Second Date Update UPDATE PODCAST: Adventures In Catering

the obvious question afterwards. Has Brooke ever asked if she could join them in the bedroom that The answer is no, Okay, absolutely not. She does not ask legally, I don't think she can. Yeah, she just shows up. She brings a case of boxed wine. It's twenty pack of astral Glide, and she's like, let's do this. You owe me this. Mama's ready. But in addition to that, you've probably also wondered, how did that second out and go? Yeah, for sure, I'd always wonder. Yeah, people text it all the time,

but we also will talk about I wonder what happen to? Yeah, you want to know are they still together? Did Brooke break them up? We're gonna get some of those answers today from one couple who was on with us a few months back, and a lot of listeners have been asking how this one turned out. It's going to tell you it was good. Oh well, we're gonna play the original second date call first and then we'll speak to

them and find out how things are going. Now, it's your second date update update right now, the second date Update. We've got a guy on the phone for a second date update today. His name is Kurt, and Kurt's request is kind of weird because normally when people rite into the show for help, there was an actual date that happened, but Kurt hasn't really been out with this woman yet. I'm sorry, why are we wasting time with people that

aren't following? Well, it's kind of like, you know middle school rules, where Kurt wants us to ask her friend to go ask her if she likes him, and then she'll tell her friend to come back to us, and then we'll report it back to Kurt. Do you like like like like that circle? Yes? No? Or maybe on this crumpled up piece of paper? Can no one be an adult these days? No? I don't know, Kurt? You can you all right? I have been extremely misrepresented already,

that's Jeff, I am an adult. I've asked her out. We've actually shared appetizers and fingerfoods, so we kind of happened on the day. Okay, Well, maybe your email just confused me. Why don't you tell us a little bit more about her. I'll break it down for you so that you can understand a little better. Oh, thank you so much. You obviously listen to the show. You need to talk slow. I know how to handle you, guys. So what's her name? Her name's Cassie, right, and how'd

you meet her? I'm actually a server for a catering company, okay, and so I actually get hit on by women a lot of these parties, but they're usually much older than me, and the kind of like cougars who have had a few too many champagne flutes. I was going to comment on how hot I think men with food are, but now I'm not going to after you finish that sentence. I am very young and hip. Oh yeah, so is Cassie one of the cougars. No, I finally met a nice,

beautiful lady who is in my age range. That's exciting. I mean, did you notice her first or did she notice you? I mean I definitely noticed her. I don't know when she noticed me, but she was with her little group of friends, and she was wearing this very sexy little black dress. And I'm very observant, and I have to be especially observant when I noticed a gorgeous young woman. If I noticed that she likes this particular little finger food that we were serving as He's mashed

sweet potato avocado bites. Oh yeah, good women in their avocados, they can't resist it doesn't actually are really good. So I noticed that she was like really dig indy, So a buddy of mine, I was like, yo, dude, let me get that trade smooth. So I switched the trades, and then I was like circling back to her little group of friends as much as possible, just so I could like interact with her and just kind of get

a feel for, you know what she was all about. Yeah, for sure, like sprinting all the way around the outside of the party and coming right back to her. And now I'm realizing why all the ugos at these parties are always carrying the crappy ass, because the hot guys took the good one. You got a trade up for the best food. Yeah. Yeah, you guys would be surprised. That's really actually very accurate. I know. I love getting this inside into the catering world. All Right, So you

were talking with Cassie a lot. How did that go? It was great? I mean she was really flirty. She's really funny, like she's waiting and cool. And then at one point, like I was like, whoa, she's into me because she said to me, she was like, do you have an extra naction? Because sometimes I'm kind of a dirty girl. I was like, whoa. I'd be like, no, I don't because I'm a dirty boy. Yeah, She's like no, Actually, it's why I'm wearing a black dress. I tend to

stay everything that I owned. She was definitely just like being funny. It was cute. Yeah, well that's a good sign, right, and then you're thinking it's on. I mean, it was your turn to make a move, would you do? I fully put my trade down and I just started having a full conversation with her. Was like, yeah, we gotta get that to work. But oh, it's a catering bad boy. So you told us that you didn't go on an

official date with her, so how did this end? At the end of the night, I was like, we should hang out and she was like, yeah, it's really fun. Can We exchanged numbers and we started texting and after what she was doing on a Friday, and I got no response. I texted her again and I was like, yeah, did you get my text? And I never heard anything from her. So it's been like almost a week. Kind of like maybe she had a boyfriend, Maybe she was thrown and like didn't actually like me. I don't know.

Maybe maybe you're not as sexy without a tray of avocados in your hand. Yeah, I don't know. Maybe she alway likes me when she can get free little finger fruits appeal. Yeah, you were the gateway at the Sweet Potatoes. So what what's your instinct? What is your instinct telling you maybe she turned off by me being a cater waiter. I don't know if she gave her number. So it is a good sign though, that she like took the time to flirt with you and gave you her number.

I mean those are all signs that she probably is single. Yeah that's big, or she's a terrible girlfriend. I don't know. Yeah, And I mean she was with like what seemed like all her best friends. So I said, if she was verry or like had a boyfriend, she wouldn't be openly flurrying with some guy in front of all the home. Yeah, say something totally. I think that this sounds hopeful. I think we can get you a date. So let's play a song. We'll come back and we'll call your sweet

Potato Princess and we'll try and get you a second date. Update. All right, bro, all right, let's do it. We all know there's certain things a woman just can't resist, like a man with a guitar, a man in a freshly pressed uniform hello, or a man carrying a tray of sweet potato avocado bites. Big boy, she'll definitely be whispering I want you in my mouth, even if she's only talking to those avocado bites. You guys need to be locked up. That's one of our listeners, Kurt, who emailed

us for a second ad update. He was carrying a tray of delicious appetizers when he met a woman named Cassie at a party because he was working the event as part of a catering team and actually traded dishes with another server because he noticed Cassie like that particular food so much, and she seemed to be flirting with him, and at the end of the night she even said I'd be down to hang out. But she hasn't responded to any of his techs since then. That's pretty much

the story, Kurt. I just really hope it's not one of those situations where it's like, oh, I don't want to date the high fired help. You know. I'll flirt with them, maybe fool around in a coat closet really quick, but not date them. Let's below me. I mean, hey, if that's the truth, I want to know it so I can move on. But I don't think she's like that. I don't think so either, because she wouldn't have given you her phone number if she thought that way. Yeah,

that's true. Well, let's call Cassie and find out. You're ready to do this, Kurt, Yep, let's do this. Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Cassie Please? Hi, Cassie. My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. You have a moment to talk with us. Um, what is this about? This is about a segment we do on our show called a second date update. Have you ever heard of that before? I

might have, Um, I don't know. Well, the way it works is if you go out on a date with someone and afterwards they're not calling you back, you can email our show and we'll reach out to that person for you to figure out the reason why. Oh okay, yeah, and so we got an email about you recently from a guy you met named Kurt. Oh. Technically I never went on a date with him, so I don't know

if I'm really supposed to be like talking about all this. Well, okay, let's let's forget the date stuff, whether it was a date or not. Like, did you like him? Did you feel a connection, because he definitely felt one with you. He said that you even told him that you'd be down to hang out with him sometime. Yeah, and I would just maybe like in a group setting, you know, like nothing romantically. And I don't really know how to tell him that. Are you not single? Oh? No, I'm

not in a relationship. It's just like he's off limits. I don't understand why is he off limits? If you're single and you think he's cute and you like him, what's the problem Your parents not letting you date yet. It's a oh my god, oh my god. No. To be one hundred percent honest, One of my friends called DIBs on him that night, and I was like, okay, so I yeah, but you can't call DIBs on someone if they're not interested in you. Like she could call

Dibbs if he gave her his phone number. She doesn't get to call Dibbs if he gave you his phone number. Well, it doesn't really work that way, because, like, I have a big group of friends and it was like, literally my friend Rebecca's turn to call DIBs on whoever she wanted to do that night. And you know, we just kind of like respect this kind of thing in my group of friends. But why can't you talk to Rebecca

about Dibbs because it doesn't make any sense. Did you hear her respect the dib I did talk to her about it, and honestly, I don't want any drama, guys. I just really want to avoid that at all cost. And when I spoke to her as she was just like, no, like I called Dibbs and that means something. So how is Rebecca ever even gonna find Kurt again? Rebecca doesn't have Kurt's phone number, or does she Maybe Kurt gave

out his phone number to multiple women. No, Like, I literally was just gonna like text him and see how I kind of like hooked them up together. Yeah, you were going to be the wing woman there, dude? What mean you? It's the same like you you call that dude, and like nobody else gets to hit on him that night, even if so that there's no drama later, right, Cassie follow me on this one. So basically she saw him first.

She said, Hey, I called DIBs on him, and everyone else has to just kind of fall back and we just respect it. It's you know, it's that whole sister's before misters kind of bangs, that is. But I got you pose before bros. Makes sense. I just I mean it kind of makes sense. But I wonder if it makes sense to Kurt. What I forgot to tell you, Cassie that Kurt's been on the other line listening. Oh my god, yeah, and he no, I'm serious, Oh my god, this is so uncomfortable. Hey Cassie, Hi boy, I'm I'm

all right. Um, you know, it's like a weird situation and you're definitely my type. I just want to put that out there. And I mean, I don't know how much you heard, but like basically, Rebecca, my blonde friend, the one that was with us, and then like the first dress, Yeah, she called DIBs and there's really nothing I can do. All right, why don't you give me Rebecca's number. I'll call her up. We can work this out. WHOA, So you're gonna negotiate, Kurt, or you're just gonna date her.

I'm gonna negotiate. I don't have an interest in dating her. I'm clearly into Cassie. And if her friend is holding her back from like seeing a guy that she's into, like that's not being a friend. That's a very good point, Kurt, you know what. That's so nice of you to say. But I don't want that kind of drama. I'll lose a friendship over it. And it's really too much, you know what. I mean. She's a really nice person, but

like she gets pissed off. She's very vindictive. Wait, Cassie, I mean she sounds like a kind of terrible friend. I'm a totally sweet girl, but I will effing kill you. Yes, Like, if that girl is that much drama. Why do you even water in your life anyway? No, we've just been friends for forever, you know. It's just the kind of person who kind of like has your back and all of that, and it's just like always available. But he puts her off in one of these kind of ways,

she'll just like go nuts. Like we have another friend in our group who ended up picking up with our brother, and Rebecca himself pissed off she had his girl's cartoon. Oh okay, that is very vindictive. I mean, but a brotherhook up situation is different than this guy doesn't like you, Rebecca and he likes me. Sorry, right, that seems even worse. Okay, I better. I don't know. Let me ask Kathy it. What if I go on one fake date with your

friend Rebecca. Yeah, I'll be like a total pig. I'll like have terrible manners, like I won't put on rant that night, and then afterwards it's like the dip has been given up, undipped. I don't think it works that way. That's really really sweet of you to try. I mean, so you're afraid of losing a friendship, but aren't you afraid of losing true love? Cassie and I even am true to the dip okayu. Yes, I bet my heart is melting right now from every word that comes out

of Kurt's mouth. Give me one date and if it's horrible and you don't want to see me again, then Rebecca or whatever her name is, they didn't even need to know about it. Oh my god, what do you says? Ridiculous? I feel like feel pressured right now? No? No, no, don't feel pressured. Just go out with him while everybody is listening, and we will offer to pay for that date. Yeah, question group things? Would you be open to that? We'll hang out like in a group and see, like with Rebecca.

That is a dumb idea, Cassie him. Guys, there's just like a girl's code. I just can't do it. I'm girl's code was Come on, if she's a good friend, she'll understand and if not, to make me suffer, Brooke is signing off as a female that it's okay to break girl code on this one. Yes, well, because her girl code is entering into ridiculous code. Like you know, you can only take it so far, and always your friend's happiness should be at the forefront of every decision.

And that is not true for Rebecca. Guys, I'm really so sorry, but my decision is final. Oh oh my god, dude, you're gonna regret this. Okay, listen, I'm gonna get one of my buddies set up with Rebecca, someone hotter than me that she can like and not worry about what her friend does. Oh. I like that, Cathy. I'm not giving up on you, but I'm just letting you know what's what's going on right here. Oh, you guys are the cut. That's bro code right there. Oh my god.

I guess no second date for the moment, but yeah, I feel like this could possibly change. Will you guys keep us updated on what happens between you two. I'll let you guys know. Oh my god, upgrade Rebecca and go for Kurt, Cassie. I'm so excited. Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. We aired that about four months ago, and it was one of our most popular second dates ever, I think because they seem so cute together. Brook and I were like, oh, this one was so good, she says, Okay, continue,

I know, everybody, it was a really good one. People have been asking on our techt board for months and on on our social media. You know, did Cassie break girl code? Did they go out again? Yes, well we have them on the phone. They're on with us once more. Cassie and Kurt. Welcome back. Hey you guys? Yeah? Happy? Are you guys in the same room? Are you in different places? Okay? But they spoke at the exact same time. It's like they're syncd up. So, Kurt, what happened? Did

you end up finding a friend to date Cassie's friend? Yes, I found a buddy who was down. I showed him a few pictures of her friend, and we did a double date. David, Oh, that's a good idea, and as wonderful as it was for us, it was actually even better for our friends. Oh, so your girlfriend wasn't mad at you for dating, not at all? Like they hit it off. Wow, they hit it off. So wow, guys, if they have a wedding next month? Wait, you cooked your friend up and now she's getting married like in

a six month period. No, that's only been a couple of months. They just yes, they knew what they wanted. She's also pregnant. I should probably mentioned, or maybe I shouldn't. Wait, what are you serious? Oh? Cassie's friend. Oh, oh my god, her, I thought Cassie was pregnant. What are you doing. You're not even supposed to say that. You know that? Good, don't know, but I'm sorry. Wait, you guys ignore that. It's my madness. It's fine. Back to you two again.

How are you guys doing. Are you still together? Yeah, well we are, and it would just take it slow, but we're really happy and it's so really incredible how it's all worked out. Oh, that's so cute, like the first time we accidentally like helped multiple people. And when you will marriage? Yeah, don't say the pot Oh yeah, sorry, I mean a drag Nancy. Okay, Yeah, here's the thing, Cassie, if you ever get knocked up, don't tell Kurt for a while. Yeah, right, if I want to broadcast it,

keep us updated on your situation. That's so cute. Send pictures from the letting. Oh my god, we will tell your friends. We said congrats to them as well. Yeah, definitely, oh we will. Yeah, thanks for being on with us. It's brooken. Jeffrey in the morning, I love Low Moving ninety two point five