Second. Not too long ago, Brooke taught me a very valuable lesson on etiquette. Okay, what was it. She taught me that when you go to a party, the number one rule is do not show up on time, because that makes you look lame. Yes, well not just that, but like the host, like I'm always running late, like I hate when people get there, I haven't finished throwing everything in the closet before you got to my house. You need to show up late thirty minutes an hour.
That's good. So I'm assuming the same rule applies to a first date. No, don't show up on time, or else you'll look like some desperate loser who has absolutely nothing going on. This is why you don't get social etiquette. And that's why one of our listeners, Todd, lives by Brooks model because he was not on time and translation he cool. No, what's up? Cool? Todd? Hey are you? Are you remorseful that you were late? Todd? A little bit? But cool people aren't remorseful, Brook, Yeah, I had another
beautiful attendee at my residence. If you know what I mean. Oh wow, you double booked yourself for the same night. I mean bold move. Friend sounds to me like he had to holdover from the night before. Was kind of got a little lost in the sauce about just lost track of time. But though this is not about that, Okay, Yeah, I mean it could be if that's the reason you gave your date that you were late. Did you say that to her time? No, did you say that to her?
I don't even know her name yet, Todd, Who were you talking about? The beautiful Monica? Oh my god, Monica? Monica? Listen? Was I remorseful just the time I got there and I saw how beautiful she was? This was a lady that you're on time? Cool? Okay, okay, so the ugly people you're not on time for. So how late did you show up to Monica's date? I'm gonna say about forty five minutes. Oh dude, you're lucky she was still under an hour. It's forgivable. You could blame it on
traffic at least standards, bro. That was one of the excuses that I threw out there. You know, some family is some different things. You know, where were you meeting Monica? I don't really want to disclose that, but I did meet her on tender Why don't you want to say where you were meeting. You don't have to say like the exact name of the place, but a general you know business. We were there for brunch. A restaurant, Yeah,
let's do that. A restaurant. Okay. I just don't want to give out too many details in the event that this doesn't go well, you know my other d she's still fine, Okay. I just wanted to make sure we're keeping everything in line here. All right, all right, you got the first girl on backup, just in case the second date doesn't case. You know how it is, right, Yeah, sure, let's focus on Monica. They'll tell us about how runch
on parting, well, well, you know, it was great. I mean, we had some conversations a little bit about life, but I just wanted to tell her about my truck. Truck is red, beautiful rams. The interior is leather right now. Has comedy wheels on that truck. Four all four of them. Dude, what I understand. These guys are kind of like, you know, letting you talk about the truck. But was Monica interested in that at all? No? Not. I'm glad you're aware.
We did. Yeah, we did get to the fact that not only is she beautiful, but she has artistic skills. She's an interior designer. Oh you finally asked her about herself. I mean, well, I didn't really actually told me about it. Women always trying to like talk at you. So I suggested, listen, you do interior decorating my apartment. No interior her work. He wanted to get free work. Listen. I thought that that was interesting. Well, if she's truly passionate about what
she does, she probably enjoyed doing that for you. What did she say did she do it? Well, she did come through and take a look, which was to my surprise. Well not really because they called me Todd the bot. Right, this is what I could And I'm guessing the first girl was already gone by that time, or was she hiding somewhere? So why do you think I was forty five minutes late? Brother? I had to make sure everything was clear, just in case something like this happens. A
tied with the bot also has a brain's good. What was Monica's reaction when she walked into her apartment. Well, I did see her eyes open up a little bit to see how clean it was. You know, I don't know what kind of guy she deals with But I didn't know that my lazy Boy chair that I love so much, she didn't really take to that too well, I don't know. I didn't like that. I mean, you're asking for an interior designer, right, not a comfort expert. Yeah. Well,
she needs to know where these things belong. Okay, this is really like a part of me. I've had it to this college. Right. Wait, okay, you win ahead and argued with her about her opinion what you should have in your apartment after you Oh no, no, no, no, I didn't do any argument. Well, get the experience of the lazy Boy. So I had to sit down and you know, I got a little close and want to see where things would go. But she was with she
she kept it professional. Right. Isn't I understanding that you tried to put the moves on her while she was in the Lazy Boy? Yeah? And those moves do we work? You know the lazy Boy when I lean it back, right, yeah, I can see it. After that, she just trying to got up and left, and I'm like, what what happened? Bro? After telling your story, do you feel like maybe you didn't spend enough attention on her? And I mean you
know I actually your betther hair. Now I have a personality when we have hair, Aaron Nail, thank you, thank you for saying that. Finally, it's nice that you Yeah, all right, so you like her though, you want to go out with her more than once? Yeah, I thought she was beautiful. Okay, okay, you have to have more than just you're pretty to have chemistry with somebody. Brother, you have to be able to back and forth. And we talked. She does great work, she showed me on Instagram.
Wouldn't bad stuff. And remember this segment isn't about like setting up lifelong loves. It's about getting a second date good. That's all that we're trying to do. So love to have life along love with her. I'll tell you that. Yeah, in the back of your truck even maybe. So let's see what we can do for you. That's the lazy boy in that bed and go to work. But we're gonna come back and we'll call Monica and get you
your second date. Update. All right, Todd the bod good hold on second, big trucks, hearty runch and lazy boys that recline all the way back. That's the ideal first date for a guy. For sure, Okay, but not sure how the ladies would feel about something like that. I mean we didn't ask. We was just saying not sure. That's how I mean. I think that's the point. You didn't ask Monica either, He didn't anybody. That is how our listener Todd the bod role during his first date
with Monica. The thing is he is man enough to admit mistakes were made. Yeah, did he actually say that? I don't know if I had that. I thought said it was like a little bit regretful about having the other woman at his house before she showed up. That's a big ask for a man to admit that he's a little bit regretful. Give him some credit. He's also man enough to have a radio show help him out
with his dating life. Brook, Is there any anything else that you want to tell Todd before we call Monica here? You know, Todd, you say that you are really interested in her. She is a beautiful woman. It just feels like maybe you need to be more in tune with her needs. Can you even ask a question? Yeah? Sure, Alexis that could be a good start. Can you do that, you think, Todd? Sorry, Todd didn't mean this to be an intervention. Yeah, we're just trying to help you. Any
attention from the ladies is good, you know. I mean, I take the coaching ladies. I appreciate that. Okay, So you think I like that somebody who can listen to some constructive criticism, that's good. This is a good step, just for a few minutes, though, you guys, Let's wrap this up, all right, Let's wrap it up and let's call Monica and see what she hasked to say, try and get you a second day. You're ready, Todd, Let's do it all right, here we go. Hello, Hey, is
this Monica? Just Monica? Sorry to lean back and relax a little bit. This Monica trying to be more manly right now, trying to play it cool. You're like man spreading Monica there, Hi, Monica, can't see Hi? Well, what's going on? You're on the coolest radio show in town? Good? You know what show that would be? Monica answer. I have no clue, and I'm a little nervous. She's playing at KOI I feel you, Monica, but you're on with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning right now? Okay, Hi, guys,
What's what's going on? On that. Okay, Hi, Monica, We just have some questions for you if you have some time. Question one, how do you feel about trucks? Oh my gosh, they're fine? Okay. Question two in a good movie. How do you feel about one of our listeners, Todd, who you ran out on a date with recently? Oh? Sweet, him sweet? That would never be a poor time. Okay. We're doing something with him called a second Date update, and he's trying to figure out why you two haven't
reconnected for a second date. There is so many things. Was the date was? The date was okay? There were some really good sweepings, you know, like he pulled out the chair, he's too chivalrous for you. But he was late. He was super late for the date. And I waited for a really long time. I can't believe you were waiting that long. Did you think in that forty five
minutes that he ditched you? Absolutely? I just was like, well, I'm going to have a drink at the bar or whatever, like I might as well enjoy my like start my afternoon off right after being stood up as what I thought? Okay, Well, and Todd did mention to us that he was really late and he says he feels very, very remorseful about that. Well, let's just tell him at the time. I mean, I'm an interior designer. I can't be late to job right and because of that, but carries into all my day
so I'm never late for anything. But I still went for it and was like, let me give him the benefit of the doubt. And it sounds like it must have been pretty good because the two of you ended up back at his place. Do people always ask you for help when you tell them you're an interior designer? They do? And I don't mind offering up help for that, like it's it's a gift rate, like I have an
I feel like it. Okay, I don't mind sharing. So when he said, oh, I have a gut my apartment needs to be redecorated, like, I was weary because you know, guys will say that and just want to get you to the house. So I was like, let me again give them the benefit of the doubt. It's interesting. I don't know why you would do that, but okay, I you know, I definitely didn't. It definitely changed once I
got there. Okay, that's what I think, That's what we're almost interested in, Like, what was it about being at his place that kind of turned you off? If you were turned off, well, it was it was fine. We were just showing me the room and talking about the things that they wanted to do, and they changed in the rooms and then he started talking about his lazy Boy chair and I was like, okay, yeah, I'm not a fan of lad boy, but he was like do you like it? And I was like sure, it's nice.
I didn't want to offend him. And then he started hetting my hair and he's like, I bet you, and he got it started getting really yeah, well you said for yourself right before, like thirty seconds ago, that this is what you knew was going to happen, but you wanted to do some benefit of the doubt thing. Yes, And I mean I didn't feel unsafe, h I kind of just like awkwardly got up. I'm like trying to
get give myself a space. And then he's started talking about how he needs a new roommate and like, if you ever need one, if you need a roommate, I'm looking for a new one. And I was at that point I was just I was like, you know what it's getting I have some things I gotta do and I laughed. So it sounds like you. I mean, you were attracted to Todd. You like Todd. It just got too intends too much too soon? Yeah too, my, Oh well,
I don't want to. I hope you can handle just a little bit more because hot Todd with the boat is actually on the other line right now and wants to talk. Oh no, you didn't say anything, mean a love, How are you doing? She just said it was too much Todd. Don't come in love? Hey, how you doing? God? Love here? And that sweet little voice yours? What I did over here? The voice is great time. Were you hearing the words that the voice? I mean, it's just
sweet music every time she speaks. So yes, you know, I'm gonna have to just say this is I thought that me ignoring your phone calls and texts was enough for you to get the point like it did not go out, no not, You just needed to refresh, you know. And I don't know, it seems like you're one of those guys as well. You don't take no for an answer.
Oh you know, I think, yeah, Tree, that we had you know, you came over Yeah tide Monica, baby listen I think what's going on To let you know, you have to understand when you have a great opportunity here, Listen, Todd, by selling yourself. I have no idea how many guys do you me that has such a great interior like that. I mean, like I got my initials in the head respect time when I put it in there, right, that is pretty cool, Monica. You don't want to look back
on this with regret. I am. I am already regretting, answering and staying on this phone call y'all, like, I don't blame you? Why all right? Todd? Todd, Todd, we need you. We need you to take a break. We need you to Todd, Todd, bro Todd, we need you to take a break from talking and just listen for a second, Okay, because I need to ask Monica, would you like to go out with Todd for a once in a life? Hold on, Todd, hold on top, Monica.
I want you to picture yourself leaning slowly back in a very comfortable lazy boy all right, and having the best night of your life with Todd. Never Okay, do you understand that, Todd? Bonica, Babe, we shall get through this. This is my God it's so good. Your number is going to be blocked on my phone call again. These people get up too early in the morning. They're not really in their right mind. So it's sounding to me like Monica just missed out on another day with the
world's most interesting man. Is that what it sounds like to you? That's how we're going to spin it today. If your truck is the most interesting part of you, I don't think that you. I don't really think that was funny. Guys. It didn't work out for you this time, Todd, But maybe next time? Can you always have the first girl? That's right? Hey, guys, I mean, where's the broken? Is there any broke? I sorry, I'm sorry. Let me get out of here. You're right, you know what. This was
my bad, that was my fault. I'm sorry, broken, Jeffrey. In the morning, that second date update made me think of you know that famous saying, if at first you don't succeed, try try again. That's a terrible saying for this. Jeff Todd added like eighteen hundred tries after the first three. And I love our listeners, Todd. I don't know, I don't know, but no listener in general, he just does we just play in the background and he has no
idea what we're saying. Love these guys, Yeah, but there is something to be said about a man who knows what he wants. Why are you still trying to time? I'm just I don't know. Todd obviously does have some work to do on himself. Yes, if he could just shut up for two seconds, he might actually learn something. I mean, maybe there's a woman who doesn't like to talk that we'll find him. Well, there was a Yeah, I don't think they were talking. That's where the secret lies.
Get right to business. But if you ever want to get a second date update, remember you can always email the show. We'll call the person who isn't calling you back. Find all the second date updates on our podcast. Yeah, just search Brick and Jeffrey on like Spotify, Apple Podcasts, wherever you get your podcasts.