Second day. It's kind of sweet to think about. But your mom is with you through some of the biggest moments of your life. Ye like when you took your very first steps, or when you scored your first goal in soccer. In my case, when I scored with Paula Ratchatowski in tenth grade. He had a boy, got a second base and mom was right there holding my hand. Now this is how you und I know you're wondering which hand and don't be gross. Okay, it was the other hand. I don't know that it makes it worse
than my head. It's a memory that I'll never forget and either now you shouldn't. I'm glad they should be able to share it with all of you. But one of our listeners, Lucas, says he may have met the one and his mom was there to see it. Lucas gets a third. I don't know about that right now. I'm glad to hear somebody else's close with their mom. But tell us my dad actually get you, guys, get on to who this one is. I want to know why this sounds important. Tell us about the woman that
you met. What's her name? Tracy knockout knockout Okay, where where did you meet Tracy? We met at a winery. It was my mom's birthday and she loves wine and she loves when I take her out for her birthday. Yeah that's cute. That's a good Yeah. So that's what you mean by your mom was there for Yeah? Yeah, she was totally there for it. And Tracy's like your age, not your mom's like friend that came along for the birthday celebration. Right. She was the hostess. She was so friendly.
I took it maybe was this thirting. Maybe was this sort of like feeling it out, you know. And halfway through the meal she comes over and she asked how everything was going, and I said, if you're wondering, we're not dating. This is my mom. Okay, that's pretty funny, Joe. I don't think it landed because it was like her face turned red. It was awkward. My mom looked at me and almost spit out her wine. Oh no, even mom didn't think you were funny. That's never a good sign.
She just kissed her passionately and been like, don't worry, that's my mom, right. I mean, in your defense, man, it's hard to come off looking suave and smooth while your mom is sitting and right next to you. No one is smooth in front of her mommy. It is also hard to know, like when staff likes you or if they're just trying to get a good tip. You
know the thing. I'm like, I think you're right, and I mean she laughed afterwards, but and then I think I just realized she was just being a professional hostess, but like I was totally trying to impress her. I was talking about wines with her, and that's where the sort of I found that old. I think that was a connection. Bro. Wow, this is ever you're trying, even if you're not funny, You're you're trying to make her pa. You're giving out positive vibes. I think that's the most
important to people. Was it's a good look like that you're taking your mom out for her birthday. You know. So how were you you able to like establish a connection with Tracy? Okay, so later on in the dinner, we're winding up and I go over to Tracy and I asked her could you put the candles on the birthday cake that I brought? And she said, you are so sweet, And that's when I knew that was my opening. Yea,
and yeah, so I said, love to hang out. She agreed, she gave me her number, um, and then her boss all of a sudden needed her to go away, and I said, goodbye, and we will communicate later. Ye will communicate, We will establish correspondence. My people will call your people. I will send a messenger. Done my science background. So no worries. Man, We're so so you were able to
get her number. So yeah, we texted for like a couple of days, and we set a date for actual meet up, and like at the last minute the day before she said, oh, um, you know, I'm sorry, I have to cancel. And then a couple of days later nothing.
And I have no idea why I'm getting ghosted, but I am and I'd love for you guys to maybe help and figure and I were just talking about this because he was talking about how he always gets canceled on I think, like the last three days, and it just seems like it's part of like dating, right, Yeah, I think it is part of the culture. Maybe like taking sucks. I mean for me, I'm sure it is
my fault, but for you, Yeah, it's just dating in general. Bro, Is there anything that you could think of from the date that you would think might be a red flag to her. I don't think so, because she wouldn't have given her number, and I couldn't imagine there's anything I did or said or came across as being or anything like that. I mean, like I said, she's a knockout beautiful. So maybe she has a bunch of guys in her dating que and you know, why would she why would
she spend time with me? I don't know. He definitely does have a bunch of dudes. Bro is how the internet works, because that doesn't mean that you don't deserve a shot. You could be the best of the bunch of dude. So we'll play a song, will come back, and we're going to establish correspondence. We will communicate with her and figure out why she's not calling you back, why she canceled on you at the last second. It's not cool. We'll do it right after this when we
do your second date outdate hold on the date. You're in the middle of a second date update update, we're gonna find out how the couple is doing right after you Here Part two. They say one of the keys to impressing a woman is to do something excellent in
her presence. And I feel like just listening to Lucas's story today, you know, he may not sound like the most swath of guy in the world, but the fact that he walked up to the hostess that day and said, he, baby girl, I brought some special candles for my mama's birthday. Oh can you grab these from me and put them on top of her moist birthday cake? He had her at moist. I don't know, I mean if it was maybe somebody else's cake. Don't listen to her, Lucas. That
was a pro move. No, you don't use the same Yeah you do. You're no amateur, Lucas. You are a suave man. I am, Yes, I am. Yeah, that's right. That's the confidence I'm talking about. Anyway, him and Tracy never really ended up having a date date right, but he did get her phone number and they did set up a time when they're supposed to meet. She canceled though, right before it was supposed to happen. So we're gonna
try and help him figure out why you're Lucas. You're gonna turn the charm up to eleven for us, charm up to eleven, but I can't say that. I'm not nervous. Okay, yeah, I mean you're super likable. You seem awesome. I think we can do this. Thank you. Are you ready? Man? We're gonna called Tracy here. I'm ready, I'm ready. All right, Here we go. Hello. Hey? Is this Tracy? Yea, Hey Tracy. My name's Jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing. I'm okay. You're
from a radio show, a morning radio show. Hey, Tracy. Hi, Hey, And we do a segment on our show called a second Date Update. That's where we help our listeners reconnect with people after they've gone out on a date. Now, you didn't go out with this guy on an official date yet, but you were supposed to. His name's Lucas. Oh hereat Yeah, he was really excited about you. Yeah. Oh my god, this is really embarrassing. Yes, don't embarrassing for you. I don't think I should talk about are
you taught? Are you in a relationship? And he didn't know or no, no, no, I just oh god, I don't know what to say. I just like, I don't want to embarrass him. Yeah, he told us about the terrible jokes he made. Yeah, he said you laughed though I did, okay. And not only that, he said that you gave him your phone number and you guys actually set up a time to meet, but you canceled it the last second. Well, it's just it's been a lot since we met that day. It's been a lot. Well,
it's been a lot. Like he seems like a really sweet since you're a nice guy. I'm sure he is. It's just why are you convinced yourself? Did he come off like too much of a player? Because I kind of I kind of got that vibe. It's funny you mentioned his mom um. So in the days afterwards, like I started to get some text messages from her? What from Lucas's mom? Yes? How huh? I really don't. I don't know how she could have gotten my number? Maybe they lived together. Why would he give it to her?
Texting you about? Yeah? What was she saying to you? She like texted me if she could call me, and I feel awkward, So I answered up answering, and he ended up talking what about? She said, Look, if I'm going to be frank, your boobs are too big? Did not see that? Comment. Wait, his mom paused, body shame
you what the hell? My gosh, yes, and hers was like she has to be kidding, and she's like, well, I'm serious, and and she said, well, Lucas doesn't have much experience with that, and he's used to dating much smaller chested women like herself, like he can't handle her. She did not say that, Yes, she did know. She's just like, your boobs are gonna overwhelming. You should have
seen him when he was a baby. He didn't know, Like, we had a real hard time latching, like sneaking out of the room and calling his mom like mom, I'm really overwhelmed. Right now? What do I do here? I don't think there's any way that Lucas could have possibly known that this was going to happen. Yeah, I hope. I mean that's the one benefit. Yeah, but well maybe he did know, because we should probably ask him. And that's why need to tell you, Tracy, Lucas is on
the other line right now. Oh my god, oh my god. He needed to hear this. He really needed to hear this. Lucas there, Yeah, I heard everything, and my mother's in the room and I'm a I'm about oh wait, why is she in the room. What? It doesn't matter why she she's in me at the room, and I want to go talk to her right now. There's so everything, so hort hold on, Lucas, did you know that your mom was texting Tracy? No? I had no idea. Sorry, I mean the surprise for you, Lucas or is this
a discussion you've had with your mom before? Question? Complete surprise and it probably comes from that magazine she found when I was seventeen. No, you did not need to say that. Really, that does not help here. Whatever, guy, what a magazine even was? That's hilarious. I mean, Lucas, I really think you need to talk to Tracy here because she sounds pretty freaked out. Yeah, and apologize. I am going to apologize. Mom. Can you focus on Tracy for a second, rip yourself away from your mom for
two minutes. Sorry, everybody, I'm nervous. Um, Tracy, I want you to listen to me. You made me laugh and you're the most beautiful woman I've ever met in my life. And when I walked in and I saw you gazed at me and even I think he's trying. Guys, he is your sweet Lucas you know, I feel like you're trying to. Maybe it's just a different experience, maybe we're in different areas of our lives, and I'm like, you know, you're you're really close with your mom and more ways
than one. I don't think that's funny, but sure, I mean, Tracy, you can hear he feels terrible. He had nothing to do with it, and we don't even know if that's true. That's just what his mom said, Lucas, what do you think could you handle a bigger par you got this, b Yeah, your mom doesn't believe in you, but I you can handle that. Tell her, Lucas, Tell Tracy that you could handle her. Tracy, Yeah, can tell you this with a certainty that your boobs will never overwhelm me.
I'll look a right in the eye, man. I could just see that in the wedding vows. That was really beautiful. It was, And I think this is a good time to ask Tracy. We would love to send you in Lucas out on another date. Mom will not be there. Yeah, a real one on one date and we will pay for it. Yeah, just don't bring a lot of cleavage. What do you say, Tracy? I mean, I thought talking to his mom was the weirdest thing. It's really been strange.
I have no I don't know. I don't know. Maybe we can keep texting for a little bit, see where it goes. That's something that's the door is still tracked open. Yeah, yeah, Lucas, Tracy, I would love to receive a text from you, and then I will send a text back and then well we can start all over. And oh and um, if you want to send me a picture, that's totally fine. All right, that's not I don't know. Maybe a good idea him a little terrible timing. Maybe we can share
a bottle of Pinot noir. Yeah, that's the charmer Broke and Jeffrey in the morning. All right, we've all been waiting for this. Tracy and Lucas are back once again to give all of us an update. Is his mom on the phone too, Lucas, is your mom there? Well, she's in the bathroom right now. Let's hope that she stays there for this because we don't have a lot of time. But obviously we have a lot of questions we want to ask you too, But let's start with
the simple one. Are you too currently together? Are you not together, Like, what's the relationship status? Yeah, well we are back together. Wait, back together? What does that mean? That's good news? I have to be real. I was. I was kind of hesitant to go out with Lucas again. And there was about a month before we even arranged you anything. I mean, there's just some some exchanges, we had some texts, and there are some nice things that he said. So I decided to go out with Lucas again. Lucas,
how are you doing? It was a rave review right there. Yeah, I'm doing really great. And I just want to you know, I have some news for everybody and the listeners and oh and everything, and um, last week I actually asked her to be my girlfriend, like exclusively? Has she answered? Yes? Yes, yes I did. Okay, Okay, you guys are official. How did your mom feel about that? Oh? She loved it.
She even paid for my back lack your back lack. Well, I'm not sure if we wanted to know about that, but the question that we did want to know the answer too, Tracy, was Lucas's mom, right? Was he not up for the challenge of handling a woman of your caliber? You know, I'm happy to say that his mom was wrong the big guns. Yeah, I was totally nervous. I mean, here's what I did. I looked up tutorials on YouTube about like techniques and like, oh my god, I don't
need to know that. Oh okay, I didn't know you were nervous for but now I do. Okay, the tutorials paid off though, Oh my gosh. Yeah, I mean, actually, I'm going to start making a blog to have like other nervous guys. Okay, please don't do that, okay with diagrams. Well good, keep us updated and let you know when your blog goes live so that Jose and I can check it out. I know we could use some pointers. Still, congratulations on your back, my friend. Yeah, that was a jog.
I was just kidding joke. I didn't get an I got a serious as well. Broke and Jeffrey in the morning,