Second date, up date? What counts as dating right now? I think that's a fair question. Like if you only see each other between the hours of three am and seven am and you're never sober for that, is that? That's how I used to date. I thought that was dating. If you've only bought you socks from them online? Is that dating in that case? And some circles, I think that might qualify. And one of our listeners emailed us because she isn't sure if her hangout should be considered
worthy of a second date. Update Okay, she said she was hoping that we would do it. Well, we have low standards, so I'm sure we will. And she's actually lucky that the first four people that we tried calling this morning didn't answer yes. Because of that, Nicole, you are worthy of a second date. Welcome to the show. Yeah, resort and Nicole, we look forward to helping you, even if you've only bought someone's socks recently. Okay, Okay, well
I'm gonna stop guessing. Why don't you just start telling us what's going on? Nical, who are we trying to call today? We're trying to call Evan. I wasn't sure if you'd answer because it was actually, um, we had a virtual date, not an in person date. Oh, I think that counts more than like a three am hook up as a date. I mean, it's thoughtful, it's planned out right. Yeah, I don't mind a virtual date. I
actually I actually prefer it. You know, when you meet people online just want to build up, and then you meet up in person and sometimes it's really awkward, like you don't look like their picture and they have no personality, and then you're you're stuck. Is that why you chose to do a virtual date, because you've had such a bad run with online dating, or because you can start a virtual date with no pants and no one would know. It usually makes a date go better even person exactly.
A little bit of both, A little bit of both. Okay, I'm just so exhausted of doing any sort of video like chatting at all, But it sounds like you can talk a lot, so it sounds like it'd be good. She meant that. I think she meant that as a compliment. Is there any nerves just going into a virtual date? No, I do have nerves. That was a little nervous because
he had a really fun date plan. So Evan said that we should meet up on online and do a virtual burrito date, which I thought was really, what does that mean? Sounds messy? No, No, And it wasn't messy because his idea is that we would buy three different frozen burritos, the same ones, and then we would try them together on whom I thought was really cute. But I kind of like to like find the best frozen burrito.
It's not it's not a bad angle. Well, we don't know the name of it, but it's that orange one that let's try and focus on the date and not I would have hung up on. How did your frozen burrito date go? It was really fun. We both thought the bean and cheese was the best. We had a greeting system. It was a one to ten like in the Olympics, Like we wrote it down and held up a little sign so we could both see it scale of one to ten. How sexy did Evan look eating burrito?
I'm I'm saying ten? Okay, the highest right yet? Burrito boy? All right, so how do you end a burrito date? But you got to go to the bathroom? Yeah, sprint to the toilet? No, luckily, what how does it end? You? Know, we just we finished burritos. We're just hanging out and talking. You know what. We broke the ice and I just was told him that I was taking bass guitar lessons, which is something really fun. But he asked me to play a little bit. So I played a little bit
of my songs. Awkward, Like what did you do? Just sit there? He asked for it. Guys gets a slider out and like, yeah, the whole thing. You only played one song, right, You didn't give him a full concert, a full set. I mean I like bits of different songs. See, we're talking like real songs, not like old McDonald or something too. She no, like another one bites his dust or like journeys love and touch and squeeze in good stuff. That's impressive even if you're not good at it at us.
But you're worried that it like turned him off. Did his mood change or something after you're done with your bass plan? I didn't think so. I thought it was fun. We just kind of like chatted a little bit more and then it kind of came to its own and we said goodbye, and I messaged him about going on
a real date. Yeah, and he didn't seem as interested anymore as before we met, virtually, like he stopped messaging me back that much, and I started to think about, you know, like all the things I worry about with a with an online date or virtual date. I was like, do I not look like my picture? And I started I asked my my roommates. So I don't know why he's kind of faded out. It sounds like you've covered a lot of basses there, Nicole. Do you have your
bass guitar with you right now? It's in the other room, but it's it's here. Would do you think maybe we could get a sample of your bass guitar playing, just so that we know this is research, so that we know what we were working with. Uncomfortable people playing music? That I mean, I'd have to get my amp and get it set up. I could. That's good because we
actually have to play a song. So we're gonna leave, we'll come back, yeah, and then you can play as a song when we do your second date update right after this. Okay, all right, second update. You're in the middle of a second date update update. We're gonna find out how the couple is doing right after you here Part two. I'm purposely bumping into this segment without any music because we got our own in house band today. I've never been so excited about thee apart. It's just
a moment alone. One person. Our listener, Nicole, who we've been talking to about her dating life. We're gonna get to that in just a second. But she's an up and coming bass player. Nicole. We asked for a little demonstration because you played a little bit of bass on your dates. So what are we going to be hearing today? I'm not telling you. I just started this month another one bites the dust. Okay, Okay, before you get I'm going to introduce you. Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome to
the stage for your listening pleasure. Nicole and the finger flicks that would give our a second date I think, Oh my god, okay flooding, Yeah, all right, now we've heard the YouTube version, I'll play it yourself. Also, way better than I was expecting you to do after this
one month of lessons. That was legit. So if you're just joining us and you don't know why Nicole played, it's because during her virtual date with a guy named Evan, she played the bass guitar to show him what she's been doing, along with tasting some frozen burritos with him. But after that, she's been having a hard time organizing an in person meet up. So we're gonna call Evan and ask what's going on. That is, if you didn't
die from embarrassment just now, Nicole embarrass you. Yeah, I just hear you in the background, kind of like laugh, moaning or something. I'm still breathing. You're still breathing. Okay, Okay, here we go. Take a deep breath. Yeah, we're gonna dial Evan's phone number try and get you a second date. I just hope that another one doesn't bite the dust. But yeah, let's do it. Hello. Hey' is a seven? Yeah cool? Yeah, Okay, Hi Evan. My name's Jeff from
the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. We're hoping to talk with you a little bit about your dating life. Uh okay, well I'm not interested, So would you take me up your lift? No? Yeah, it's not us. It's actually somebody that you went on a date with who's asked us to call you. Her name is Nicole. Oh so this is a real call. That yes, yea dial one to sign up, So what's going on? This
is called a second date update. And Nicole reached out to us because she told us that you guys went on a virtual date together, and she's been trying to hang out in person but she's confused why that isn't happening yet. Yeah. Well, uh, to be honest, I don't think an in person date is going to happen. So thank you. Okay, Oh that's too bad. I mean she seems so fun loving and your date sounded awesome. She told us that you like put together what would we
call it a burrito battle? Yeah, we had burritos and it was fun. It was a fun date, don't get me wrong. But if I must get into it, Nicole is a liar. Whoa, that's heavy? Well what I found out that she lied to me about her age? Oh? Oh? D Like, I mean, is that much a big deal to you? Like? Yeah, how much? She told me she was twenty nine, but I found out that she was actually thirty? Wait? Year? Are you? Was that a joke? No? That's the red flank to me, Like, what a stupid
thing to lie about, especially by one year? That's true? Who cares? It's one year? Well? What does that mean to you, Evan, Why is that such a big deal that she's one year off? Well, she's lying about that. What else could she be lying about it? Just maybe she made her profile when she was twenty nine and she just never updated it it at on update. Yeah, okay, if you're that concerned about it, Evan, then you should have asked her. Yeah, but this was after our date
and I wasn't gonna just text her about that. You're just gonna move on? Well, are you okay if I ask her that question? Because Nicole's actually on the line and she's been listening this entire time, and I'm happy to do that for you. Oh great, So yeah, here she is, Nicole. Is it true? Did you lie about your age to Evan? Um? I wasn't like lying directly to Evan, it's not that big of a deal on my dating profile, I said, yeah, I'm twenty nine. It's
one year. It really bothers you have, ye firm. It's just really weird, Like why why one year? Like? I see, if you lied by like five years, I almos wouldn't respect that more old really honestly, Like okay, wow, I would be actually more upset if like I met someone and they were like forty instead of thirty. That's a
big difference. This is one year, and I really feel weird that I have to explain this, But I was on other dating websites and I have found that if you say you're in your twenties, you get way more matches. So it was just a way to just maybe broad in the field and they get to meet more people. So you were just trying to optimize your matches by going down one year. Evan in your twenties, Evan, what do you think is that a reasonable excuse for you? I mean, I buy it, but I don't feel weird
about it. How old are you, Evan? I thought it was going to be something like I don't date women in their thirties because I'm twenty three, or something like. It's more if she would have told you she was thirty, you would have been cool. Yeah, I don't know. I thinks like she's gaming the system a little bit. Isn't that what dating maps are? Four though? Yeah, you obviously on your range set that you like twenty year old
like people in their twenties. Yeah, you know, Evan, I ought to say on your profile you said that you were athletic and fit for your build and that question, and I don't know, you look a little more average to me. Wow. First of all, I was sitting down for the entirety of the thing. I think I look way better standing up. Obviously, Nicole's feelings are a little hurt Evan because it just it seems like a pretty
superficial reason not to call her back. It sounds like if you would have just asked her her age, she would have told you. Yeah, I guess so, And I except her reasoning to be honest. Okay, you know it's okay. Honestly, this is probably good because that's going to bother you and you're gonna not call me back or even talk to me about it. It probably is better that we
don't see each other again. Sounds like he was just getting over Wait wait wait, but now that I've heard your reasoning, like, I'm into it, let's not give up on that. It's just like that. Oh no, you called me a lot. The first thing you said about me on this call was I'm a liar. No thanks, but you did lie. Okay, it's not wrong. Oh man, this is like such a little thing. Guys, I know what it's like they're already in their first fight and they
have even met in real life. Yeah. Yeah, she is kind of going towards her midlife though, Brooks So, but I'm still willing to offer to send you guys out on another date. And Evan, it sounds like up to this point you were into it. Yeah. I mean maybe I I jumped to conclusions too quickly and I probably
shouldn't just asked. But I'm into it. But if she's a said get it okay, well, Nicole, he admits that he made a mistake, and which is a huge thing right now, Like to find a person who could admit they were wrong and learn from it, like that is a good quality to have. So can we meet in the middle here and go out just one more time and we'll pay for I can prove that build And maybe what would do it is if he's honest with you right now and he tells you what he really
thinks about your bass playing. It was pretty solid for someone who live been doing it a month see, but it was honest. It wasn't over the top glowing review, It wasn't horrible. It was like, it's pretty good. I would like to hear more. Come on, all right, fine, stop yelling me. Fine a second date, Nicole to celebrate you want to play a little bit of bass guitar
on the way out? Yeah, I'm Mike. I don't. I'm trying to think it would No, maybe not broken Jeffrey in the morning, making their glorious return to our show. A few months later, we have Evan and Nicole once again back to give us an update. Welcome back, guys. Yeah, hey everybody. Hey, you both still sound friendly, which is a good sign. I guess. Want to first of all,
clear the air. A bit after that second date, the infamous second Day aired, I got a lot of pea actually for my friends and family who've really about lying about being twenty nine on your dating profile. Yes, yes, but um, you know, when when we did the call, I didn't know what Evan was gonna say. We got him on the phone, and yes, he called me a liar because I am actually older than what my profile said. What I said on my profile, I panicked, you know, it's it's a lot Jason call your a liar on
the radio. So I went with what he said. Yes, I thought I was thirty, but the truth is I'm not thirty. What the whole thing was based on how it was only one year, it didn't really matter. Yeah, how old are you? I am thirty four? Oh that's still not that big, I know, but it is when you say, Okay, you're right, I'm thirty and then you come back out. Next time we're going to Calle, she's gonna be fifty. Why didn't you come clean and just
say that to us? Well, I was. I was worried that if I know, admitted that I was actually thirty four, I'd come off even more. That's right or whatever, because he's already really mad at me for being thirty. And Evan, how did you take that? Not as bad as I did the first time? Weirdly, Oh it was pretty bad. He was conditioned at that point. Uh. Well, she opened with it, which I appreciated, and uh, I get it.
Like she was on the radio, there was a lot of pressure, so I totally understood why she did what she did. Are you dating an older woman then? Right now? I am dating a cougar right now. It's nice when one of these actually turns out. Congratulations guys, and remember you can always email the show. We'll call the person who wasn't calling you bad. Broke and Jeffrey in the morning