Second Date Update UPDATE Podcast: Car-Jacked

clarity after they've been ghosted following a bad date. And I say we try because honestly, a lot of them end up not working out. Yeah, And I'm not I'm not gonna blame anybody for that because it maybe Alexis because like if we're talking to a guy who even has a whiff of money on it, she just starts batting her eyes asking for his number. How did they hear that through the phone? Even it's weird, it's amazing, I just know. And then she starts undermining the other

woman on the call. IM I know, I'm kidding. Bad influence over in that late this corner, but the Richmond every once in a while, we actually do a good job, and we'll get two people to agree to go out, and we want to know what happened next. Oh yeah,

that's why we created second date update updates. I love these because I feel like we're really invested in people's relationships by the time we're off the phone without Yeah, so this gives us an opportunity to check in a couple of weeks or maybe a few months after their original call, and we're doing one today. Might remember this from a while back. It featured a lost car and yeah,

weird adventure following. We're going to play the date. Yes, a lot of people wanted to know what's happened after this, so we're going to play the first two parts and then we're gonna have the couple back on the phone right afterwards to let us know what's up. It's your second date update update right now, Second date Update. We got an urgent email for a second date update from

one of our listeners who says they need our help immediately. Well, okay today, And we actually had a different call scheduled with another listener before this, but we had to move them back to tomorrow because this one can't wait a lot. We've got Marissa on the phone. Apparently she went out on a date last night, and now if we can't get a hold of the guy, she says she's going to get the authorities involved. What were the right people that come to Marissa? Are you okay? Are you in danger? No?

I'm not in danger, but I'm really kissed off and angry because this should not have happened. And I'm about to call the cop. Oh okay, it's a good instinct to always call us for any emergency before you call the police. Well, we'll get to it in just a second, but first, tell us what's the name of the guy that you're trying to get in touch with? Christopher? I met him on this app. Okay, Okay, I think we all need to take a deep breath, because like there

is some anger coming out in those words. I've even said anything bad, Like tell us more about Christopher er Well, I met him on this dating app, and I always crossed my friends with everybody I date on these apps through my roommate Maddie, So I told her about this guy and and she was like, yeah, it looks great. You should definitely go ahead. H That's how they always get you, don't they They always get you that way, looking all nice and respectable. Yeah, and so I go

on the state right, and it's fantastic. I'm not saying it wasn't great time. I've never had this much fun ever. This is not what I was expecting. So what did you and Christopher do? We went to this bar and then after we went to a dance club and it was it was really awesome. So then we went to my place obviously because we were all like feeling it. We hooked up and then we woke up and we were both so hung over. But he was like, let me get you breakfast, and I was like, oh my gosh,

it's a dream come true. Yes, yeah, okay, wait wait wait, hold on was this this morning? It was this yesterday morning? This was yesterday morning, Okay. So he was like, I'll get breakfast and can I use your car because he didn't have his car because we uber at home. Okay, And so he left and then hours passed and I'm texting him and nothing, nothing, nothing for like three hours. Oh he stole your wait he still has your car? Yes? And he never came back. Oh my god, so you

still haven't had breakfast. Yet not the point. Not the point right now, we don't even care about this guy anymore. You need your car back and get this. He picked up after like the fourth freaking hour, and he says, I'm so sorry. I'll explain everything to you, but I hope you'll understand what and then he and then he like hung up the phone. Yeah, he hung up, And I was like, what he must be like in trouble with the law. This is crazy and he's forwarding all

my calls to voicemail. So I would really like you guys to call him so he like someone can get through to him. I think I just so you know, I think you're being super kind and giving him one last chance to bring the car back before he becomes a legit felon. Yeah, and he sounded like he was really freaked out as well, But I don't know if he was just lying to me. It was a ten second brief encounter, so I'm not sure if he's lying

or not. He was in the drive through line trying to decide between a bacon sandwich and a sausage on a really bad time. Don't trust the one night stand that took your car and hasn't returned it. I know, you guys are like laughing and it's really funny and this is like a crazy situation. But to me, it's like life or death, Like this is my car. Guy just randomly hooked up with me. I don't know, like what kind of disease is this guy? He's obviously like lying.

I don't know what we're doing. Yeah, maybe it really like this is really serious, all right, So mrs A. Look, I mean, there's no guarantee when we call him that he'll pick up. It's just gonna be a random phone number. Like have you had some of your other friends try and call him first, Maddie, She's tried, Maddie. Did Maddie

get through to him? No? No voicemail, voicemail. And we don't know anything else about this guy, right because you just met him on a dating nap, like you know, I mean, I can for you his his dating profile location would probably be more than like if he likes to hike or not. We need all the background information we can get. So here's what we're gonna We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, and we'll call this guy for you. And if this doesn't work. I guess

you're gonna have to call the authorities. Yeah, and did I mention he might have diseases men that that's a sticking point. But no, we're gonna play a song. We'll come back and we'll try and get you your second data Dato games. Yes, please, thank you, and maybe eat something. Hold on, all right, it's official. This might be the craziest first state ending we've ever heard on the show. Yeah. I mean it sounds like being over dramatic, like he tends to do drama king, but you're right, I'm serious.

Because we got an urgent email today from a listener named Marissa who had to do a phone call today. Could not wait or she's going to get the authorities involved people wi She was like, oh, do mind right away, it's an emergency, but like this is a legit emergency. Yeah, I don't know. She may need to get the authorities involved. It could happen because Marissa went out with a guy

named Christopher. He ended up spending the night at her place and then the morning offered to drive out and bring back some breakfast for the two of them, so she let him borrow her car to go do that, and then Christopher never brought it back. In the last twenty four hours, She's called and texted him a bunch of times, and he's only picked up once and quickly said he couldn't really talk, but he'll explain later, and

then hung up. So now Marissa's depending on us to get a hold of him and figure out what the hell's going on, or she'll have no choice. What's called the authorities, right, Marissa, Yes, I don't know why you're waiting so like you've been having me on the waiting line, like I'm freaking out. Only here, it's just what we do. We have to play a song in between the first and second part. It's just the radio business. And honestly, like at this point a couple of minutes isn't probably

going to make a big difference to me. It's like days. I know, I know it is. I dated a guy who was in for grand theft auto for a while too. Yeah, I'm not kidding, I did. I really want to get to the phone call, But first, Marissa, before we do that, I just need to ask if he answers because he might just ignore us too. Is there any other details about the actual date that I could bring up to him. I just might need to ease into it. That's all

I'm saying before I started accusing him of things. Okay, well, whatever you're doing, just get my car back. That's my one mission right now. Here we go, I'm gonna dial the phone number. Let's see if he answers all right, Yeah, okay, your call has been forwarded to an automatic voice message to Okay, he sent us straight to voicemail on that one. I figured that was gonna happen. He's not answering anybody's call. Why would you answer someone's cause if you just stole

a car and I got to pick up an unknown number. Well, okay, we have another line. Let's try a different line here. Who's this? Hey? Is this Christopher? Yeah? Who's this Christopher? Okay, don't hang up all right. My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. I really need to talk with you. Okay, you're in a lot of trouble, but that is not why you started. Jeffrey, doing this is important. I need you to not hang up. Christopher.

What's going on here? We're doing something called a second date update because someone's trying to get in touch with you and you're ignoring them. Oh yeah, if this is Massa, I'm dealing with it. Okay, wait wait wait wait, hold on, man, Christopher, dealing with what? What are you dealing with on a squeeze? None of your business? And I talked to her when I'm ready. I can't talk to right now because I'm not. I'm not ready for it. Okay, well hold on, when

I'm ready, I will just relax, Christopher. Okay, we're like your last chance right now before it goes out statewide that you're on some wanted list. Man. And I'm not exaggerating. We don't want that to happen. I mean, I can see why she's concerned. All right. It's not like I'm not I'm not blind here. I It's just I'm screwed. Honestly. She thinks I sold her car and it's not what happened. Well, you took it and didn't return it, and provide an

explanation for why. I understand why she see this guy. And that's what I'm worried about, because she thinks that I took it, but it's not what happened. Just tell don't hold the cops. I don't want to be a skeptic here, But if a guy who stole a car and doesn't bring it back tells me not to call the cops, maybe I shouldn't trust him. Yeah, no, definitely trust him. Look, dude, you're gonna have some more here, because Marissa's freaking out just telling it when to get

breakfast sandwiches, and I went to two different places. They were both closed. The car runs out of gas, so I went on. I walked to get gas, and I come back right and the car has been told. Oh so now I've tracked down where the car is and they want two hundred and fifty dollars to get the car out. But how long did it take you to go get gas? Like a tope situation, isn't I don't work for the police. I don't know. So the car's impounded. It's an impound. Car has impounded, right, I need two

hundred fifty bucks to get it out. I don't have that kind of money right now. I'm talking to a guy today, so I'm gonna probably work it out with him, and I'll have the money and I can get to the car back. I was just hoping to get it to it right away. I don't want her to think that I took it. I'm doing my best. So do you believe him? I don't know. Do you believe it? I believe that men like to try and fix things without telling anybody what they're doing and then inevitably make

it worse. You just need to talk to her, man, Yeah, seriously, this would have been so much better if you had just told Marissa upfront, like, hey, I had a problem and ran out of gas. Why are you rupturing you? I'm not lecturing you. I'm telling you. It's a good idea to tell the girl whose car you're borrowing that there's problems with the car. And it's also a good idea to drive twenty miles to go get a practice, which, for sakes, maybe she should go hook up with her

and then steal her car. That's what you can do this, okay? Well, the good news, as soon as I get the car back, you can steal it and date her, all right. The good news is, even if you're not willing to tell her directly, you've kind of told her indirectly because I need to let you know. She's been on the other line listening this entire time. Dating. Are you kidding me. No, I'm not kidding you. She needed to hear this. Christophers there, I've been trying to reach you. You haven't been picking

up your phone. This is crazy, I know, Marisa. I'm so sorry. I'm trying to fix the situation. I don't want to talk too. I've fixed it, yes, But why didn't you just tell me? You just tell me it's fine, Like I would have accepted that. This is crazy, that you're keeping everything secret, right, it makes me really, I just want to feel really stupid, like you ran out of gas. I don't know, you know, it's kind of boot on it. It's just it's awful. Yeah, but I need to get to work, like I need to get

my car back. Yeah, I'm so sorry. I feel terrible about all this. But I mean we did have a really fun time though, right, I mean that was some fun bad dancing that we did, right, Yes, until this. Look, I'm just trying to whiten the mood. It's a situation I don't have any control over and can still get you that sandwich dollars. Right, you would have lightened my

mood if he told me right away. That would have been great and I would have been knowing what's going on and be able to get my car, be able to eat you. I could uber and get there before they told my car. Like, I really wish you contacted me. I wish you answered the phone. I need to know. I wish you. I wish you'd put gas in the car. Oh, I was just getting a lot of pointing fingers and this is not productive. I wish we never met. Dude, Christopher,

what's your plan with the car? How are you getting money? I told you I would have talked to a guy later today, and we're going to work this all out. But on the off chance that done work, maybe we could have like a backup plan that we figure out. Now, what's the backup plan? I mean I feel responsible for what happened, So I mean I could at least pay for half. If you want to vend on me one

hundred and fifty dollars right, what we'll hold up? You want her to send you money and just trust that the car is an impound and that your story is legit, because there's still in that chance that you stole this thing and that you're like on the lamb or something. I don't know the money, I will okay, would I be talking about this on the radio if I hold the car. I mean, I don't know. I'm inniscent here. I just I just need enough money to get the

car to impound. I guess I have about one hundred dollars. I mean, if you want to chip in, that's fine, or you know you can even nd hurt your car and telling I get the car. We're gonna wait, Marissa, are you Marissa? Are you buying any of this? Do you trust you? What? I will give you the one fifty under one condition. What's that that you have my car back at my apartment within two hours. I can do that. I can do that, Marissa. This guy still

has your car and you're actually gonna send him more money. Look, I'll have it there in a couple of hours. I know exactly where it is the last time. It's not going to be a problem. I trust you, but you better be here. Okay. Oh, once the Venmo payment goes through. After that happens, then Christopher, we would like to send you and Marissa out on a second date and we'll pay for it. Oh, this is romance. Let's talk here. Okay, he minors, great, two hours, that sounds great. Is that

what you said? Yeah, yeah, I had a great time. Oh my god, Now I believe him. He's like, sure, No, no, Marissa, this is gonna be your fault at this point. Okay, when your car never returns, you're only gonna have yourself to blame. Like you seriously think that he's not going to come back and give me my car, Like no, he sounds to me, no, no, no, you guys are all thinking with your hearts. You need to be thinking with your brains. I don't know what you're doing. You're

gonna get robbed even greater. Like you guys are so cynical. Honestly, I would have hung off if I stole the car, but I'm still here talking about it. Yeah yeah, I just need the money and then I'll get the far out because you saw one to take the money. The only way to truly test this, Marissa, is to send him the full two hundred and fifty dollars and see if he does the right thing. If you're serious, I'll do it. No, you're welcome. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

That was a second eight from a few months back. Oh my gosh. And when we were done, there was a lot of questions left unanswered. Yeah, normally we want to know if they get together again. I don't know if she got her card back. A lot of people have been wondering. That's why we've reached out in today. Marissa and Christopher are both back on with us. Welcome back you guys. Hi. Okay, it sounds like you're on friendly terms, which is a good sign. Now they were

just being nice to me, bro. I have that effect on people, do you. Yeah, taken charge into me the worst over here. It's a slow process. But so Christopher, everybody wants to know were you able to get Marissa's car back for her or did she have to pay for it? She did get her car back, I'm gonna say that right away. Did she get it back or did you get it back for I had to get it back for Honestly, I didn't have the money to get it out, and I had to pon my watch.

Oh my god, wow, Okay, you pawned your watch to raise the money to get it out. It was the right thing to do. That's what I like. I had to do that for her. You know. Oh wow, you are a night in shining. I know, I really am. Wow. Okay, okay, So I mean what happened after that? So, Marissa, you got your car back? And I did. He told me that he was sorry and that he pointed his watch to get it back for me, and I just felt that.

So it's like, let me entertain this date. You guys, you went on another Are you went on a pity date with him? Yeah? Christopher's like I felt that for him. Well that's amazing. How did date number two? Goodrove? It actually wentn't surprisingly well. But this last part is gonna get you guys. So I walk after this car and it's not there. What it is? A joke? Is this you're pulling a joke? You had like one of your

guy friends toe it or something. No, no, no, I parked too close to a fire, eyedrate, it was insane. We went to the same toeyard. Oh my god, you're back again. But it's our toeyard. That's the thing. What did you call this time to get your car back? So? Where are you guys? Now? Have you gone out on more dates? We're still dating somehow? Like how did you meet him while he stole my car? Guys? Know, if you get married, you have to get married in that Toeyard,

Now that's a given. Well wow, congratulations though you guys, that's an amazing story. Please keep us updated on what happens next in your weird relationship because we want to know. If you guys know, we have a ruled now we only kick ubers Okay, yeah, Broke and Jeffrey in the morning.