Second Date Update: Surprise Hat Trick

mom had a real hard labor. It sounds like she was a fan of blues clue. So Hat, tell us about the guy that you want to call today. What's his name? His name is Mannie Manny? Okay, okay, yes, how'd you meet Manny? So you know it's super interesting. We met on a zoom party. Oh cool, like a happy hour with friends. Yeah, you know, it was a bunch of different friends and I just kind of noticed him during the call. He had a cute look about him. Kind of WiFi though, but um, what does that mean?

See like the wrinkles in your forehead they're like WiFi. Oh oh my god, it does look like the Wi Fi symbol. Oh well, so wait, he was heavily wrinkled, and that's what you liked about. I know, I just noticed that, like, you're cute, but okay, you've got some wrinkles, so maybe he's a little age. You know, his WiFi is fully connected. Okay, but no, he was just kind of cute and I didn't think much of it. Said. He ended up private messaging me afterwards. I mean, were

you excited about that? Well? I wasn't sure at first. Okay, no, it's a little weird, but it was fun. And he said that I was cute, said you're a cute. What a line? Yeah. I was like, come on, what else can you tell me? But like he said, I had a che and you went vibe, which was a nice compliment to get. Oh gosh, okay, okay, well, you know it's better than just like, yeah, you're cute, come over. Yeah for sure. So did you guys meet in person for a date or did you do it all virtually

as well? Yeah, we started with just the private messaging dming, you know, some spicy, flirty chat. Yeah, and then we just recently finally met. Okay, all right, and that's that kind of typical you know, you get meet on the app, then you get the number, then you just move baby steps. I mean, and you'd seen this guy on zoom, so you know currently what he's looking like. Like, you can't get catfished at this point, but they're still like, how did he read in person compared to like his two

dimensional image? Were you excited? Well, he's you know, he's cute. The WiFi was going on, and so what did you guys do for your date? It was actually really clever and cute. He is a chef at a pizza plate, a pizza chef. Yeah, he had so on his day off, he brought me over to make pizza. Oh my god, isn't he so sick of that? You would think that he'd want to make something else. Yeah, I guess he wanted well, you know, he's really good at it, so he probably just wanted a show off. Yeah. If there's

one food that you could eat constantly, it is Pizza's true. Yeah, it's true. Yeah, well, I mean I've never done that, you know, the spinning of the dough and stuff. So it was really different. Oh my god. Yeah, we're getting really you know, silly and cute. But it got really busy, like order wise and so this was during the restaurant. Yeah, he was at his work, chef. I thought he was at home. He was not working. Oh, but he just

took you there while the restaurant was open. Yeah, all right, So he thought that you guys could go back into the kitchen because it'd be slow, and he could show you where he works makes some pizzas he wasn't on the clock. Is that what you're saying, correct? Okay, Okay,

that makes sense. And then there's a Russia pizza. What happened? Well, yeah, sook out pretty busy, and his boss asked him if he could just work a teeny bit and so it was fine at first, but it was like twenty minutes or more of me just watching him make pizza, and you know, it's like the line cooks are screaming at each other. Okay, so I felt sort of bad, but I was just like, I'm gonna, you know, head out and when you can call me later or whatever. So I don't know if that was the best idea, but

you know, I was cramping his style. It wasn't that fun for me anymore. Is that how the date ended? You just left while he was making pizzas? Pretty much, dude, I think he totally owes you a call at a redo. Yeah. Yeah, he did actually call later that night. You know, I was playing sort of hard to get and you know, I wanted to wait like a couple of days to reach back out. Okay, I don't know if that works after we've already gone on a date. Yeah, it's like

almost like your date never ended. Yeah, right, so like he just wanted to close up what had started. Well, I don't know. I feel like it makes him feel If he felt bad, it's going to continue that feeling. So when she does it him up, I'll want to talk to her right away. So you you support her decision. Why, Yeah, he messed up on the date. I have to, you know, teach him a lesson. I get it. Yeah. Yeah, it's not working though, because he's not calling you back. Now,

is that what's happening? Yes, after like three days or so, I then called him back, and now I haven't heard from him. Yeah. This is this is where you start playing games forever, all right, hat Well, yeah, so here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Manny for you, and we'll try and get you a second date. Update. Okay, perfect, all right, second if you're just tuning in for the second date update. We're on the phone with a woman named Hat. That's

her real name. It's not short for anything. But her first date with Manny had all the romantic things that women love. Large mounds of cheese, thick cuts of spiced meats, hello, stop things slowly rising dough in particular. Yes, very yeasty first date because they made pizzas together at Mannie's work. Unfortunately, there was a food rush in the middle of their date. Mannie's boss asked if he could step in to help fill some orders. It got so busy. Hat decided to

call it off early and then to teach him a lesson. Yeah, she decided not to call him back or stay in contact with him for a few days, which made him sweat a little bit. But it kind of backfired because now she can't get a hold of him. So now we're going to try and help Hat out to get another date. You know, there's a fine line when you're playing hard to get. It's like you want to be accessible, not too accessible, and I think you went to completely unaccessible. Yeah,

if you guys, can help me out. I'm I'm ready to apologize. I'm ready to throw down my hat. Okay, I like that. You're even in on the hat shot. Yes, all right, okay, so let's dial Manny's phone number right now and see what he has to say. Okay, okay, thanks, all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Manny please? This is him. Hi, Manny. My name is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in

the Morning. Do you have a second Yeah? Cool. We're doing something that we do on our show called a second Date update. Okay, are you familiar with the show or that particular segment at all? No, I'm not. Okay, well good. So basically the way it works is if you go out on a date with someone, and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you can reach out to our show and we'll contact that person for you to figure out the reason why people do that. Yeah,

the world's getting pretty desperate lately, so we're the last resort. Now. The woman that wanted to get in touch with you, her name's Hat. Okay, Yeah, I'm sure you're not getting there confused with thegether hat? You know? Yeah, you know no, I know, I know who you're talking about, right, So obviously she reached out to us because she had a really good time with you, and she wants to know why you're not getting back in touch with her. Is there a reason you guys seem to know a lot.

I don't know how much you do know. But she did tell us a little bit about you guys's interaction. She said, you met on zoom and eventually met up in person at your pizza restaurant. Yeah. Well, I don't know. She was a little hot, cold kind of thing, and then disappeared on me. So oh. She said that the pizza restaurant, when you were there showing her how to make pizza, that it got busy and your boss asked you to step in and start working. Yeah, that's not what I mean. So we met on zoom and when

we started talking to each other on the phone. Um, I don't want to be inappropriate, but the calls were just pretty steamy in nature, you know, they were a little bit of it. They were like naughty calls. I don't know how I could say that, so you could say naughty calls. Yeah. Yeah, she didn't tell us that. She just said you guys had a phone conversation. Well, she seemed very into and I was definitely into her.

So when we met each other in person, that was kind of like the opposite, you know, she was very different. It wasn't the same. It was kind of awkward. So you could see like where somebody has confidence, you know, kind of hiding behind a phone call and then to actually deliver that in real life is a little bit. I mean, it's a different game, right, I understand you, and you weren't there on the phone call, so you

don't know exactly. But it was a few phone calls and they were pretty naughty, and I play, I'm not making her sound bad. I was definitely naughty back. But so what was your expectation. I mean, you invited her to where you work. She was She's probably not going to lay that on thick there, right, Yeah, that's not what I mean. I just mean, like the next days, I just I didn't think she was into game playing. I thought she was more into being straightforward. That's kind

of what I got from her. And then when I felt like she was playing games, I was like, I'm not into that. Yeah, I'm I appreciated her being more straightforward, and I guess that's what I'm trying to say. Okay, I guess I could see how it would be confusing where you start off and you're basically talking dirty to each other and then the next day she won't even

speak to you. Yeah, right, scenario. But also you got to give her some like slack here, because there's I mean, there's so many messages coming in when you're single and you're dating about like what men want, what they don't want, Like maybe she felt like she went too far on the phone calls and now she had to make up for lost time and play hard to get like it can get to be a lot. I totally agree with you, and I think now with technology involved, it's really hard

to know what's genuine and what's not. Okay, Okay, Well, I think maybe it's enough of us trying to speculate and talk about her. Why don't we just have Hat talk directly to you dirty, because she's been on the other line listening this entire time, and she wants to speak with you. She's on the phone. Yeah, she Hat you there? Yeah, Hi Vanni, Hi, Hi Hat, Hey, how have you been doing good? I owe you an apology I'm sorry. I seemed like I was playing games or

you know, leading you on. I shouldn't have waited so long to get back to you. Yeah, your voice did kind of turn into like sexy hat right there. You know, the date was awkward when you know, you had to start working and stuff, So I guess I felt like I wanted to I don't know, I guess teach you a lesson or play a game. But I'm not about games or anything. It's just dating is tricky, especially when you meet over zoom. I don't know. Yeah, no, I know,

and you were you were understanding. Um, we're really small business. You know, I get called in sometimes, so I appreciate you understanding that. So wait, do you guys still like each other right now? I mean I never stopped liking her. Oh you look at you a little shooty. Yeah, I'm definitely still interested in him. Might be sad if I didn't get to see him again. Guys, And is this more than just like you know, like dirty phone calls. Is this like you like you see potential? Maybe manny?

I mean she strikes me as someone that I could definitely have a long relationship with. I mean, I like, I like more and more relationships like that. You know, I'm not a one and done type of guy. Okay, all right, well, I mean this is sounding like you guys are a really good match. He was just a little bit of a miscommunication. Chet. What is that right? Well, yes, I think he's super genuine and I love his vibe. But I want to make sure I am honest and

not playing any games. So I really want to make sure you know that. Um, I am in two other open relationships. Well, hold on, you can't hold all the boyfriends you do, and you're just like gathering men. You have two other boyfriends. Well, it's like an open relationship. We see each other, you know, every now and again, but you know they know about each other and they know, you know, it could potentially become free. So now with Manny, you're going for the hat trick. So that's where that

term got it. Yeah, you naughty little hat man. How are you feeling about this? So open? Like? I mean, I know the term, but like what do you open? Like open? Like full on open open everything like eleven? Yeah, well, no, you know we see each other, we don't all hang out together. Just you know, you're dating multiple people, you know, So does that mean Manny could also date other people? Correct? Huh, this feels like something that's more normal now, like everybody's

pretty much dating everybody anyway. It is, It's very normal. I'm not the only person doing that. There's two other guys. It's so hard to find one relationship. How are you finding so many? I don't know. It's zoom calls guys, zoomo. Are you on board? Manny? Uh? There's like two answers and I don't. Uh, well, let's get one of those answers, because I'm going to ask you right now, would you like to go out on a date with Hat? I

really like you. I think you're a great person. I'm not I don't want to judge you at all, but I just don't know if I'm into two other dudes. That just sounds right. You don't have to be into the dudes like you just have to be into Hat. You're never gonna Yeah, No, I'm absolutely willing to have a conversation about it because it would probably be one of the most interesting conversations I've ever had. Well, Manny, I just have to check with the other two guys.

You know that this has happening but it should be fine. You should have checked with them before you call us, like, that's that's how this works. Well, they knew about the awkward situation. Now I can let them know that we're going on another day. There you go, Just just go to your other boyfriend's hat in hand and ask them for permission. This has been so great. Thank you guys so much. Yeah, all right, well, congratulations, Hat, you got

a third boyfriend. Like she's buying them in the bulk section. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.