Second Date Update: Sleep Doctor

was just looking for a burger queen. And she also wrote one guy's opening line to me on Tinder was if I buy you twenty chicken nuggets, can I do it with you in your car? I mean, yeah, fanatics, Yeah, Lulu, I think the problem is you need to get off all the fast food dating apps. Taco Bell Match is not working for you. Yeah yeah, that seems to maybe be the ant because finding someone on there is impossible.

You don't want to run for the border anything. But the reason why we're taking your calls because I'm really hoping that we can help you get out of your current dating funk. Okay, so tell us about the guy that you want us to call today. What's his name? Right right, Trent? Trent? Okay, and where did you meet Trent? Should I even ask? Okay? Okay, yeah, that's a normal one, all right. And so what attracted you to Trent was his total lack of interest in fast food. I don't know.

I feel like at this point, I'm just not that he didn't seem super interesting, but I was just trying anyone and anything at this point, and I think that's where I was kind of running into these people that were a huge disciplined thing. So he was good enough, he was fine, he was there. You swiped, You have given up, is what it sounds like, Lulu. Well, he was kind of like at the top of my list because like he's super cute and there were no weird red flags in his bio, So I was like, this

might be a really positive thing for me. Okay, I like how no red flags is like a huge green or ye means he didn't mess his bio up. So what what did you in Trent end up doing for your date? So we actually wound up going to a local bar. But what was really weird was as soon as we saw each other, I recognized him right away. He looked super confused and said, I thought you were blonde.

I did you used to be blond? No. I was like, maybe it's because you know, we both were kind of messaging back and forth about how hard it is to find people dating online. I was like, maybe you know, you had me confusing somebody else and we kind of had like a good laugh about it wasn't a big deal. Okay, how did he say it? Did he say it like he was disappointed that you weren't or was he kind of happy? No, just genuinely confused, like I thought he

was meeting somebody that looked differently. But like I can understand because I've just been doing so much dating as well that I feel like I could easily make the same mistake. It seems like could just be a blur like you just like, yes, I've been on so many people, see so many pictures exactly exactly. Okay, So what was it like? Yeah, I mean it was great. So went to the bar, grabbed the seat. He took his jacket off,

and he had scrubs on. Okay, or a nurse. Turns out he's a medical resident and he had just pulled a thirty five hour shift. Oh oh man, no wonder he was confused. Yeah, yeah, it's like where am I the hospital? That's what Rall residents did? Yeah, how does he have even time to date right now? Yeah? Well yeah, I mean I was but explained the confusion obviously. I mean, he hadn't sleeping over a day. But it was really

sweet and he was such a gentleman. He was you know, he didn't want to cancel because he was kind of really interested to meet me. So we got a couple of drinks. Did he get hammered on a couple of drinks since he was on no how sleep? But I'm assuming like not a lot of food whatever the vending machine in the hospital cafeteria ahead, He's like, I thought creature exactly, I thought you had wings. It's exactly right. No, it was so good. It was so good. It was

totally normal. The only thing. So I got up and went to the bathroom and when I came back, he was passed out on the bar boy and think, oh no, so he just left him there? No oh god, no no, no, no, okay, you went woke him up. Yeah, he was such a nice guy. So I woke him up. I'd put money on the bar, paid for our drink. Got him at uber, gave him a hug. He was so grateful and just that was it. And he's still riding around. He's still riding around in the back of the Uber asleep, right,

that's why he hasn't called you. Yeah, So what's happened since that date? Have you guys spoken at all? Nothing? Radio silent and I can tell them he's active, like on the ASP. So it's like, I don't really know what happened, honestly, Like maybe he forgot about the date and thought it was a dream, a total state of lucidness, yeah, or you know, he's just so busy. I mean, maybe he just realized that he just doesn't have the bandwidth

to fit dating in right now. I don't. Like, everything was just so normal, and honestly, we didn't even really last that long at the bar. There wasn't enough time for anything weird to happen. I mean, it could be that he just kind of realized, after how exhausted he was just to even make it through one date, right, that he can't Dave, But like I hope not, because he's the one normal guy I've had an experience with and forever we can't all, Right, so let's play a song.

We'll come back. We'll call doctor Trent for you, and then we'll try and get you your second date update. Okay, yeah, thank you. All right, hold on second date, paging doctor Trent. Doctor Trent to the second date. Up date. There's a non blonde who needs surgery on her heart. Statue. If you're awake right now, we really need you, doctor Trent. Oh what you didn't tell him cold or anything? I don't remember. I didn't have time. We lost her. Well,

if you're just tuning in. One of our listeners went on a date with a doctor that she met on Bumble. The date, she says, went well, except for the fact that Trent was exhausted after working a thirty five hours shift at the hospital and he actually fell asleep at the bar. Still, Lulu says she had a good time with him. She thought he was really nice. And did I mention he's a doctor? He's a resident still, I mean a resident is a doctor? Got a couple of

years before it makes good money? Well yeah, either way, is hoping that Lulu's gone for real? Want to swoop in? Well before that can happen, Lulu was asking for our help getting doctor Trent back on the phone to ask him what's up? Doc? No, no, no, no, yeah, okay, good Lulu. Before we make the call, tell us how are you feeling. I'm okay, I just want to know what the deal is? I guess I mean, are you nervous because you said, like, this is the only normal

person you've met? I feel like there's a lot writing on this. Yeah, there's that, and there's also I have hero idea what happened? Okay, and if it doesn't work out, you can always go back to Burger Bros. Or whatever. I hope he answers and he's like in surgery right now. Yeah, I'm sorry, what would you say? I hope he doesn't answer if he's injured. More interesting for us, Yeah, I'm not very interesting for the person that's on the surgery, but they don't know. Okay, who cares. Okay, we're just

gonna make the call. Are you ready to do this, Lulu? Yes, all right, I'm gonna down number right now here we go. Hello, Hi, is this Trent? Yes, doctor Trent. Who's this? My name's Jeff from a morning radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, we're doing a segment called a second Date Update. But before we get into that, I just want to make sure you're not working at the hospital right now. Right, you're not in the surgery room.

If you are, we obviously have had no medical training. Where just where are your fingers right now? I am very confused. Okay, hopefully not by the patient. Yes, so we're doing something called a second date Update. Let's where if you go out on a date with someone, and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you can email our show and we'll reach out to them for you to help you figure out the reason why. Yes, okay, okay, So recently you've gone out with one of our listeners

and you haven't been speaking afterwards, and she's confused. So her name's Lulu. Oh boy, do you remember Lulu? She said you were exhausted when you showed up for the date. Wait wait, wait, wait, this is the radio right now. Yeah, you took from everything that we've just said. Yeah, did you just get off another thirty five hour shift, because that's what she said happened before your date. Yeah. I'm just I'm a little surprised that she would call a

radio station and talk about our date. It's a little, a little weird. I wait, are you interested? Do you remember what? I'm really clueless on where you're at right now? With this track, we're doing all the talking here. The goal of the segment is to have you talk and tell us what's going on in your life. Yeah, you guys are overwhelming. We stopped talking for Okay, We're gonna shut up and let you explain your talking. I don't

want to say what I'm gonna say. I'm like overwhelmed with guilt, and I feel it's just really embarrassed and bad about this whole thing. You have guilt? Yes, why I'm feeling guilty because I completely lied to her. I'm not a doctor. I'm not training to be a doctor. I'm not the medical whatever, the world of medical hospital whatever. Why were you wearing scrubs? The doctor is bumble. Guys, Why were you wearing scrub Yeah? What what's going on? I had a really long weekend? Okay. I had been

with my best friend. He had a bachelor party, and we were like drinking all weekend, gambling. I hadn't slept in like days. That's your excuse for showing up in scrubs and telling you that you're a resident. That's what I always do whenever I have a big bachelor weekend with my bros. I just come home and I'm like, Oh, I better throw on the scrubs. Tell somebody I'm doctor. Listen, listen. I didn't want to cancel on her. I didn't know what else to do. I had be scrubs from like

a Halloween costume. Oh so that's what I just don't understand the point of the lie because I didn't want to cancel on her, and I was a complete mess. Are you guys? Guys think either a guy shows up hungover to a date or he's a tired doctor. What looks better? Yeah, tired doctor? Well not in your case, Alexis. You would want someone that's hung over and can party. I mean, I'd like the whole comb. I would go, honest, dude, is the best person to show up? No, dude takes

her to Burger Can. But Trent, if you liked her, then why are you completely avoiding her just because you're a shame that you lied. I mean, it's not like a little white lie. It's a good, gigantic, huge lie. Yeah, we all tell gigantic, huge lives to our partners though, No, I mean, why don't you tell her the truth? Because he can't recover from that, Like, hey, I lied about it. He doesn't know that. He doesn't know how she'll react.

He's not her, like, give her a Yeah, let's find out how she'll react, because I need to tell you, non doctor, Trent, that who was on the other line listening and she wants to talk to you? Please tell me you're kidding. Trent's your real name, right, Yes, it's my real name. I'm really sorry, Lulu, I'm really sorry. So what do you do? What do I do for work? Yeah, I'm in sales. Okay, that's fine. Okay, where are you at emotionally? Lulu confused? Okay, so that's not mad, that's

not mad trends. I mean, you can imagine what she's going through right now, Trent. She feels like this is the first person in forever that she's had a genuine connection with and it turns out it was a total lie and none of it's true. Some thing was a lie except for the fact that I'm not a doctor. But I mean, if you like me at my lowest, then maybe we should go. Because I was really not a complaint way to sell it. Try if it makes

you feel any better. I've been avoiding you because I actually really like you and I think you're a great person, and I just couldn't face you anymore. Yeah, I just don't get it, Trent, Like you're you're like on this day with this woman, you started a lot, you start to like her, Like why didn't you come clean that night? Like that's the red flag for me, Like this is some normal thing that people do, Like what did you want me to do? Halfway through? This is a costume?

I mean halfway through? Honest, Yeah, that's what I want to do. And actually, Trent, this could be your moment to actually be completely truthful, to show your vulnerability, to say something true and embarrassing more vulnerable? Can I be? What do you guys want me to do? Get naked? Sure? If that's If that's your truth, I guess Okay, Well wait, you guys have called like five fast ones on me. I don't know how much more vulnerable I can get

the whole time. It makes a lot of sense now because every time I was asked asking you about medical school and being a resident, you kept like kind of falling asleep. It is that because you were trying to avoid answering the question. Oh yeah, well he's a terrible liar. Yeah yeah, hopefully here's a question that you can not fall asleep before you answer, because we would like to send you out on one more date with Lulu and we'll pay for it. Fell asleep, you're asking me, I

think it's up to Lulu. No, No, I'm asking you. I'm asking you if you're going out with Lulu again, and we will pay for that date. Swallow your pride, like your wounds, and move forward, bro, I'd love to I don't think it's him that has any wounds. It's for Lulu to go out with Lulu. Are you still interested in Trent? I just I feel like maybe I should give him a second chance, only because I feel like I like his personality, but like it was kind of a wash because I didn't really get no real

information about him exactly. What else is out there? Burger? Guys, just go with Trent the fake doctor. Things are that bad out there? What is the burger you talking about? Yeah, I'm sure we'll find out about that with you on date number two? All right, So is that a yes? Yeah? That's yes. Oh, look, isn't dead in the world of dating apps hop, I find a fake doctor, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.