Second date of to day. I feel like this gets brought up a lot after you match with someone online. How long should you wait before meeting up with them? Two to three hours? I feel like people typically like a week or two. Hey, I'm at your window right now. Can you open it? I'll climb right in. I brought over some special juice for us to split. No, No, that sounds sketchy. I don't see any red flags, chef said,
I'm not gonna don't. Maybe I'm just saying. The woman on the phone apparently isn't quite as eager as some of us, because she waited much much longer than two hours to meet up with her guy. Her name is Gail. Gail, Welcome to the show, Gail, three hours. How long did you wait before you met up with the guy from online? Yeah? I mean we chatted on and off for like a month before we actually went out. Why why a month? I mean is that like something you typically do? I guess.
I mean that we didn't like chat every day, and I had like some work stuff going on, and I feel like it took him a while to ask me out. And after you talk for a month, is there a lot of anxiety going into that first meeting because you've you've invested quite a bit of time at that point. Yeah, I mean a little, but I was more excited. Yeah, that's what the special juice is for that just keep
you loose. I think a lot of people know what you mean, because also the longer you talk, the more you have gotten to know each other and form chemistry. So it's kind of I wouldn't be worried that I'd run out of things to say when I finally met. I've already covered everything. I mean, what do you talk about with a guy for a month. I don't know, Like what we're doing, TV shows, We're watching stuff going
on at work. Yeah. The weird thing he kept like bringing up, he kept saying like, oh, you seem so mature for your age, Like he said it like three separate occasions. Is that a compliment or a diss? I don't know. I mean that's on how old you are. Twenty five Okay, okay, I could kind to see that. Yeah, I mean twenty five you could go either way for sure. Is he an older guy? Is that? Why? Yea? What did he mean by that he's like a couple of years older? I mean, I don't know. Maybe it's the
way I talk, or like I you correct grammar. I don't know. I don't like maybe the fact your name is Gail too. But okay, so it sounds to me like he meant it as a compliment. I mean, I guess. And then at one point he asked me how old I really was, with like a smiley face, like asought I was lying on my profile or something. I don't know. I thought it was kind of rude. It could be a joke though, where you know, would tell me the
real age? Make your lad I don't know. Man, Yeah, yeah, because he's looking your pictures like I mean, it's all based on photos, Like it'd be like, h thank you. No. Well, no, they've been talking a few weeks though, so they have that familiarity. What did you say to him? I said, you'll have to meet me to find out that? Yeah? Was it right after? Like the conversation about your high cholesterol? Is that why you old? So what did you end
up doing for your date? So? Yeah, we've made plans to get dinner, and because I'm hilarious, I decided to show up in an old lady costume. What I love you just to troll him for asking how old you were you would in full costume, the whole thing. I got a white wig, I wore this like flowery dress or something. I had a cane. No wait, what did Jonathan think when you showed up looking like that? Um? He was like finishing a conversation on the phone, and
he like looked confused as to why. Like I was so king, hang and I was, you know, I committed to this day and I was like, oh, hello jamas and this is gal. That's amazing. Absolutely. What was his reaction? I mean he freaked out. And then I like immediately took off the wig and was laughing and was like, this is a joke. I'm just kidding and was like, poke fun at you. I'm a little older than I said, Yeah,
that's really funny. Actually didn't laugh so much. Whence he like figured out it was actually me, he was he was like, Okay, this is funny, and we joked about it. I like ordered a prune juice to be fun. I think it was. That was kind of funny at first. You don't want to over commit to being have like a regular outbit on underneath. I was gonna it's not very hot. Yeah, I had like a cute dress on and ye, and they were at the pancake house at
four o'clock, really going in on it. I mean, other than that, was there anything weird or awkward that happened while you were at the restaurant? I mean, conversation was good. I did kind of slip up a couple of times, um, and I accidently called him my ex's name. Oh, what's your ex's name? Jared? Oh, that's I could see that. Yea, yeah, my ex name. You didn't know that that was my ex's name. He just like corrected me and he was like, no,
it's Jonathan. I'm like, oh, I'm so sorry. I don't know why, but oh that was That's a good cover though, that you didn't delve into Oh I keep calling I think it was name wrong multiple times. That's so weird. I think a lot of people would think, like, oh, she must be going on a lot of dates. Then if I'm just like which one or ye? Yeah yeah, But isn't that like competition for guys? Like, oh, a lot of people want I would probably just cry, guys, give her a break. She's a senior citizen. So how
did you end things with Jonathan that night. I mean we had a good day. There is a little kiss. Did you take your teeth out before the kiss? Er? I don't know. We've been like talking, but it's more like friendly and he hasn't asked me out again. Okay, well, I don't know how he's feeling. I mean, well, we can find out exactly how he's feeling by using this
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threw him in the slammers. Okay at almost nipt bring it up because our listener Gail, who is twenty five years old by the way, decided to prank her date Jonathan by showing up to dinner dressed as a little old granny. Why did she do that? Because he kept saying she seemed so mature during their online chats and
even asked how old are you really? And so decided to prank him with the old lady costume, and the date went really well, minus the part where she called him her ex's name a couple of times, but they still shared a cute kiss at the end. I didn't hear a cute kiss. I just heard kiss. I don't know what was it, Gail. What was the kiss was a little kiss, A little little over you like a little yeah, like as tightly puckered lips as you can get.
Maybe that's not sexy. Maybe that's more grandma style. Maybe you leaned a little bit too hard into the grandma thing and it kind of turned him off. You go with pigtails next time, in a schoolgirl outfit. I mean, what do you think, Gail? I really have no idea why. And I just think is like if he like snooped around and like found out that my ex with Jared, I just wouldn't want a chance to explain myself and apologize. Oh, because you didn't tell him that it was your ex's name. No,
but you know, I really don't know. Well, let's ask him what the real deal was. I'm going to call his number right now and we're going to do it. That's how I say it on the radio. Let's do this. So, Hey is this Jonathan? Uh yeah, who is this? I don't believe you that you're Jonathan Now. I can't believe you didn't go in with the old man voice. I thought for sure that we're going to hear Alan Winterbottom old man? What a what? What's up? Actually? What you happy? Now? Brook? Anyway?
And Jonathan h I'm a little confused, but I'm good. No, we're doing something with you right now, Jonathan. You're on Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning on a second date. Update. I don't those words mean nothing to me. I don't know what you're talking what you're talking about, Honestly, I don't really know what I'm talking about either, but our radio show, and we're on a task right I'm on the radio right now. Cool, say hello to the listeners
we have Hey, Hey, they say hi back, trust me. Anyway, we're trying to get some help for one of our listeners named Gail, who you went out on a date with recently. Uh um, yeah, yeah, I remember Gail. Okay, Yeah, she sounds pretty funny. Did you think she was fun Yeah? You know, it was a it was a cute date. You know. I mean, yeah, I like her. She's she's cool. Oh that's good. Good. We did hear about your date because she told us that you went to a restaurant
and she was dressed up as an old grandma. She told you that. Yeah, it was funny. We all laughed. It was hilarious. Yeah it was. It was definitely interesting. Oh you didn't you didn't like the joke. Um, it's not that I didn't like it. Um. I kind of don't know how to tell her. This is gonna I'm just gonna come out it's good. This is gonna sound weird.
I think she understood dands that something odd is going on, because she told us, you guys haven't really reconnected very much after the date happened, right Like, It's more, it felt like it moved into the friend zone, she said. And so she's ready to hear whatever the reason is for that. But she just liked to get a little closure or maybe fix it. Um. I can definitely offer
a closure, Okay, But after the date something changed. I mean, well, I okay, I got in my car and I was driving home, and all of a sudden, I couldn't help but realize that I was more attracted to her as the grandma wait when she was dressed up. Yeah, and I didn't know how. I didn't know how to feel about it. Um, yeah, it just it just did something for me. Yeah, what what about it was more attractive to you? I don't know, I don't know. It just uh,
it unlocks something. I guess. I think it was there was something about the way her voice. I don't know. I like the maturity, I liked the prune juice. I don't know it was. It just seems like this seemed like she knew what she was doing, and I found that a really hot. I've heard of big D energy, but not big G energy energy. You're into that. It's not so much the grandma thing. It's just like the older woman stuff. I mean, like a woman in charge,
a woman who just makes decisions. Yeah, makes decisions, tells me what to do. You know he talk to you right now. It is definitely hand stick shocked. Okay, I don't have great Alexis. I don't know. It makes me feel taken care of, Okay, Okay, Well, she sounds like a confident woman. It doesn't sound like you should shut the door on it. Yeah, but there's more Um, well, after the date, I went back online and I've been talking to more mature woman. I bumped it. I bumped
it up a little. Oh god, I mean, no judgment, but I'm just I'm trying to think of how Gail must feel hearing all of this right now. Well, I was hoping you all would tell Wait, Oh, what do you mean? Yeah, what do I mean? I mean, Gail's actually on the other line right now listening. Oh, um, Gail, Yeah, Hey, hi Jonathan. See it sounds like you guys have a lot to talk about here. Ye. Look, I mean you're cool and all, but I'm there's something that date. It
just made me realize I want someone older. I'm just confused and it's kind of shocked. I don't really what to say. Um, like, you want you want the one like fifty years older than you like? Is that why you kept? Oh, exactly fifty would be great. Fifty years older or exactly fifty years exactly fifty years old, that's the sweet spot for him. I mean, again, it is a good age for women. I'm not here. It is a good age for women. Some of the people I'm
talking to a mine are amazing. Wow, what about what about the woman you're talking to on the phone line right now. Gail, You're oh girl, you're great. It's not like I don't It's not like I don't like you. It's just I'm I don't see us in a in a relationship. He wants to be with someone who can't have pregnancy scares some woman get pregnant at fifty. It's possible.
I'd love to hear what you're thinking right now. I mean, I guess, I guess I'm kind of like offended that you thought I was more attractive when I had a wig on and glasses. And it's not that I'm not attracted to you, O gayl. It's just like you're too young for me. I never heard that. And her office show, Oh my gosh. I guess I'm glad I could assist in you figuring out your stuff. Yeah, there you go. Yeah, that was a very mature thing to say. Year old. Yeah,
I'm mature. I'm excited to see you turn into the mature woman there before it goes any farther. But I am going to ask kind of a weird question, would you be interested in going out with Gail one more time? If she dressed up as the old lady. I don't know that is volunteered. Just the voice would be good. Gail. How about you give him a little flavor right now. And I don't think it's going to work out. Kind of did it for me too, Okay, So you're feeling
what I'm feeling. That I'm getting hot flashes. I am brooking Jeffrey in the morning. Well, if this is a trend, I think it bodes very well for somebody in this room, alex because now your mom will be hit on by more of your Please don't think my mom is twenty five. We should have hooked Jonathan up with Alexis's mom would have been perfect. It's always good to hear. Though. It's
nothing you did. I mean, honestly, the only thing she could have done to fix it was just to wait, wait till she got old, for you know, invented a time machine and aged herself by thirty years and then gone back the opposite of botox eject yourself with wrinkles. Yeah yeah, but yeah, really no chance for her in that one. Nothing she could have done was but a
big self discovery for him. Yeah, helped him. Something good did come out of this, And if you ever want to get a second date up that you can always email the show will help you out. And if you want to catch up on all of our second dates, they're up on our podcast wherever you get your podcast at Brooke and Jeffrey. Yes, what dude? What did the podcast? Yeah, he's a new fancy fishing rod technique The dcast. Ye
