Second Date Update: YouTaboo

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Is key? Not too soon? Yeah? Wait too long? Yeah, because if you wait, the spark could fizzle out or somebody else could swoop in. Where in my case, your mom calls and asked, why aren't you going out with that person again? I've already FaceTime multiple pictures of you as a baby if you want them. That legitimately checks out. Yeah, yeah, your message me at two am the other day. You're not getting an old video of you? Did you get that too? Yeah? And you're not even a romantic interest

I'm talking about Oh yeah, not yet. But anyway, Isabella emailed the show Isabella, I'm hoping your mom isn't involved in your dating life like mine usually is. Yeah, not so much. You're lucky, Isabella, I have a chance there. Well, we want to hear all about your romantic ball and how we can keep it moving, So tell us about it. That was that, bro, That was pretty much the smoothest transition I've ever done. Okay, it's a romantic ball. Yeah, where where are you at the ball of romance with

the ball? Well? I just went on a date with this guy named Jason that I met on an app Okay, and it was a pretty good date, like first date all around. Um, he had this interesting idea to go to this place that I've never heard of before. It's like a hole in the wall place, but it's very to drink and play a bunch of board games. Oh that's so fun. I'm just saying four games run goods. But anything different, like a different theme of a bar,

a different you like. Yeah, like my husband and I once tried to do a board game bar place and we walked in and it was way more serious than we were expecting. Like, I don't know, it was like one of those where it's like, this is an eighteen round game where you make up things I don't know risk. Yeah, totally. You know. This isn't your dating life. This is about Isabella. I'm relating, Jeff, Okay, you relate. You were saying your experience wasn't very fun. Isabella was yours. Well, this place

was a little different. Like when you go in, they make you fill out a survey about your personality. Oh board games and surveys. Yeah, so this seems kind of weird. H they need your Like why would they need to know your personality because they want to pick a board game for you based on your personality. The rat track game, it would kick you out and then you know someone else would get like sorry, it's like the algorithm in

real life. Okay, so you filed out that what what board game did the survey come back and tell you to play? Well, they were picking out really weird ones that I'd never heard of, something about tadpoles and weird weird game. So we just went with, you know, a classic taboo, taboo hippos. It's taboo. Fun to play with only two people. We had to make up our own roles a little bit, but it was kind of a good way to kind of learn about each other a

little bit. Okay, can you explain really short because I don't think I know. So, Like I would pick a card and then try to get him to guess the word on the card by not saying certain words. Oh that's right. Yeah. It's like it's like you need to guess Christmas, but you can't say Santa Clauses. It's like charades but you're using talking. Oh yeah, it's pretty fun. And then we made a little bet. Oh cute, Okay,

what was it? We were like, whoever loses the next round has to go around and bust everyone in like tables, like their drinks and there's fun. Also helps the bar. Like that's really and it's embarrassing. Yeah, yeah, I sorry, can I that's really fun? I won, and now we get to the reason why he's not calling you back. Yeah, how did he handle losing? Was he a good sport

about it? Well, he actually seemed to kind of enjoy it, like he was a really good sport about it, and he was kind of laughing and going around into the waitress was grabby and she just came to sit with me and cute. Yeah, that's funny. It was fun. But then when he came back, he made a new bet and said the next person that loses had to kiss the other person on the cheek and then the mouth, and then, well, at least someone's kind of romantic and

not just embarrassing. Yeah, it's cute, and it's cute that he did on the cheek. You know, there's not a lot of pressure for that. So who won that bet? I went again? So he had to kiss you on the cheek. Yes, good. Whenever he went to kiss me, I kind of turned and then so we kissed on the lips and then they kicked her out here. Was it cute? Did he like that? Yeah? It was cute. Okay, it sounds good. Yeah, it's so super fun. You connected, you guys laugh together. You shared a kiss doesn't sound

like you've been before. Afterwards, he texted me and said he wanted to see me again, and so I was like, yeah, I mean too. Okay, So that same night he texted you that he wanted to see you again. Yeah, oh all right, that's a good son. But then he had to head out of town for a week. And then when he got back from out of town, we made a plan to meet up at this bar and we'd only been there for about thirty minutes and he just kind of acting weird, and then he said he had

to leave again. And then all of a sudden, he has to go out of town for a couple of more weeks and he doesn't know when he's coming back, and it's all it's all kind of weird, like he doesn't know when he's coming back. Yeah, yeah, you just iffy, Okay. I do know, I have fun. I do know of people that have jobs that will send them out and say, hey, what why when you're coming back? Why wouldn't he just say that if it was Yeah, I mean, what do you think? What's your theory? I mean, part of me thanks,

he's meeting up for like another girl. Yeah, so how long has it been since you last saw him, since that last date. Um, it's been like two and a half weeks. Okay, So you guys, I feel like you've had one and a half dates because that second one sounded like it was so short that it doesn't even fully count. Yeah, the window you're talking about, she's I think like that windows like a week, a week and a half. Yeah, you're out of the like that romance

ball is slowing down. We're gonna kick the ball and we're gonna try and get this romance going again, full schoolway. Well, we're gonna kick it in the direction of love. Okay, the metaphor works, it doesn't, We're going to keep the ball of romance going with your second date update next second night to Bishop three, left foot red Professor Plum in the library, okay with the lead pipe. Oh yeah. The board game's not traditionally considered a sexy first date. Yeah,

got me. Yeah. For Isabella, she was able to make it work when she went out with a guy named Jason and they played what did they play? Taboo, which is I guess sexy in itself just in the name. Yeah, But after the date, things have been cooling off a little bit. Jason has been in and out of town, hard to reach to figure out how to get that because I've gone on one and a half dates so far, hard to figure out how to get that second full date in. And she's hoping we can help her today. Isabella,

how you feeling? I don't know us but okay, I mean it does sound like his interest is waning if he's like, oh, I'm just out of town, you know, like no information, So maybe this can get it back on track. I just kind of want to know what is happening, and I can find if he needs to go, but I would like to know why or just what's going on right. I feel like you've invested enough time and energy that you deserve that answer. Well, this is

the good time to ask all those questions. We're gonna call his number right now and see what he has to say. Okay, okay, and if not, there's always Professor Plumford. Let's just out of the number right now here we go. Hello, Yo, is this Jason? H Yeah? Who's this? Hey? My name's Jeff from Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Hey, Uh what yeah, that's Brooks know where it wasn't Jeff? Good to tell people there's like a bunch of people on the front. Yeah. So you know, you know radio stations,

there's hundreds of them all over the world. I know radio se sounds like you're talking down to him, Jason. We're a really really tiny one, Okay, not super respected in the industry, but we have four people on it, Alexis, jose Brook, and Eye and our show kind of specializes in doing dating stuff. Oh okay, Okay, I'm actually reading a lot about dating and I'm trying to get better at it. So it's actually kind of cool you're calling me, Oh,

that's cute. You're doing little self help books for reading. That's awesome. Well, so, like I've been watching a lot of like relationship experts on YouTube and um trying to do this new strategy. What is its strategy? There's this one guy and he keeps talking about the difference between attraction and desire. Okay, and he's like, you can be attracted to someone when you're with them, but the only way to build desire is to spend time away from them.

Oh like absence makes the heart grow fonder type of Yeah, yeah, exact pro I'm just warning you. I've heard this and I've spent like five years away from my age. She still has That's something that you're you're trying to practice in your life. Yeah. So there's this girl I've been hanging out with and I've been telling her I've been having to go out of town on business, but I'm actually just here at home. What so, so I can let the desire beilt. You know. No, that's kind of impressive.

You have a job that you travel, because it sounds like you're an important person too. Well, I mean I work from home, but yeah, sounds cool. But you're telling her that you're going out of town because that makes you seem like, oh, I'm unavailable and you should desire me. Yeah. I mean you know it's like make in her want which she can't have. And how do you feel like that strategy is working for you? Um? I mean, she keeps trying to hang out with me, so it seems

like it's the word go. It's interesting, Jason. You can't just lie about where you're gonna be. That's not what the advice is. Man. Well, I mean, but I have to come up with some reason for why I can't hang it out all the time and just say hey, I'm gonna be at home, but I don't want to hang out like wee exactly exactly like you have to keep like momentum in dating, and it seems like you are giving big laws stretches of time in between where it feels like to these women that you're probably feels

like you're ghosting them. So did you call it? It? Just like harassed me about my strategy here. I'll try to get it to work a little bit better for you, Jason. We just we want to help you, is really what it comes down to. I think, and I don't know. You said that you're like currently trying this on somebody. Do you mind if we ask her name? Her names is about Yeahsbella. That is so weird because Jason, you're

not going to believe that. But there's an Isabella on the other line right now that's been listening to this entire conversation, burning with desire to talk. What oh there she is? Um, yeah, this is kind of not cool. YouTube page and find out what to do next, Jason. Oh, Jason, it is cool because she's interested in you. She wants to see you. Yes, your plan is working. Well. Now I'm a little bit weird. It out. This seems like game. I mean now, no, I mean it's it's not a game.

It's I like you and I was trying to get you to like me too, And do you think it's like do you think that's a good strategy that you learned from YouTube? I mean, well, you called a radio station to find out what was going on with me, So it seems like defeated right now. She thought that you were like cheating on her something she had like a second family somewhere because she wants so bad. We

only went on one date. I don't know how I could have been cheating on her, but you kind of went on one and a half dates from what Isabella told us. Yeah, why did you leave a half an hour into that second date? Jason? Yeah, well I thought it would be a good way to build anticipation for the next day, oh that night. Don't tell like you guys have a million subscribers like the guy I'm following on YouTube, so true. I don't really need to take it from you. We take it from Isabella. Isabella, are

you enjoying him? Am pushing you away? I don't think your YouTube guy is very smart? I mean, is he in a relationship. Does he have a girlfriend several? Oh wait, okay, role model, if you were supposed to hear any of this, if you haven't been on the line, things would be going great. You'd still be easily anticipating our next day. Oh yeah, should be confused though, Yeah, I wouldn't consider that going great. I mean, I just have the way two more days to get your desire to the peak level,

and then I was gonna make plans. I said, make clans. Okay, after almost three weeks, I was almost about to call you, Isabella, you jumped the gun. Yeah, you're you're messing us off for both of us. I actually, Isabella, I think this is kind of sweet, Like he's obviously taking this advice, maybe a little too literally, but he put in a lot of effort to try to get you to like him. Yeah, and I think that's the sweet thing, Like you just

need to be yourself, Jason, not listen to some YouTube dude. Possibly, but honestly, this this is working the evidence as a parent. Yeah, I mean, obviously it's kind of working on Isabella because she does seem still interested. But how many other women are you doing this too? Right now? Is Isabella the only one. No, yeah, I mean yeah, no, I'm not doing it to anybody, but Esca is the only person I'm seeing right now. Good. I don't know seeing you count because I haven't seen you in like two and

a half a week. Well, we have the power to change that for you, because we will often to send you guys out on another date, and we'll pay for that. I mean I always wanted to go on another date. I just I just had to wait. Yeah, we promise not to leave during the date to hight her desire or whatever your goal is. I think I can. I just need to watch the next video in the series to figure out finished the series before you tested it. Okay, but he's saying yes to another date, Isabelle, are you

still interested? Um? Well, it sounds like he actually likes you. He just doesn't know how to handle it. I'll give him a lease. He's putting some effort in dude, most dudes don't. Yeah, and it's kind of cute and kind of funny. But if you ditched the YouTube and whoever this guy is, then yeah, okay, well there you go. And well I just thought of something funny that you could do. You could leave halfway through the date now and have him burning with desire for you. It's called

toxic cycle. It's called love, the romance ball of love and got it back in motion. Everybody broken Jeffrey in the morning. We can hate on it all we want, but in the end, Jason's strategy to get Isabella actually worked fairly fairly separation to build up desire and she called us and then we got him another date. But listen, if she didn't listen to our show, right and she didn't know we were there to help, they would have never gone out again. I mean honestly, like she would

have just lost interest and just let it go. You don't know that. I'm just us. Eventually, I'm just saying, terrible, there's something to this strategy. Oh, don't do that. If we go off the air for two weeks, what's going to happen, Brooke? God, I'd get a really great couple of nights to see you, Like I feel really good. But our listeners might want to listen to us even more. We build up the desire to hear us. Okay, pitch

that to management. Screw two weeks, have about two months, decades no show for two centuries, and then we'll come back the long, slow place we might try. Look, we're already getting Texan of people who want to soft the air. I'm Shorky. You supposed to be telling us to stay anyway. Remember if you want to get a second date update, or if you want us to leave the radio forever emailed the show. We call the person who's not calling you back.