Second date of to day. They always say, if you go out looking for love, you'll never find it. Yeah, it's when you're not searching for it that's when love sneaks up on you and uppercuts you right in the face. That is the saying, right, I guess love punches you in the face. That's what happened to one of our listeners, Matt recently. He wasn't looking for anything serious and then that's when he got curb stomped by love. That was so violent? Is violent? How's your body doing? You know?
I got bit by the love bug man. It was a hard bite. Is this how you bros talk to each other? I got a bad infection with the love bugs? Bro. I know. So, Matt, you know what we're talking about. But why don't you tell everybody who's the girl that we're going to be calling to? What's her name? So? Her name is Anna? Okay, where did you meet special Anna? So? I was doing a tough mutter, like a obstacle course thing with some friends. And that's like the five K
right where they like run through mud. It's like an obstacle course thingstacle course, and sometimes you have to like army crawl. It's like freezing cold water. Yeah, it was fun. It was at I like to challenge myself. That's cool, okay, and how did you meet her doing it? So afterwards they have like a party, like there's like a beer garden, right, we kind of started talking and she was cute. I was like, oh, she's really cool. I mean I was thinking, like I just kind of want to hook up right
after the race. Aren't you like covered head to toe in mud? And yeah, it's kind of sexy. It's a little sexy. Yeah, but like women are in sports bras and tight bottle yeah. Yeah. So I was like I got her number and then so you planned a date for later not for that night? Yes, yeah, no, no, okay, we didn't want to just jump into the mud pile right there and just start rolling around two little piggies.
How did you make that so unattractive? We were going to meet out for some drinks and okay, not really dinner, but just kind of get to know each other, right. Yeah, at this point, I'm looking just to you know, keep it casual friends with benefits. Maybe, like I wasn't thinking anything serious. Yeah, you're not like this is my next girlfriend. But you're like, yeah, no chance. So she showed up and I mean my jaw hit the ground. I mean she was gorgeous, even more gorgeous than being covered head
to toe and mud. That's amazing. So then we started talking about like our careers, and we talked about fitness and kind of you know, we we had so much in common. I was like, oh my god, this girl's like perfect, you know, And I was like kind of like, holy, are you getting more nervous as the date goes on? Then? No, no, because I you know, I kind of think I'm cool. Okay, we just we seem to hit it off really well, and then I blew it. I completely blow it. Blew it.
You know you did something bad? Oh yeah, oh yeah, what happened? Man? So the waitress came over to bring us some drinks, and when she left, I kind of watched her leave. You watched the waitress leave? Yeah? Oh? Are you just always undressing women with your eyes? I mean the description of the mud party and then this, so as as I watched her walk away, Anna watched my eyes kind of follow her. Then she had to go meet her friends. Yeah, joke, like I just have
to know what shoes she's wearing. And then she said to me like, she's gonna walk down there. I was like, well, let me walk you, and she was just like, no, I'm good, I'm good, I said, I was. I was so pissed. I mean, girls get mad. If you're looking at your phone on a date, bro, imagine like literally at another woman. It's like, oh my god, it's just a sign of like one disrespect and two you can't like pay attention to me for one hour that went together.
But my mom looks so good in that dress, Like, oh my god, you have you owned up to it? Did you apologize? No? I haven't talked to her? Oh oh at all. You haven't reached out. Even no, I've reached out. No one's gotten back to me. I think that stood out, Brook. I think no matter what happens here, if she picks up, you have to apologize. She may never want to see again, but that's definitely something that needs to happen. Well, she's not responding, so I don't
think she wants to see me. Well that's what I'm hoping. Okay, Okay, well let's keep hoping. I'm gonna play a song, we'll come back, We'll call you stop looking at sorry, and then we're gonna call Anna for you and we'll try and get you a second date out date. All right, all right, thank you? All right, hold on, okay, get over, Okay. Second, he didn't want it to happen, but he did. That feeling that started in his pants ended up in his heart.
Times has that happened to guys out there? Hearts? You need to write some wedding vowels if you want to hire men. But one of our listeners, Matt met, a woman named Anna, had a tough mutter relay. He ended up asking around for a drink, just looking for friends with benefits. But once she wiped that mud off her face and started talking, he realized, oh my god, she's smart, she's beautiful. She might be a potential soulmate. Now he didn't say that, but you know, you get the point, Like,
there was more there than he originally thought. There would be such a good surprise, And it wasn't until a cute waitress walked by that things kind of started to go downhill. Is the waitresses fault? Oh yeah? Control himself. Watching her walk away, Matt, I'm thinking here that I'm not going to bring up the waitress situation when we call it, yeah, yeah, don't. Yeah, I don't usually meet girls like this, so I must be something wrong with me yet. But you usually do look at waitresses like that.
Is that what you're saying? Oh yeah, absolutely, yeah saying that to you. You guys are protecting it. I know, but I don't want to with the creep. You're cool, right, I'm not a creep. No, No, it's innocent, augling. We all do it, okay, yeah, okay, And look, if that's not the reason, it would definitely look really bad for us to be like so Anna, was it because he was making sheep eyes at that hot waitress? Like, honestly, I looked at the waitresses. I didn't even look at her. Okay, better,
it was really bad. Like it's my fault. Okay, you're getting worse. Okay, we'll let you apologize for it. After she says that's the reason that she's not calling, I have a weird feeling that Brooke is on your side for this matter. She's definitely pulling for you. But let's dial Anna's number. We'll see what I need. You all on my side. I'm working on it. I'm working on it. A day, do a turn for me and let me
see if I can work. Let's just call Anna here and we'll see what she has to say, whether she noticed it or not. You're ready, Matt, I'm not saying anything. Okay, good man, Here we go. Hello, I'm looking for Anna. This is Anna Anna. My name is jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing today? Wait? Sorry, yes, I am that Jeffrey from the think she met. She has no idea. I mean that's how I read it. Am I right? Anna? Okay, Yeah,
I don't know you're what you're talking about? Radio station? Yeah, yeah, you must be in the minority of the population. Yeah, but we're We're a morning radio show and we're doing a segment with you right now called a second Date Update. I'm live on the I'm live on the air. Yeah. And Hey, the way that this works is one of our listeners has reached out to us because he's been trying to get a hold of you and he hasn't
been successful. I'm talking about Matt. Matt. Oh, Matt, oh, yeah, you met at the Tough Mutter Uh huh, yep, Okay, I am really curious your thoughts on Matt. Okay, well, what if he what has he told you? He gave us an overview of how you guys met at the Tough Mutter, and he said, you went to a bar together and had a pretty nice time, but then you had to leave suddenly and go meet up with some friends down the road. Yeah, okay, I mean he just felt like he really connected with you, which was not
something that he totally expected. So he was pretty excited about it by the end of the night. Well that is until you like suddenly left right. Well that makes sense. Um, okay, why why? I just I think he and I had different expectations of what our hangout was going to be. Okay, okay, what was What was your expectation? Well, my idea was
really more of like having a hook up. Oh he was if he wasn't taking it there, No, he was like, goou eyeing me like love eyes, and I'm like, dude, you know what I mean, we can't say in the beginning of the night. That's actually he went in thank you that you guys were just going to have like a fleeing Yeah, I'm starting to run. But this is kind of funny because he said you guys like you surprisingly matched so well and every yeah, you guys like both kind of didn't know you wanted to hook up.
He was all like, what's your five year plan? Where do you see yourself in ten years? Yeah? I'm like, where are we going to be in thirty minutes from now? That's really funny And so wait, are you not looking for a relationship or you not looking for a relationship with him? No, the last thing I want is to hook up, and then I can't get rid of this dude, like any dude, I'm not into it right now, Like I don't want somebody being like, hey, can I put
a baby in you? Like I'm I don't know. Maybe instead of running away from him, you could have just told him that and he would have changed his tune. Hey, I just don't have time to like stroke his ego. I just wanted to have like go drink and have a good time. I didn't want to get serious. Well, no time like the present because I was actually Matt's been on the other line listening and he wants to talk to you right now. This is soon. You're not serious,
are you? Actually? I am? You met you there? Yeah, I'm here. Yeah, that was that was awkward. I think it makes it more awkward that you called us to have her call you. Yeah, it's pretty bad. I mean to say to Anna, Oh, well, I see where she wanted to go. I guess I misread the whole situation. So I'm a little embarrassed. Yeah, dude, wait me, I'm so uncomfortable. Anna. Are you there? Yeah, I just I'm kind of shocked. He was all, like, where are you
looking for in a husband? I'm like, dude, whoa, I've known you for an hour, Like, relax, that a lot, it's a lot. That's a lot. Really, So you're saying that doesn't work for you to get you into the bedroom and husband material, not unless for role playing. I think that's totally what Matt was doing. Yeah, exactly. Like I was into just kind of hooking up too, but then when we started talking, we were kind of vibeing, we were into a lot of the same things, so
I kind of went off the track a little bit. Okay, So you would have been fine just having a one night thing with her. I mean, I think we would have been more than one night, as much as you know, dude, I want more than one night. Trying to say is he doesn't care about you or your feelings. He just wants your bob exactly. I'm pretty good, so I think it'd be more than one night lay. He didn't tell you guys that he wanted more from me or anything, did no, no, none of that. He just pure rod
love me exactly how I said it. Yeah, whatever this is, this is so bizarre. I'm so I can't even talks. I mean, Matt, look at this. I didn't even have to bring up the waitress and it's still wait waitress. Were you talking about what waitress? Uh? Yeah, go ahead, Matt, the woman that served our drinks. When she walked away, I kind of looked at her, and I saw you look at me, look at her, And that's where I thought I screwed up. Cute. I was like, oh maybe this could be a thing with all of you. Yeah,
why not? Hold? Oh god, wow, did I blow this? Huh? You can recover two minutes ago he knew he blew it. Now he knows he really nothing got blown. Actually, Anna, is there any way that Matt could salvage this right now and see you one more time? Because we would pay for that meet up? Probably a really quick meet up. It sounds like, yeah, I just can't risk having like a puppy dog following me around. No, that wouldn't happen. Now I know what you want. Now it's fine, it's
no problem. Yeah, did that break his heart after that date? Its trainable. He brought me onto a radio show. If he just wanted to one night stand, he could find that anywhere. So sorry, we couldn't get you another date there, buddy, I blew it all by myself. You guys shlped me realize how bad I blew it be careful was saying I blow it all by That's a weird Jeffrey in the morning. Oh we need more Annas in this world
life whatever. There's Anna's all over the place, and you're like, oh, Brook, you sleep with too many people, I mean in my old life anymore. Come on, you don't really need her. I need her. You just are scared of her. The problem with our society is that we just can't come out and say directly what we want. Yeah, because if that's the very first thing that Matt had said at dinner that night, that I want to hook up, it would have worked out better than how on the radio.
Can I say, hook up one night, not hook up relationship whatever. You do not need to be talking about what you're looking for in a husband on a first date. Yeah, No matter what your goal is, the question is where's the line? You know that that's what we're trying to find. Balance. I don't know, but Anna was absolutely turned off because Matt did seem a little bit too into her. Yeah, when all that she was after was a little bit of mattress crow. Ok. Yeah, that sounds fun, but it's
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