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Second Date Update: Sneaker Boy

Aug 18, 202115 min
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A good date always requires some planning, preparation and a little luck. The guy in today’s Second Date did something unusual to set himself up for success on his date, and it must have backfired because he’s not getting a call back without our help!

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Second d of date. Some heroes don't wear cakes? What do they wear? Some heroes wear size eleven new balanced sneakers. Oh dad, superhero and nothing else. Not a good look. Well, apparently one of our listeners, Ryan, met a woman the other day thanks to his quick thinking shoe heroics. So, Ryan, is it cool if we call you sneaker boy? Sure? Okay, all right? So wait? Are you the naked one in the story or is she? Or maybe you're both naked. I don't know if it was a good date. I

think I just made up the naked stuffing. But apparently shoes come into how they met each other. What's the name of the girl that you want us to call? Her name is Trinity? Trinity sounds like a superhero name, boy that you use? Right? How did shoes bring you guys together? I use my shoe to kill a spider? You are there? We go? So how did that happen? Set the scene for us? Where were you in a

coffee shot? Okay, okay, okay. I was working on my laptop, just working on a project for work, and there's a booth, you know, run across from me, and I saw this spider crawling up towards this woman, like up the side of the booth, get ready to go into it, and it was like a big one. It's a juicy one, and you scream, not today, evil do her? I approached silent but deadley. I did, Hey, and you got a

cute girls attention on top of it. Yeah. I didn't know that's what was happening at the time until yeah, and then I realized that, Yeah, she's an attractive woman who I just saved, take a life, get a number. So how did you end up turning that into a date? We talked when she thanked me for what I did, and then I sat back down. Then she came over and asked me if she could buy me a coffee. But I had coffee. I was sitting there working, right, So so I said, well, how about you know, some

time in the future. Okay, check like you because she gave me her number. Yeah, okay, pretty smooth. That's sweet. So where did you guys end up going together? We went out to my favorite tie place. Oh you guys dinner? Yeah. Yeah, we didn't do coffee, that was just the end, you know, But yeah, so we went out for dinner. That's awesome and It's always key to take someone to like your favorite place. Yeah, if you know the food's good, you

know the service is good, exactly. No, the atmosphere it's fun, it's it's a nice place, but it's you know, yeah, a good place to talk. Um. Yeah, and it was. It was really good. So why is the only thing I can think of is that I love this place so much. And I'm a pretty big guy, and I eat a lot of food, and you know, tie food,

I mean chop sticks. Sometimes it can be a little or you're eating soup like tom yam or something you know, can splash back and you can kind of make a little bit of a mess of yourself, even if you're you know, being you know. Yeah, I wanted to eat so I could like have a full meal before she came, so I would be like pre gamed and then order something light with her and just sort of pick at it while we talked. Actually get that strategy. You ate your entire meal before she even got there. I ate

an entire meal the first course. I can put back a lot of Thai food. Yeah, me too, right, I like that soup like that a rice dish noodle dis But like with her I just had that, you know, put by a salad, so I was just like eating something light. But when she arrived, was your table all cleaned off? Yeah? Yeah, I had asked the guys to reset it. I didn't want it to be weird. I came from work, you know, so I was like hungry.

It might be kind of awkward for her, though, if she's eating this big thie meal and you're not eating anything, You're just watching her eat the entire time. Yeah, I could make her feel like she's being a glutton. So yeah, I mean maybe that's it. That's I think I could think of. It might have been weird, she mentioned she she was like, why you really don't eat much? To you? You know, You're like, it seemed weird that a guy in my size wasn't eating anything but like a green

Papi salad. And how did you respond to that? Would you say? When she said that, I'll just say that's how I roll, you know, That's just how I felt like you, fatty, that might be a deal breaker for me because I feel like I eat a lot. I suppised with a guy who wasn't eating I don't think, looking back, I should just have an appetizer and then I eat like a to start with. So yeah, so how did dinner end? Was there like a kiss? Was there any romance? I'm not a kiss, but there was

some romance. We went for a walk afterwards, and you know, we were holding hands from part of it. You know, it was like a fun kind of very easy going into the evening. So when you left, you had full thought that you guys were going to hang out again. Oh? Yeah, for sure. And what did she say? Do? I mean, what was her last words? Uh? I don't remember her exact lass words, but she definitely was like, yeah, okay, let's do this again, you know, like a weird way

to ask that. Though I don't know what her last words for her fighting breath, you guys know what I mean. I mean, we left it on that tone of like, we're going to do this again. Let's you know, okay? And so how long has it been since you last spoke to her? Oh that's the last time I spoke to her. And I texted her and I called once, but I'm not going to call more than one time, you know. But I've texted to so I covered both the channels, you know, Okay, But I mean like, is

that a day ago? Is that a week ago? We can ask yeah and nothing nothing, it's true. Or maybe that spider's family came back and finished the job, took her we okay check. Maybe she just remembered me killing it and was like, this guy's that kill I don't like this day. Well, let's find out. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Trinity for you, and we'll try and get your second day update. All right, thank you guys. Okay, hold on, what good love story

doesn't start with a little murder, all of them. That's how one of our listeners, Ryan met a woman named Trinity by murdering a spider you're making it sound crawling up the booth in the coffee shop where she was sitting. And that's why they call him the eight Legged Assassin. What happened to the super super Guy? They also call him Sneaker Boys during the day. At night? Is the eight legged Assassin? I see, it's like I only have

two legs. The spider at a yeah, that's why he's the assassin, and the chopped off his own six legs in a rage. That's how they eight Legged Assassin rolls in surprise he's not getting a callback. Ryan wants us to call a woman named Trinity who he met at a coffee shop. They had a nice day together, but afterwards she's completely ghosted and it's been a little over a week. So we're going to try and help him out. Ryan,

how you feeling feeling good? Are you feeling because you know your theory is that because you pregamed with the whole meal before she arrived, that she felt like a pig eating in front of you. Are you gonna come clean and tell her the truth of what you did? Yeah? Well, if that's the issue, of course, I'm not going to say it though they legged assassin. I'll come out and say it for you, all right, man. So I feel like we're ready to call Trinity. Are you feeling ready?

I am okay excited. Well, if we can get her on the line, I'm hoping that we'll hear what she has to say. All right, here we go. I'm gonna tell her number right now. Hello. Hey, is this Trinity? Yes, it is hey, Trinity. My name's Jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hoping you have a second to talk with us. Okay, Yeah, what is about her? This is about a date that you went on recently with a guy who's known by many names.

Some call him some call him Sneaker Boys, some call him the Legged Assassin, but Layman's people would know him as Ryan. How many people are on the phone right now, I'm sorry, I don't know. I can't count. Yeah, somewhere between three and eight. There's four of us. Okay, it's

a radio show, Okay, Okay. The reason why we're calling is because Ryan told us that he went out with you the other night and said he had a great time, but afterwards, you haven't been responding to him, and he's a little bit confused about why he called you guys about this. Yeah, I mean he emailed us and then we spoke to him about you guys hanging out, and from our end, it sounded really nice. Is that okay

that he did. I mean, he's just really excited about you, and he said that you hadn't gotten back to him in like over a week. Yeah, okay, So he just wants a little bit of clarity about why you ghosted all of a sudden. Oh this is like a little awkward. It's just weird to talk about. We went on one. It wasn't even I don't know if I would call it even like a date. Oh why wouldn't you call

it a date? You went to dinner and you held hands. Honestly, I don't think he should be talking to you guys about that, Like this was a casual thing between two people. I'm kind of weird. Are you in a relationship or something? I'm engaged? Oh okay, well that's it. Okay, are you happily engaged? Because it is kind of a weird thing to say yes to dinner with. I mean, I understand you're saying your intentions were pretty innocent, but I just wanted to buy him a cup of coffee. It wasn't

this like huge dinner plan. And then he was like, you know, I'll take your number, So I was like okay, and I didn't think that much of it. And then like he would like want to grab a bite to eat, and I'm like sure, and then like you know, it became like a sit down dinner. Like I didn't even know We're gonna like sit anywhere. So it wasn't that formal. But how did your feel how did your fiance not come up during conversation. I've had a little bit of

a rough time. We've had a rough time. Um, we've been engaged for a little over a year now, so it's just been like an awkward time, and so I did not want my ring that night. Okay, No, I get this, Like sometimes you just you want to be friends with guys and then they always take it too far, interpreted it wrong. Maybe, yeah, yeah, maybe. I mean even if that is the case, Trinity, why didn't you just tell Ryan that, like you didn't have to ghost him? Well,

I mean I can understand too. How you know, she kind of didn't know that it was happening that way. She was thinking it was just a friendship. Yeah. Yeah, And you know, I never it wasn't like a date, like we didn't kiss, It wasn't like romantic. That's true. Yeah, And traumatic experiences do bring people together. And this might also be kind of a traumatic experience, because Ryan, I need to let you know, Trinity has been on the other line listening this whole time and he wants to

talk to you. Are you serious? Yeah, I'm afraid so, Ryan you there, Yeah, I'm here, Ryan. What are you feeling? I'm feeling like really disappointed because that was like the best date I've been on in a really long time. But it was a date. I mean, it was a dinner date. I mean, yeah, not stranger friends, not with the world. You want to be able to do that with dinner with friends that you know totally. And I mean, like, Trinity, did you tell your fiance that you were going out

with Ryan? Not before? Hi? Ryan, not beforehand, but after you know, we had just I'm not going to say date, after we had this dinner. I did talk about it with my fiance. Yes, Oh what did he have to say? Yeah? What're you happy about that? Not? This was a bit of a rough patch. We're okay, it's a little awkward right now, Like its just you know, it was a

bad timing. We've been fighting about how you know, long we've been engaged, and yeah, so maybe there's I was feeling some things in the back of my mind, like I just wanted someone to talk to and you know, Ryan, you were there. So I apologize for giving you mixed messages. Were you just like testing it, like let me see what it feels like to be out with another guy, and then you realize you didn't like it? And went right back to your engagement. No, I mean I did

not enjoy it. Yeah, I enjoyed it at the time, and I just had a guilty conscience after. But yeah, I enjoyed it. So if you were engaged, do you go out with Ryan again? Yeah? What are you trying to do? What you doing? I don't know, Like you're not. You're going through a rough patch. You've got a lot of thinking to do right now and a lot of reevaluating where you're at with your relationship. I don't think that has anything to do with Ryan. Yeah, that's your

own thing. Yeah, I agree. I mean Trinity is your fiance, somebody that you live with currently. No, we don't live together. Oh oh okay, where does he live? We don't live in the same city. We're doing a little bit of a long distance right now. That makes way more sense. Why this all happens. When are you guys moving to be with each other? Um, it's a good question. So I feel to delete your phone number any time soon. Ryan.

This is a tough situation where it's like you feel the connection between these two, but you don't want to break up an engagement. Absolutely, they're both okay with it. You know, the fiance doesn't have to know what show Alexa. I mean, we can't really send you guys out on a romantic date, not officially, but we could send you out saying yeah, I don't think I'm feeling that well, what about this ron? What? What if? Would it be okay? If Trinity calls you, if she needs somebody to talk to.

I wouldn't say that was okay, but I would say if we saw each other in the coffee shop, it would be nice. If she said hello, I'd like, okay, okay. If there's a spider inside her apartment, is it okay? If she calls you, if it's a poisonous spider, I will help her. Yes, there, we all right. I'll bring the shoe sho Okay, look at you with your good boundaries. It's just this one because this literally first date I've been on that wasn't on an app in forever, rarely

that happened. After this, we're just gonna be killing in sex everywhere. He goes, hoping to snag a diner broken Jeffrey in the morning,

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