Second Date Update UPDATE: Hot Girl Jumper

without peeing yourself challenge. Yeah, didn't go. Yeah, that might be the problem that one of our listeners, Kristen, is facing in her love life right now. She's worried maybe she was too attractive during her first date. Oh my god. Okay, we'll try not to make fun of you right out of the gate. I don't feel sorry for you already. We want to learn more. How are you doing? I'm sorry? Can I just this was a one knife phenomenon. I am not that hot like a true hot girl. Anyway,

let's hang up on this girl. We're just joking around with you. Tell us about the guy that you ended up going out with. What's his name? His name is Ben. I don't even know if you could call it. Going out last week, I was supposed to meet up with

my friend just get some drinks or whatever. Girls nights. Yeah, I have this thing where I like to wear these one piece outfits now, like a jumper, Like a jumper yeah yeah, yeah, like those babies wear that you zip up from the foot all the way to the next I will say, I wish they had a zipper down the law because go to the bathroom in a jumper is really okay, So sorry, keep going, You're you're looking good.

So I'm saying as the bar, waiting for my friend and she is running late, and meanwhile guys are like sending me drinks, the bartenders flirting with me, like okay girl. And there's this one guy in particular who was just like absolutely my type from head to toe. Like he was even wearing like the outfit my high school crush you store it that was like my favorite outfit with like green corduroys and a little black polo shirt. And he had a beard just like he was way taller

than me. It's it's cool that you got over him. So did the approach you? Then? No? I mean I thought maybe he was looking my way a little bit, but like I said, I was really feeling myself, so I went up to him. Okay, as you watch all the other boys be jealous, not cool, never been in your situation in that? How did it go? Well? Okay, here's where it gets a little bit weird because I've never had anything like this happened to me before. So I'm like, I'm sitting with him and I'm chatting with him,

and I'm clearly into him. And the bartender comes over an inch abrupts because some other guys sent me a drink. Oh, bron, while you're talking to the guy that you wanted. Compare did a guy being like, hey, bro, sorry, I see you. She walked to you, but I still got her attention over here. Did he seem to like that, like as like a challenge or did he seem to be put off by it? I mean, he had a beard, so it's pretty hard to tell. Was he mostly beard idea?

Like I just actually more like five o'clock shadow. That was like a little bit awkward. So I kind of used that as an opportunity to like show him that I was into him. So I kind of looked at the other guy like thanks, but what the heck? And just ignored him and went back to talking to Ben. Actually feel but here's the thing, guys. Then it happened again. What whoa wa? Same dude? Like, same dude. I just

can't new different dude. Why can you send me a link to your jumps that I had like some sort of magical magnetism going on, and I just I just I just like saluted that guy awkwardly, like, okay, captain, and I'm thinking about setting you a drink right now. Let me seem like the coolest place it's got Captain's it's got Lumberjacks Brooks over in the vaccine, Like, how do you do it? Because I'm out of your comment. How did this interaction between you and Ben? How did

that end? Well? I mean eventually my friend let me know that she wasn't coming, and I was like, that's actually fine. I forgot about and we hung out for the rest of the night, had a fantastic night. He gave me his number, I gave him my number, yes, And I mean that's basically Ben. Did you ask him

if he was single? Like point blank? Oh my god, no, I have not actually this because even if he wasn't interested in you, the fact that you were like literally swatting other men away in front of him and then telling him you were so interesting like that alone would make a guy just him. I've been sirizing because obviously I've been thinking about nothing but since and maybe he like stalked me online and is like, Okay, she's not

always that hot. Oh it's like when they turn the lights on at the end of the night of the bar and you're like, oh, do you have to understand? Like for me, the onesie thing, the whole thing is, I don't have to put an outfit together. It's like no effort. They're really so it's like I don't want to make up. Yeah, that's true. I'm with you. Okay, you and your magic onesie. Hold on, we're gonna play a song. We'll we'll call Ben for you, and we'll try and get your second date update. Okay, okay, I'm

suddenly feeling very selfconscious. Hold one date. You're in the middle of a second day update update, and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing right after you here part two. Hey, if you're just joining us, it's the sequel to Joseph and the Amazing Technical or Dream listen and the magic dude attracting one link because she went out and wore there's one specific jumper that made

her look real fine that night. So guys at the bar kept sending her drinks, which was a good thing, except it was happening while she was sitting down with the one dude that she really wanted to be with, a sexy lumberjack type named Ben who's apparently more beard than body. Yeah, but she's worried. Maybe all that attention from other guys was a little bit intimidating to Ben and it could have scared him away. How could a

guy with a beard like that be intimidated. I don't know what happened, but he's not asking me out, so I mean, whatever it is, I want to know. Okay, maybe his beard got caught on the door and he shot. He can't get home to make the call to you, so let's find out here we go. Hello, Yeah, yeah, it sounds right. Hey is this Ben the beard? What I mean? Ben? Ben with a beard? Uh? This Ben? Who is He's not? Sorry? He sounded exactly like I thought. I think, Yeah, Ben just flustered everyone in the road.

Then Sorry, my name is Jeff Um, I also have a beard, but probably not as nice as yours. I host a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we're hoping to talk with you a little bit. Uh. You can also hear us on podcast too, if you want to look us up on like Spotify, any of that. We're there. Uh all right, cool, that's

all we wanted to say. Thanks for your time. Then, no, we're really calling because we're doing something called a second Date Update and we're trying to help one of our listeners get ahold of you. Okay. Her name's Kristen. You met her out at the bar the other night. Yeah, it wasn't really at first date. Yeah, uh I don't know. Oh my god, you don't remember Kristen. She had a really cute jumper one. Most guys don't recognize that stuff. Yeah. No, oh my gosh, I do know. I know who that

girl is. Yeah, to talk to her, she sounded awesome, like funny. She wasn't like full of herself at all. Yeah, it's really fun. Yeah, she's super fun. She's great. Okay, I'm sorry she told you that we hung out or something. She told a radio station that we hung out she said that she met you out at the bar the other night and was having a really nice time, and then afterwards, it's been kind of hard getting ahold of you,

and she's curious, why, Wow, this is this is so crazy. Yeah, I know this isn't a normal thing that happens, but we're really hoping to help her out because she's a listener. Who does that? Who does that? That's so she's just kind of messed up. What did she do something to you? I don't know, I was the situation was like I saw her at a bar and like she came over to me and we started chatting and she was really funny. But I'm like, she got like a drink from another guy.

I guess, Okay, she mentioned that to us a little bit. Is that something that intimidated you? I mean not really not at first. I mean I thought it was kind of funny that a dude was doing that. But when it happened again, because it happened like a second time, I was like, Oh, I don't know, this is ridiculous. Yeah, but how are you How are you blaming her? It's

not her thought. So like the situation that happened was like she had to leave for a hot second to step out to like talk to her friends, because against the friend wasn't coming. But when she was outside, I like walked over to the guy who had set the drinks. Oh. It was like, hey, do you mind not doing that?

Oh I'm talking to the squirrel right now. And it kind of what makes me look a little bad, or it feels like you're being competitive, which is like so childlike that's not bad to go talk man to man real quick and to say, hey, rod, yeah, you know, you know you're not causing a scene, right you want to rustle beards over me if he's like, back off, but if you're like, hey, man, politely, I'm trying to talk with her, and you know, I think she's interested in me. So what did he say? He said he

didn't send it. What Oh, so then you just obviously got the wrong dude, Yeah, like it was somebody else. The bartender said it wrong. No, because it's like the bartender pointed to the guy out, Oh yeah, because here across the room. So the bartender was like, from him, So you went to the bartender. So I walked over the bartender and I had the bartender and he was like I can't really disclose that. What I thought he just pointed the dude out just to start a fight

or something, was what did you say? It was just weird that he was being coy and I called that out. I was like, why do you carry you literally pointed the guy out before, And that's when he told me, which is that I guess this is something that she does that Kristen does. She pays the bartender to like send a drink to herself from some random guy every Like, Oh, really, do you believe that I'm gonna start doing this? I

don't think that works. Okay, you think that's true? Yeah, Because the second he like admitted it, he was like, don't tell her she does this often, Like she comes in and does this every month or so. Who's this? Like he he didn't for like a few months. Heard though, that's kind of nice. Yeah, yeah, so you think that's a red flag? You don't think it's just kind of funny.

That's so justful. It's so weird that I feel like it's just trying to pump up her own confidence that some people need that, especially if they're going to go approach another guy, which is a really intimidating thing to do as a woman. True, it's I mean, it sounds so outland as you guys are all believing it. I'm still not sure if this is actually true. Okay, I think you should just ask Kristen directly. Kristen, did you pay the bartender to send you drakes? Of course not,

that's ridiculous. Oh, christ Ben, I forgot to tell you, Chris, since on the other line listening, she wants to talk to you. This is so embarrassing. I'm embarrassed, but this is embarrassing for everyone, honest. Okay, first of all, that is not even true. That's complete nonsense. I would never do that. But let's say theoretically someone did that. That's hilarious. I don't believe. I was listening and Ben's all like, oh, she's messed up, And I'm like, have you never seen

the movie Clueless? Remember she sends herself chocoless and flowers. Yea, they were in high school. I don't think they could be in a year for somebody that's denying it. You sure do know a lot about this system. Oh my god, you guys the magician never reveals their secrets. Is it not even that cute, then I'm trying to like, I mean that here's the thing doesn't even matter, Like who cares? She sounds awesome. I mean you can kind of hear

what she's saying right now. She's making it like it's not that big of a deal, but she's like not owning up to it. But she kind of is owning

up to it. If you're starting off on the wrong foot by being like deceitful and like maybe lying or maybe telling the truth, and I already don't want that right off the bat, so um, you are, like, I feel like you're taking this really really seriously, considering we were a couple of random strangers that met in the bar and had a laugh and I just wanted to know you all right, Well, then if you think that I'm taking it too seriously, then just own up to it.

Then I'll ask you again, did you do it? Yeah? Of course I did. Yeah, I love it. Though it's like all of us and said she didn't do it. It works. It's what Dane is. It's like, you know, I'm trying to make yourself feel better, trying to make yourself look the best. She just used a different method. Why, well, I'm Sorry, I'm sorry to interrupt this conversation, but I do need to let Ben know that there's another woman who wants to send you a gift card to go

on a date. Would you like that gift card? Ben? Because Ben, if you say yes, then you can go out with Kristen one more time. We'll pay for that. Uh you know what? Sure? Yeah, one up. But you have one strike against you right now. You know when you want a warning? Okay, sounds like a naughty thing. Yeah, okay. Agree. You know I have never ever cheated or anything like that any ever my life. You have to insist that no one asked. Starting to worry Jeffrey in the morning.

It's been a few months since we did that second date, and we were supposed to have Ben and Kristen back on with us today to get an update on their situation. But we don't. Only Ben agree, Kristen actually sent us an email calling Ben a bunch of names. I don't know why, but Ben, can you shed some light on the situation? Tell us what happened? Would you do? Maybe they were sweetheart, Maybe she was calling sweetheart and babe. That's not what happened, dude. I mean, I absolutely know

why she refuses to be on the phone. Um, it's because we went to some sort of bar, but it was a different one then we went to on the first tape obviously for obvious. Yeah, yeah, we gave you a gift certificate. So what happened? Yeah, yeah, yeah no. And I was like, you know, I thought it would be a really good joke. I mean, in retrospect, it was kind of stupid, but I thought it was funny, which is I decided to pull the same joke that she pulled on me. Over you had you had pretend

women sending you drinks exactly, That's it. I got there early and I told the bartender. I was like, hey, I'm going to sit over there. Just's my credit card and you'll see when my date comes in. Yeah, and maybe you wait like five minutes, and then can you bring me a vodka soda and sit like point to the cutest girl in the bar like say it's from her. Do you mind that? That's exactly what she did. Yeah. I thought it was obvious, obviously funny, right right, But

then when the burstender did it, she was furious. Why why was she so mad? Did she think you were making fun of her or I don't think that she really got the joke at first, and I didn't really have much of the time to kind of explain it because she just marched right over to the woman. Oh no, So I had to kind of play damage control, and I like rushed up as well, and I was like, hey, I'm so sorry, like it was a joke, and then

she like got in my face for a hot second. Whoa, she was the one that came up with this joke. It's not as funny when a guy does it. She seems so cool, not so unstable. That's what happens with all those cool girls. They're cold nightmares the next bunny. So it was at the end, well yeah, I mean, I guess she just got a little bit of her own medicine and she's not really returning my calls, so obviously she really was doing it because she had kind

of maybe some self esteem. Okay, poor thing is dang it. Yeah, I was a bummer, but whatever. Yeah, did you get that woman's number that sent me the drink? If I can get it, will you guys help me out with the second date update? Oh for sure. It obviously went so well the first time jeffre in the morning,