Second date of to day. If a date doesn't go well and you know that it's your own fault, that's tough, but it's easier to live with because you can own it and learn from your mistakes. Yeah. Absolutely, that's a very progressive would think of it. Yeah, it's much worse though, when a date goes south because of something or someone that's totally out of your control. It's frustrating. And that's what one of our listeners, Laana said in her email. She also said she's a big fan of the show.
Oh cool, she doesn't miss a day. So Laana, first of all, thank you for suff listening, and tell us about the guy that you went out with what's his name? First of all, I just have to say, Hi, I'm excited you finally get your moment on the show. I mean, I'm sorry that it has to deal with a bad date, but we're glad you're here. Yeah, so let's get into your date. Tell us about the guy that you went out with. What's his name? So this guy's names Marcus.
How did you meet Marcus? We met him Bumble and yeah, he just seemed like really relaxed and fun like he had some photos of him like doing things other than just drinking, which is nice. What other things are there? He had actually a photo of him doing like drag racing. So I'm like, is that just a hobby or or you is that like a pretend photo. He's like, no, I swear I'm in that car right there. You just can't see me. So what did you and Marcus do for your date? I thought this was such a cute idea.
He suggested that we go have a little picnic in the park. Oh that's always fun. Yeah, so sweet low presh. And so we got there and he had this like giant picnic basket. Oh good man. Yeah, I mean, you never know if you're just showing up to a park and he's got some subway ready for you, or if he yeah right, but or if he actually went the extra mile and put together like some goods. Well, actually, he opens up the picnic basket and he pulls out bags of KFC oh clo. I mean, but that's delicious.
I say that's better. I think it'd be weird if he had a homemade sandwiches. I don't know. Oh, I was a guy read flag. I was really hoping for a circuity board or something. For her. What did you think, Lana? Was the KFC a good move or a bad one? Well? Actually, I started laughing hysterically because on my profile I say that I love KFC attention to details. Nicely done, sir, you can read. I mean, that's actually a lot of points.
I mean, don't you say a lot of Like I remember when I met my husband, he showed up with my coffee order and I just thought it was so sweet, like so thoughtful, just those little things. Okay, enough about Brooks boring dating, Like, let's get back to Lana. Keep us going with Marcus. What happened next? Yeah, so you know,
we had a great time. We were like eating our fried chicken and hanging out, and then I started getting these like furious texts and phone calls from my sister, which I tried to ignore for a while, but then I was like, oh no, maybe there's an emergency, Like maybe she got to a car accident. What was going on? She was mad at me because I borrowed one of her outfits. I borrowed the like cant suit thing. It's like a jumper kind It's okay, I mean, but that
didn't really affect your date at all. Did it. I don't know. I've lived with ten sisters and they get nastier. Did you guys get into a yelling match over the phone right in front of him? No, I mean I like walked away, and I mean I don't know exactly if you heard, but like I'm not shy, Like I'm pretty expressive and I cross me moving my hands around, Like when I was talking to her, marks like, why did you just spit on your phone? I mean, I
think that that's pretty simpl though. Didn't you just go back and tell him like, oh my god, my dumb little sister called me because she's mad I borrowed her clothes. Like don't you think that that would be He's probably gonna get a glimpse of what the No, you don't think so. I think that it's like kind of funny. That would be a red flag to me. I'd be like, oh, chefs, he doesn't get along even with her own family. That's not good. Was what was his attitude like when you
got back after talking with your sister? Yeah, I mean he seems like a little bit awkward. So I was like, why don't we just go over there to the little playground area and we'll go swinging swings and kind of lighten things up a little bit. How much you were moving your hands inflatable Carson. I think it depends on if this guy has a sibling or not, because if you have a sibling, you can understand that relationship like that, that tension is okay, that you still love the person.
That that's just sometimes how you communicate just an outfit you love. Yeah, well maybe we'll be maybe we'll be able to get a gauge about how he was feeling based on how the date ended. How did that go? Yeah, it was fine, Like we didn't kiss or anything, which would have been kind of weird in the middle of the park, but he did hug me, and you know, he had go to his buddy's birthday party and I had a dinner to go, so we couldn't like linger
very long. But I thought we had a great time, and in like the grand scheme of things, I actually would be open to a relationship with this guy, Like he seems like definitely marriage materials. Oh my goodness, Oh, your sister isn't so much trouble. She screwed this up for you. All right. Well, let's see if the sister drama continues. We'll play a song, we'll come back, We'll call Marcus for you and try and get your second date update. Okay, yeah, you guys are awesome. Thank you
so much. All right, hold on, you're in the middle of a second date update update. We're gonna find out how the couple is doing right after you here. Part two. Sibling arguments don't end with childhood. They continue well into adulthood, and today one of our listeners, Lana, is tattling on her younger sister, saying, Mom, Lisa's ruining my date again because she recently had a picnic in the park with
a guy named Marcus. While it was happening, her sister kept spamming her phone accusing her of borrowing an outfit without permission. Yeah, basically a classy felony. So eventually Lana had to just take a moment to answer a call, yell at her cis and put her in her place. But now she's worried that even though the rest of the date went well, that may have been a turn off for Marcus. Now, Lana, we didn't ask you, have you been talking very much with Marcus after the date
or not at all like, is he ghosting you completely? No, he hasn't ghosted me completely, Like if I texted him, he'll text me back, but he hasn't asked me. I'm another date and that was like a week and a half ago that we went out. But it's a good sign that he's still at least keeping in touch, maybe just replying to be nice maybe, or maybe he's just waiting for you to ask him on a date, like women can do that too. He's the one that made the first move with the KFC in the park. Maybe
it's your turn. That's what we're doing right now. But she could have asked before us, That's all I'm saying. Oh, okay, you know we've got a team around her. But it's all right. Yeah, I guess I could have. But I don't know. I like it when the guy like makes the ever, you know, I don't want to just be like shaping after some guy. I bet your sister would have asked the guy out without having to call a radio station. You did not just say that I went there.
I went there a girlfriend girlfriend I do. I have a younger sister. We haven't spoken in years. She also borrowed one of your out she did unforgivable. Now that I'm all riled up, let's give Marcus a call. We'll try and get your second date update. You ready, Lana? Yeah, I'm ready. Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey, I'm looking for Marcus. Who is this? Hey, my name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Sorry, I'm not interested. No, no, no, no. This isn't like
an advertisement or anything. We're doing a segment on a show called a second Date Update? Am I in the radio right now? Yeah? Maybe? Is that? Okay? It's all just for fun. It's a positive things we have to tell you. Okay. The reason why we're calling you is because you recently went out with a woman who had a great time with you, but she's confused after your date. Why you're not reaching out to ask her out again? Is her name? Lana? It is? You know who we're
talking about. I heard you bush right now. You're giggling as we're mentioning her. I mean that sounds like a good thing. Yeah, no, I she's great. I like her a lot. All right, Um, I just don't know if it's the best match. What makes you say that? Did she tell you. We went out, We went out one. Yeah, she told us all about your picnic in the park date and how thoughtful you were that you got KFC because on her bio it said how much she loved of KFC. I would say, good move on your part, sir, Sure,
thank you. She thought you were very thoughtful and very funny and she had a great time with you. So she's really hoping to see you again and doesn't understand why you haven't been in communication. Yeah. So did she mention she has a sister? Yeah she did. Didn't hear that. Yeah, she's embarrassed. Yeah, she knows that. It kind of got out of hand and she went off to yell at her sister a little bit because of some sibling drama. But no, no, it's it's not. I totally get family drama.
I mean, I you know my siblings. Did I fight too? It wasn't that. Okay. Did she mention her sister. She calls her like her little sister. But they're twins. Oh, they're twins, So she's like two minutes littler than she is or something like that. Like twins like to do you that? Yeah, I guess twins do that? Okay, why is that a problem. The last person I dated was also a twin. Whoa, what are the Oh well, are
you worried that it's Launa's sister? No? No, no, no, It's just like, so this last person I dated, I dated her for a while and oh, this is embarrassing. All Right, I'm just gonna say it. Okay, when I met this woman that I was seeing, when I met her twin, I found myself more attracted to her than the person that I was actually dating. Were they were they identical twins? Yeah, so some may have a personality trait that you are more attracted to you than the
look alike. So you're like, hey, I want that one. It's like, one instance, what does that have to do with Laana? That has nothing to do with Launa exactly. I just have this fear that, like maybe I have some weird thing inside me. Were like, when there's a twin, I end up wanting to be with the one that I'm not with, and I felt like I might or I might want to and that's why it ended. And
I just don't want to go through that again. Okay, you following You're worried that if you end up dating Laana, you'll eventually meet her sister and be more attracted to her sister. Yeah, because of one experience you had with identical twins. I mean that's a big stretch, man, It's a big leap. I mean, this is something that we definitely need to talk to Laana about. I guess I should, but I don't even know how I'd like even bring it up with her. So weird. Yeah, that would that
would be it is. The good news is you already kind of did because Lana's been on the other line listening and she wants to talk to you. Oh my god, no, yeah, yeah, la Marcus, that is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. You had commitment issues, buddy, Like that's the only reason that you would suddenly be attracted to another woman. There are a lot of attractive women out there. Oh well, first of all, him, thank you for setting this up.
That's cool. Yeah. Well, clearly you don't have the boss to talk to me about this. You kuld have just said something like as a joke and it would have been up. Like, I'm not worried. I'm trying to just not do anything bad. I'm not. I didn't. Oh, I've heard just such a little whiny Oh my god, your sister. But here's the thing, Marcus, what if Launa is the hotter of the two sisters and you already went out with her? I mean, okay, so you missed out. Bro,
you're of the two identical twins. Are you mad? Then at his reasoning? Is what I'm getting at Launa. That is the most immature, stupidest think I've ever heard of, a reason that you don't want to go on another day because you think you're going to fall in love with my sister who you've never met. Right, they asked me the question. I was just being honest. I mean he did know. He did know it was weird, right, and he didn't know how to bring it up to you. And I mean, Marcus, you can kind of see how
ridiculous that thought is. Yeah, but you couldn't understand how it's weird that I dated twins and now I'm with someone else who's twins. You can understand like that's weird too. In a way, he's looking out for you, Laana, like he doesn't want to accidentally break your heart. Yeah, oh please, you know what he is looking out for me by not texting me back is clearly he's a mess and I don't need to get involved with that. Well, no,
don't write him off yet. There has to be a way that we can find out once and for all whether or not he will be attracted to your sister. Maybe we can do some sort of blind test, ye where you're going with you and your sister both meet him at the same time. He takes the blindfold off and he has to choose which one is Laana. That sounds like the worst idea for la history of ideas? Is it the most romantic move? That is terrible? What if he choose his rights? Yeah, Laana, No, I bet
your sister would be up for you. I told you, Jeff, don't go there. Okay, so I won't go there, But how about I go here? Where I ask Marcus, would you like to go out on another date with Laana? We'll pay for it. Now that we've talked about it, I do think you're right. I'm probably silly, and I really I would love to go on a second date with you. And I I'm sorry I was being weird. I think I was just caught up guard and I didn't want to be a jerk. Why are you. Jeffrey's
doing the heart symbol with his has right now. It's really weird. It's nice. What I mean, I'm feeling the love coming through from Marcus. How about you, Lana? What do you say? Give him one more shot? You did really like him, Lana? I mean, and he's a person who can admit when he's an idiot. I mean, yeah, okay, so he's sweet, but like not if we go out again, I'm just going to be worrying the whole time that when he meets my sister he's gonna want to date her. Well,
I mean that's you also jump into a conclusion. Just make sure that they never meet. Yeah, problem solved. So what do you say we'll pay for it, KFC. He might have to do something nicer than KFC this time. I promise, I promise I will. All right, right, congratulate Laitions you two successful second date update. Thanks guys, and I promise if I meet your sister, I won't feel anything such a charmer broke and Jeffrey in the morning.
So that was a second date from a couple months ago, and we asked Laana and Marcus to come back onto the show and give us an update. On where they're at. Unfortunately, Lana's the only one who responded, Oh and she's on the line with us, Lana, welcome back. Oh my gosh, hey guys, how are you okay? You know, sometimes a second date doesn't turn into a third or a force Well I'm guessing. Well we did actually have a third and fourth date. Oh yeah, yeah, like a bunch of
more dates and they were really good. Oh oh oh, so are you one of those couples where he's like, honey, I don't want to do this, you just go on the r Yeah, what happened? Sounds like there's a butt coming. Um, yeah, there's a big butt. What happened? Well, okay, so I took him to a house party. Yeah, and surprise, surprise, my sister was there. Oh please don't tell me. It's what he thought was going to happen, where he like, dug your sister. Well, in the back of my mind,
I was like, okay, I know what he said. I have to just keep him apart. They must not be alone together. You're like a chaperone at a middle school dance, like, hey, balloon's length in between. Yeah, and and nothing happened. I walked my sister out, I said goodbye, and then I go back inside and I find him in a room with my best friend making out. Oh you are you serious? I am more upset about your best friend. I mean, she was plastered, like she probably would have made out
with a wall. But I learned my lesson. If a guy is worried about cheating or doing some sketchy behavior and he admits that to you, like, listen to him the first time, that's the real lesson here. All right, we appreciate the update, Lna. I'm sorry it turned out the way it did. Good luck and love Lana. Yeah, thanks for help. I appreciate you. Guys trying broke and Jeffrey in the morning,
