go see Death of a Salesman and Death I got it more death. Oh my gosh, what is wrong with you? Baby? Let him tell the story. It's into the name of the play. I can't change the name of the play. I didn't
make the playoff. Okay, so you took here to see Death of a Salesman and then what, well, we're hanging out in the lobby. You know. We got our tickets, but I had a third ticket to the play. I have a friend in the show. It gave me three tickets. So I thought it'd be fun to surprise my date with my mom. WHOA is that like a real thought? You add it would be fun to surprise your date, your first date with your mom? Well, I know my
mom always wanted to see the play. And then I also thought, what a great person to have around as a buffer, you know, so that it's not all the pressures on me. What what universe are you living in? That this is fun and a date would enjoy talking to your mom. I could nervous on dates, and it's a really good thing for me to have another person there to steal some of the thunder. And who better than my mom, you know, who knows me great friends. Maybe you're like another friend who could sell you a
little bit. I called a lot of my friends, I couldn't make it. My mom was the only one available. I guess if anybody's going to be an advocate for you, it's probably your mom, right. She she knows me, you know. And on top of that, she's a huge theater buff and she just she she's talked for hours but Arthur Miller And that was great because I didn't have to do anything. So yeah, it sounds like the girl who's not calling you back must have had a wonderful time
talking about death of a salesman with your mom. Well, she seemed like she was having a fun time, you know, she was laughing and enjoying the conversation that she seemed into it. So that moment wasn't awkward. Was there any other awkward moments between you, your mom, and your date? Well, you know there was one thing. It wasn't awkward for me. Maybe was awkward for my date, but you know, we we ubered to the show and I don't have a car, and so my mom gave us a ride home. But uh,
that might have been awkward. So your mom dropped you off from your first date. She didn't drop me off. She waited for me while I walked to Amy to the door. So wait, did you did you go in for a first kiss at the door while your mom was sitting in the car. No, I'm not that kind of guy. Yeah, silly. So how did you win things with her? Then? Did you give her a handshake, a hug? I gave her a hug, but it was like it was like an emotional hug, Like I think she knew
that there's something more between us. Okay, so you let her fill your emotions through your hug? Exactly? Okay, So how long has it been since your date that she hasn't called you? It's like two and a half weeks. Two half weeks. All right, that's a good amount of time. How many times have you tried to call her? Maybe four or five? Top five? Okay, top five. I don't think it was the best idea to go on a
first date with your mother, But we'll find out. We'll play a song, come back, call your date, and find out why she's not getting back to you. Okay, all right, all right, we'll get your second date update right after this. Looking jubil in the morning. It's always good to be a little spontaneous when you're on a date. Yeah, and Ben, who's on the phone to do a second date update today, was very spontaneous on his date, did something a little
wild and unpredictable. He brought his mom along, and that's why we think he's not getting a call back from Jamie, who is the girl that he went out with. He took her to a play and he had an extra ticket, so he gave that ticket to his mom. He says that his mom and his date actually bonded quite a bit, and he thinks that it didn't ruin anything at all. So we're about to find out what went wrong. Okay. As a woman, I just want to tell you when you go out on a date, you don't want to
date someone and their mom. You just want to date them. You want to make sure that the umbilical cord has been cut. I mean, I get it, but you weren't there. They loved each other, they were laughing and had a great time. Well, Ben, when's the last time you heard from your mom? I talked to her two hours ago. She loved Jamie. Oh yeah, well I wondered if maybe they ran off together. It sounds like they had a better time than you had. Well. Hey, hey, if they're
hanging out, then now that's awesome. I just hope I can. I can hang out to the party. All right. I'm gonna dial Jamie's phone number right now, see if we can get her on the phone and find out if that's the reason she's not calling you back. Okay, okay, let's do this all right. Here we go. Hello, Hi, I was looking for Jamie. This is Jamie. Hi Jamie. This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. What this is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay,
do you know what that is? Um? You guys there the radio show? Yes, that's it. Oh my god. Awesome. Most of the time when I call people, they have no idea who I am. No, No, I mean I've heard of you. Awesome. That's good. Well, the reason I'm calling today is you recently went out on a date with one of our listeners. Oh his name is Ben. Oh okay. Ben told us a little bit about your date.
He said that he liked you a lot, but he can't figure out why It's been two and a half weeks and you haven't returned any of his phone calls. Oh my god, Okay, I don't know what to say. Well, you could start off by maybe telling us if you liked him. Yeah, I mean he was really, really nice. He was a nice guy, so you did like him. Let me ask you a more important question. What do you think of his mom? Oh my god, Oh my god. How do you know that? Well, because Ben talked to
us about your date. He told us how you guys went out for drinks and then went to go see a play and his mom showed up before the play and then joined you guys on the date, and not only that, but drops you off apparently at the end of the evening too. That is romance. Oh wow, what did you think when his mom walked into the lobby
of the theater it was really weird. I can't you're on the same page as we are there because we tried to explain to him that's a strange move to do on a first date, and he was like, no, I swear my mom and her hit it off. She thought it was great. She had a wonderful time. Actually that part was totally true. She really it was weird at first. It was it was weird at first. It was totally weird at first, but she was actually really
really cool. I'm really into theater, and she knows so much about theater and theater history, and she was like telling Mellie's stories. And so you actually enjoyed your time with his mother. I really did. All right, Well, if you if you enjoyed his mom so much, why aren't you calling him back for another date? I mean, that could be your mother in life. You play your cards, right. I don't think that I should say. I I mean, we have to know. If it wasn't the mom, what
could it be. Oh God, I just I don't want to heard his feelings. I think he's actually pretty resilient. We poked fun at him pretty hard when we talk to him, and he seemed to take it pretty well. I really, I don't know. It sounds pretty bad to me. Well, here's the thing, right, whenever somebody signs up to do one of these second date updates, we let them know that they might hear something they don't want to, right, So Ben is willing to hear whatever news it is
that you have to say. We'll clean it up a little bit when we talk to him, you know, sugarcoat it if we need to. But if you can just tell us what it is, at least he will know. Yeah, okay, okay. During the play, I was sitting in between them. Oh my god, that's so awkward. I didn't realize that piece. I'm sorry, No, no, honestly, it was good. It was. She was really great to talk to and I like
talking to him too, so it really wasn't okay. But about halfway through the play she was whispering to me about the play and stuff, and then she's said there was an actor in the play, the one that I guess got Ben the tickets, and he was, you know, really cute. And Ben's mom was talking about him and commenting on it and she said she thought we would like, really hit it off, and that she wanted to set me up with Ben's friend. What a second, His mom
is trying to set you up with somebody other than him. Yeah, why would she do that? I mean, I was a little surprised that she said that. I even said that I am on a date with your son. But she said, I know, but I've met this guy. He's really, really hot, and he's got a great personality. And she said after the show she would take me backstage and introduce me to him. I think his mom trying to live vicariously through you, hoping that you'll look up with this dude. No,
I didn't go backstage. I didn't meet him after the show. But at the end of the night she gave me his phone number. Oh my god, you called up because that cell was too good. I did not call him. I really I didn't call him. I don't believe you one bit. I really didn't call. What I would call this guy sounds amazing. Look, I just I don't know if the mom is willing to throw her son under the box, there must be something magical about this man.
I later on, I did text him, and I haven't gone out with him yet, but I am supposed to. So you have a date with his buddy who was in the play that you guys saw, and his mom is the one who set it up. Yeah. I don't know what to say. I know, I don't I don't know. I can't believe I'm hearing this. Jamie that's been this might be confused, but Ben is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh my god, Oh my god, Jamie, that didn't really happen, dude, Ben,
I didn't know you were on the phone. I am on the phone and I heard everything you just said. Oh my god. Well, Ben, you can't really be too mad at Jamie, right, you gotta be more mad at your mom. I think in this instance, I don't know. The whole thing is poor Ben. Everyone. Well, she didn't have to listen to my mom. Yeah, I mean, I guess you should. She could have said no, I am so so sorry that you had to hear it like this.
I wouldn't have wanted that, but honestly, it was your mom was like, she really wanted me to meet this guy. I don't know. Man, He kept like talking about his body and like how cool he is, and I just I she was like all she was talking about. I don't my mom was talking about a bunch of actressuits to meet in the play. I'm not gonna like hit him off and call him everybody. Well, you brought your mom on the date, Ben, I mean you kind of filled your own fate with that. She loved the theater.
I told her, just talked about the theater. That's it. That's I mean, she really was. She was talking about that actor. I don't. I'm sorry. Oh, and he's a good friend of mine. Man, you can't win at all in this. I really don't know what to say. I'm really sorry, Ben. I mean, I am going out with him, but I don't. I mean, if it doesn't work out, who knows. Oh, well, there you go, Ben, Hey Ben, Well, I guess Jamie, would you like to go out in a second date with Ben? We will pay for it.
Come on, Jamie, he was your first pick. You can you can put this other guy off until after you do one more date. Give Ben the chance. Honestly, at this point, I think I'm gonna go with the hot actor. Sorry, what hold on? I'm really sorry, Ben, I just I want to see this goes. Your mom was very confident that it was the right moon. I cannot believe it's happened. I'm so pissed at my mom. It seems like you
need to have conversations with a few people. Been in the morning text in at seven, eight, five, nine two said the only winner in that second date update was the mom in the morning. Talking about today's second date update, this guy Ben wanted to call a girl named Jamie to try to figure out why she wasn't calling him back after they went on a date to the theater. And they actually went on the date to the theater and his mom came along because he's good friends with
his mom. She likes the theater. He had an extra ticket. Kind of weird to take a first date out with your mother. But the real reason she wasn't calling back was because the mom was trying to hook her up with the dude that was in the play, who both her and her son knew. She's like, yeah, yeah, my son's cool, but what about the guy on the plays hot? Right? You should totally go out with him instead of my son.
And she listened like trying to look up with that dude instead of the instead of being I can't imagine what it feels like to be blocked by your mom. I know, I know, she's supposed to be the ultimate wingwoman, right. It sounds like stories about what a lovely person he is. He wants to keep him single as long as possible, so he has no other women in his life other than MoMA. That's probably what it is. You know, if your mom does something like that to you, you can
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