Second Date Update: Super Fan Not So Super Result

or kind of kind of boring? Or do I go with a super fan of our show named Kayla who gave me very little information about her actual date but says she loves us. Okay, I'm going with the super fans. Kayla, welcome to the show. Oh my god, did you even go on a date with anybody? Care? So? Okay, I want to go to date with all of you. That's what I want to tell us about. What we can do that after that, after we're with that, I'm just

so excited. Right, let's all take a breath, And why don't we talk about the guy that you went out with? What's his name? Okay? His name is Dean? Okay, all right? And where did we meet Dean? Let's taken online online, huh. And we agreed to have a drink together. And so I was a little late when I got there, and it was super crowded and I couldn't find him anywhere. I was like doing the struggling around, and I got a little a panic that maybe he bailed on me,

like some of the others have. Oh okay, who would bail on you? Yeah? Oh see what? I love you, all right? You? So what happened? Anyway? I finally saw him, like recognized him, and he was way over in the corner and he waved me over and I went over there and he just gave me the biggest hug. It was like so nice. It was like the best hug I've ever gotten in my whole life. It's kind of like my Grandpa used to give me, but I didn't get that him. Hopefully you tell him that, like this

is just like Grandpa. God, and your skin so thin. He's so funny. No, I kind of feel like she's mocking us. Oh my god, No, never. So were you Were you as excited to see Dean as he was obviously excited to see you? Yeah? I really wasn't it. He was really charming, you know what he was like. He was like you, Brook, he was like a male version of you. It's like super funny, super clever, charming. Though, what did he tell you what to order off the menu? I don't do that either. That's okay with him. I

feel like I'm a very good listener, Thank you very much. Sure, so let's go back to the dinner. What happened? It was really just strength. And then afterwards I did, I went back to his place because he just seems so great. Okay, now we're sounding more. Day. I could play both roles very well, Jeffrey, Okay, did it feel just like a one night hook up though, like a one night stand? Not at all, not at all. It's like we talked about life stuff and our dreams and our goals like

it was really it was really nice. Yeah. So did you end up staying the whole night over at his place? I did, and and then the next morning he was total gentleman. He even drove me home like it was just it was wonderful. Okay, wow, I mean because he could easily just order an uber or something. Yeah, Alexis you and I need to go out together. For sure, we should party because I think that I could introduce you to some great guys. Okay, I was scared, Okay,

so I mean obviously this all sounds great. What do you think went wrong? Oh? I didn't think anything us for a second day. She's obviously not seeing him, he's not calling her. We don't know that. What what's happened since the date ended? She emailed us, Well, let's let's

ask about it. Brook. So we've been texting each other and like, you know, we've been sort of like saying, well, I've been saying we should get together again, like maybe just some kind of midweek get together after work or something. But you know, he didn't seem to be like like he's not saying no, but he's not like mo forward, you know, at all. So um, I just thought maybe you all could help, okay a little bit. You know, I could say no to you. Okay, Well, well you've

obviously not listened enough then say to us. There's thousands of women I could introduce you. Oh my god, what are you get to your next song of the week? My favorite probably on a Friday. Pressure. You are so talented, that's my favorite thing. You are huge. Jeffrey's face is really red, right, Yeah, I don't do well with compliments, So let's just move past this moment. Thank you right back. Yeah,

we'll be back if you're just joining us. We're talking to a big fan of our show named Kayla, who went up with a guy the other night named Dean and they had drinks together. She spent the night at his place and afterwards, though it's been a little bit tough arranging another meet up. Yeah, so she wants our help.

And before we make this call, Kayla, I just want to ask, because we do talk to a lot of people with this segment, not all of them are super fans like yourself, did you bring up our show at all on the date, because if you did, it may have hurt you. I mean, Dean may have listened afterwards and thought, oh god, you listen to this trash. Yeah. You know, it's it's hard not to talk about it

because I am, like, I'm a pretty big said. But the flame thing is like I didn't talk about it too much because he wasn't as familiar and every time I started to tell his story, I would just laugh so hard. It was like I was gonna almost be my pan. Well, I remember he did he did invite her back or you. Yeah, you invented his place, right, so I could have been too about it, right. Yeah, we were in a total turn off what I'm saying. But maybe he just did that to get her to

shut up about us, That's what I mean. That makes you laugh so hard at get it? I don't think so though. You know we're all pulling for you. Here, Kayla, We're gonna call Dean right now, are you ready? Yeah, you're the best. He gets so simple, Jeff, I mean not used to that, so thank you, thank you. Um, let's just do the number him. Go, Hey is this Dean? Yeah? Hey, no, my name is Jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. What's going on? You are to the point, sir,

like that you're her man? That's good with his words. Um, you're not, You're not. I know. That's why I'm so impressed. Anyway, we're doing a segment that we do on our show called a second Date Update. That's where no oh no, I uh no, I just went out with a girl who was talking about this. Yeah, okay, yeah, I think that we may be talking about the same person. Yeah, Oh, yeah, I she loves you guys. Okay, yeah, what you know what? She also she also said she really likes you and

that's why she emailed us about you. Her name's Kayla, right, Is that the girl you were thinking about? Yeah? I mean she said you guys had still been texting after your night together. I'm sorry, what did she tell you? What do you know? Well, so that's what this segment is all about. It's where we help our listeners get back in touch with someone after they've been ghosted following a good date. So, kay, let's hold us about the night that you two had together. And it seemed like

it was a really good time. Okay, but I didn't ghost her. I mean we've texted back and forth, right, right, So maybe I misspoke there. She's been having a hard time getting another hang out with you, and she doesn't

understand why. I mean, I want to be a jerk, but I you know, we we had our date and then she immediately texted me about hanging out the very next night, and I had a work thing and then she texted me what about the next night or the next night, the next night, the next night, and she I mean, again, I don't I don't want to be a jerk, but it just seems like she's sort of available to you. Yeah. Well, I mean, but that's the

thing that sucks. She's just like she's available because she's excited. Well, to me, the whole available thing just see kind of clingy. I mean, we met each other once and she's already blowing up my phone. It's just too much, too fast. This is okay, I mean clingy, Dean. I think you need to slow your role a little bit. There. You jumped in a little quick. You know how this works. You're supposed to wait. But you know what he's saying, that I paid too much attention to him. I mean,

that's what guys want, right, I mean, that's ridiculous. Well some guys as so, Dean. I gotta let you obviously, let you know that's Kayla. She's um. She's been listening the whole time. What if it wasn't Kayla. What what's going on? Are you guys setting me up or something? Oh? No, poor Deane. Well, we wanted to set you up another date with Kayla, hopeful, but we were hoping we could find some middle ground between you guys. And Okay, if you guys wanted to set it up so she could

attack me. Huh, not at all, man. I mean we're just trying to get some clarity because she didn't understand what was going on after your date happened, and you can understand why she'd be a little bit confused because it's hard to know what a guy wants. Sometimes we're not the best communicators. Thank you, Jeff, I mean to get me, and that's totally why you're my favorite on

the show. Yeah. Thanks, okay, but uh but Dean, like seriously, like some guys do like having more attention from women, and some guys want to be like catered to and taken care of. Other guys prefer it the other way. You just have to communicate that to her. Yeah, yeah, I think she should find one of those guys who

need that and maybe doesn't have as much going on. Okay, because you were I mean obviously you were into her in some capacity because like you guys talked, when you had drinks, you went back to your place, like you even drove her home in the morning. Like it sounds like you were a real gentleman and you respected her then and it doesn't feel like you do now. And I don't understand. Again, I'm not trying to be a jerk guy. It just doesn't seem like we're a good match.

I need someone with a little bore going on in their own life because I'm a busy guy. I can't have someone glombing onto me. I'm not at that place climbing on. What was that hug? What kind of thing those are sending a hug? That's a good point. I mean, the signals are all over the place. I don't understand. You seem to be into it. She's raising some pretty good points, Dean. Okay, well this is my best signal to you. No, thank you? Wow, wow, really cold after

you know what? Mean? You should just be quiet right now and just let jeff talk. I mean, Dean, I understand you probably feel a little ganged up on right now, and maybe that's why you're being so kind of defensive about this and Jeffrey gang on you. But isn't it nice to have someone that isn't playing games? I mean, this feels like a game. I don't know how you're proving you're not clingy by getting a radio station to gang up on man. Oh, Mike, this is not just

a radio station. Let's just make that clear. Yeah, we're the best morning show in this local air. That's right. Honestly, it feels like she's clinging on to all of you. Do you hear her? Yeah? But I like you. I like this is called communicating Dean. Yeah, Dean, you should listen to Jeff. He knows what you're talking about. I'm kind of getting tired of the Jeff. He doesn't need more praise selectus. You're still new on the show, so

you don't really appreciate him like you should every day. Yeah, right, because because it will, it will just grow and grow. You'll just appreciate more and more. Just how I actually is. I mean, it's great, Caleb, but I feel like you should be talking to Dean there. You want me to talk to the guy who already just said he wasn't interested. I mean, Brook, Hello, this is not going anywhere. You

know what this whole thing about the second date. So I'm kind of thinking that maybe we should propose a first date with like Jeff or even Jose or a second choice, not the last choice, to the second choice. I am so not clean. I mean I think that we would hit it off. I'm unavailable, emotionally unavailable, physically, professionally spiritual. I'm just saying, you're just telling Dean he should open his mind to different opportunities. But see the

different way he said it. It's funny when he says it. I appreciate you, Kayla. You guys still need me on this stall or can I go? I'll tell you that. No, I don't want Kyla doesn't want me to ask. You have to ask. It's the rules of the show. Do you ask yourself then, Jeff, I'm a super fan of the show. Yeah. If you can totally ask for yourself and Jose three way hang out, it doesn't even have

it would be so happy. Jeff, you got one. Yes, it sounds like from Jose alright, Yeah, you gotta ask Jeff, Jose would you like to go out and hang with Kayla for a little bit as long as you're there as well? Yes, minute, Jeff. It all depends on Jeff. Okay, Well, I guess we'll say our answers on three okay, one, two, three? Yeah, I don't know. Is he still your high friend? That's two out of three. We don't have Timecaire, Okay, No

matter what, we love you, Okay, oh yeah, thank you. Okay, let's deploy some broken Jeffrey in the morning.