Second Date Update UPDATE: In The Closet

this show, we say never never. No matter how many times you fail miserably, you get back up on that dating horse and you ride, you ride until your backside's blistered in blue, and you finally find that special person, or at least someone who's willing to spend time with you in exchange for money. Yes, and in that spirit, we have a listener who was on with us before

for a second date update. Okay, and we could not get it for him the last time to this, but even though we failed him, even though we failed him, he still trusts us to help him out one more time. So let's say welcome back to Noah. What's up Noah? Hey guys, Yeah, we're hanging there. Wait, Noah, can you just remind me what happened last time you're on the phone with us? Oh? Man? So business girl Anna that I was really into and I said her a pillow? Oh with your face on it? You said her like

a yeah, she sucks. We're over her. She's dead to us. That's right. We're looking forward to the next victim or from a love interest, next love interest? What's her name? Noah, prospect? I couldn't think of it. So her name is Sandra? Okay, she is amazing. I'm like, Okay, Anna's sister. I just love no you are obviously a hopeless romantic. You fall hard, and I love that you're open about your feelings. Where did you meet her? The new girl? So she's actually

not that new? Um, it was a high school crush as well. Why why are we still living in high school in our mind? Noah? Why can't we move forward? Okay? To be fair? Like this girl, Sandra. I know I didn't mention her before because I was really trying to make it work with Anna. But she's not even number two on the list. She's like one beat on the same level as Anna, but just not quite. I kind of understand that. I hope he didn't tell her she was one bee. So how'd you end up reconnecting with

Sandra after all these years? Okay? Guys. So here's what happened. I asked alf the happy hour and we had a great time. We started talking about, you know, high school, some of the old days and stuff, and like one of the pranks we did was we filled the gymnasium with balloons for senior prom. Yeah, guys were a wild bunch. It was actually hilarious. It was like a huge McDonald's play place. We were laughing so hard about that, and we're just having so much fun, Like it was really

good to think back about high school. Yeah, it sounds So what happened then? I mean, did you guys end the night or so? We had a few more drinks and we ended up back at her play Okay, doing the play place at the apartment. Ye didn't see some sort of like romance or chemistry there then, right? I think so, because we definitely started making out right okay, like over the closed stuff. I mean, this is high school romance, right. Well, guys, we actually didn't get that

far because we were interrupted. Oh a roommate. I don't know. I just I heard there were some keys at the door and suddenly she's like, oh quick in the closet. So I had to grab all my stuff and get in, get in the closet that's had a good size us there. Did you hide? Of course I hid in the closet. She's like streaking out about it. I had no idea what was going on? You you got to trust people

high school. You don't have to hide. There's a serial tickler on the Lucy's gonna come in and it's obviously yeah, and the major thing is never good if you're hiding in the closet, is what I'm saying. Did you hear a male voice? Did she have a like girlfriend girlfriend? Maybe it was a Did you hear a love interest? No, it was definitely a guy. Okay, so what did he What did they say? I mean, did she? Did she live with a boyfriend? I don't know. I guess because

they definitely were making out. Oh my, well, you just stayed in the closet the whole time all that happened. Well, I was kind of freaking out. I don't know what I was supposed to do. Like, they stay there for over an hour and the whole time she's like trying to get him to go to a bar and he's like, no, I just got back, Why do you want to go to the bar is calling her back. She made you hide it a closet for an hour while she made

out with her boyfriend. I mean, I know, I gave a big speech about never giving up, but there's a time like, you know what, maybe I need to give up on this one. Now, why would you want to call her? Look, if it's a choice between this guy and me, she's gonna pick me, that's what they're going And she's gonna pick every other guy that comes along and shows her any interest at all. I know there's a lot of doubters in here, Noah, but I do like your optimism. So let's try this, do this, Let's

give it a shot. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Sandra for you, and we'll try and get you your second date update. Okay, thanks so much, guys. All right, man, hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. You're in the middle of a second date update update, and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing right after you here Part two. Everybody's worse nightmare is going on a date. Things spiral and you turn into

a closet case. That's what literally happened to one of our listeners, Noah, during his date with an old high school crush named Sandra. In the middle of hooking up, the door to her apartment jiggled and she told Noah to go hide in her closet, so he did, and he stayed in there for over an hour, listening to Sandra make out with some other dude. But if there's one thing that we've learned about Noah through all the calls we've had with him, it's that he does not

give up. Noah, no matter how many roadbumps he has to clear or closets he has to hide in, he wants to find love and still wants us to call Sandra. And Noah, we never asked you. Have you tried reaching out to her after the date, Like are you guys texting at all or anything? Yeah? I texted her a couple of times and she didn't get back to me. It was just like, what is that all about? And yeah nothing. You are too pure, too sweet for this Sander woman. Okay, she is going to walk all over

you like a doormat. Wow, are you absolutely sure that you want to make this phone call? No, She's really amazing. If you guys only knew her like she's really awesome. Yeah, you're right, we don't. Okay, Yeah, she left you in the closet for an hour and even apologize. You know, I hear the lack of hope in this room, and I want to remind you Noah believes. So we need to believe for Noah. Noah. Okay, for you, for you, Noah.

We'll muster it up. I just no, no, no, I just I just there's just the places he could put his energy, that's all. Whatever. I'm going to give the laugh laugh here spirit, I do want you to win. I don't. I'll tell you that. Don't haters. We're all realists. We're all rooting for you. Man. So I'm gonna dial Sandra's number. We're gonna try and get your second date up day. You ready, all right, let's do it. Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey, is this Sandra? Yes, it

is Can I ask us for calling. Yeah, my name is Jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing? Okay, I'm good. Good. We're in the middle of a segment called a second Date Update, and we'd like you to be a part of it. Oh um, don't. I don't know what is the word. That's a good question. Yeah, it's really simple. It's where if you go out on a date with someone, and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you can email our show and we'll reach out to them

to help you figure out the reason why. Oh it makes sense. Sure. Okay, So recently you went out with a guy who really really likes you, and he's confused about why you haven't been in touch with him lately. His name's Noah. Yes, okay, you remember sweet Noah. Um, yeah, we hung out. I wouldn't necessarily say it was a date, but I do know him. Okay, you had some chemistry with him right while you guys were hanging out. Um, yeah,

you guys kissed. According to Noah, so I hope that you'd have some sort of connection with him, unless you just kiss anybody. How much did he tell you about what happened? I mean he went to a lot of detail. He said that you guys met up, you ended up back at your apartment. You guys started to hook up a little bit, but then you two were interrupted. Yeah. Yeah, I feel really bad about that. I did really like Noah. He was really sweet. He's really funny, and I enjoyed

hanging out with him. It would be nice to have someone like him in my life, but okay, I don't really have that right now. So do you live with your boyfriend? No, we don't live together. Yeah, okay, but you have a boyfriend. You're confirming I have been seeing someone. Yeah, well, but there's no label on it. How would there not be a label on it? He had keys to your place. That's how he got in, right, Like the Noah heard jingling of keys and someone entering your apartment and you

told him to get into the closet. It could have been a robber that broke in, and she made out with him to save her life. Closet, Take whatever you want. Is that what happened, Sandra, It's okay if that's what happened. Yeah, he's just kind of this on again, off again boyfriend type thing. Okay, Well, we're just looking. Is there anything possible down the road, even in the future with Noah? Is there a chance? Look like, I have been seeing this other guy, but I do kind of like know

Ah better. I just think he's a better person. Oh that's great. Look, you know what, let's find out what Noah thinks about this, because he's on the other line listening and wants to talk to you, and I'm willing to bet he's on board again. Yeah, I know. Are you there, jump out of the closet, Sandra, it's me

what you have a radio station called me? Oh my god. Sorry, I didn't really know how to get in touch with you, and I've been texting and like, I was just really nervous to be honest, and like, I really like you a lot, but I didn't. I don't know. I kind of thought you were just blowing me off. No, I wasn't. I wasn't intentionally trying to blow you off. To be honest, I felt the same way. I did, feel like there's a connection. Oh, I just didn't know really how serious

you were about it. Noah, do you think this is something that you would take seriously? If you feel like that guy is not good for you, then I'm open. Wait, this is a way to do it. You date around till the guy calls a radio station, you pick him. Yeah. Are we all just going to ignore the fact that, Sandra, you haven't even apologized yet for leaving him in the closet, That he sounds happy lying about having a boyfriend, Like, why are you trying to I'm not digging anything up.

It's like right there on the start trying to start a fight. I go trying to start a fight. I'm just saying, Sandra, like what was going through your mind when you're making out with some boyfriend while he was in the closet. I know it looks really bad. The thing is is that this guy that I've been seeing, he's just kind of trouble. I mean, he has been in and out of prison and does have a little bit of a mean streak, not to me, but others

who have wronged him. Yeah, Sandra, you deserve better than that. You guys, listen, this guy's gonna find out about their relationship and he's gonna kill him. So he's not kind of like violent mean is He's just more like loud, angry mean bro, you went to prison, not for like emotionally yelling at somebody. Sandra. You know, I don't think I should talk about everything he's done because I don't want to get him in trouble and I don't want to block that out onto the error. But like Noah,

like I said, and I told these guys. You're the type of person that I need in my life, and I am really interested, and I think it makes sense we could have something. Okay, I feel like there's something here to work with. Still, yeah, I mean between the prison guy and Noah, she chooses Noah. That's got to feel good. You're right. Wait, does that mean you're actually going to break up? Like break up break up with

prison dude? It's not going to be easy. But I think if I sit and talk with him and kind of tell him everything and tell him about Noah, then oh maybe he'll understand. Maybe I don't think so. Yeah. Wait, why do you have to tell him about me? Yeah? Well, he's gonna want to know who I'm seeing no So can't you just tell him that's none of your business? I mean, I told you he has an angry issue, so he's gonna want to know. I'm probably gonna want to meet him. But like, I think it's going to

be fine. Well, maybe we can help make that happened, because we would love to send you guys out on another day. We will pay for it, and you, Noah and the prison guy can all meet and discuss leaving your relationship to just being with Noah. That sounds like it's going to be civil. I mean, I'm sure he'll be the reasonable one between the three of you. Yeah, Sandra, what do you say? I'm down to try and see if this can work with Nolla in whatever way possible.

I think that's good if you need a healthy relationship. Yes, Noah, you're still up for this, Sandra. I really want to make things work with you. But I'm I'm a little nervous about you know this guy. Yeah, come on, Sandra. He doesn't have to meet him, does he. Yeah, just tell him your name is like Jeffrey de bou or something. Okay, running out of time. I think it's gonna be fine. It's probably going to take him a few days to

get over it, but I think we'll be okay. Okay, I don't know how I feel positive right now, but I do don't know. You don't look at Sandra take in charge of her own life, making decisions for herself. Good jobs. It sounds like someone's about to go back to prison. Yeah, Jeffrey in the morning. That was an update from months ago. Oh yeah, I totally forgot about that one. So we reached out to Noah and Sandra to check in see if they had any new information

from us. Okay, sorry, see if Noah is alive, that's a very good Now they emailed us back. They said they never made that three way date with Sandra's boyfriend ever happened, but they are on the line right now to tell us what's new in their relationship. Noah, Sandra, welcome back to the show. YEAHI thank you. Noah. Wait are you there? Noah, I'm here. Okay, thank you guys. So what's going on with you guys? Are you still together or what's happened? Yeah? I know we've we're together.

We've been dating. Oh my god, that's awesome. Wait what happened with the felon ex boyfriend? Now? Um, it's still a little bit complicated. Oh what do you mean, Well, technically I am still seeing my I guess boyfriend from previously. Okay, okay, this is one of those like you have two boyfriends or are you all doing a throuttle together? No, we're not doing a throttle. Um, you know everything, like Noah

knows everything. Um, I definitely want to break up with him, but still we're just trying to find the right time to do it. And it's been months. I know, you can find one moment lots like half of a year to be like this is over. It just hasn't been the right time. No, you're a psite piece. Then does the felon boyfriend know about Noah? No, he doesn't know about me, and you know, I kind of want to keep it that way to be honest. Are you still in a closet right now? I do hope he breaks

up with him soon. But for one, I'm not wanted to control her, you know. And he also that dude intimidates me, and I don't really mean that. I want to be on the other side of that. So yeah, no, that's true. You know what, you don't want to be the guy that's telling your woman like, hey, you need to dump him. No, No, I mean it's fine. We're gonna figure this out. You know. I want to be with Noah. I think we're meant to be together. So well, yeah, good luck. I definitely we need to stay in contact

with you. We need to know the second that the other relationship ends. Yeah, we're working on it. We're working on it, and when the time comes, I think everyone will be happy. Maybe just make the time just an idea that sounds kind of hard. Yeah, And Jeffrey in the Morning