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Give him my number. I'll show how a real man sows a sweater. Is it all the same guy? It's that one dude, like twenty times a day. Yeah, but I feel like his name is Randy. A lot of the times, though, our listeners just want to know what happened after a couple agreed to go out again. Yeah, even I do. We don't get updates that often. Want to know are they still together? Did they break up? Right? Well, today we have an update from two people who were
on with us a few months ago. You might remember. Their names are Laurie and jarm Oh my gosh, how could you not forget Charms? We paid for them to go out on another date, So we're going to play their original second Date update and then immediately after we'll find out where their relationship is today. Dude, this guy is like infamous to me. It's the return of jarm
in your second Date update update. Right after this second date update, we got an email from one of our listeners who said he wants to apologize to us in advance for what's about to happen in today's call. Oh no good, I don't know what he did yet, but he's on the phone with us, and his name. Tell me if I'm getting this right, is it jarm jarm? Yeah? Well, I feel like you need to apologize for making fun of his name already, Jeffrey, I just want to make
sure it's a unique name. Is it short for like Jarmonjelo? What? Uh? It's actually just short for Jarmond Okay, name Jarmon arm. All right, let's move back. So, Jarn, you said you wanted to apologize to us in your email, So go ahead, go ahead? What oh? Um? Yeah, so I wanted to apologize in advance. Um, but you do not accept Oh, I'm kidding. I'm kidding, Jar, you're apologizing to us or to your date. I'm apologizing to you. Why, Well, because I'm a fan of the show, and I listened to
you guys. I listened to the second date updates all the time. Oh, we hate that, You're right, I mean, that's not why we do this at all. Well, so the thing is that I hear people talk about crazy things that they do on their dates, and none of that happened with me. So that's that's what I would like to apologize for. How dare you you're apologizing for calling us with a boring story? Yeah, I just I would like your help. But it really was just a
regular old, boring date. Okay, that's all right, Jar. Why don't you tell us the name of the girl that you want us to call? Her name is Laurie? Okay, where'd you meet her on a dating app? Right? Um? Which I also got from the show. You guys are always talking about that's a great way to meet people. Yeah, I feel like it's already going to turn out bad if you're taking data and advice from us. But to continue, Jarm,
what did you and Lorie do? Well? I posted a picture and I know cool people call it a pick, but she was the only person who matched with me. Sorry, we thank you're cool man. Oh okay, well, thank you, thank you. Welcome. We met at a restaurant, you know, to be safe, we had we had dinner, yes, and it was over okay. And what were the highlights there? Arms you need a little bit more detail maybe, Um, I guess that's the problem because I pretty much just
told you the highlights. Okay. Really, so, like the best thing that happened is that you went to dinner and talked. Well, there was one possible thrilling moment. Oh okay, do tell I did try to tell her some elephant jokes to lighten the mood. Oh can we hear? Can we hear one? Try out some material at us? Oh? Sure, yeah, yeah, I can tell you one. Um. Okay, So one some hunters were after an elephant and the elephant um didn't
know what to do. So he met his friend Aunt on the road and he told Aunt this problem that he had, and Aunt said, don't worry, just hide behind me, you get it, because he's small. Well, the Aunt's small, right right? Yeah? So John, did she crack up like we are? Yeah? Well, not really. I did try a few more, but I kind of gave up in the middle of my fourth one. She didn't seem to get it. Yeah, you can't expect all these people that you date to
get the highbrow elephant humor I made. I would say, like, if she's not laughing ever the first one, I wouldn't go to the phone. But but Jarm's an optimist. Yeah, what was the date like at the end, Jarm, we just said good night, we shook hands, and that was it. Oh no, sure, yeah, are you going to be upset if that's the problem, Jarm, if she was just too bored on the date, I mean, I guess I wouldn't find it that out of the ordinary for me. I mean,
I'm not an exciting person. Oh, jo body, So I'm not. I mean it's not something that I struggle with. I've accepted it. I'm a pretty boring dude. Okay, Arm, we're not gonna let you be boring. Okay, We're gonna pull through for you. Yeah. Yeah, and this is pretty exciting that you're doing this. Look at you. You're on the You're stepping out of your comfort zone there, Jarm. Yeah. And you know, I've heard you guys work miracles before, and considering she's the only person I matched up with,
I thought maybe you could work your magic here. We got this job. We're gonna pull a miracle for you right now. We're gonna play a song. Come back, call Laurie and get your second date update. Okay, okay, thank you. Let me hear you be really excited about it. Jarm, I am that was that's I am very friend. Well plasng and do it after this. When he goes on a hot date, he's home and in bed by eight pm. His go to romantic move is to comment on the
cleanliness of your silverware. When he tells an elephant joke, he tells four of them, all in a row. He's the least boring man in the world, and his name is jarm Arm. JARMI there, yes, I'm here. Okay, there he is. There's that intro for you. Jar Jarm went out with a girl named Laurie, and he's worried he may have been a little bit too boring on his date. But Jarm, I don't believe you're boring. I think there's something in your life that you're passionate about. We just
don't know it yet. Oh um, when I was fourteen, I had asked a collection. Oh I also had a stamp collection, Jarmu. We also had a sick cat that Pete on the stamp collection. So yeah, you are interesting, jarm I love you and we never asked you this. Have you actually tried reaching out to Laurie yet or is this the first time I have? She hasn't responded, Okay, and what did you like about her? Well? I like
that we matched? Okay, well the app? All right, that the app match, You're the only one that Well they both find each other attractive. That's a good start. They sound perfect to me. Yeah. Well, technically she never said that she thought I was attractive, but I can verify that I think she is. Okay, all confirmed? All right, jarm I feel like I'm gonna get the We're gonna get the female version of you on the phone here in about thirty seconds. Let's find out. Okay, we're gonna
call Laurie for you right now? Are you ready? I am ready? Are you amped up? My palms are a little sweaty, but please yeah, helped me? All right, all right, I'm gonna die the number right now here we go. Hello, how can I speak to Laurie? Please? Did? Is she? Hey, Laurie? How are you doing? This is young Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, him, I'm good. How are you? Oh? You sound like you listen. Well, it's so funny because I just talked about this show
the other night. What complaint blog were you on this time? No? Um, I was talking about it with a date who I'm now like suspicious might be actually the one initiating this call. You're really good, Laurie. What's the name of your date? Jarm? Did he ask you guys to call me? It is Jarn? Yes, he did, so, Wait, you guys were talking about us? We were? Yeah. Was it a fun conversation for you? Um?
I mean he brought it up the show that it's like something he listens to and likes a lot, and so we were just kind of talking about it, and I've definitely heard the show before, but it sounds like he listens a lot. Okay, So is that why you're not calling him back? Because he listens to the show, he must be a terrible person. No, no, no, no, not at all. Jarn told us a little bit about your date, and he really likes you, and he's caught onto the fact that you're not responding to him anymore.
He wants to know the reason why. I mean, it's not that I am not responding. I just needed a little bit of time. That means you're not responding. Wait, that means that you had actually thought about going out with him again. Listen, the date was fun. He's like, really cute. He's got this kind of funny Michael Sarah vibe thing going on. Oh my god, I could totally see that analogy. Actually, yeah, I mean he was worried that he was too boring for you, and it wasn't
like a negative thing. He knows fully, very self aware of his boring level. I think it's funny. I like his sort of his personality and his blackness. It's just I just was having some kind of trouble processing. It's this weird thing that happened. Oh what weird thing. I don't know if he told you, guys, um that he was telling some jokes. It's a cable. Oh yeah, elephant jokes. We heard the one about the aunt. Yeah, yeah, we didn't get the other three that he told you, but
we heard the aunt one. Yeah, well I didn't love them because they weren't They weren't very funny. Is that why? No? No, Um, it's not that I don't think he's funny. It's just he couldn't have known. But um, I actually have some history with elephants. Your X is an elephant. No, but my uncle was actually just on a safari last year and there was a pretty bad accident with an elephant.
Who No, Yeah, and like the first elephant joke he made, I tried to kind of like avoid it and not really laugh at it and just move on from it, but he kept telling elephant joke. Oh my god, how would anyone know? Though? Yeah, did you tell him that you had an uncle that had a running with an elephant?
It sounds like a joke in it of itself. I mean, I know it's not because being honest, I know, I know it sounds crazy, but like, honestly, it was really traumatic and I wasn't, like really still not ready to talk about it, and I definitely didn't want to talk about it on a first date. And I know it sounds crazy, but my uncle was really hurt. I mean,
he was still recovering. Well, I feel like maybe Jarms should know why you were not laughing and why you were turned off by that, Like you never told that to him. I didn't. You're right, I just wasn't really ready to talk about it. Don't you think he has a right to know though? That That's why I mean eventually, yeah, yeah, just don't like you. Yeah, everything else is fine, It's just that one thing kept happening, you know. Yeah, well more is about to happen because Jarm is actually on
the phone and he's been listening this whole time. What Yeah, he heard and he really wants to talk with you, Jarm. Wait hold up, who's happening right now? Yeah, he's been listening. Sorry, Oh, I just want to say how sorry I am. I really I had no idea, hey, Jarm, Um, wow, all right, this is like I'm just a little cut off guard. I wasn't really ready for this. Um, if you don't mind me asking, um, was it an Indian elephant or an African bush elephant? What? It's not important, Arm, It
doesn't matter. I actually honestly don't even know. It's kind of besides the point, you know. Yeah, yeah again, Laurie, I'm I'm really sorry. Um, thank you. Can I can I just ask was it a kick or a trampling? Trying to figure out about the elephant attack Terma, like, really doesn't matter what kind of elephant was or how the accident happened. I really don't want to keep rehashing this. Yeah, John, this isn't like elephants CSI. We don't need to get
to the bottom of this case. We're trying to get back to the date. Okay, maybe drive you should concert on the fact that she actually really liked you. Maybe say something nice to Laurie about how you felt about her. Good job, Laurie. I think you are beautiful and I really enjoy talking with you. And you know, if if elephants are no, no, go with something else, try something else. There's literally like an elephant in the room, and it's
like it really means it this time. What I was going to say is if elephants are a problem, we don't have to ever talk about elephants again. Okay, that's insinuating. I think that's for the best. Yeah, that would be great. I'm just not yet, you know. It's still really really fresh. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I totally understand that. And in the meantime, if you wouldn't mind letting me know if anyone in your family had any sort of traumatic experience with zebras, because I
do know a lot about that species. That is a good, good question. Zebras are safe, Jarms, Zebras are safe? All right? Okay, Well, I'm sensing some positivity here, So with that in mind, we would like to offer to send you and Jarm out on a date, and we'll pay for it. Jarm will not make any elephant jokes. I can't wait to hear the zebra jokes. Yes? Is that he? Yesn't say that I know zebra jokes. I just said that I know a lot about the species, but I'll have to
look up some zebra jokes. But I'm okay. Well, there you go. He can give you a PowerPoint presentation on the origins of zebras and then throwing a joke. Would you like to sign up for that? We'll pay for it. Sign me up. I can't wait to see the PowerPoint presentation. Oh my god, I don't know why. I'm so shocked. I'm sorry, Jar, I don't need to be so shocked, but holy hell, no, I'm I'm thrilled. Hooray. We're thrilled
for your congratulations. Broke and Jeffrey in the morning, you just heard a second date update from a few months ago, and we actually have the couple back on the phone with us. Oh, I'm so excited. Jarm and Lorie, welcome back. Hi, thanks for having us. Oh that's a happy voice. Jar are you there? I am here and I am also happy. Yeah. Okay, what does that mean? How's things been since you guys were on the show with us a few months ago. They've been pretty good. It's been nice. You know. It
was kind of tough at first. Definitely caught a lot of flak from friends and family for a dating a guy that put me on air, right, Yeah, that's awesome. So what was the second date? Like? We went to dinner. I want you guys to know that I took your advice and I started the second date off with a zebra joke. Oh no, I want to hear it. Yeah, I want to hear the joke. Okay, what's the joke? God, you want to hear it? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, go ahead, Okay. Um.
Why aren't zebras fans of coloring books? What they don't like having to stay in between the lions Lions. Okay, I don't know if that was worth it, jo, I think that got laur into the bedroom with that one. I don't know about all that. So has there been more dates since then? Are you guys like a couple? We've we've actually been on four dates since the second date, so that would make six six dates. So what do you think of Laurie? Where's your status set? I mean,
he's he's exactly right, definitely, no titles yet. We are taking it slow and you know, yeah, it's it's going good, but you're not official. Well we're not official, but um we have kissed a few times and um, you know, I don't want to kiss and tell, but we did kiss. Okay, that's exactly. Oh my god. Okay, now my parents are definitely going to give me even more. But but no, we only kiss. We haven't gone all the way. It's
it's it's just so oh my god. I feel like Jarme's gonna call us in a couple bunths and be like, yeah, he's gonna forward us some picks. He's like, Lorie, just it's going really great. Oh my god. No, but seriously, we're so happy for you. Guys. That sounds awesome. So you're planning to keep going on dates? Yeah? And actually I was wondering, um, if you guys had any suggestions for another date idea because I was thinking it might
be nice. Uh just in exchange for us giving you this update, if you guys could pay for it like you did last time. You want not just like in exchange? Okay, so you want to get paid for colly, not paid just you know that you know, maybe you would pay for the date. Let's we can send you at again. What do we have gift cards for? Right now? We'll find something back at the promotions. Yeah, we'll talk to that. We'll see what do you guys want to go see? Like an improv show? We have some passes for one
of those. Oh um, do you have anything else? Improv is fine? That's okay, fine, Um, yeah, I guess we'll take that then see. Hey, he's already a good a good guy. He's like letting her take the leak. All right, jar, we'll send you the passes. Keep us updated on how your relationships going. All right, thank you? All right, we appreciate