Second Date Update UPDATE: Surprise Party Shocker

hopeful and optimistic than we are. Chris. But tell us about the girl that you were supposed to go out with. What's her name? Oh? Yeah, sure, niece Kayla? Okay, okay, we met at a dating app. We been online. How long do you guys chat before you actually met up? Like two or three weeks? So you know, I guess a decent amount of time we got to know each other at least a little bit, right, Is that the normal amount of time that you guys do, two three

weeks before you meet up? Yeah? I tried to meet as soon as possible so I don't waste my time. Two three minutes, Okay, she's out. Yeah, a solid connection, though, you want to make sure it's two three weeks If you're just sucking up like Alexas. Yeah, okay, fair, So you actually like her? It sounds like yeah, yeah, it was one of those outs where we were trying to date, not just get down to it good and so I mean the conversation leading up sounds like obviously it was good. Yeah, yeah,

it was good. She's super cute, Like first just our pictures, she had like freckles. She was wearing like all these cute like old band T shirts that she was sort of like cut up and anyway, whatever, my type sounds odd, okay, And you're not one of those guys that sees like a girl were in like a Rolling Stone shirt Ramans and it's like name three Okay. I was like, you're not even in Nirvana. LL tell us about the date

and how it got derailed. Well, all right, so we scheduled that I was actually going to pick her up for our first date. Oh man, she definitely trusts you then. So yeah, so I got there, like I'm a pretty punctual person. I got there and ended up being like twenty minutes early. Okay, wow, okay, So I was like I'll go up, I'll knock on the door, like to see what's going on or whatever. Ooh, I don't know.

Twenty minutes early for a day is really early. Yeah. Yeah, like I'm not going to be ready, no exactly, Like and then it's like awkward because you have to answer the door. If you're knocking on the door, it's like different if you send a text and you're like, yo, I'm here. I'll just wait for you until you're ready. Let me know. Yeah, I thought about doing it, and I was like, oh, I'm going to be a gentleman. I'll just walk up to the door instead of using

a cell phone about it. Okay, but it got it got way weirder though. Okay, So I go up and the door was actually like cracked open. So I sort of nudged it open just a little bit to give like a hey, you know, I'm here. And as I nudged it open, twenty ish people jumped out and screamed surprise. What Yeah? So yeah exactly, I'm really confused. Were you at the wrong house? No, So it turns out her friends were throwing her a surprise party a week before

her birthday. Wow, oh, I guess they were throwing her off ascent by doing it a week early. Yeah, well what do you do? Do you say for the party or do you just leave? Well, she's obviously not even there yet if they're all waiting for her, right, yeah, yeah, she wasn't She was not there yet, so awkward. Yeah, so, I you know, they didn't like ask me a lot of questions. They just sort of were like getting getting

you know, she's on her way here. Yeah, I didn't like fully have time to make the decision of like, so then you're just like put in with the crowd of people and you're now waiting to surprise her for her party with a group of people I've never met. That's hysterical. What happened when she came into the door. So she comes in the door, everyone jumps out yell surprised. You know, she's like looking around obviously very surprised, and then sees me in the middle of it, and he

looks even more surprised. Probably not how you envisioned your first dates. So funny though. Was it a great party? Did you have a great Did she have a great time? Yeah, she seemed a really great time. I mean, you know, I talk to people a pretty decent amount, and like I hung out with their dog for a while. With I'm a big, big dog fan. Is that great? I have a weird feeling about it, really, why I think

it sounds great? I mean I'd rather do that than like an awkward dinner date with someone, Like you're with friends. You guys are all drinking, the mood is super high with their friends, and they're all hanging out with each other, and he's over on the couch just sitting at the dog. No. But here's the thing. If you can find a person who can hold their hone in a party, it is so attractive. I agree that you don't have to babysit

them the whole time. Yeah, I mean it was cool, but like every now and again, they'd be like, wait, so how do you know her? I'm a little confused, And I was like, I don't know. Do I bring up the dating appice? I was like, I would usually find a way to sort of like the conversation. We don't want to tell him, oh yeah, I'm from one nightstand dot com. Don't want to be like I'm her cousin.

Oh my god. But if it was one of my friends, I'd be like, this is so hid Like the party sounded fun, but were you able to ever get any like alone one on one time to actually connect with her. Yeah, so, like we got on the beer pong table together one but that was fun. Okay. But actually, yeah, like I ended up staying until the end, So we got like almost half an hour to sort of like chap. It was. It's like it's like post party, like, you know, she's pretty tired. I was pretty tired. It was a lot

like it was a lot. Oh yeah, yeah, but we decided next week we're going to go out on like a real date. Okay, So how did it end? Did you just leave? Yeah? I just you know, she gave me a hug goodbye. But I mean, you know, when I was leaving, like she seemed happy about the party, but she also seemed like genuinely happy that I actually made the decision to stay. And like, you know, okay, so what's happened since? Well, yeah, that's the thing. Nothing. Now.

I texted her, you know, that week to make plans. I didn't gear back, and now it's been two weeks. Oh so I'm like, you know, I'm just racking my brain, like what you know. In my head, I'm like, now I'm thinking about who is at the party, I'm like, was there like an ex boyfriend or something that maybe she rekindled with Did someone say something bad about you? Yeah? Do you think it's gonna be weird when we call her in a couple of minutes and all shout surprise,

Because that's my plan. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Kayla for you and try and get your second date update. Okay, Hey, I appreciate it. All right, hold on second date. You're in the middle of a second date update update. We're gonna find out how the couple is doing right after you here part two. If you're just joining us, surprise, it's a second We're supposed to wait till she was on the phone. Well, it's a second date update minus the date part. Yeah.

But there was a lot of party because one of our listeners, Chris unknowingly scheduled to meet up on the exact night Kayla's friends planning a surprise birthday party for her. Yeah. So he showed up, got rushed in and told to hide behind a couch along with forty other people that he didn't know, and he surprised Kayla ended up hanging out for about three hours, mostly with Kayla's dog, but yeah, also with some of her friends and even her at one point. And Chris, how did you say it ended

that night between you guys? I felt good. It was weird, obviously, but she was happy I was there and that we were definitely hanging out the next weekend. All right, good. Maybe it's just a scheduling thing. I mean, she did say it was her birthday the week after because they were doing the party a week before. Maybe she's just been too busy. Yeah, I mean that's it's definitely possible. I get that, But like she's not responding even to text. Yeah, Brooke,

what a dumb suggestion that. I hope you feel embarrassed by that. I don't, okay, but you know you should a numb too embarrassment At this point, for my left, it doesn't happen anymore. Now, you just made it sad. Okay, let's just call Kayla and hopefully put some positivity into this call. All right? You ready to do this, Chris? I hope? So? Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey, is this Kayla? H Is this right now? With work and Jeffrey in the morning? Yay? I'm sorry? What happy birthday? Yeah?

We heard it's your birthday. Um, I'm sorry, but it's a joke. It's something I don't I just don't have No, it's it's not a joke. It's actually it's actually something that we're doing called a second date. Update. Yes, we're all wondering about a hangout that you had recently with

one of our listeners named Chris. Oh. He reached out to us and told us, you guys are supposed to go out on a date, but then it kind of got derailed because your friends threw you surprise birthday party and he, like he said, he got like swept up into the party somehow, which is I thought it was sounded like a really cute night. Really weird. Well, don't work. Sorry, we didn't mean it's a blindside you in surprise with

all that stuff. We're just really trying to help our listener Chris understand what happened at the party, because he felt like you guys were getting along and you were supposed to hang out the next weekend and that never happened. So he's just a little bit confused. Uh yeah, I mean it was such a weird thing that had happened because basically I was not only surprised that there was

a surprise party. But then I was like, it was a double air of surprise because Chris being there, and so it was like just a clown car full of emotions, I suppose. And it was super nice that he stayed, but it was weird because I guess he laughed and then he came back. He left and came back you mean to the party. I mean I didn't see him,

but I just assumed he did that. What do you mean, Well, because there was a gift from Chris that was on the present table, and I mean, he didn't know that there was going to be a surprise party, at least he said he didn't, and my friend said he didn't. That's so sweet though, So you think he like rushed out in the middle of the party to go get I think that's so kind. Yeah, but it wasn't because when I opened up his presence, it was Skims shapewear. Oh that is hard to get your hands on though.

It's a Kim Kardashian line of shapewear supposed to like slim you down. Yeah. Yeah, was it lingerie though? It just buy Skims because they do all sorts of difference. It was shapewear, and m I was so like horrifically offended. You know. He obviously he looked at me and then he was like, oh, I'm just gonna go run out and get shapewear for her. Why would he do that? That is that's really odd, especially for a first gifts.

But is there one of those things where he just saw, like it's a Kim Kardashian line and he figured like if I was gonna buy her makeup and I saw Kim k on it or something I look at it, maybe he didn't know it was shape where maybe he thought it was just like, look, I want you to know he never told us that he bought you a gift or anything about the skims, and he went on and on about how cute and hot you were when we talked to him. I mean, I just don't want

to have to think about it about him anymore. So you know, well, I'm sorry sorry to do this to you, Caleb, but we do have one more surprise. Chris is on the other line listening and he wants to talk to you. Hey wait wait what yeah? Um, I'm sorry, I'm like this is blowing away. I never left the party. I promise you so what you already had a gift with you when you showed up to a party that you didn't know what was going to happen. Du no, wait,

hold on you guys, this is this is Chris. Did you set this up to get me on the radio like this? Like I got I want to do when I couldn't get figure out any other way to like try to figure out like what I possibly did to make you not like even respond to text like let alone not go out with me again because you got you bought me. You must have left and got me some present that is demonstrative of how you look at my body or I like it was just so weird

and inappropriate. Dude, what were you thinking? Man? I don't even know what. I wouldn't even know where to buy shapewear like this is I don't know. I guess I'm sort of figuring out based on what everyone's saying what shapewear is. But look, all right, kind of embarrassing. I liked you a lot, like upon meeting you, and like there was this whole table of presence like from all your awesome friends, and I was like, I don't have anything for her. It's her birthday, and like this is

my first impression on her. And I don't know, Like I didn't think I drank too much, but maybe I just put something in my head. I was just crossed off one of the names on the gifts and I put my name on it. Oh. I know it's not a cool I know it's not a cool move, but I promise you it was like done with like the best intentions. Like I didn't open it. I didn't open it first chorus, because it's wrapped. Kayla, we want to hear from you. What what do you think about that?

My jaws just on the ground. So you're saying that president wasn't from you and it did take credit for a president somebody else was giving you, but it backfired on you. Is that better or worse than what you originally thought? Point? I mean, just like swimming in confusion. Right now, God, I will say, I will say it means that he is not some weirdo who's giving you shapewa.

I would have never I would have never looked at you and been like, oh man, she needs to alter anything about her appearance or about yourself as a person, like at all after like, no, he just needs to alter the name on this happy birthday. I mean, it sounds like he made a drunken, dumb mistake that he thought was going to impress and it backfired in the absolute right. But overall he seems like a pretty cool guy. And we'd like to send you guys out on another date.

If you're up for a kala, we'd pay for it. No presence. Yeah, that's actually a good thing this time. Yea, that typically isn't. Um. What do you think I will go out on a date with Chris if he helps me figure out who gave me shape where for my first Chris up for a little detective work? I'm in Yeah, guy, well I'll say this. You've now made a new listener.

We did it Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. It's been months since the surprise birthday scandal that rocked the radio waves, and now Chris and Kayla are both back to give us an update. Hey, guys, how's it going. You're keeping it tight, keeping it constraint. She can't breathe very well. That stuff is real. How you guys been? Yeah? Yeah, I'm really good. Good? Wait are you? So? Are you? Guys? Still seeing each other. Um, yeah, we have kept seeing

each other. Hey, welcome. That is cute, flirty, giggly. A couple that shapes together stays together. I like that. Actually, I mean, how has it been? No, it's been It's been really good. It's been really good. Um. So we decided we were gonna just kind of like take its flow for a while. But a couple of months in I did ask Kayla wanted to be official? Did you circle yes or no? Kayla? Oh, big fat yeah. Yeah. Anyway, it was funny actually, so like a little while after

we had like made the official boyfriend girlfriend. Um, she actually ended up throwing me a surprise party shape them. Yeah, I should have been a whole body shaping yeah, weight trainers. I didn't expected party. Yeah, would be. I actually thought about that, but I was like, you know what, let me be a little a little more clever. And I told all of his friends to come and bring a present. But the rule was that I wrote my name on all the presents. Friends. Well, you've got him so much stock.

He had such a great sense of humor about him, and actually it made me fall in love with him even more even using those terms. Wow. Well, It's good to know that you got over everything too, and now you guys were happy, and now it's a cute inside Joe. If you guys end up getting married, all the presents are going to be from Cale at the wedding. Thanks for keeping us updated. Guys, it's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.