Second. Have you ever been just casually hanging out with someone when suddenly they start to give you a vibe and you think, wait a second, do they think that this is a date? Oh? Oh, you're not excited about it? I was excited, just like unexpected. Yeah, okay, because it was a date. Because it happens to me all the time.
I'm just doing my thing in studio and then Brook will slide her scarf blanket to the side and show me a little extra shoulder blower her glasses down here, and I'm like, hold up, does Brook think that this is a date? I definitely do not excuse me because you're married. First of all, I'm young enough to be your son, So that's not gonna happen if I slide my glasses down just because my face got a little sweaty,
that's all. And they're really I understand I make you in all sorts of ways, but to get over it. Because one of our listeners found himself in an unexpected romantic situation, he's asking us for help today. His name is Julian. Julian, welcome to the show man. Hey, how's it going. We're lucky to have the expert in Jeffrey on with you. Julian, you don't think this is a date now, because I tend to have that effect on people.
Brook is showing a lot of Julian, I'm sorry. Yeah, let's focus not on each other, and let's focus on the lady you want us to call today. Who's she? So, her name's Abbie. And the date that you're talking about was unexpected, you know, it was that actually happened like in real life. It wasn't off of an app like every other date. Oh whoa you are, like, you're a rare man on this segment. Yeah, yeah, where'd you meet? Throwback? Yeah?
So I was on a work break and I went to grab some coffee, you know, downstairs, and there's a coffee shops right across the street, and barista is like making my drink and she offers to give it to me for free. Oh oh really, yeah, the best day ever? Like, how good you look that day? I mean, hey, you know, I guess I remembered to shave or something. Yeah, Oh, so is Abby the barista? No, no, no, no, no, she's no so yeah, so so I was a little surprised.
But then I look behind me and there's this really cute girl, which is abby behind me, and so I tell the barista, okay, well I'd like to buy her drink. Wow, just shatter the barista's dreams. And she was probably hitting on you. But that's right, that's right, that's a good move. What a thing. Well she was like, well that's really nice, and so you know, that opened the door for us
to talk. And you know, I didn't have that much time on my break, was only like ten minutes or so, but you know, I asked her like, hey, do you want to go sit outside and drink our coffees? And she said yes, so we did and it was great. I mean it was short, but it was great. Is this your date? Though? Yeah? Why are you asking like that? Like this was the date? This is the date. It was ten minutes long. You don't need drinking in casual
sex for it. But this is just a meeting. Like I feel like we have forgotten what happens in the room. We're just calm down. Maybe we should ask what did you talk about? Was there some flirtation happening? Date vibes there? We had a great conversation. So I'm a big hockey fan and she's not. But she was like interested in that, and she was like, Oh, isn't it just guys like punching each other all the time. And I was like, no, no, it's like there's a lot more finesse to it. It's
and then punch each other and hit each other with sticks. Yeah. Sometimes, did you like parlay that into we should watch a game together or sometime or anything like that? So I did not, but I did parlay it into Hey, I'd like to take you on a real date time. I'm glad it wasn't he I'd like to punch you in the face, face off right now, although that would be more a brook Sally for a style. Oh, I'll punch
a man whenever he wants. It doesn't mean it's I mean it sounds like a good connection, even if it was a short amount of time. Yeah, exactly. And that's what's so bizarre, because I have texted her a few times since then. When I called her, like, I heard her voice on the voice announce, so I know it's like her actual number. Yeah, But I don't know if I just totally misread the situation or maybe she has
a boyfriend. I don't know, but I'm very confused. Did she give you her number after you said I'd like to take you on a date sometime. Yes? So yeah, that's the intense number giving. I mean, aside from hockey, did you guys talk about anything else? Hopefully? We talked about breaking Bad and Better Call Saul, one of the most erotic shows on TV, for sure, that bald spot. Was there a hug or was there a kiss or a physical ye? Yeah? Like was she playing with her hair?
Was she smiling? Was her a lot of eye contact? Was there no eye contact? Oh? No, there was a lot of eye contact. She was playing with her hair. She was smiling. Good. Sorry, So wait, I forget. You've reached out and she hasn't called you back at all. How long is that? Um, it's been about a week. Oh okay, too long? That long? But she just forgot. It wasn't a very good ten minutes forget. I mean, I left her a message, so I don't know how she could forget. Oh, it takes me more than a
week to check my voicemails. Him sit there for at least three weeks before I actually listened. But I texted, okay, well and you text, let us try giving her a call. Maybe she'll answer from a number that's completely unrecognizable. We might have better luck there. We're gonna play a song.
Who knows we're going to play a song? Come back, try and get your second date update after this, some of us are clearly flustered in studio today after hearing about Julian's first date with Abbey, which, to Brook's shock and horror, involved no drinking, no cooking, drugs in any back alley sheds, and no fluids exchanged except for the coffee that he bought her after they met. Sure, I always bring fertilizer to my dates, and some coughs are up, but I'm not saying that everybody has to do that.
It's just strange, like it's ten minutes and they it's a chance meeting in a coffee show. I know, it's crazy. People can have a romantic connection just talking to each other. How is that It's just crazy that we're considering it a date. Anyway, it did give me a good idea for the coffee shop fluid exchange. I feel like you're going to be a quad guy. Yeah, definitely, let's crowd on this thing. But before that, we got to talk to Julian because it's been a week since that date happened.
He's having trouble locking down date number two. I have to say, I mean, I just felt such a strong connection with Abby, you know, I mean, it's like, how often do you have to something like this happened? It just felt like a really great connection. So I'd love to see her again. Yeah, and I think it's a good sign that she gave you her phone number, like I said, after you had mentioned that you want to take her out, take her out, yeah said, yeah, a
real number. Yeah, yeah, exactly, because if she was in a relationship and she just didn't realize that she needed to tell you that, then a fake number would have sufficed. Right, Okay, well, now's the time to get all those answers. We're going to dial her number in double check if it's real, and then ask why she's not calling you back to get another date. All right, all right, thanks, Jeff. Are you gonna ask her if she wants to invest in
the fluid Exchange? Well, let's program. I'll get to that obviously, but we're gonna focus on Julian here. Hello, Hey is this happy? And it is? Yeah? Hey happy. My name is Jeff from a morning radio show you may or may not have heard of, called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Um okay, that's that's okay. We are look at you with terminology. Do you have a background in broadcasting? Um, I did an internship in high school to run the board.
More experienced, that's true. So I don't know. I don't know if you did this at the place where you intern But we have a segment on our show called second Date Update. Um no, I'm I'm not familiar with that. Okay, well it's pretty bull. Basically, one of our listeners reaches out to us after they can't get a hold of somebody they went on a date with, and they want to know why. And you are the person we're reaching out too because you met up with a guy named
Julian the other day. Okay, I mean there was a quick meeting. Yeah, yeah, I remember, I remember Julian. Okay, Okay, Yeah. Julian told us that he thought you're really cute, thought that things were going well when you were chatting with each other, and he was hoping to see you again. He doesn't really understand why that isn't coming to fruition. Wait, so he's he's asking you to find out why I didn't call him right, because you're not really responding to him.
Is there a reason or is it just you know, it's only been a week. Maybe you haven't had time. Um. I mean I saw that he called, and I've been just kind of thinking about it. But I mean, oh, you're like on the fence. Yeah, yeah, kind of on the fence about it. Okay, can we ask why? Like what are you on the fence about? Um? Well, I don't know, like what he told you about. Again, it
wasn't at date. I mean like we we met in the line at a coffee shop and the verse she gave him his coffee for free, and she said thank you for your work, thank you for for the work that you do, and he was he was wearing scrubs. Oh oh okay, he's like a doctors. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, I forge to the doctor. There's you know, does does that mean in healthcare? Okay, we didn't know that. So that's cool, Like you wouldn't want to date somebody like that? No, No,
I mean I did think that was cool. I thought that was definitely worth taking a couple of minutes and getting to know him better. You know when he was like, hey, lets you want to go sit up siding have our coffee. I'm in between brain surgeries. If I only have ten minutes between bed pants both very I mean for most women hearing that would be the absolute green light to definitely see them again. Totally. Yeah. I mean, it either means he was really successful or he's really good at heart.
It's like one of those two is happening. Um. Well, he talked about his work a little bit, but he was talking about like how much he loved his work, and he was saying that sometimes he can get really close to his patience and he just loves being able to help his patience and make them happy. And I was and I was thinking, that's really really cool. I
got a great vibe from that. Good dude, Yeah, that's what I'm thinking, right, And then he asked me from number my number and said he'd like picking me out. I gave him that and and we parted ways and I was getting in my car and this that look back. I was kind of watching him and he was walking across the street going back into his work, and he he went into one of those waxing salons, Like yeah, like where they do like Brazilian wax. No, like a
Brazilian wax. I didn't even know those guys worse crubs. I've never even had a male do that for I mean, I've never watched on who Waxing Place and seen a dude. I didn't know that was a career option or immediately I thought of him saying yeah, I get really close to my patients and oh I don't. I don't know. That just made me go, oh um, if he just met physically close, I'll be thank you for sharing that
with us. But there is kind of an awkward part that I need to get to here, and it's best to probably just rip it off real quick and lets you know that Julian has actually been on the other line listening this entire time, and he wants to talk to you. Yeah. I mean I just think, oh, this whole hibby, Yeah, this whole conversation. I mean, it's just so it's so pathetic because you know, wax whole legitimate profession. Oh, I don't think any want to say, yeah, I'm not
trying to being a doctor. Frankly speaking, I mean I had fourteen hours of online webinars to get my start hold on, hold on, did you just say that being a wax technician is as legitimate as being a doctor. Yeah. I mean, I'm very proud of my work. I make people's lives better. And also the whole women thing. I mean, there are men who come to our practice as well. You know, I've seen it on I see naked men as well. You know, I'm a professional. Good for you. Yeah,
we didn't mean. I mean, honestly though, we didn't mean to insult your profession. I think what she's saying is that she just had one impression and then it was just totally different, so she just needed a minute to kind of reconcile that for a week. Well, yeah, you know, you shouldn't be making assumptions. I mean, it's not like I said that I just got off operating on someone's heart, you know. I mean, you you can assume based on things. But you know what they say about assumptions. Yeah, true,
he wasn't operating on hearts. He was shaving a triangle, yeah, exactly, which takes a lot of skills of studying to get to it. You guys are joking about it, but it's super hard to do. I mean, it's very sensitive that skin that area. You know, we're not trying to insult to anybody's profession here. We just wanted to get the two of you talking. So Abby, well, why don't you talk directly to Julian here? Okay, So I know what you're saying, Like, it wasn't I wasn't intending to insult
your profession. I just I think I felt a little bit mislet and I don't know, I think maybe if you're in that like, that's the kind of thing that and I know we didn't have a ton of time, but it's a kind of thing that would be good to know. Yeah, I mean, honestly grow up, like seriously kind of agree with him on that one. What are you talking about? I mean, it's just like if you see it every day, it's not like he's looking at it in a sexual way like the body part exactly.
I agree with him on that, just on that piece. Like I don't know, I look it up every day and it is never getting older. It is the purpose if the intent is different. I heard that Abby was impressed with what he can do. Isn't that right? Actually didn't say impressed, It's what I felt a little misled. Well, those are mostly the same letters in those times, the same Well, you know, I guess I should start putting it on my forehead and I wax the barista like you.
Oh yeah, it's because she's my customer. That's why she gave me the free drink. So much. Satisfied customer, clearly. Yeah, all my customers five stars, wax stars. I maybe get your number after this. Yeah, we can all. Let's all get waxed together. Ye, we'll do a morning show wax and put it up on the broken I think is going to take a lot longer than your brooking Jeffrey in the morning