Second Date Update: Speakeasy Poker Room

let's talk to her. Welcome to the show. Lisa. Hey, guys, Lisa, on a scale of one to damp, how good was your first date? Lady doesn't. I don't think that's what he meant, but maybe I don't know. Lisa. I apologize. I'm just gonna say that. Okay, new question. What was the name of the guy that you were with? Let's start there, same is damp. I'm Alex. I was gonna say, grab me a napkin, will you? Lisa? I like, oh, okay, how did you meet Alex? So we met on a

dating app? Okay, I'm kind of new on that, but I seem to really have hit it off, like you get a lot of matches. Is that what you mean? Like you, Oh you're beautiful. Yeah, Oh you're a woman. Yeah, it's wonderful. Not even a real woman. You can be a bot still. I just say, even Ashton, our technical director who's running the board, just did dull with his hair. I'm just gonna let you know. The whole room is with you, Lisa. So why did you choose him? Why

did you choose Alex to go out with? Well? Yeah, so I know a lot of people don't like shirtless picks, but honestly, I was so hot for it. I was I was like, that is exactly what I'm looking for. I mean, he just okay, so recap, hot girl likes hot guys. Yes, yes, And then and then you're shocked when he's still see you. I'm guessing, like, what do you end up doing for your date with Alex? Well? Yeah, so he ended up asking me he doesn't do this a lot, but he wanted to surprise me on a date,

like kind of put it together. And I was a little nervous just because I watched a lot of ID you know, um wait, why were you nervous? Because you watch what? I watched a lot of id discovery, like you know, all the like crime shows basically, yeah, and a guy plan a guy planning a date is usually how people get killed. The surprise, well, not knowing what to do. It was, yeah, when a guy's like, hey I got a surprise, Okay, especially a guy, a guy

you don't know. Yeah, but I took the necessary precautions, you know, let my roommate have my location on you know. I felt I felt confident, I felt good. Okay, So wait, what was it like when you guys met there? What was a surprise? Okay, So we went to this bar and we're we was there for a good hour and a half, just chatting it up. And I kind of was like, what's the surprise, you know, because I just

it seemed like a typical kind of dat. Yeah, And he looked at his watch and he's like, ten more minutes, more minutes, Like the pill says it's supposed to kick in within twenty So what happened in ten minutes? What was going through your head? I'm like kind of looking for the exit. No, I'm kidding, I'm sorry. It felt like a good hour, but it really was only probably like seven. And he's like okay, we'll ready follow me.

And he grabbed my hands and I get off the stool and we go towards the bathroom and I'm like, uh, right about the pill and knocked you're going. He knocks on the back room door, and then all of a sudden, the whole wall seems to kind of push in, and it's just like elegant, elaborate poker game. It's like a bathroom fancy poker. Yeah. I just wanted to that's so cool, that's pretty fun. I felt so important at that time. I was just like, whoa, that's cool. So did you

guys sit down and like play poker? Well he did. I don't really know how to play poker, okay, so you had to just stand there. Well there was okay, so there was so many people there, and I mean, like I said, I kind of was swept off my seat. I was super impressed. So I was just like kind of just in awe of everything. So it didn't feel like I was just standing there, okay, until it got like two hours in and then they're like, okay, we're

gonna speak a five minute break. Oh wow. Yeah. So but he was still playing and I'm like, oh, I don't want to ruin whatever. But it was this part of like what's going to happen next, you know, and he was just like, well, I'm kind of doing great, so total one eighty. It's one thing to play for like twenty thirty minutes and then go about two hours. Yeah, you're not playing if you're in the game. But yeah, but he's rich now because you're kind of just his

arm candy. But is that a bad thing? And but the fact that he was like I'm going to go back, I just was like, how about we meet up after them, you know, because I kind of yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean everyone was focused on the game. Yeah, and I just kind of was like, okay, So I ended up getting an uber and I was like, call me, you know, when you're you're done, and he never called me really yeah, So then well I called him the next day to just check in with him. Nothing. That's all what happened

at the beginning with the shirtless picks. You. So, what do you think went wrong? Okay? I again, I don't want to like sound like I'm bragging or anything, but I always get a call back. Yeah, and like I'm very confused. I mean, was I not interesting enough for him. I think you weren't born enough for him. He just wanted someone to stand behind him the entire time and not talk. Yeah. Well this is where you guys come in, because I'm honestly, I'm thrown. I don't know what to

do because, guys, I'm really digging him. Okay, you're only digging in because he's ignoring you. You know, let's play a song while we do that, you can text us a picture of his shirtless profile picture. We're working. It'll help us, it'll help us for the second I think I need to see it. We need to review it, and then when we come back fully armed and well prepared to do your second date update. Okay, okay, it doesn't get much hotter than this for a first date.

A guy with a six pack, a secret backroom poker game in two straight hours of standing around, that's what Lisa did on her surprised. Oh boy, that's what the surprise was. Watching me play cards, Surprise. There's so much standing around. I almost had to sit down. They had to take a break halfway through the game because they weren't finished, and that's when Lisa decided she didn't want to hang around any longer to see the end of it.

So she just took an uber home and was hoping that she would get a call back from Alex afterwards. So far nothing, So we're going to go ahead and call for her and Lisa, would you mind just waiting on hold for two hours while we try to get him on the line. You can stand if you want. Guy's Honestly, this entire time, my hands had been clammy,

like I really want to know what's up. You know this this this guy may just have a really fragile ego, right, Like he's obviously bringing you to a poker game to show off that he has enough money to you know, lay down at a poker table and it's all fancy with fancy people, and then you don't stick around. Yeah, you're saying that it's her fault, right, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I wouldn't know that I would have stayed. That's really I yes, I really like as long as you know

that's what you're getting into, all right, it'll be healthy. Okay, miss claim hands you hold on. I'm gonna phone number right now. You ready, Okay, I'm ready? Okay, here we go. Oh hello, Hey, I'm looking for Alex. This is Alex Alex. My name's jeff from the morning radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. From what a radio show it's called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. All Right, why are you calling me? Nice to meet you too, Um, sorry,

nice to meet you. Yeah. So we're calling you because we'll do a segment on our show called a second Date Update. That's where we help our listeners get in touch with people that they went out with after they're not getting a call back. Oh okay, that's okay, I'm not interested. Well that's good point. Yeah, that's a good point. Is totally a good point. Want you to be in. We're getting the vibe that you might not be interested. But the girl that you went out with doesn't understand why.

Her name's Lisa. Oh do you remember Lisa, super hot Lisa. The wait, So Lisa called you and told you about our date. Yeah, she emailed us because she's really confused. After spending a whole night with you, having a great time, you've completely ghosted her after the poker night. Okay, if the laughing about that, what do you want from me? Then she just wants to know why, Like what, because she said she called you the next day, and you

haven't gotten in touch with her at all. I mean I suppose i'd i'd call her if I wanted to call her, right, Yeah, Yeah, she's figuring it out that you're probably not interesting. But why, I mean, if you don't want to date her again, that's totally fine, Like that's your decision, but she could use a little bit of closure. The short answer is that I don't really have time to be dating. I got a lot going on in my life and I don't really have time to back. So then why are you on a dating app? Yeah?

You took her on a date. All right. I'm gonna be a one hundred right now. So I'm really good at poker, Okay. I've been about ten twelve hours a day playing poker. It's pretty much my life. Okay, So what does that have to do with Lisa? All right? If you really want to Okay, so this is like an experiment for me, an experiment. Yeah, uh okay, So Lisa, I don't you should know? Lisa's really hot. Yeah, Lisa is a very very very beautiful, charming, charismatic woman. Yeah,

and apparently you're a very very beautiful man. Yeah, In fact, Lisa sent us a picture of your from your dating profile, and I would have to agree. Yeah, well, thank you. I'd take care of myself. Yeah, thank you, sir. You're taking care a lot of would people. Okay, so she's pretty, she's nice. What's the problem. I don't there is no problem. Everything went perfectly. Look, she is so beautiful that she's a bit of a distraction to the other players. Oh

my god. Okay, are you saying that you like? Wait, what are you saying? What is going on? I think I know, but I want you to say too. Yeah. I saw this in the James Bond movie one time, and it worked. That's true. Is beautiful woman that is a distraction to the other players. And I'm telling you it works like a charm. And I cleaned up that night. Are you strunger along just so that you could win more money? Yeah? I mean that's a pretty big deal.

I want a lot of money. I don't understand, though, if she if she was this successful for you, if she distracted the other players that much, wouldn't you want to have her back for your next poker night? Wouldn't you want to use her again? Yeah? I mean yeah, but she left, so I figured that was the end of it. Any defense feeling like that is just really going to hurt her. Well, I mean she may have left that night, but he's come back now. Yeah. What I mean by that is she's on the phone right

now and wants to talk to you. It wasn't some weird analogy. No, she's physically on the on the line. It's been the whole time. Yeah, and she wants to talk to you right now. Sorry, So what exactly is happening here? Is our surprise for you? Lisa? Ali? I thought me, I thought this week? Oh no, oh are you crying happy tears right now? Because he called you hot? What's going on? Man? You're not in tune? Oh? It was something else. Yeah, I do like you. Oh, don't

do that. How could you use someone like like? I mean, I'm not saying that I had a blast like. I mean, we were talking the entire two weekscept leading up to this date. You seem so genuine and you seem so different than everybody else. Okay, Look, I mean I am genuine. I didn't lie about anything we talked about. I just don't. I'm just not interested in that kind of relationship using you just set that to them, you guy, You just this was an experiment, Like how could you see the

prison if you used as an experiment. I don't like when people cry because it makes me want to start crying. I mean, it sucks it really Like you gotta understand where she's coming from. Yeah, I mean, I don't look, I never I don't want to hurt your feelings. And I'm sorry. I didn't think that you would take it this back everything, I mean, Alex was everything. Fag Like, we didn't have a connection at all? Are you are? Is that what you're telling me? We had a connection.

I mean I didn't. I wasn't going to bring somebody along that annoys out of me. Wow, what a compliment this guy, didn't This guy? Yeah, I think that has a bright side to it. I don't know, man, she may have actually been more into it if you were just up front we're like, hey, I want to try this, Like, why don't you go around try and distract some the other guys. She may have actually wanted to help you.

What do you think, Lisa? Give you what? It told me that way earlier, it would have been a hot game. I think I would have been down for it. But no, no wonder why you're still single and nothing has worked out for you. Okay, I mean I'm still single because I choose to be. So you can formulate whatever story you want. I think if you saw the kind of money that was involved, you might reconsider. But that's all right.

There are other hot girls around. Yeah, well, good thing I got other phone numbers from that game, so both hot people fight. You know, Lisa, you got other guys numbers. Of course I wasn't going to say that at the beginning. Yeah, I guess. Yeah. I mean she was being ignored for two hours on her date, like you, Yeah, just have a different poker guy. Now, I guess, all right, Well

have all with those losers because I took all their money. Okay, Well, well clearly you're the only loser here, missing out on a real connection and using somebody. Irma comes back around to say, you know, all right, well I'll cry at the bank, not on the radio, broach. Yeah, hot girls don't always deserve it. Okay, So I got your buddy, be honest with people. I'm supposed to offer to send you guys out on another data. I don't see many red flags, I think Lisa should go for it. I

don't know right now. I'm just shocked. I'm just so shocked. I'm a little worried that you said I don't know, and not just no money. It is now a good time to say I'm okay being used, Alex. There's a bunch of people in this room that don't mind being lied to and being objectified. So yeah, I don't. I have nothing to do this weekend. If you need another piece of eye candy, take me some picks and I'll

review them. Broke and Jeffrey in the morning. Okay. Well, apparently, according to the text board, I shouldn't tell women not to cry so much. Yeah, bro I'm gonna go According to fifty percent of the population, Well yeah, okay, lord, I didn't mean it like that, it did. She seems so devastated after the fact that she kept saying that he used her. He did, but not in like bring you to tears, like I'm a broken person type boy,

Like they never hooked up. She got free drinks and got to watch like a back room poker game for two hours. It doesn't feel like should cry that much about this is a woman who has never been ghosted in her life. She had never even not had someone call her back ever. Right, so she's coming from a very raw place. Okay, this is her first experience with rejection. You're right, You're right. The hot women do have it very hard. Yes, I'm sorry. Okay, Well now I feel

bad for all the hot ladies. Yes, ladies, if you are hot, I am so so sorry. All the time they have feelings to jeff do. I mean, I don't know from personal experience, but I haven't heard of that. Well, because of what transpired, you'll take the blame, I guess, just knows. I thought you guys would come to my defense. I thought maybe, But I guess it's my fault that we couldn't get them a second date. Got to sacrifice somebody exactly. But email the show if you ever want

to get a second date update. Unless you're too hot, then I'll probably just ruin it for you. But we'll try and call the person who wasn't calling you back. Broke and Jeffrey in the morning,