Second update before we do today's second date update, I need a show of hands. Okay, if someone reaches out to us and says they technically didn't go on a date with this person, should we still help them? Yes, I'm saying helping us. It's literally called second date us taking the vibe of the room. I'm getting a yes from Alexis, I'm getting a yes from Jose. Oh, my
hands are all the way down to the grounds. It cancels out, so it's a no from Brook thinks it's not worth calling unless you've made it's a third base. But it's three against one, so let's just go to the phone. Rudy, what's up man? We're here to help. You know at least three of us are, Rudy, is your hand up or down? I'll take all the help I could get. All right, I'm the only one rooting for you over here, Riddy. So, I know you said technically you didn't go on a real date with this person.
But what's her name? Well, Alison is mainly usually just have one. She's like she's got a middle name and a last name too, so he wasn't sure which one to go in. There was a complicated trick back to happen at one point which I could get to. Okay, Okay, so the name has something to do with it, all I guess. So yeah, where did you meet Alison? So my one friend Mark, he's like a business marketing to tell you truth, I don't know exactly what he's Okay, Yeah,
that's where the title work. And it's in a huge building. Okay, you know what. He works for a big company. But Mark isn't the guy that we're calling right, No, no, no, okay, So we don't need his whole backstory. Why don't you tell us about Allison or whatever her name was. Okay, Well, he took us to this party anyways, he and our other friend Jeremy, and it was like this really superposh party. You know, there's gonna be free drinks there our friend Jeremy,
who went with us as a total partier. Okay, again, we just need to get to at the party. I'm just trying to set it up for Okay. So we go to the party. I feel like we're looking pretty suave and a couple of girls approach it. Okay, is one of these women Allison or is he? Are these completely other as well? Allison and her lovely friend Whitney came up to us and they asked us if we were waiters. Oh oh, that has happened to Jose before.
Did it happen once? Out? Well, I asked if we looked like waiters, and I thought we looked like the guys in pull fiction, So I thought we were looking more that five. You were a black button up. Everyone thinks you're a servant. Yeah, okay. I think they were mainly just trying to break the ice and flo with us anyway. And they were cool, they were funny. We were making them laugh, they were making us lab It
was we had a good thing going. Okay. So you guys started hanging out after the whole waiter to baccle, Yes, exactly. So there was this auction they were going to have, talking this five thousand dollars bottle of wine or whatever it was off, you know, and they were saying, if we win this bottle, you guys have to come share with us. So they were definitely putting it out there, and then you know, the DJ started up. It was all eighties music. We're all dancing together. And I don't
mean to be like bragging, but I'm pretty sure. Both the girls ran to me at this point. Both of them say that, yeah, just the way we were dancing, and you know, I felt like a bit of a pinball at one point, a dance flying, if you know what I mean. What was the way what do you mean the way you were dancing? Well, I was in the middle, and I felt like I was kind of getting knocked back and forth a little bit. Oh, it's like it's like like an Alison sandwich with whatever her
friend with her friend isn't with me. But okay, But then Alison pulled me to the side at one point and we were kind of soloeen, so I kind of inched her towards the darkness a little bit and where nobody can see where hear you. Well, you know, we were trying to find a little bit of privacy. I could it was going that direction. I mean, this is like part business like party in part middle school dance. Well the throwback eighties was I mean, yeah, it did
feel like a different time. But okay, speaking of that, when Doves Cry came on and she pulls me in and we start going at it. Oh it's a song. Yeah, it's an eighties song, So no Prince you don't know, pray you don't know. When doves Cry it's a really famous song from the eighties, very romantic. So she pulled you in to kiss during that, Yes, and it was very hot. It would look like a Prince video nic. You're wearing all purple, you got a ruffled shirt on.
So did something bad happened after this? Like? Why? Why? That's that's why. Yeah, that's what I don't understand. That's why I'm calling you, guys, Because after that wine auction was over, I went back. I couldn't find Allison, and I found her friend, Whitney, and she said Alison had left, but she gave me Alison's phone number, Okay, yeah, yeah, And I texted Allison and I mean we had it back and forth, but then suddenly she just ghosted stop responding.
Oh interesting. I mean at first I was I thought that, like, you know, maybe Whitney gave you the wrong number or something. But if you actually talk to her, yeah, I mean, is there anything else from the night that you think could have been a red flag for her? Not that I can remember. Was she like super wasted? No, we're you super wasted? I mean I enjoyed maybe two drinks at the beginning that, but weird dancing. By the time
I got the phone number, I swead it all out. Okay, okay, did you end up winning that five thousand dollar bottle of wine? No, we'll see nobody did. Maybe that was part of the problem. We only want the people that can afford this. All right, Rudy, Well, let's play a song. We'll come back call Allison, and then we'll try and get you your second day update. All right, all right,
thank you, all right, hold one. Sorry to bring back bad memories with the song, Rudy, but I decided to play my when Doves Cry instrumental that I made on my old retro Sonic sent the wave keyboard that I have at home. That's why it sounds like that. But the reason I'm playing it is because Rudy kissed a woman named Allison that he met at a recent charity event while this song was playing in the background. Yeah, by the time the night was over, Allison had already
taken off. Luckily, Rudy got her number from one of her friends who was still hanging out there. And so we're about to call Allison because she's been kind of slow, kind of Spotty responding to Rudy's text, Rudy, how you feeling, man? I mean that song was too soon to be honest. Did you ever even get a chance to ask Allison out again? I mean I tried to. That was the no response part. I think that's might have been where
we lef. I just completely don't understand it. Like, even while we were texting, I felt chemistry, and I definitely felt the chemistry that night when we were dancing. Yeah, for sure, the dark corners. Well, let's figure out what's going on. Man, We're gonna call Alison. We'll try and get your second date update. Are you ready? I am, I'm ready? All right, man, here we go. Hello. Hey, is this Alison? Yeah? Is this hey? My name's jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Oh um, I don't understand what is this. This is a radio show and we do a segment called a second date update. That's also what this is. Oh okay, have you ever heard it before? No? I haven't at all. Okay, I'm more helpful, but well, you should definitely go to my instagram at it's young Jeffrey and you'll find a little bit of information about our show on post once a year, A very small amount of information, but the quality.
Make the link to our website. We're legit, though we're not, like, we're not some weird Okay, Well, anyway, this is called a second date update. That's where if you go out with someone and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you can email our show and we'll reach out to them for you to help you figure out the reason why. Oh yeah, okay, okay, okay, it's good. Somebody likes you, they want to see you again exactly, and that person's name is Rudy. Okay, Oh, I don't want to do this.
Um okay, Oh do you remember Rudy then from the party? Yeah? I feel bad. I think he's probably a really nice guy. This is just my friend's fault. We're giving out my number Rudy to have your number. Are you in a relationship or something? No, it's the whole thing is really weird. It's kind of a long story. Um, that's actually perfect. We don't have too much time, But why don't we tell you what we know and then you can fill
in the blanks. Okay, okay, perfect, So we know that you met Rudy and a couple of his friends at a charity event, and you guys hung out for a while, shared some cocktails. You guys were talking about bidding on an expensive bottle of wine together, and you ended up dancing and you and Rudy shared a nice little kiss. Well we shared a kiss, that is true. Oh my god. It was like a moment for him. He even knew what song was playing when you guys were kissing. Yeah,
it was. It was when Doves Cry? Do you remember that? I remember? It was a slow song. Okay, it wasn't as magical maybe for you as it was for him. There were like no spark flip for me. It was wow, ye, something a little easy. Why didn't you like him? Okay, this is really bad, so please don't judge me. Um, but so, me and my friend weren't this thing and
it was really boring. At f to nite, we saw this group guys and I don't know how we came up with the idea, but basically we chose the one that was like the most medium attractive of the group and had a bet of like who could get him to kiss them first? Are you serious? Yeah? I know it's really bad. I didn't think i'd have to tell anybody about it, obviously, So no, I think it sounds kind of fun. It was fun. It was definitely fun. It was really messed up. It's definitely I would want
to admit to having done. But it was made the night way more interesting for sure. Yeah, and so Rudy Rudy was a guy. Yeah, So we were both kind of just like flirting and being a little competitive, and then like during a slow song, I was kind of able to sneak away with him, and oh, I see, this is why he was saying, like they both seemed kind of into me. Yeah, which I can't believe he was reading that right. I thought I was totally off base, Like, oh,
of course some guy always thinks that. Yeah, totally okay, Oh my gosh. I mean I understand it started as a bet. Was there anything maybe that was between you two? Like I said, there weren't any sparks, so yeah, I hit them, and then it was kind of like I got my twenty dollars and I just left to avoid the awkwardness. Man, So it's messed up that your friend Whitney gave him your number. Now I feel like she did it just to mess with me? Like I don't
know what he thought was happening. It feels like she was just kind of mess with me, like she was mad she lost her twenty dollars. Now you're on a radio show. Your friends rolled you to the Yeah, yeah, she owes me more than twenty dollars. Well, Alison, as much as I appreciate you sharing that with all of us, this is about to get a little bit more uncomfortable. Yeah, because I need to let you know that Rudy's been on the other line listening this entire time. Oh my god, No,
I feel bad yet, to really bad. Oh my god. I'm so sorry Rudy. Now, I thought this usually happens to bad guys, but I body, you're not a bad guy. You're a medium guy, a medium attractive. Apparently it felt like you were much more than medium attracted to me, and whether it started it as a bet I did, it felt like there were sparks to me better, No, bet,
I mean girls. Now, Okay, I'm really sorry. I mean it's not like I honestly even gave you a chance because I was just really this sounds mean we were just really bored and I was just kind of looking for something to do, and it was just like a competitive thing. And so I work forward, when you were hanging out with us, you were having a good time. So yeah, I did, and I appreciate you guys being
fine and I did have a good time. That's definitely true. Well, maybe you should give me a chance to show you a totally different situation. You approach it differently, just to hang out and see if you have a good time with no bed and no pressure from your friend and no twenty dollars. So I think that's kind of cool because I mean, listen to this guy. He could be I rate with you right now. He could be calling you names, he could be really angry, and instead he's
pretty understanding and pretty chill about it. Like I'm gonna understanding guy. I'm a sensitive, nice guy. Yeah, I mean, honestly, Rudy, it's an impressive response, just even keel, not too hot, not too cold, average Jeffrey. It's a good thing, Alison. I just think that, like, maybe there's something there if you actually did what he said and gave it a chance. Yeah, I mean, I I feel really bad. I feel like I probably owe you that much and don't do a
pity date. Yeah, I think I think Rudy's fine with that. Is it possible that Whitney gave Rudy your number because she felt like there was a connection there. I definitely didn't think about that until now. I mean, it's possible. Listen. I'm all for love, Okay, I love that, But this is probably the first time I ever said this, Why do you want to go out with her? Bro? She just rejected you. You look thirsty, now, dog, She's like, I don't like him. It was a game, and you're like, well,
let's do what you guys are a little thirsty. That's okay. Maybe I'm a hopeless ermanic, but I really felt something there, and I feel it's worth trying to get a secondhand. It's possible that it's possible to Allison was so focused on her winnings of twenty dollars that the money just blinded. So what was really there? That's one hundred percent what could have happened. I'm like an intensely competitive person. I
didn't think of it that way. I know, I never thought that line was gonna work, But since it did, how about this, I bet you will have a good time. If you go on a second, dude, are you seeing her twenty and raising her twenty doubling down? What are we doing? That's right, I'm going down. In fact, if you say yes to that, Allison, then we will offer to pay for that date. There we go, Okay, I would I would definitely do that. You were making so much money hanging out with this guy. Ye, all right,
that's yes, yeah, yes, yes, you will be sorry. Look at that in the air. Prince has entered the building once again. Congratulations, Rudy, thank you, Thank you guys. Oh my god, I didn't think this was good. I didn't think so either. I'm feeling a little bit tempted to kiss somebody here. Really, I love you. I love you too. Prince really does work magic time and Jacky in the morning. To be your best every day, you need proven quality sleep every night. Science proves your best sleep is vital
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