Second. It's kind of sweet to think about, but your mom is with you through some of the biggest moments of your life. Ye like when you took your very first steps, when you scored your first goal in soccer. In my case, when I scored with Paula Ratchatowski in tenth grade. He had a boy, got a second base, and mom was right there holding my hand. Now this is how you und I know you're wondering which hand and don't be gross. Okay, it was the other hand.
I don't know that it makes it worse than my head. It's a memory that I'll never forget and either now you shouldn't. I'm glad you should be able to share it with all of you. But one of our listeners, Lucas, says he may have met the one and his mom was there to see it. Lucas he gets a third. I don't know about that right now. I'm glad to hear somebody else is close with their mom. But tell us my dad actually get you, guys, get on to who this one is. I want to know why this
sounds important. Tell us about the woman that you met. What's her name? Tracy knockout knockout Okay, where where did you meet Tracy? I met her. This is kind of awkward, but we met at a winery. But I was so weird. Yeah, well listen, I was listen. It was my mom's birthday, and she loves wine and she loves when I take her out for her birthday. Yeah. That's cute. That's a good Yeah. So that's what you mean by your mom was there for? Yeah? Yeah, she was totally there for.
And Tracy's like your age, not your mom's like friend that came along for the birthday celebration. Right. She was the hostess. Okay, but she was so friendly. I took it. Maybe it was this flirting. Maybe was this sort of like feeling it out, you know. And she hosted us to our table, and halfway through the meal she comes over and she asked how everything was going, and I said, if you're wondering, we're not dating. This is my mom. Okay, that's pretty funny, Joe. I don't think it landed because
it was like her face turned red. It was awkward. My mom looked at me and almost spit out or wine. Oh no, oh, didn't think you were funny. That's never a good sign. She just kissed her passionately and been like, don't worry, that's my mom, right. I mean, in your defense, man, it's hard to come off looking suave and smooth while your mom is sitting and right next to you. No one is smooth in front of their mommy. It is also hard to know, like when staff likes you or
if they're just trying to get a good tip. You know the thing. I'm like, I think you're right, And I mean she laughed afterwards, and then I think I just realized she was just being a professional hostess. And maybe she if she was laughing at the table, maybe that was coming across us too forward. But like I was totally trying to impress her. I was talking about wines with her, and that's where the sort of I
found that opening. I think that was a connection. Brow it just ever you're trying, even if you're not funny, You're you're trying to make Paul. You're giving out positive vibes. I think that's the most important to people. Was it a good look like that? You're taking your mom out for her birthday, you know, and you genuinely were you know, we're doing this to be seen with your mom. Totally. So how were you able to like establish a connection
with Tracy? Okay, So later on in the dinner, we're winding up and I go over to Tracy and I asked her, could you put the candles on the birthday cake? First? I gave her the candles that I brought and she said, you are so sweet, and that's when I knew that was my opening. Yea and yeah cute, So I said, love to hang out. She greed, She gave me her number, um, and then her boss all of a sudden needed her to go away, and I said, bye, and we will
communicate late. Ye will communicate, We will establish correspondence. My people will call your people will send a messenger down with my science background. So no worries, man, We're just
so you were able to get her number. So yeah, we texted for like a couple of days, and we set a date for actual meet up, and like at the last minute, the day before, she said, oh, um, you know, I'm sorry I have to cancel, and I was like, oh, okay, And then a couple of days later, nothing And I have no idea why I'm getting ghosted, but I am and I'd love for you guys to
maybe help and figure this out. Jose and I were just talking about this because he was talking about how he always gets canceled on I think, like the last three days, and it just seems like it's part of like eating right. Yeah, I think it is part of the culture, maybe like taking us first. I mean, for me, I'm sure it is my fault, but for you, I'm sure it's just dating in general. Bro, is there anything that you could think of from the date that you
would think might be a red flag to her? I don't think so, because she wouldn't have given her number, and I couldn't imagine there's anything I did or it said, or came across as being rude or anything like that. I mean, like I said, she's a knockout beautiful. So maybe she has a bunch of guys in her dating que and you know, why would she why would she spend time with me? I don't know why. He definitely does have a bunch of dudes. Bro. Is how the
internet works. That doesn't mean that you don't deserve a shot. You could be the best of the bunch of dude. So let'll play a song, We'll come back, and we're going to establish correspondence. You will communicate with her and figure out why she's not calling you back, why she canceled on you at the last second. It's not cool. We'll do it right after this when we do your second adaptation. Hold on. They say one of the keys to impressing a woman is to do something excellent in
her presence. And I feel like just listening to Lucas's story today, you know, he may not sound like the most suave guy in the world, but the fact that he walked up to the hostess that day and said, hey, baby girl, I brought some of the special candles for my mama's birthday. Oh can you grab these from me and put them on top of her moist birthday cake? He had her at moist. I don't know. I mean if it was maybe somebody else's cake. Don't listen to her, Lucas,
that was a pro move. No, you don't, Yeah you do. You're no amateur, Lucas. You are a suave man. I am, Yes, I am. Yeah, that's right. That's the confidence I'm talking about. Anyway, him and Tracy never really ended up having a date date, right, but he did get her phone number and they did set up a time when they're supposed to meet. She canceled though, right before it was supposed to happen. So
we're gonna try and help him figure out why. You're ready, Lucas, You're gonna turn the charm up to eleven for us, charm up to eleven. But I can't say that. I'm not nervous, Okay, yeah, I mean with Jeffrey start. When we started this, he said that you emailed in and called her possibly the one, right. I did say that, But don't tell her that I said that. No, I won't. We don't have to tell her because I feel like she knows. No, we won't tell her. But I understand
where your nerves are coming from. You a lot riding on this totally. You're super likable, you seem awesome. I think we can do this. Thank you. Are you ready? Man? We're gonna call Tracy here. I'm ready, I'm ready. All right, here we go. Hello? Hey? Is this Tracy? Yes, Hey Tracy, My name is jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing. I'm okay, you're you're from a radio show, A morning radio show. Hey, Tracy? Hi, Hey, and uh. We do a segment on our show called
a second Date Update. That's where we help our listeners reconnect with people after they've gone out on a date. Now, you didn't go out with this guy on an official date yet, but you were supposed to. His name's Lucas oh St. Yeah, he was really excited about you. Yea, Oh my god, this is really embarrassing. Yes, embarrass you. I don't think I should talk about are you talk Are you in a relationship? And he didn't know or no, no, no, I just oh god, I don't know what to say.
I just like, I don't want to embarrass him. Yeah, he told us about the terrible jokes he made. Yeah, he said he laughed though I did, Okay. And not only that, he said that you gave him your phone number and you guys actually set up a time to meet, but you canceled it the last second. Well, it's just it's been a lot since we met that day. It's been a lot. Well, it's been a lot. Like he seems like a really sweet since you're a nice guy. I'm sure he is. It's just why did he come
off like too much of a player? Because I kind of I kind of got that vibe. Yeah, it's funny you mentioned his mom um. So in the days afterwards, like I started to get some text messages from her. What from Lucas's mom? Yes, how huh? I really don't. I don't know how she could have gotten my number. Maybe they lived together. Why would he give it to her? About? Yeah, what was she saying to you? She like texted me if she could call me, and I felt awkward, so
I answered up answering, and he ended up talking what about? Yeah, she had some type of agenda, and it felt like she was really uncomfortable to tell me at first. Okay, and so we went back and forth, and finally I was like, you know, you can't be straight up, and she said, look, if I'm going to be frank, your boobs are too big comment wait his call? What the hell?
My gosh? Yes? And I first I was like, she has to be kidding, and she's like, well, I'm serious, and and she says, well, Lucas doesn't have much experience with that, and he's used to day much smaller chested women like herself, Like he can't handle like her. She did not say that, Yes, she did know. She's just like your boobs are gonna overwhelming. You should have seen
him when he was a baby. He didn't know, Like we had a real hard time latching, like sneaking out of the room and calling his mom like Mom, I'm really overwhelmed. Right now? What do I do here? I mean, I don't think there's any way that Lucas could have possibly known that this was going to happen. Yeah, I hope, I mean that's the one benefit. Yeah, but well maybe he did know, because we should probably ask him. And that's why I need to tell you, Tracy, Lucas is
on the other line right now. Oh my god, Oh my god. He needed to hear this. He really needed to hear this. Lucas there, Yeah, I heard everything, and my mother's in the room and I'm I'm about wait, why is she in the room? But it doesn't matter why she She's in the other room and I want to go talk to her right now. This is so embarrassing, so mortified. Hold on, Lucas, did you know that your mom was texting Tracy? No? I have no idea. Sorry, I mean surprise for you, Lucas, or is this a
discussion you've had with your mom before? Question, complete surprise, and it probably comes from that magazine she found when I was seventeen. No, you did not say that. Really, that does not help care whatever. God, what a magazine even was? That's hilarious. I mean, Lucas, I really think you need to talk to Tracy here because she sounds pretty freaked out. Yeah, and apologize. I am going to apologize. Oh my god. Okay, can you focus on Tracy for
a second. Okay, rip yourself away from your mom for two minutes. Sorry, everybody, I'm nervous. Um, Tracy, I want you to listen to me. You made me laugh and you're the most beautiful woman I've ever met in my life. And when I walked in and I saw you gazed at me and you can we even I think out he's trying, guys, he is your sweet Lucas. You know, I feel like you're trying to. Maybe it's just a different experience. Maybe we're just in areas of our lives.
I'm like, you know, you're you're really close with your mom and more ways than one. I don't think that's funny, but sure, I mean, Tracy, you can hear he feels terrible. He had nothing to do with it, and we don't even know if that's true. That's just what his mom said. Lucas, what do you think could you handle a bigger you got this b Yeah, your mom doesn't believe in you, but I you can handle that, Lucy. Tell her, Lucas,
tell Tracy that you could handle her. Tracy, I can tell you this with a certainty that your boobs will never overwhelm me and eye. Man, I could just see that in the wedding vows. Yeah, that was really beautiful. It was, And I think this is a good time to ask Tracy. We would love to send you and Lucas out on another date. Mom will not be there. Yeah, a real one on one date and we will pay for it. Just don't bring a lot of cleavage. What do you say, Tracy? I mean, I thought talking to
his mom was the weirdest thing? Is this has really been strange? No, I don't know. I don't know. Maybe we can keep texting for a little bit, see where it goes. That's something that's the door is still cracked open. Yeah, yeh, Lucas, Tracy, I would love to receive a text from you, and then I will send a text back and then we can start all over and so oh and um, if you want to send me a picture, that's totally fine, all right, that's not I don't know, maybe a good
idea wrap him a little terrible timing. Maybe we can share a bottle of pinotes Oir, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.